₦airaland Forum

Litmus:
...and they wont appologise. such individuals are like your typical European and North American youth that are full of ignorance and arrogance. Informed by the delusional belief that West automatically means Right, they never can wait before heaping abuse on Africans when in many of those instances, the Nigerian generally knows better. It’s the tyranny of technological supremacy, the notion that technological advancement is same as sociological rightness.

OyinO:
What is a Character of a Defeated Race?
- A race that brags about expensive clothes that they wear, that are produced by another race.
- A race that brags about cars that they drive, that are manufactured by companies owned by another race.
- A race that brags about their houses that are financed by financial institutions owned by another race.
- A race that takes their kids to school to be taught by another race.
- A race that will celebrate their wedding in the style of another race.
- A race that has fully adopted language and religion of another race.
- A race that will hate each other defending another race.
- A race that will get excited to work for another race.
- A race that the only freedom it has is the freedom to vote and not economic freedom.
- A race that will kill each other just to have a political position and be in office and not be in power.
- A defeated race is that race that is in majority but it's survival relies on the minority race.
Are you part of the defeated race? Sadly I am.
"The first step therefore is to make the AFRICAN man come to himself; to pump back life into his empty shell; to infuse him with pride and dignity, to remind him of his complicity in the crime of allowing himself to be misused and therefore letting evil reign supreme in the country of his birth."
~ Steve Bantu Biko.

GrabHisBalls:
You don't criticise everything. This generation of youths are so quick to draw up conclusions and claim superior knowledge even in areas they're lacking

Yes, she married a monarch.
Yes, she's a prophetess, but one thing some of you forget is that God's ways aren't man's ways. What if, just what if God told her to marry the diabolical monarch? What if God wants to raise a new generation of monarchs? I could remember vividly that one of God's servants in the bible was told to marry a prostitute he slept with. I could imagine the criticism if any of this new generation pastors dares marry a prostitute.

Some of you need to start thinking differently than being the judges no one made you.

Postfut:
Now let's break down this golden post. My parts in bold

Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

Agreed he is not a smart one. Getting worked up over a woman. Who does that?

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

Despite the age difference he still acts slavish to a woman's whims. Pathetic.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Exactly!. Relationships today are strictly transactional. Men have all to lose and nothing to gain from these cum dumpsters.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

True. Men today allow their emotions do the thinking. A corollary of entering a relationship is the loss of logic and independent thinking. He puts in all the efforts just for sex. Yet what she brings to the table is only sex, nagging, ability to cheat surreptitiously, fianancial and emotional demands. Who wants that?


Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

Truer words have never been said. We go through hell to please them yet never get a tangible return. Thanks to the desperate men they now feel they are doing us a favor by dating us. Silly statements like "you used me", "be a man and do this for me" reflects the hubris demnstrated by women. But of course sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive to them since they have lots of suitors on the table they are free to behave as they wish.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.

Only if all men behave like this the world would be a better place. Developing abduance mentality and never showing care emotion or "love" is the only solution. Only with these behaviors can we reset their heads and the toxic dating culture that abounds in today's society



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.


Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

[b]Here is the gold in this post. This is where Men make mistakes. They think women will love them like their mother. They seek the same affection their mother provided to them from women. How mistaken they are. The only woman that will love you unconditionally on earth is your MOTHER. Women are incapable of showing the same affection as your mother. Men love Women, Women love children, Children love puppies or toys. This is how it works. Love does not exist.


I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

This what they don't get. You don't have to commit to a relationship to have sex.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

Since the beginning of the world and forever, the only bargaining chip women have his sex. As soon as you show them that sex is nothing then your freedom comes.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no bleeping girlfriend.

The only realistic solution is to stay away from any form of commitment. Instead, commit to your goals and prioritize your mission


Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any bleeping lady.

A visit to the red light district helps to demystify sex and make you aloof.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

Enough said. The above tells the story. Freedom from the bondage of glorifying sex enables you see things in a new light and learn to put women in their place and call them out on their bullshit.

Thank you once again for this post. I bookmarked it.

nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

millomaniac:
Nigerians who do una this jazz? How can Nigerians forget so quickly that this is same Atiku together with obj his boss during their time which their government stank of corruption and even till this day Atiku is still marred in money laundering controversies. What happened in 2015 is exactly playing out where Nigerians were fed up with the corrupt Jonathan administration and hastily embraced buhari whom presented himself as the messiah despite being rejected by same Nigerians 3 times. Now Nigerians are currently "Atikulating" and when he assumes power and starts messing up you guys will come here to start ranting and after four or eight years instead of doing the right thing but because of the jazz dey do una, may be then saraki will present himself as the latest messiah the jazz will make Nigerians to start sarakitulating and blind to every other contestant. And the cycle continues all over again.
Nigeria wake up!!! Atiku and buhari are not the only aspirants for crying out loud!!! and quite frankly neither of them deserves a single vote.

