idrezee: no romance without finance? C'mon don't b so pessimistic dearie, I v been in a realtionship with d most beautiful gurl I v ever seen( in reality and in movies) yet m a broke-a.s.s, we v celebrated anniversaries, etc and she has done more 4 me dan I could ever re-pay. Yes naija gurls r money-mongers but 2 every rule de's always an exception. Trust me. I'll post her pix so u'll affirm her beauty and I tell u she's much more beatiful inside. M not judging d op's gurl but 30k's 2 small an amount 2 start ridiculing ur bf coz of.

Truckpusher: OP was doling out small money and probably dicking the hell out her like he already paid the bride price or something close to that....

If na you ,you go gree that kain thing?

Op is boy in training ,any money given to a woman during good times should be totally forgotten oh

dem no dey remember that kain money oh ,me i see this op complaining because he feels that he has done so much monetarily

RedBenson:

You sound like one big of a fool. If u like, sell off ur father's house add it wit all ur life time servings and use it to please a girl cos she believes she shld be cared for. Dont ur have family members and younger ones? Mtcheeew!

RedBenson:

Are u for real? U must be very MAD! What if she coms back 2moro demanding for 500k nko? I know ur type. Ur type are those indulging in criminality just to please ur silly gfs. Ur type spends money on nonsense girlfriends and 4get thier family who toiled to train u to appreciable level. Ur mamma can even die of hunger living in a partially collapsed muddy house in the village and all u do is spending money on gfs in d city. I seriously detest ur type! At d end of ur failure in the city after wasting away ur income on girls, they would say na witches and wizard do u. Mtcheeeeeew!

idrezee: no romance without finance? C'mon don't b so pessimistic dearie, I v been in a realtionship with d most beautiful gurl I v ever seen( in reality and in movies) yet m a broke-a.s.s, we v celebrated anniversaries, etc and she has done more 4 me dan I could ever re-pay. Yes naija gurls r money-mongers but 2 every rule de's always an exception. Trust me. I'll post her pix so u'll affirm her beauty and I tell u she's much more beatiful inside. M not judging d op's gurl but 30k's 2 small an amount 2 start ridiculing ur bf coz of.

Jenams: @op, u mean say u dey constantly pay her salary every month? Which work she dey do for u? Ur mama don die? U nor get sista? Ur late broda wife and children unkor? U place dem on salary too? Kai! U r wicked!
If I see u, I will kill u!

the jugunus: It is disheartening to know that most of us who commented on this issue are not objective. Truth is, the guy is selfish and self centred. Life and relationships, especially those sexually inclined, is about sacrifices. She has been dating the guy since 2011, never made any demands. Guy got first job, managed to rent a place to stay. Got second job, but still continued to see things in only his parochial perspective - I'm sending her 5k every month, buying her basic needs, she understands that things are not okay. Guy should have made the sacrifice of giving her the 30k, not because he has so much, but to assure the girl of her place in his heart, after all nobody really has time & money, but it is the importance that we attach to things that makes us spend our time & money for them. It is so dumb to reason that the girl is dependent on this stingy guy. Real men are not only responsible to certain degree, but must be dependable! Op you don't deserve the girl. Good that she was smart enough to jump you.

yang: Nna ndo. Its good u moved on. But why put a girl on a salary? U are one of the problems of naija. U nor get sister to train?

lorretta u: At least you're good and you appreciate her
I've dated a broke assss nigga before
Did he appreciate that I told rich men off just to be with him?
Did he appreciate that I turned down some good gifts just to make him feel secure?

Your guess is as good as mine.
If I remember what he used to say
"One can't trust pretty ladies"

So don't blame some girls when they feel like they should get all they can while they can from a guy. Because some men no matter what you sacrifice for them will only see it as desperation and take advantage of it.
Don't blame some ladies.it's the orientation hard life gives

BarryX: Moral of the story

Don't date a broke guy yea?

