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Ivi is "Only" the Girlfriend so why should she contribute.
Are they talking of marrage? Has she been introduced to the family?
I will not give what i cannot bear to lose.
Funeral in Nigeria cost a lot of money. Also depending on the Tribe.
Some Villagers are alos only good at demanding.

My Freedom starts were my Nose beginns and that is were your own ends.
That is as a figure of speech for me respect.
If I have an old dirty pair of shoes in my living room that you think look out of place ,(Maybe they belonged to my late mother)Then you may think am mad but it will not be your place to tell me were to keep those shoes because you do not know what my Mother was for me.
If i say no to elders , it will be as in a no but: Not just a plain no.
I do not mind people telling me about their god thats ok but it is disrespectful for them to tell me their god is better than mien.

I cannot go to someones house and tell them my house is nicer than theirs.

Why should God punish anyone because they are talking about different religions
You tell me about yours i tell you about my .
We are not talking about convarting.

Its a Topic i think about a lot.
I think our grandfathers and some of our fathers have some stories to tell

Afeni you know you have a point but lets talk about it without getting insolent.
Then every religion deserves respect.
Fact is we are what we are because our parents are what they are.
How many of us choose our religion by our self.?

IN Africa there was a religion be4 the white man came .
They believed also in a suprem God followed by the lesser gods that are under the almighty.
So what was wrong with that religion.
With out mixing it with Tradition .

Playboy have you not just contradicted yourself ?
First impression counts yes but when you get to know the person your mind may change.
When you live in a small town or move in a certain crowd its your behavior that counts.
My daughter has some real bad friends, when i say bad i mean bad.
I do not stop my daughter from going out with them because i know she is faithful to herself. But i must admit some of that bad repetition rubs of.
Her friends were drinking and someone went to spread rumors that my daughter drinks.
But it is only a lousy person that will do that spread that rumor.
Noone belives that story because anyone that knows my daughter know she dose not drink or smoke for anything in the world.

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If my daughter will not even look at you ,talk less of talking to you . how will a man be able to disrespect her
1) She doesnt have to look at all the men in the environment before they look at her.
2) She doesnt even have to associate with anyone before they disrespect her,
U know what i mean, first Impressions. Ladies that creates sensual firs-impressions of themselves get disrespect.

IF i do not know someone , why should what he thinks bother me?
I admitt there is what i call crud dressing i hate it when the string exposed for all to see .
But i also hate it when Boys wear their pants as if the only pulled them up to their knees

As sad as it is i have to support this statement.
Maybe its just the ones I know .But They give me that impression too.
A Friend i have from Edo state a grown woman married stopped her Friend from dating a man because the man was not "Taking care of her"
Many i hear of do housewife prostitution in Town, with funnyold men at the Busstop.
Some Friends (can i call them friends )spend alot of time thinking of how they can get money out of their Husbands, They live above their means and try to hide the depts from their husbands browwing from peter to pay paul

can a boy not answer Ngozi

Azis Azis Light: Fifth element

How do you solve a problem like maria : sound of music


Hakuna matata : lion king


I is Nigger: Queen with hally Berry

why did i bother reading all this stuff

A man that knows how to respect a woman will respect all.
A man that dose not will respect non.
I Tell my kids to ware what they want. But because there are some mad people out there, there are things they ware only in company of friends(safety reasons).
If my daughter will not even look at you ,talk less of talking to you . how will a man be able to disrespect her.
It never happened to me thatsomeone was rude to me because of what i had on.
The look they wistle thats it.
But now i feel too old to run around like that.
And my kids want me to look like a mum

Idekeson:
I really love this thread. We need such stirring issues to keep the forum vibrant.

If talking about the rights of wonen is so vibrant.
Lets talk about the rights of the black man.
Were dose he belong. In an office or better cutting grass for the white man.?
Is that not so funny. Just as funny as a woman without a voice.
The good thing about it, as he is cutting the grass his many wives are minding the farm.
I do not find this topic funny at all

If rosby is in Nigeria and this comes out it may endup as a family matter .#

This means they may end up calling her again to bear witness.Every one will know her a the woman that spilled the beans.
She is not the only one that knows of what is going on.
If she wants to be so bold let her go and talk to the evil doers that many people know.
No one is attacking you but In some cases its better to say nothing.
And as things are at the end of a long day it is you that they will hate.They may even end up saying you made it all up.

At the end of a long day , will our ancestors not turn in their graves?
Did we not have a religion be4 the comming of the white man?