Avedonn:
Have you been to the northern part of Nigeria?

How do you arrive at the conclusion that north is the problem of Nigeria?

I have lived in all parts of the country East, West, South South and North. I'll tell you point blank life in the north is more serene and cheaper compare to the other parts.

The north supplies about 80% of Nigeria's food stuff remember!

Yes, the government depend on crude oil sales to finance its expenditure but the earning benefits the southern part and few northern politician.

An average northerner doesn't care about the crude oil down south instead he's more concern about his.

Out of 100% of northern population, it's only 30% that earn their means of livelihood through government or depend on salary. the remaining 70% are self reliant.

Also one thing I respect the most about northerners is they are not materialistic. They are contended with the little the have and they are happy. Which is why no matter how poor a northern man is, by the age of 40 he must own a house of his own no matter how small the house is.

When it comes to security, north is far better secured than southern part with exception of Borno and Yobe. Even the insurgency of Book haram is at the outskirts of the two states mentioned not in the township. When I visited Maiduguri last month I was surprise at the level of development in spite the insurgency the state has been battling with.

And lastly, How many northerners have you seen living abroad or dying to to travel out despite the fact they are bordering Niger and Chad which is a constant route for migrants.

Most of the northerners that travel out does so for studies and after that they come back home. Those that chooses to remain abroad are gainfully employed with government agencies or company. I know of many in UK and United States.

Eze2000:
It was a very short masterpiece, an eye opener! You need to do something about your non existent reading habits, man. If you were talented i would say this is exactly how big companies make you sign yourself into contracts that are basically trouble for you and profit for them.

They spread the agreement terms over 10 pages of paper and you won't read any one before signing it!

Lol!

BiafraIShere:
What a comic writer
I was literally rolling on the floor with laughter
He provided lots of facts and even picture evidence to back it up, so it's easier to believe his "crazy" story than to call it a lie. Contemporary pastors are giving the church a bad name and with the way churches like RCCG and winners emphasize on tithe it makes what he said appear real.
I think all these issues are caused by the rot in all sectors of Nigeria. Joblessness and chronic unemployment has made desperate folks to start going into areas of life that requires passion, dedication and selflessness. Things like becoming a pastor, soldier, Reverend Father, police among others are now being flooded by people who are driven by their desperation to earn a living than for the job description. This is why you see soldiers running away from battle, policemen throwing away their uniforms at sound of gunshots by criminals, pastors sleeping with the wives of members, emphasizing on tithe, getting supernatural powers through voodoo or even paying people to fake miracles, lectures selling grades or forcing students to buy textbooks, NGO's involving in human trafficking and selling of babies etc. Every damn sector of Nigeria has been bastardized and I wonder how this country will be in the years to come because things have continued to get worse by the day. A perfect Hobbesian society where everyone is in a free for all to rip off one another in an all man for himself, God for us all confusion. God knows if I have access to nuclear weapons, I may be Temp to nuke Nigeria

Blankstare:
God bless you! For me, this is the angle, colleagues and co-workers determine how much job satisfaction you derive. I work in government ministry filled with some old hags and complacent youth who believe they av reached the zenith of their ambition, no drive, no positive idea, Just collect salary every month and head home.. Brain dead people who are only good at backbiting and gossiping. Can't wait to vamoose from that place... God Pls answer my prayers!

KenOne:
They're all over the place beating their chest Biafra. When they start killing them in South Africa or caught with drugs in Asia they'll remember they're Nigerians and start calling Nigeria government for help and intervention.

chineloSA:
That's because you didn't not read even my first post that's why you don't understand me.

It will not make sense to you because you have no sense as well.

Feminism exist because of white women. It's their biggest challenge.

Our challenge as Black people including men as well is racism.
White women use Black women to fight their battles making you loose focus of the biggest battle which is racism that is also perpetuated by them ( white women )

Feminism is a tool to create tensions between African genders because they cannot openly use racism anymore

Get some sense.

Frenchfriez:
A feminist who finds her voice at 40 must be a very bitter and lonely woman.

Atiku has successfully used her and and made her a small girl with a big god, now she wants to claim feminism.

Just like Serena Williams' infamous melt down yesternight, women have become notorious for hiding behind their inadequacies in the name of feminism


Ofcus, all ladies are feminine.

pansophist:
Exactly. Feminist wants equality of outcome, and power without any responsibility, even if they don't have the capacity to undertake such roles. The US military recently published that women do not make for good soldiers. I wonder how a woman will be able to deadlift a 120kg Injured man during combat.

