Magic Bishop: When she came over to meet you during your service in the North, did you send her money?

When she came to Lagos to meet you did you send her money for trans?

Also, during the time you were supposedly dating did she have a job or any meaningful source of income?

I bet you never bothered to notice or care to ask if she was not employed how she got her hair done if she ever did.

You see dating is not for kids. You need a real man in a relationship .

No romance without finance.

Work on yourself and do what you have to do now. Having emotional breakdowns because of you lack of money to take care of a girl is not the issue you should bother with in this stage of your life.

The truth be said I see and hear alot of these moanings of how my girl left me for lack of money when the real reason is you guys sucked big time on every level and will quickly use money as an excuse.

I bet sex was lousy

Magic Bishop: When she came over to meet you during your service in the North, did you send her money?

When she came to Lagos to meet you did you send her money for trans?

Also, during the time you were supposedly dating did she have a job or any meaningful source of income?

I bet you never bothered to notice or care to ask if she was not employed how she got her hair done if she ever did.

You see dating is not for kids. You need a real man in a relationship .

No romance without finance.

Work on yourself and do what you have to do now. Having emotional breakdowns because of you lack of money to take care of a girl is not the issue you should bother with in this stage of your life.

The truth be said I see and hear alot of these moanings of how my girl left me for lack of money when the real reason is you guys sucked big time on every level and will quickly use money as an excuse.

I bet sex was lousy

NOPET: I met this girl on facebook when i was doing my NYSC far away North,after i added her on my facebook we started chatting and finally fell in love,she came all the way from PH to visit me and i tried to make her happy, i took her out every evening and we spent at least #5000and after 2 weeks she went back to PH...we loved each other so much. After my service i decided to move from where i intended to stay(Abuja) and came to lagos cos she said she was relocating to lagos to stay with her sister and i have brothers staying in lagos also,in 2011 i came to lagos and i started searching for job and after few weeks she arrived lagos and where her sister was staying was close to where i was staying too so we meet once in a while... i could not treat her well again cos i was not having enough money and work was not forth coming. in 2012 i started teaching i a private secondary school and i was paid #20000 only so i saved some money and in 2012 November i lost my brother whom i was staying with it was so sad and tough for me...we went for the burial in Dec. and after i returned i decided to rent my house with the little money i was saving because i could not continue staying with my brother's wife and kids... iin january this year 2013 i got another job though it was a little better than the teaching job and all this while i give her the little i could and in march this year 2013 God bless me with anothe job with an improved salary so i try and give her the little i could,but with all my explanation she keeps saying i am stingy in september i told her i will be paying #5000 into Account every month and buy her all necessary materials she needs,i paid in her september allowance and i bought a pair of shoe and some wears for her and after 3 weeks she said i should pay 30k into her account that she has something to sort out but i pleaded with her to be patient as i dont have much for now... i called to explain things to her but she wont pick her calls and later her sister picked her call and pretended to be her and told me i should not call her again if i cant give her the 30k... and all effort to make her see reasons with me prove abortive.... now i have moved on with my life and i wish her d best too

Ijebaby: As u got a better job with increased salary, i'm sure u must have discussed it with her. So therefore she is also asking for a salary increase. Yes, since u r paying her salary. I don't know why I can't get gud guys like u (though am working)

Magic Bishop:

This is how you guys will relegate yourself with this false equality and modernistic views on how gender roles are expected to fade.

A man provides for a woman.
No wonder there are so many lesbos and feminists dykes these days.

And for your information, when a man truly loves a woman , the world is too small to give to her.


you guys wont commit but want to have fun without even at least taking care of the girl materially.

which mumu girl go gree that won?

Magic Bishop:

This is how you guys will relegate yourself with this false equality and modernistic views on how gender roles are expected to fade.

A man provides for a woman.
No wonder there are so many lesbos and feminists dykes these days.

And for your information, when a man truly loves a woman , the world is too small to give to her.


you guys wont commit but want to have fun without even at least taking care of the girl materially.

which mumu girl go gree that won?

idrezee: no romance without finance? C'mon don't b so pessimistic dearie, I v been in a realtionship with d most beautiful gurl I v ever seen( in reality and in movies) yet m a broke-a.s.s, we v celebrated anniversaries, etc and she has done more 4 me dan I could ever re-pay. Yes naija gurls r money-mongers but 2 every rule de's always an exception. Trust me. I'll post her pix so u'll affirm her beauty and I tell u she's much more beatiful inside. M not judging d op's gurl but 30k's 2 small an amount 2 start ridiculing ur bf coz of.

idrezee: no romance without finance? C'mon don't b so pessimistic dearie, I v been in a realtionship with d most beautiful gurl I v ever seen( in reality and in movies) yet m a broke-a.s.s, we v celebrated anniversaries, etc and she has done more 4 me dan I could ever re-pay. Yes naija gurls r money-mongers but 2 every rule de's always an exception. Trust me. I'll post her pix so u'll affirm her beauty and I tell u she's much more beatiful inside. M not judging d op's gurl but 30k's 2 small an amount 2 start ridiculing ur bf coz of.

