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@goodguy
I did not expect anyother statement from you .

Ihope you keep your promise and stay out.
No one here is related to be so why should i take anything personal.
I take things personal when people start getting personal.
And its my good right to be faithful to myself.
At my age i see things in a different light. My mates have different problems in their marrage than they did with 20 30. Am fed up of seeing the wife taking the blame for everything and the man goes free all in the name of submitt, tolerate , and endure.
A man beats up the wife :yes she must have done something wrong
The nabours call the police ; why the hell did she have to shout so loud scandal
At the end of the day its called knell down and beg him.
I have enough problems of my own .
Do you know how many times i have taken women to the hospital
How often i listen to their tales of woe all in that name?
I even landed in hospital myself not because of a wife basher but because their problems did not become my stomach,.(Ulser).
After that i put a stop to it i do not listen to any husband wife problem and i take nobody to any were.

Its not her statement that is annoying me but the personal insults.
whatdose she mean by wake up
and what dose she mean by my dear
Did i insult her in anyway tell me.?

she should attack my statement and not me thats just it.

I do not want to take after my parents and i do not want my kids to take after me.I want them to be better than me.

I am not your dear just for the record
and am not your mate i can sleep as long as i like.
once more your statement

You've got to take after your parent, so to speak)

what is there in so to speak about it.

And one more thing you know nothing about me
Your Yoruba proverb is the backup to the whole statement you made ,Is that not what you have said all along you want to be like your parents.
Thats good for you .
But you must accept that there are people that think different .

There was a time i worked in a Hotel and there you see them in their true colour.
This singer Anastasia (am out of love) with all her good reputation. Here in Germany at an airport she slapped the woman that searched her bag just like that.
The lady was only doing her job.#
The costoms officers made the girl hush up.
Just because the press dose not get wind of this

better than pretending to be a goody two shoes you know what the say about the devil you know.
Naomi is known for her temper

Tyra has a very common look . go to mtv they all look alike almost like clones.
I love Naomi she even knows how to msbehave in public with out thinking what will people say.

This happened in my primary 4 you know how we all answer yes and no when the teacher ask something.
well someone kept spoiling the air and we were all angry the teacher walked out annoyed and said we should rot in our smell.
When she came back she asked the class "Have you finished" only one boy shouted "YES"
we all got up and gave him a knock.
The poor boy he kept shouting it was not me he just just taught the whole class will answer

yes becaues we may have gone together to do so

I think in almost every class there are people like that these are kids that are not sure of themselves.
Then there are those that like to think that of others because they are jealous.
When my daughter started high school she was like the joke of the class the others called her not up to standard. It was like the ugly duck.
But she developed to one of the most beautiful , popular and intelligent people in the school These same people that used to laugh at her call her arrogant today.

( You've got to take after your parent, so to speak

)
what dose this statement mean

Hey, mamaput, you have spent 7 days, 6 hours and 35 minutes online
But only because i do not log out

Meine Eltern haben sich auch schatz und Honey genannt. Ich kann nicht den selben Name benutzen und alle andere sind doof, Mauzi , Spatzi und soweiter.




Translation

My parents called themselves schatz and honey .I cannot use the name they were using.
All other names are silly MAUZI OR SPATZI.

schatz is = treasure

Funny i always called all my boyfriends by their names.
I do not like pet names

sometimes people that want to break up just wait till they find a reason to do so.
The other boy on the phone came as a good oppunity.
But for me i rather give someone i do not know so well a cell phone number that my house number because the house phone is something i have had for like 16 years now and i do not want to change it because of funny calls.
the cell phon is changed more often.

Not really ni germany its tradition that the Bride is kidnapped and draged to a bar were the kidnappers drink till the groom finds her. He has to pay for the drinks.

Ever bored in your nose in public.

The woman taht lives downstairs gets bashed von her husband everyday.
she has lost the one or other tooth. and she stays with her husband.
I thing her children schould be like her .
The son should beat up his wife and the daughter should get beating up.

If a woman can think like that , the child is better of without her.

I do not feel like making a point .
But it seems to me true Muslims are more tolerant than Christians.
Most people get up and point their finger , why because? . There is no because just because everyone is doing it.
The Muslims acknowledge Jesus as a prophet of god. The Koran says if there are things you do not understand go and as´k the people of the book. The people of the book are Christans and the bible is meant by the book.
We only see the differences and close our eyes to the similarities.

I have nothing to hid anyone can pick my calls.
But then I do not have a cell phone and do not need one .So the house calls can be for anyone .
But i will never pick anyones phone , and even with my kids i only pick their cellphone if they forgot it at home. i answer Hello ***** phone??.
When i still had a cell phone onone picked it.
I think there is a big difference between house phone and cell phone?

turn him on the side . or sleep in another room.

SON : "Mummy i it my ead
mum : No its i hit my head

SON ; No it is not you that it your ead it is me that it my ead.

not recycled true story

were they ever foes.
?

Be4 i could answer the topic was closed.
In Nigeria we have the Traditional wedding .There is a way a man and a woman live together that they are considered as married.
After all is wine carrying not just all about saying in front of witness that you are married.
When you have children for the man and he accepts thats it people will consider you as the "Wife" andhim as the "Husband" .
If the man calls the mother of his kids my" wife" (even if they did not carry wine or marry in church what so ever.Nobody will have the boldness tocome out and say it is not true.

Maybe some one knows better .
But if a woman packs into the boyfriends house and starts calling her self mrs Boyfriend , if the man dose not protest are the married or not.(Under traditional law.)

go and knock on wood and do not Tempt the hand of faith.
you know somethimes you sit at home and pity your friend because of one thing or the other not knowing you are all in the same boat.

right from the day a girl is born in Nigeria she is dammed to all that "When you marry" stupid talk.
While her brothers are outside playing ball she is insind learning how to cook and clean.
If she m isbehaves the mother will tell her to mpack her bag she is going to her husbands house

A ring will not stop a man or a woman from doing what they have/ want to do.

Nop
ever watch them beat your brother/sister for something you did with out confessing.?

yes but spat it out again.

ever had a crush on your teacher