₦airaland Forum

Loyalblak007:
She's lucky


But people that have been getting A's all tru before this nko

That's the problem with Nigeria, a country that has misplaced her priority. Such brains are suppose to be on FG's scholarship scheme to study in a reputable University across the globe. But I doubt if even the chairman of her LG will commend and encourage her, talk more of her state governor. If it's something related to beauty contest now, she would be on the plane to tour the whole of Africa. We now celebrate beauty in place of brain.... God help us!!!

Just as your boo said, be careful with the way you relate with her. Don't discuss any personal and private issues with her. Let your friendship be just platonic and nothing more. Let her understand there's a boundary/limit to what you ladies can discuss and above all ask God for wisdom.

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Hillzy:
Crap!!! Not all lady miss

She didn't say "all" but "most"!

DeGuyNxtDoor:
I was still laying back on my bed then, she knocked and I asked her to come in...how's that wrong?


I didn't even go ahead to force her to come in by asking her to come in (a second time) but rather I went to the door, opened it (cos she didn't even want to open it in the first place) and collected my food. Where did I go wrong?

Bro, she's a young lady and a sensitive one at that so that's why she's reacting the way she does. Let your dealings with her be strictly official because that's what you employed her for. Let her know her job description and please stick to that. Don't blame her for her reactions when you asked her to enter your bedroom. You should have gone to get the stuffs from her in the first place. No boss(male) is trustworthy these days ooo. Things are happening

[quote author=DeGuyNxtDoor post=58786577]hahahaha... She's sick to harbour such insane thoughts man


Hahahaha...I'm far from that.[/quote

Bro, don't blame that girl for acting that way. Some men (Ogas) are fond of molesting their worker(s) (female) and for her, those are some of the tendencies you displayed by asking her to enter your bedroom. She's trying to guide against such. Please, what was the job description you gave her before you employed her? If it's strictly official, let it remain so. Any errand outside your office could be misinterpreted by the young lady. Please don't sack her but I will advice you call her and help alleviate her fears of possible molestation/harassment. God help us!!!

DeGuyNxtDoor:
hahahaha... She's sick to harbour such insane thoughts man


Hahahaha...I'm far from that.

Bro, don't blame that girl for acting that way. Some men (Ogas) are fond of molesting their worker(s) (female) and for her, those are some of the tendencies you displayed by asking her to enter your bedroom. She's trying to guide against such. Please, what was the job description you gave her before you employed her? If it's strictly official, let it remain so. Any errand outside your office could be misinterpreted by the young lady. Please don't sack her but I will advice you call her and help alleviate her fears of possible molestation/harassment. God help us!!!

npowerng:
Good day sir,That's the venue for the interview .

Like seriously, there will be interview after the test?

Oyindidi:
There is hope for the living. Some women are too selfish, sadly your wife is one of them.

That's their make up. Women are not created to be the major responsibility carrier. Their nature is to "support" so when they now become the one taking the whole responsibilities, they get to their elastic limit and then explode. That's why some men get scared knowing that their wife is richer. than them. Remember, Eve was created from finished product and not raw material..... May God gives the OP a new job and always provide for all married and prospective husbands in order not to lose their dignity and respect in their various homes.

ikeepitreal:
Bad guys are more attractive and mysterious.They bear a charisma of manly attributes that most females conform to, mentally and physically.

OP, this is the answer to that your question. God bless your wisdom

ikeepitreal:
Bad guys are more attractive and mysterious.They bear a charisma of manly attributes that most females conform to, mentally and physically.

OP, this is the answer to that your question. God bless your wisedom

Safiaa:
Coming from a girl? Wow. Is it a crime to wear what you want? If her boss didn't like it, there's a professional manner in which you address the issue. No body deserves to be sexually harassed, no matter what. Behave like a civilised human and mind your business. Is that hard to do? Its like people justifying rape because of skimpy dressing. Doesn't make sense.

There's what we call "ethical behaviours" in work place OK. There's no justification whatsoever for sexual harassment; it's an act that needs to be frowned at. But then, shall we show blindness to what could probably cause such to happen?
I wish we could all understand some concept and principles as they relate to male and female and this world would have been a better place for us all. When a lady dressed in a way that attracts unsolicited and embarrassed comments from unguarded and immature persons, you blame the both of them. Men are attracted by what they see and ladies by what they hear so it takes discipline to know the limit one should go.

yaqq:
I was using my office wi-fi to register for my girlfriend before I knew everyone was just saying register me, register me that it's an extra income, for crying out loud ds is for unemployed graduates, provided u re @ least earning anything above 30k leave it for those who aren't earning @ all, over a million people have applied already and am so over 40% of them re salary earners. just imagine u getting double salary n someone else is getting nothing. it's really bad! Change should really begin with us

Hmmm.... its very unfortunate. Not up to 2 weeks and over a million applicants already. Those managing N-Power gave room for loopholes that's why some people want to take advantage of it. Had it been they were able to track those shortlisted applicants(those selected in the first phase that are currently on N-Power payrol) that are working already and delisted them, this wouldn't have happen but they failed woefully in this regard.

honestivo:
Because there is no measures to check those that are gainfully employed

You are very right. Even those that are eventually shortlisted and posted, no measure to ensure they report to their PPA. Those managing the program are really not trying in this aspect. Many are working and not yet paid and we still have some not working and are paid regularly. Not their fault though but the management of the program.

solomon4samuel:
fine piece... But are you trying to say that most married couples evolved blindly?? If so why and how??

