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InvertedHammer: //
You must really think that you are the shiznit with all these nigga this, nigga that.
You are just over-compensating. Na "forcing-guy" dey worry you.

Gs with their game intact do not spend to impress.
You make the money..treat yourself right and honeys will follow.
You just lack game which usually stems from low self-esteem...thinking you can buy love.
You are a learner.

I think you shouldn't talk when men are talking.
Empty vessels make the most noise.

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BarryX: Moral of the story

Don't date a broke guy yea?

idrezee: no romance without finance? C'mon don't b so pessimistic dearie, I v been in a realtionship with d most beautiful gurl I v ever seen( in reality and in movies) yet m a broke-a.s.s, we v celebrated anniversaries, etc and she has done more 4 me dan I could ever re-pay. Yes naija gurls r money-mongers but 2 every rule de's always an exception. Trust me. I'll post her pix so u'll affirm her beauty and I tell u she's much more beatiful inside. M not judging d op's gurl but 30k's 2 small an amount 2 start ridiculing ur bf coz of.

Orikinla: You are just irrational.

link2ok: U hav a lot of underground work 2do on d true meaning of relationship! A guy dating a girl abeg na employmnt! I dnt get wia u were actually driving @! Dude dnt b fooled!

babyface333: The most caring and loving man in the world. so tell us, how much do you pay your girlfriend as salary every month, since you are the man and others on this threads are the kids. Seriously we want to know, so that we will learn from you on how to be a man and not a kid.

the jugunus: It is disheartening to know that most of us who commented on this issue are not objective. Truth is, the guy is selfish and self centred. Life and relationships, especially those sexually inclined, is about sacrifices. She has been dating the guy since 2011, never made any demands. Guy got first job, managed to rent a place to stay. Got second job, but still continued to see things in only his parochial perspective - I'm sending her 5k every month, buying her basic needs, she understands that things are not okay. Guy should have made the sacrifice of giving her the 30k, not because he has so much, but to assure the girl of her place in his heart, after all nobody really has time & money, but it is the importance that we attach to things that makes us spend our time & money for them. It is so dumb to reason that the girl is dependent on this stingy guy. Real men are not only responsible to certain degree, but must be dependable! Op you don't deserve the girl. Good that she was smart enough to jump you.

deejay_harry1: u are wasting ur time, replyin tht reject bro..

gboss4sure: This guy aint a maga but he is a real man, if he had more he would have given the lady too but the lady doesn't deserve him. These are things we do for love.

babyface333: lolz. nigga didn't answer my question. who says I wouldn't spend or carry out my responsibilities. Go back and read your post I quoted as the only almighty caring and loving man in the world and answer my question.

babyface333: Magic bishop the most caring man in the world. A question for you since you think it is money you can use and keep a man. my question goes thus:
As a well to do man( employed or business), you have all the money to take care of your girlfriend or wife as you say money is only what keeps a relationship for men and not kid. If you loose your job or your businesses begin to experience a downturn (God forbid), what will you do to sustain the money relationship or marriage? let me guess sha, you may just commit suicide because you cannot take care of your wife or girlfriend since relationship according to you must be one-sided and not mutual or better still you go and rob CBN to keep on sustaining the relationship.

I am waiting for your answer the almighty loving and caring magic bishop.

Phder: You think OP is a broke a..ss nigga? What I think is that OP is a reasonable hardworking man that refuse to think with his p.e.n.i..s but rather his brain.

Babzilla: IM NOT MAD URE THE ONE CALLING PEOPLE NAMES
IM JUST GIVING U A TASTE OF YOUR MEDICINE
I HAVE MONEY I DONT HAVE MONEY
AINT UR BUSINESS MAN.
I DIDNT COME TO BEG U 4 ANY
SO PRINT UR GET RICH TIPS ON PAPER
AND SHOVE IT UP UR A$$

Peter boy: why wont she demand for 30k since u placed her on a monthly salary.she simply wants a salary increment thats all

Phder: yeah? You didn't see that part? I bet you're unemployed if you think #5000 per month is nothing, considering that OP is a fresh graduate trying to get his feet on the ground.

Phder: What's your problem? Reading or understanding? Did you read the part where he was "paying" her 5k per month? Where he bough her several gift?

Babzilla: DUMB A$$ NIGGA

caesaraba: Me! Date a broke Nigerian girl again in this life? Never! I rather turn gay. 96% of that lot lack basic common sense.

dBard: Ok sir..
Since t u its ok t put a girl ur dating on salary. A girl that is supposed t be both caring n understanding, that is supposed t contribute n be supportive was put on a salarythat was about 20% of his earning, when he was supposed t b saving n planning f his future? !
If u see nothing wrong with that pic then u r a bigger ODE than u sound.
Money can only take u that far, buy d world, theres someone else out there that can double that.
I give, not t pamper n spoil, but t encourage n build..
Let d o.ps case be a lesson t u..
Peace

nipeks001: Only the poor fantasizes about being a rich man on cyber-space.
Pls stop forming dangote when you are probably a meat-seller at sabo browsing in his free time.

deejay_harry1: ur famz can never afford d worth i spend per relationship..


#MFFCCA..

twosquare: SHARRAP

deejay_harry1: dont mind dat retard...

2s£xy:
Never had a break up in long while... But there is one I shall breakup with soon.

RedBenson: You sound like one big of a fool. If u like, sell off ur father's house add it wit all ur life time servings and use it to please a girl cos she believes she shld be cared for. Dont ur have family members and younger ones? Mtcheeew!

cachal: I've been thinking about this for a while, and I can no longer keep it. Please I. Want us to discuss about this, why do men takes a good girl for granted? You see guys spending almost 75% of their earnings on pay girls, and can not afford to send N100 recharge card to that good girl that bearly demand for a dime? Am also a victim of this act, and I know many out there are victims of this act too.

dBard: Read it again. He took her out every evening and they spent at least 5k
True dat about him expecting cash to buy him a good relationship

redsun: Lagos seems to be mentally declining back to stone age era.It is time the federal thieving govt intervenes and put a stop to the rise of institutional tribal bigotry.

Phder: Which part of "No" do you not understand? The "N"? or the "O"?