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DieRich5:
Guy ur fvckin 100% right wat ur saying
If u think dis post ain't correct Dem try watch "After movie"

You're right
I don't think any other movie shows the huge chemistry between a bad boy and a good girl than this After Movie. It's a movie series actually so there is a part 2 and 3.
Part 2 - After we collided
Part 3 - After we fell

It must really be stressful being a simp

Dliquidmetal:
Machote spitting facts

Chop Knuckle mah nigga.

Lidocaine:
Women dont know what they want...



One of my friends met a girl and he approach her,collected her number and called her around the evening time.

They later got talking and the girl was acting cold and uninterested in him,so he requested they meet and talk around her hostel.


When the guy went to meet the girl in the hostel her friend saw my friend and told the girl he liked my friend.

When the original girl and my friend were talking at night the same day she told the guy her friend said she liked him and that should she give him her no.

My friend being a player said yes and collected her friend number and messaged her.

The 2nd day her friend came to the guy hostel and declared her love him..

The matter now is that the original girl my friend went to meet has begin to give him greenlight telling him she liked him and asking why he messaged his friend..


Right Now Both the girls are trying to get his attention...

Oh Lord of Mercy!.... Preselection is truly a triple-edged weapon, and I'll prove that to you my fellow brothers(evil smile).

So many years ago when I had no clue about the redpill, I got acquainted with a young girl at a gathering of sort. We sat down next to each other, and after chatting for a while she dropped her number for me without even me asking(WTF!!...I didn't even know about greenlights at that time).

After a few days of chatting, I asked her out, went out, had fun, and at the end, I summoned courage and kissed her(goddamn...that kiss!). It was a huge deal for me at the time(lol). After that, I went back to school in another state, and ofcourse, long distance issues started to set in. After sometime, I remember one day before ending the call, she said those three words, I LOVE YOU,(omo!, naso my heart skip oh!). I remember being stiff because I couldn't say the words back to her. She continually complained days and days after that why I couldn't say the words back to her. Finally, she broke up with me. We didn't talk again that much from that day. This was one of the painful experiences I had with women in my early days. ALL THAT TIME WITH HER WASTED.

Fast-forward to months later, I came back home from school, got a new girlfriend, went out to Shoprite with her, had fun, kissed and smooched, and came back home. Lo and behold, when I checked my WhatsApp, it was blowing up with messages from this my ex from months back with messages like "who was that girl you were with?", "How dare you", "have you forgotten me so quick", "I miss you", "what's wrong with you", little did I know that she saw I and my new girlfriend having fun at ShopRite.
THE PRESELECTION IN HER WAS KICKING IN FAST!!.

I told my current girlfriend what happened and it only increased her attraction for me ten fold. SO NOW I HAD TWO WOMEN FIGHTING FOR MY ATTENTION. INCREDIBLE. And to top it all off, it made me more attractive to other girls.Note that I had no clue about the redpill or preselection at the time so I was very confused.

Preselection in women is a triple-edged weapon for men because:
1.It increases the attraction of your current woman.
2. It makes exes question their former actions about you and want to have you back in their lives.
3. It widens the pool for other women for you because women truly want to "FIGHT" for a spot in your life.

Palazee:
Hypocrisy and Double standards

Exactly!.

Talk about scoring an own goal

It's a constant tug of war between the genders but don't get misled.

I've noticed that this type of news occurs at least once in every month.

Guys will learn eventually.

Tonnyray:
Thanks, I at least appreciate the maturity in your clarification. That scariest and darkest is classically manifested by damaged and or mentally unstable women. It's not the norm, not even with choosing MO. Not anywhere. I believe we can at least shake hands on that.
Cheers bro.

Yes, even "damaged and or mentally unstable women" like you said still "choose" the men that they want all the same(you can't dodge this point) and to be honest, I don't know if those women are mentally damaged like you said too, so I can't conclude on that with you. (We both have no clue about their personal lives). Also, my initial post was never about condoning violence on women(I forgot to add this). Cheers.