NOPET: I met this girl on facebook when i was doing my NYSC far away North,after i added her on my facebook we started chatting and finally fell in love,she came all the way from PH to visit me and i tried to make her happy, i took her out every evening and we spent at least #5000and after 2 weeks she went back to PH...we loved each other so much. After my service i decided to move from where i intended to stay(Abuja) and came to lagos cos she said she was relocating to lagos to stay with her sister and i have brothers staying in lagos also,in 2011 i came to lagos and i started searching for job and after few weeks she arrived lagos and where her sister was staying was close to where i was staying too so we meet once in a while... i could not treat her well again cos i was not having enough money and work was not forth coming. in 2012 i started teaching i a private secondary school and i was paid #20000 only so i saved some money and in 2012 November i lost my brother whom i was staying with it was so sad and tough for me...we went for the burial in Dec. and after i returned i decided to rent my house with the little money i was saving because i could not continue staying with my brother's wife and kids... iin january this year 2013 i got another job though it was a little better than the teaching job and all this while i give her the little i could and in march this year 2013 God bless me with anothe job with an improved salary so i try and give her the little i could,but with all my explanation she keeps saying i am stingy in september i told her i will be paying #5000 into Account every month and buy her all necessary materials she needs,i paid in her september allowance and i bought a pair of shoe and some wears for her and after 3 weeks she said i should pay 30k into her account that she has something to sort out but i pleaded with her to be patient as i dont have much for now... i called to explain things to her but she wont pick her calls and later her sister picked her call and pretended to be her and told me i should not call her again if i cant give her the 30k... and all effort to make her see reasons with me prove abortive.... now i have moved on with my life and i wish her d best too

Magic Bishop:

Before Nko?

Why should a broke guy date sef?

Broke guys are the same as clapped out niggaz.

the girl u are dating should motivate u enuff to get ur sh1t together if not then u dont really see a future what building on with her.

Moral of the story: Get ur game up. If u r a mess why do u expect someone to appreciate that.

indoorlove: Op, Read every damn thing on this thread and thank me later! https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman

#1-stunner:



Abeg no vex oo RedBenson wat language is diz naa

lorretta u: At least you're good and you appreciate her
I've dated a broke assss nigga before
Did he appreciate that I told rich men off just to be with him?
Did he appreciate that I turned down some good gifts just to make him feel secure?

Your guess is as good as mine.
If I remember what he used to say
"One can't trust pretty ladies"

Magic Bishop:

Before Nko?

Why should a broke guy date sef?

Broke guys are the same as clapped out niggaz.

the girl u are dating should motivate u enuff to get ur sh1t together if not then u dont really see a future what building on with her.

Moral of the story: Get ur game up. If u r a mess why do u expect someone to appreciate that.

NOPET: I met this girl on facebook when i was doing my NYSC far away North,after i added her on my facebook we started chatting and finally fell in love,she came all the way from PH to visit me and i tried to make her happy, i took her out every evening and we spent at least #5000and after 2 weeks she went back to PH...we loved each other so much. After my service i decided to move from where i intended to stay(Abuja) and came to lagos cos she said she was relocating to lagos to stay with her sister and i have brothers staying in lagos also,in 2011 i came to lagos and i started searching for job and after few weeks she arrived lagos and where her sister was staying was close to where i was staying too so we meet once in a while... i could not treat her well again cos i was not having enough money and work was not forth coming. in 2012 i started teaching i a private secondary school and i was paid #20000 only so i saved some money and in 2012 November i lost my brother whom i was staying with it was so sad and tough for me...we went for the burial in Dec. and after i returned i decided to rent my house with the little money i was saving because i could not continue staying with my brother's wife and kids... iin january this year 2013 i got another job though it was a little better than the teaching job and all this while i give her the little i could and in march this year 2013 God bless me with anothe job with an improved salary so i try and give her the little i could,but with all my explanation she keeps saying i am stingy in september i told her i will be paying #5000 into Account every month and buy her all necessary materials she needs,i paid in her september allowance and i bought a pair of shoe and some wears for her and after 3 weeks she said i should pay 30k into her account that she has something to sort out but i pleaded with her to be patient as i dont have much for now... i called to explain things to her but she wont pick her calls and later her sister picked her call and pretended to be her and told me i should not call her again if i cant give her the 30k... and all effort to make her see reasons with me prove abortive.... now i have moved on with my life and i wish her d best too

Magic Bishop:

Before Nko?

the girl u are dating should motivate u enuff to get ur sh1t together if not then u dont really see a future what building on with her.

Moral of the story: Get ur game up. If u r a mess why do u expect someone to appreciate that.