Magic Bishop:

jus as your ex gf dump u for won alhaji.

suegbe sule

Magic Bishop:

Nah small pikin full this thread sha.

dem won phuck free t0t0 b4 dem marry

Magic Bishop:

Nah small pikin full this thread sha.

dem won phuck free t0t0 b4 dem marry

Magic Bishop:

you are young and obviously in love.

give it time.

start earning and then hording then u will be following in reposting OP's story

Magic Bishop:

Hollywood has brainwashed you with all their sappy romance stories.

For your info the most materialistic women on the planet are French followed by Lebanese after that it is white American women.

A good example is Kim Kardashian. You think if Kanye had not got his game up she will be with him?
Do you know that in America, most black american men when they hit it big will then opt for a white girl.
Keep watching nollywood flicks which were written by poor hungry students hoping to bang a rich girl for free.

If you are not ready to marry and take responsibility for a woman then don't date at all.

Afteral you will want us to believe it was only your father that banged your mother so leave all those girls if you are not ready to take care of them.

And lastly, you are the odenni rauf himself to think a woman will be with you because of your looks.

U sound so funny, am a lady n i dnt expect women 2 b materialistic in deir relationship, any gal dat asks 2 much 4rm her bf simply dsnt love him, cuz wen a gal truely luvs a guy she dsnt ask 4 a dime, it's blive dat d guy is suppose 2 do wifout d gal askin, n it's shown above dat dis poster has really tried 4 her, n d least she's suppose 2 do is understand d guy wen he's broke, n stand by him, pls @ op, 4get dat gal, cuz u were jst 1 of her magas ooo.

Magic Bishop:

you are young and obviously in love.

give it time.

start earning and then hording then u will be following in reposting OP's story

freecocoa: How can any one call the OP stingy and uncaring? Like for real?

Anybody who understands english will know that from what they OP wrote, he is very far from stingy. Truth is, that girl doesn't love him.

Money isn't on the list of reasons why a woman in love will leave a man.

freecocoa: How can any one call the OP stingy and uncaring? Like for real?

Anybody who understands english will know that from what they OP wrote, he is very far from stingy. Truth is, that girl doesn't love him.

Money isn't on the list of reasons why a woman in love will leave a man.

idrezee: listen brotherly, she has already passed d test, even if she kicks m 2mao she's worth everytn. Yes m young and in luv and we didn't start yesterday we started as undergrads and we r grads now. If u like don't bliv diz, a guy bot her a car just 4 proposal, she declined, a house of assembly member's son 's currently on her nerves dat even d guy's dad do call her (d guy's a family fwend dats how he got her no) but she's sent him packing. 2 many tinz 2 mention my brother if we could survive in d uni, not now again. Relationship's all about understanding, I spend her money even without telling her and vice versa. There's LOVE, it does exist big time. I just pray u find yours.

freecocoa: How can any one call the OP stingy and uncaring? Like for real?

Anybody who understands english will know that from what they OP wrote, he is very far from stingy. Truth is, that girl doesn't love him.

Money isn't on the list of reasons why a woman in love will leave a man.

the jugunus: It is disheartening to know that most of us who commented on this issue are not objective. Truth is, the guy is selfish and self centred. Life and relationships, especially those sexually inclined, is about sacrifices. She has been dating the guy since 2011, never made any demands. Guy got first job, managed to rent a place to stay. Got second job, but still continued to see things in only his parochial perspective - I'm sending her 5k every month, buying her basic needs, she understands that things are not okay. Guy should have made the sacrifice of giving her the 30k, not because he has so much, but to assure the girl of her place in his heart, after all nobody really has time & money, but it is the importance that we attach to things that makes us spend our time & money for them. It is so dumb to reason that the girl is dependent on this stingy guy. Real men are not only responsible to certain degree, but must be dependable! Op you don't deserve the girl. Good that she was smart enough to jump you.

Mannastoress: Op next time post her phone number so dat we can put her on the run

Big.game:
If Everything way u dey talk na true, Hold onto that girl and never let go, Marry Her.