Where I worked before, the females where employed just to fulfil the gender quota, but working with them is a pain in the ass because they always gossip and turn it to a fashion parade within themselves, run to men for help quite often They just can't do physical jobs than men do, and that is what they will never accept. Female do well in hospitality and care giving, it's about utilising your natural ability, not competing with the opposite sex.

pansophist:
Your last paragraph is the sole reason why the extreme of feminism is prevalent. It is easier to deceive women than men, hence the serpent was able to convince Eve to give Adam the forbidden fruit. Gender relationship is complimentary in nature, and both sexes suitably adapted to perform their task well.

Since the 50's when feminism started, marriage has gone down, fatherless kids skyrocketed, unmarried spinters, men giving up on society (eg MGTOW), decline in female hapiness, man hating, and so many wrongs that can't be contained in this post.

Only if these dumb radical feminist can research and understand that the end goal of feminism is to destroy the family and further the agenda of divide and conquer.

kushme:
Most of them stop blowing after the wedding ..

There's an end to every game.. In this game of relationship for most women is marriage..

They are always on a mission, you'll be wondering why the sudden change after doing many nice things for you during courting like "good sex, cook, clean etc.

At least, madam no kneeling down is truthful before the traditional wedding .. The lady is rude.. She dey slap am for their face for social media..

That wan na the husband headache sha.. The man na sissy, like the guy you quoted said.

redsun:
Black women are crazier about artificial hair in the West than africans in africa. A very big business for savvy Asians at the expense of blacks finance,self dignity and integrity.

Niggers are hypnotised everywhere.

LuciferChristi:
Benefits of marriage to women:

*Poverty alleviation
*Companionship (most of them have no true friends after 25 & become clingy)
*Escape from frustration, family/societal pressure etc
*Confidence boost (marriage makes most women feel superior to their single counterparts)
*Security (
*Motherhood (still possible without marriage but most women are hypocrites who see single mothers as inferior/immoral)
*Insurance (If all else fails, women fall back to their marriage as their only achievement in life)
*The natural instinct to breed & raise a family (especially extended)



Benefits of marriage to a man:

*This section is currently awaiting updates

HigherEd:
As in ehn. It is too much. You just have to listen to CNN to understand how desperate and obsessed they are with getting rid of Trump. They have even gone beyond reporting the news and now giving their unsolicited opinion on almost everything trump, especially that Kate Boulder and that black guy on 7am news. 200 people can can die in Kabul they don't care because they are busy looking for ways to destroy trump. I didn't pay to be seeing such crap!

I forever respect Aljazeera, that's what international journalism should look like. CNN and Fox are an embarrassment to the world of media. There are way thousand more important things to report on than to focus on trump....

oruma19:
Go and sit down and stop the noise, u v been a foolish man from inception. its men like u that would have driven their family members away because of ordinary toto. Men who behave like the poster are those stupid spirikoko guys that never dated before they got married, so when they managed to date and see toto they start acting like nothing else matters in life. idiot face ur problem and stop disturbing us because we were not there when u chased ur family members away to please ur wife and her family. Enjoy the useless marriage that u entered. thunder fire u if u post anythin on nairaland again. mtchwwww (Didnt anyone else notice he neva talked about his own family? its becos he chased them away to please his wife...man wey neva see toto before..toto will kill u..lol

dangoteinlaw:
If u beat a lady for the right reasons she will never leave. They love to be corrected, they love a man who's in control. That's how they are wired.

U better believe that

omoyankee3:
I disagree. Some are set in their old ways, ideology and bad habits. They can also manipulate.

MISEDUCATIONS:
Male Feminists are overzealous until reality hits them square in the face. Canadian PM Justin Trudeau has been making noise chasing down any and all men accused of sexual harrasment in parliament, no matter how weak the case. pushing a zero tolerance policy ...........until a woman accused him of sexual harassment himself. last week. From 18 yrs ago! now he doesnt know what to do.

male feminists sooner or later face reality and see just how they have been too much all along.

just see how Hanseel1 AKA Elder001 is even more passionate about feminism than the feminists themselves. pathetic.

Tunagee:
Very simple. Women or girls are naturally lazy, and always see that stinking thing behind their thighs as a big deal. They believe men cannot do without it. Their brains are too dull and gullible to think and become creative, except few of them. Even the married ones also cheat cos of money. They can't think because their brains are too dull to think. Even from their responses, u know they can't think. A married woman would change attitude towards her husband, all because he is unable to provide anymore. The husband now becomes great again, they change attitude again cos of money. Very stupid things and creatures called women. Animals can think better than u women. Men should just fuuckk the hell out of that stupid thing they have under their thighs, enjoy it and push dem off whether they reach climax or not. Even as men fuucckk dem with a doggy style already shows they are dogs. Even my wife is one of the most stupid people I have ever seen. She does things and talks as if there is no brain in her head.Nonsense!!!