Tonnyray:
It's sad when obviously damaged women become our standard and parameters for analyzing intersexual dynamics. Are these women showcased here normal now in your opinion? Do they represent the generality? How prevalent is Stockholm's syndrome in our society? I doubt I have any female relations or friends that will condone abuse even if they genuinely chose the man.

Note that I said "scariest and darkest side". I'm trying to show you the crazy ends a woman will go to for a man she chooses. I never used it as some kind of parameter.

Dude!, It's a cold world we live in and we have to be smart in whatever we're getting into, even relationships. I rather be in a position where a woman is simping for me, and yes, even taking my sh*t than the other way round.

That babe you're crushing on has someone else she likes. The conditions, list, precautions and standards she gives you are the same things she's breaking for the one she likes. When you're interacting with her, she hopes you fail and disqualifies you so that you leave her alone. While she qualifies that man she likes no matter how many mistakes he makes(Hope I'll change him).

Since 1000BC, people have been preaching on this topic on this thread, I'm still suprised it's still up for debate. Let's be smart and see the benefits of being chosen over cold approaching once and for all. That's all I'm saying. Let me stop here.

#StayChosen

On the topic of Chosen which is being discussed recently on this thread, the scariest and darkest side of being chosen by a woman is how women tolerate the worst from men they want, how they continue to justify their behaviors, and how the fact that they chose these men cloud their judgement because of their emotions for them.

Reminds me of that woman who got battered by her fiancé and who still announced that she was going to marry him. Her excuse?? I CHOSE HIM. I FELT THAT.

And also about that Jamaican woman who got badly beaten by her boyfriend but still decided not to press charges. Her excuse?? PROBABLY BECAUSE THEY WERE IN LOVE. Crazy stuff.

IF THIS DOESN'T MAKE YOU BELIEVE IN THE POWER OF BEING CHOSEN, I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE WILL.

SAY NO TO COLD APPROACHING

https://igberetvnews.com/1407154/choose-woman-battered-fiance-announces-shes-going-marry-photos/

https://www.stabroeknews.com/2020/03/20/news/regional/jamaica/jamaican-woman-in-video-being-beaten-by-lover-says-she-will-not-press-charges/amp/

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Polynek:
Nice write-up Bro, but your last paragraph got me You remember wen I posted something here and your response to my post?
And now you are saying this again
Am glad to hear dix from you tho

Thanks.

Lordcassy:
In thanos voice "this does bring a smile to my face"...
The waiter is a gee...I would have made it my mission to find him a better job..I do not forget favours

A real Gee...He did us proud.

THIS IS OFFICIALLY THE DUMBEST THREAD I'VE READ ON THIS FORUM.

Guys make sure to check it out(made front page):

https://www.nairaland.com/6967946/dont-ask-what-bring-table

Trex4:
As you're being chosen and getting "greenlights", watch out for women that'll comfortably pretend to be interested in you to try and Rob you of your resources, and also time wasters that seem to not even know what they want.

Personally I don't even do greenlights anymore. If you're not direct don't bother.

Mad oh!!

CaveAdullam:
The topic is always exhilarating when it is about women, but we tend to shy away and corner ourselves when men are being dissected on that same table. I kid you not, average man and woman are alike especially in their personality traits.

What happened there is manipulation. But the question is: will the waiter had prevented the man from buying an expensive drink if it was his male friend?

What I'm driving at is that manipulation is manipulation, but will see it as a big deal when it involves intersexual relationship and neglect it when it comes to friends and families.

Yeah, as men, we grow by helping one another because no human is truly/plainly independent!

Thanks.

Noted!.

CaveAdullam:
Simping is in categories.

He's happy because a male waiter spoilt the chances of him getting exploited by his date rather than stand up and walk out of that premises. Only beta males condole such foolery from women. No frame at all! Probably, he must have been wrecked days ago by the pvssy.

Besides, the waiter wouldn't do this if it was his business, however, he is still a bad PRO, because manipulations stems from both ends---male and female. Men do buy expensive drinks and do the unimaginable in parties because of pride and laudations. So, he also has to stop these men from "declaring...do ri me...casket stuffs" when with other men to express ultimate bro code.