Did our great great grandfathers not try to fight them.?
Did they not force their religion on us.
You know what they say about the bible and the flag.
The Arabs are they not doing the same to this day.

ono:
Meaning having an hyperactive imagination, right? Like you just allow your mind to think up weird things and that blablabla, right?

Well, a very close friend of mine described this situation in which he was pressed down while in bed. He was practically struggling for breath. And he could not get up, summin like that. When he eventually got up, he was sweating the hell out of his body. Is that hyperactive imagination too?

You know i and my sisters all had this experience but only in our house over a certain time
At the same time we could not even move.
The strange thing is that this only happened in this house .

@Reverend i dont belive in the boggy man, but there are strange things that happen between heaven and earth.
My sister and i have had the same dream on the same night with the same funny strange evil woman

Well what ever everyone is entitled to an opinion.
What is not growing in my backyard cannot bother me.There are so many million people in this world ,I cannot be bothered with everything they have to say.
I do not have anything to do with such people and i will keep such people away from my kids too.
But All 4 play seems to think about is his prick .From pissing we are yet to know if he can aim. And the whole "member" Talk we are yet to know if he can perform well.
If he drives a big fat car then a theory i know of will confarm itsself.

You know what they say about men with a complex.

4 play lucky for us there is only one woman that you can control and that is your wife.
Later your kids.So the rest of the world is safe.

Oned more thing.
I can as well start a trend asking "Since when did the black man have the right to vote.
Or to think, or read or what ever ans later say it was a joke.

There are some things that should not be joked about.
Things were a lot of blood has flooded,
You think that women have the rights the have Today just like that.
If you were my son i would have giving you two beheind your ears for the road.

4play any woman that calls herself a nigerian can stand to pee .
Standing to pee is something that anyone can do but can you aim or do you miss .
Tell me how many sleepless nights did you spend thinging up a Topic like this.
Afganistan is a very good example for you. But do you know what was goining on there ,?how many people were killed? The earth has not yet been able to suck up all the Blood.
Famalies with out men were dressing there 8 to 11 year old daughters as boys to go out and earn living for the family. These little girls were doing horrible jobs eg digging out bones of dead people to go and sell.

This news will not come from my mouth.
God hates Feet that make hast to carry bad news.
At the end of the day it will be you breaking up that marrage because at it seems , every one has been taking pains to hide that relationship.
Du you know what can come out of what you are doing.
Go and tell your friends mother but not the sister for hells sake

When we were small , we used to go to the village .People will come to visit the Town people that just came.
I The village i will run around with my rubber slippers and a wrapper like the other children.
When i got older i stopped that wrapper stuff but i did not take the good cloths.
But i never fitted in.
I know Nigerians who just after one year abroad came home bragging and boasting and complaining that the cola is not cold.


But when you have been away for long you become part of the system and you cannot shake it off . It has nothing to do with wannabe but assimilating.


I Germany there is big talk of integration.There are even schools for that and any foreigner that dose not attend it will not get their paper.
People have to learn to fit into their society its more than only the accent and the food,
Most Nigerians i know in the states or UK do not speak with an accent to me they know i will call them swee swee swee .But i can hear they are trying very had not to swee.
I have been in Germany for over 18 years now and its a part of me that i cannot shake off.

I will not deny that there are many wannbes .
These people are even ready to take a credit in the bank for the grand going home.

Some comments are now sounding like broken records.
And some people are acting like little boys in jss3 that have the topic reproduction in a biology class

whitelexi:
When a good man cheats, the lady should blame herself because its as a result of her failures, if the man is a bad man then she ought to look for someone else, u don't blame the bad man because u chose him in the first place!

So i will blame my hair style or my sex talent.Maybe the way i cook.
I may also blame my kids because my body is no more what it was b4 i had them.
Or my age.
A man that cheats is not worth my love , i will do nothing just nothing and i will start living my life the way i want.
I will go were i want when i want and also sleep with who i want. The best part i will not even try to hide it. I will tell him about it.

I will not say i love one of my kids more but i love them in different ways.
The big girl is my right hand we also talk a lot of adult talk.
The second one is more like just there , She dose not make any trouble and she listens alot . i take time for her to play with her or sing or dance and encourage her in her hobbies.
the last born is a love me by force. right from when she was born .
When they others think i will say no to something they send her.
They think i say yes to her because i love her more , but i only say yes because i know she is very stubborn and dose not take no for an answer when she wants something. She can go on for hours

Lets face it Brad wanted kids and jen did not .
Angelina gave the man all he wanted kids.
Lets face it any one that reaLLY wants to have kids, has the right to have them.

My children are my blood they do not come b4 my kids.
More so if he is only the step father.
I can divorce a husband but not my kids.