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If you want my future forget my past.
I cant come closer to a man that wants to know .
but then i say what i have to say at the start.
(i may y it in a way that the guy is not too sure if am joking or not)

If she is staying in Nigeria no one will say anything to it.
I don't think she will tell her parents.
"Old men" like that that ran after young girls have a complex. They cant cope with women that are independet and kcan use their brains.

Does that mean they have not been to Court also to sign wedding papers? If yes, and they are Nigerians and have not even done the customary wedding stuff, they are not married so the issue of a ring is not needed. They are just leaving together lovers or am I missing something more than what you have explained so far as per the way they got married!

Wrong for a customary marrage you don't have to party and dance
If a Man in Nigeria says "this is my wife and there are my kids" I cannot think of any on that can go near that side and say its not true,.
The man has told the family and has allowed her to carry his name.
If she wants a ring let him get her one

[/quote][quote author=ruky_ivy link=topic=6952.msg214193#msg214193 date=1140327742]Nigeria is th country legalizing it
I really don't think its a very brilliant idea,
very soon they will legalize homosexuality or license to carry a gun anyhow.

I did not know that Anyone needed permission to be Homosexual

I don't like talking about abortion then i have my views on it .
For me its a deadly sin and that i will burn in hell for such a think.

But I don't think that its the same for every one depends on what they believe deep down their hearts.

Its legal in Germany but only to 12 weeks .

I had a Boyfriend that once fall from a tree( what a joke then he is a hobby para glider) and broke his back.
he was in the hospital for 3 months and could have ended in a wheel chair.
I did not mind that but he did not want me to come to the Hospital.
It can always be the other way round.

The kids one is staying for will grow and go.
My Kids are between 10 and 17 all of them have their free time activities, hobbies ,school and Friends.
Better to go
go as in go and get a life and not wait till you grow old you only live once.
the sooner one goes the better.
that will even stop the dirty fights that take place in a devoice.

flooding my apartment.
I always stand up in the middle of the night to make sure that i did not forget to close a tap.
Then i have flooded the place 3 good times.
eh it was not me but one washing machine that brought me lots of bad luck

thank god for insurance.

IBB:
@mamaput

oh baby, u too mush!! i jus dey feel u wit my bowl of garri 4 hia!! nuttin do u.

Sometimes i wish someone will steal my cat or it would run away
But its ears are tattooed with a number .It will always be traced back to me.
I love animals but not around me.
My daughter the owner of the cat has said she will not take it with her if and when she moves

German
English
piggin
igbo
anyother language dem fit sell me

mamaput:
If i had a nagging Husband , i guess i will just not come home they are just as bad.
I know you can't compare but its just horrible when children nag.

"mum can i, mum i want, mum ?," the whole day long .
Nobody says anyting about getting rid of them or drinking so why get rid of the wife?

Not everybody slaps their children and in Europe never in Public

I think Belgium is better ,then there are more blacks than here .
Another problem is that most blacks here are from Africa and came/come as Asylum seekers. not as students.

mamaput is a funny name but there is no story behind it maybe i just choose it because i noticed i belonged to the older set here (age wise)
I could as well have called myself mama Amina
But its had to get names these days that are not occupied and i don't want to answer "whatever the second "

If i was so drunk or on drugs that i don't know what am doing , then i will call it rape , if the gay involved was sober.

generally ? not good at all .
I don't think it makes a difference if you are black or mixed in Germany, They only see black and are very racist.
Better said hidden racist. because non admit it openly.
All depends on were you live in Germany ,some parts are more exposed to Blacks but they have not yet come to terms that there is something out there called black germans

Bird flu also in Germany .
In certain parts cats are under housearrest .(3deadcats in Mannheim)
only Farmers owners are allowed to step into their poultry.
Parents are worried about small kids playing outside and eating sand (because bird litter may be in it.)
I have stopped buying chicken but i need the eggs.
Also heard about the case in Nigeria .

more worried about the cat

I just love the name .
AND I MISS MAMAPUT the most i would almost give anything for a roadside meal

Hi everyone am a female Nigerian (mixed) 41 years old, 3 kids .(Single) better said divorced .
I live in germany (since 1987). I spend loads of time online and I am glad I found this forum.

Be independent my dad always told me
Thats what i tell my kids too.
I tell them to look forward and move on in life And if anyone (Friends) become to heave to drag along cut them off be4 you fall with them