4FACEADELEKE:
Minimile all I am going to say is,I love you bro.I ain't telling you to let go because if I am in your shoes I can never let go.You are a strong man,a fighter,and a warrior.I won't advice you to get married no,I won't either advice you to have a child.All I am going to say is,start all over again put a new dream in your heart pursue it,and plan for the rest of your life,so that when you get old you will never suffer.Relationships are not for everyone,and I am among those people,most of the things you said here I can relate,because I have experienced part of them in my past,but today I am glad I swallowed the red pill,and I learnt from men like Robert Greene,that was one of the turning points of my life.Women are not important,that's why they fight so hard to make men see their importance and validate them. This world is for us MEN,but the men have shared their powers with women. Never let anybody pressurize you to get married,my mother and father are doing that now,but I told them point blank,that I never will.I cant be a slave to a woman,in disguise of false exploitation covered with a mask called marriage.#Saynotomarriagerelationshipandexploitation

Gaddafithe2nd:
I won't support that, we must participate in every FIFA world cup competition. We must not allow Europe and the Americas take over our slots. All we need now is to step up our game.

Gaddafithe2nd:
They robbed us, if many had watched what they did to Morocco against Spain, I knew they would do the same thing to other African nations in this tournament. My advice to African teams always take your chances and avoid making silly mistakes. Am sure if it were to be our defender that committed the foul, Argentina would have been awarded a penalty
As for those people saying Leon Balogun should have been given a red card, that wasn't a red card because Omeruo was the last man while Leon and the Argentine player were behind him. As for the the penalty they gave us, it was well deserved, the scenario was similar to what Ekong did to Mandzukich.
Qatar 2002 is at the corner let our coach continues from where he stopped, we should qualify for AFCON. We need to qualify for AFCON 2019, is being long we participated in that tournament.
God bless Nigeria!
God bless Africa!

ajl:
The coach is not as good as we thought he is. It was obvious few players in our team were extremely tired. Especially our No. 2 (Idowu), and thats why most of Argentina crosses came from that side. Even Messi first goal came from that side as well. The coach should have a made a change towards that last minutes to get pressure of his team and strengthen the defense. We don't really have a coach or excellent players. If a player playing in the Chinese league could be our main striker, then that says it all. It would have been better to take the top scorer in the local league along. At least we will be sure that the guy would be ready to "die' on the pitch because he would be hungry to achieve something. And no ball holders upfront to get pressure off the team. Iwobi would have done better.

Obi1kenobi:
It's a common theme among the type of Africans who are Trump supporters - and there are many of them. They put up some false bravado of being immune to open discrimination or racism and have a twisted attraction to populists and the kind of people who mock them. They are able to compartmentalize and rationalize this by dissociating themselves from their kin. This contrarianism gives them the illusion that they are somehow superior and independent in thought from the rest of us sheep.

phase1:
I don't deal with emotions I placed a huge bet against the super chickens of Nigeria and I'm now richer.

There was no way this team would have beaten Croatia. Is it with fattened Ighalo who can't lift fat arze to chase the ball?

Or the with lacklustre Moses?

Or with a defense that can't defend corner kicks?

Loudmouthed Mikel?

Useless shehu abdulahi?

Even the coach hardly learns. How on earth do you expect a talentless team like this to win with Iwobi playing from the left flank. What was Tyrone doing on the bench?

And how do keep expect a Numbskull like fatten Ighalo to keep aerial balls like drogba. Do you think the world cup is the Chinese league where most players are less than 5 foot tall and skinny. When was the last time Ighalo scored a proper international goal? Ighalo should be benched and the guy from Crotone given a chance.

Etebo is the hardworker in that team. Others are not hungry enough. They feel too big and too rich to fight for the ball.

Rohr is technically clueless. The truth stares him in the face but he denies it and I don't know why.

Anyways, thank you for making me richer. I don't do business with emotions like most Nigerians.

I expect more good fortune when I bet against the super chickens in the next match.

resurgent2019:
I love how ubunja and other guys disgraced that leech of a bitch called shugavee. Her type now pervades the length and breadth of Nigeria looking for rich guys to marry. How many rich guys do we have in Nigeria? Nigerian girls, una go see wen for our hand.

Men have no problem waiting till 50 before they marry, but women have age and menopause to contend with. I see many of these women on my way to and from work and they look all "beautiful" and "made up" but no husband . How many yahoo boys do we have that can marry all these entitled Nigerian girls? Una neva chichumtin. Shebi Nierian boys are "broke ass" abi? Na here we go dey when una go come beg.

I dont pity all these girls at all. Their predicament is self inflicted. Let us see how the rich boys and yahoo boys will marry you all....