What am trying to say is that we are blinded by what we see not what we perceived. If only we are sensitive enough, we will easily spot each others personality not the one we pretend to have.
When we fail to take cognisance of certain traits in someone we want to marry, cheating might be inevitable.

The truth is that most marriages this days have their premise on deceit. We fake our personalities just to suit our partner and wow him or her to accept us as life partner. Mostly when it comes to our sexuality. We wouldn't want him or her to see us as perverts so we keep quiet. This is a major bane in marriages today mostly on the part of men. God help us!

Hmmm.... I doubt if you'd find this kind of perfect man. These qualities are hard to find in one person. Almost unrealistic!!!

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thunder74:
Thank God for the blood of Jesus because it is like the witches are not powerful like before again if not all these flaunting of pregnancy would have turned regular meals for "iyas"

Hahahaha.... it is not so. The economy situation affected them too. They are really on a low key now

Aderola15:
Why 2baba chose Annie is pretty obvious, she's a sweet girl and drama free if you ask me.

They are have one of the most peaceful celebrity marriage so far. I really envy their level of maturity and disposition. So so happy for 2baba..... Annie is such an angel if you'd ask me because the way she's handling things is adorable. I pray they continue having a blissful marriage.

Kondomatic:
It is actually difficult to have breasts that big and still have brain.

Hahahahahahahaha....... you are just too funny lolz. But it's not a determinant sha.

Kondomatic:
It is actually difficult to have breasts that big and still have brain.

Hahahahahahahaha....... you are just too funny lolz. But it's not a determinant sha.

axortedbabe:
Issorait
Them go soon start funeral shower

Hahahahaha... exactly what I was thinking lolz. Its one innocent person (the person must be a photographer) that came out with this shower stuffs ooo. And everywhere is filled with shower now. Its even a prerequisite for marriage now sef. Nigerians will never stop amazing me. It is well.

Fatchi:
honestly it really painful!!!!am just tired of all the struggle and sleepless night and at the end nothing to show for all those hard work. even the skill I learnt no money to even begin. I just need God!!!!!!!!!!

Hmmm.... "learn a trade" is just a way to pacify the less privileged ( those with God as their hope). I have friends who learn trade(cake, catering decoration etc) but I tell you, they barely get orders within months. How do one cope with that?? Only God will save us.

veekid:
He can't be a pastor

Pastors are also humans OK. We have many of them(pastors) whose home is nothing to envy about. Its unfortunate that some men behave this way. There are other ways to correct one's wife and beating is certainly a NO NO. I pray the woman get justice.

pocohantas:
Hmm...I still think she should have said the truth. Personally, I won't be with a man who sticks with me just because of hymen.
So, if were her, I would have cut off that guy the moment he became overly interested in my 'virginity'. The only exception is if he is one.

What exactly was she scared of?

How do we know if a guy is a virgin? The word "virgin" is relative and depends on our understanding. If hymen is the ONLY proof of virginity, how do we classify ladies who got theirs broken as a result of tedious exercise or nature of their jobs

Hyerin:
She lied because she was scared. She still told him the truth at the end but despite that, he left her and the main reason was because she wasn't a virgin. Not because she lied. Like y'all lie all the time but make a mountain out of a molehill when a woman does. I think that was very insensitive of him & all he was after was that clean cut.

Like I always say and advice, when a guy approached you and you are willing to date him,ensure you open up to him mostly those things he asked. At that point, he's ready for the worst and if at the end, he couldn't handle the truth he asked for, kindly bid him bye-bye and move on with your life. Lieing and deceiving a guy just to keep a relationship isn't the best because he will leave you when the truth comes out.
For those type of guys looking for virgins, I don't think that should be a criteria. Not all virgins are virgins and not all deflowered girls are actually deflowered. Either virgin or not, character is still the best prerequisite for a good and healthy relationship.

mykelmeezy:
na so

Lol... I tell you, that shekau guy knows how to take care of women more than even our government. See fresh girls compared to the ones Naija govt has been taking care of. Chibok girls sha... God have mercy on Nigerians

Laveda:
Maybe we should also talk about the guys who go on deceiving ladies..

What's the need of promising a lady heaven and earth when you know deep down you don't wanna go far with her?

You are right. Some gullible guys out there are nothing but bunch of deceits. But then, if ONLY our ladies could have a discerning mind, sensitive mindset and visionary, they will know how far and how serious the guy is within few months of their relationship. This days, most guys don't bother about their vision in life because they probably felt it's irrelevant to girls as long as they can spend the money. Hence, the rush to make money at all cost. God save this generation. AMEN

Mynd44:
How is this romantic?

So you compliment someone and you are accused of flirting?

This is at best a message that she should keep being good and kind and she will go places. It is appreciation and encouragement.

These people are weird

It all boils down to what thought we ascribe to things. The guy may just be sending a harmless msg but she took it to mean another thing. That's the way we twist things and give it a different meaning. She should have taken it to mean nothing order than words of appreciation and encouragement. If the guy meant otherwise, he will still send another one with clear intent.