This is business and if you get in the way stupidly, you will be treated as a pawn. No mercy! If I was the waiter, I will bring the most expensive drinks...my salary and promotion is dependent on the sales I make. This is real life!

He should "getat" abeg.

He will learn his lesson obviously and you're right "Simping is in categories"

But let's not forget that as men(and as brothers), we need to help each other however we can. If the waiter were to have that "he should getat mindset", then we all know things would have gone sideways.

Someone people here on this forum learnt their lesson the hard way, some by prevention by other people through their actions or teachings. We all learn differently.

The point is:
WE ARE ALL HERE TO SAVE EACH OTHER FROM OURSELVES THROUGH LEARNING FROM EACH OTHER AND HAVING EACH OTHER'S BACKS.

BRO CODE PRO MAX

What of us that are not giving to the users at all?.

okoroemeka:
in other countries crocodiles are feared because they attack and kill human beings but in Nigeria, crocodiles are afraid of human beings because nigerians will attack,kill it and butcher it for pepper soup,most of our rivers are filled with this reptiles but due to the hunger in Nigeria they remain elusive and hid from human beings

Lol

NeroStealth01:
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

The cold approach vs the hot approach (being chosen) is similar to a worker(A man who works for his money ie a salary earner) vs a serial entrepreneur(A man whose money works for him).

THE WORKER:
Wakes up in morning, brushes his teeth, takes his bath, goes to work, does the proverbial 9am - 5pm work time. In this time, he might have to engage "annoying customers", take shit from his boss, run errands, and other mind numbing tasks ALL FOR THE SAKE OF EARNING A SALARY AT THE END OF THE MONTH.
In the same manner, this is similar to a man who chases women of his interest.
He spots this particular woman, creates a strategy on how to move to her, woo her, collect her phone number, impress her(aka simp for her lol). In this time, he might have to go through not getting good responses from the woman, unnecessary cash requests, and other mind numbing issues from this woman ALL FOR THE SAKE OF GETTING SOME PUSSY.
If there's one thing similar between both of them, it's that they both expend a lot of energy just to get scraps. But there's a better alternative:

THE SERIAL ENTREPRENEUR:
He spends a good amount of time mastering his business, making sure his business fulfills a need, can scale to a lot of people, has total control of the business, and the best part, knowing how to dissociate himself from his business such that wherever he is and whatever his doing, the money keeps rolling in, such that he could go for a vacation and the money keeps coming in, he could be taking a sh*t in the toilet and the credit alerts keep coming in.
In the same manner, this is similar to the man who's aware of the game(mastered the game) and the art of being chosen who knows he doesn't have to go through the stress of the "woman chaser", he knows he doesn't have to wait till the end of the month to earn his salary (get some pvssy), he knows that he gives his phone number not collect phone number (just to make sure the woman is really interested in him), he knows if a woman chooses him and is really interested in him, HE KNOWS PVSSY CAN COME ANY TIME, ANY DAY AND NOT AT THE END OF THE MONTH LIKE THE SALARY EARNER.

As for me, I have vowed a long time ago never to do the cold approach and accept the "thought process" of the serial entrepreneur(the game aware man) and the rest is history!.

Congratulations to her.

The other one a few days back was in the bus.
These pregnant women dey try sha.

How he was able to kill it comes to mind. Better food don land for dis man.

ujezeez:
I think the bible meant to say...'worshipping money is the root of all evil.'

Hmm. People have different interpretations what what it meant there.

November24:
Love of money... Not money. Read ur bibl

I can see that you're a word for word person
That's what I meant obviously. Hope u get my point...and it's "bible" not "bibl"

RoyalBoutique:
The Bible was wrong.

Lack of money is the root of all evil.

Lol

Now all this talk from her is getting stale.

No longer funny. Make she just rest.

for the word for word people on this thread it's "love of Money" is the root of all evil.


Make I rest abeg
The bible was right.

Handsome man....I pray he loses no one this year.

The world is turning upside down lol