thereare far More many ways of bringing up your child apart from beating.
no government forbids punishments

at the age of 7.
but the boy is only 3.
new teeth will only grow when he is like 6 or 7.

the teeth will grow back when he is more like 6.

some people have low metabolism

i better get out of here i may get carried away

Nascon:

WHY SHOULD A WOMAN SAY NO TO THE HUSBAND EVEN IN THE MOST STRESSFUL INSTANCES WHILE THERE IS LOVE BETWEEN BOTH PARTIES LOVE MAKING CAN STILL BE CONDOLED. WHEN EXCUSES STARTS TO COME IN THEN THE LOVE BOND SHOULD BE CHECKED. MY PERSONAL OPINION PLS!!!!!!!!!

because it is her body.
can you make even one hair of her body.

please go and see a Dr.
all your bones are sticking out

please  let the poor guy be,
@ poster do not mind them











fingers crossed your are in the good looking

the poster is 34 her oldest children the twins are 13 that means she had them at 21. that means she must have married at 20 that means she must have met her husband when she was at about 18/19.
that means this topic is useless.
are you telling me she dose not know the man she married by now.

I have come to believe that children here should again be beaten in school as punishment for their wrong doing.
It seems to be just the UK and US who have this wide spread problem with children being disrespectful. In other cultures for example Asian or West Indian,children are brought up in a similar way to Nigerian children.
I believe that if ALL children are treated the same all of the time then their self esteem will not damaged.If all children expect to be beaten for being rude etc then they have nothing to compare and complain about.
In England you are not ALLOWED to beat your own child,and if you do they can report you to the police,can you believe that?!Children have too many rights here and they know it which is why in the UK children rule the roost and the streets

what a big suprise

let go of the rat i smell.
i smell a big fat rat.
good mother even of twins, good cook, good job good christian, good wife with good husband
never seen a better profile in my life

by the way what is the father saying to all this

EastnEuSis:

This is veeeery painful to you, innit?

get real how can anything anyone writes on the www be painful to me.
i have a life

no they should educate their daughters when they are still small

NINETOFIVE:

@ mamaput,

I noticed from your write up that you are quite troubled, you need to start asking the right questions.


@ yvskc,

You 've got a good head on your shoulder, you sound pretty much unlike an average western woman, am impressed. the fact that you don't understand the language don't mean nothing, am talking from experience, watch out for mamaput, the next thing she would tell you might probably be about feminism.

yes am troubled. a woman with five kids i assume is married for like 10 years.
then why should she be asking the stupid question she is asking.

as long as mothers do not educate their daughters that they have rights,
men will go on raping their wives
as long as a woman is dependant on her husband he will do with her what he wants.
in many cases even if she runs back to her fathers house , they will just send her back

you better hint him.
do you not know he may have something he wants to get rid off be4 the mum comes.
it can be something as harmless as an earring or an aschtray

That's how I'm unlike you too, I may be 'English' but I am a (mixed race) black woman.
Almondjoy my man can cook! He tells me that if we were at home his mother would flog him for cooking for me all the time,and that she would want me to cook all his meals. I cook too,but my husband only EVER wants to eat naija food.I can cook some but not as well as him, and the Jamaican food I cook well,he does eat it but not all the time.He is a real back home boy!

that you are mixed dose not make you better than white Leilah. you cannot speak the language and you cannot cook the food.
were is your village?

Leilah if you state that you know many nigerian men who treat their wives like shit one more time, i'll scream

i know many nigerian men who treat their wives like shit

Leila's brute needs to stripped naked and flogged in Ogbete market.
She picked the worst of them all.

so now its her fault







happyness is in the eye of the beholder all that talk of my king and my queen after five kids sounds like new wedds or brainwashing.all all your kids for the same man.?
there is somethg funny about this story.
you mean after 5 kids (min 5 years) you still cannot cook.
you are still worried that he will stay.
you have not spoken to his mum?

all the girl wants to do is sleep out on sundays and not spend the whole day in the church.
no child at that age wants too.
It has nothing to do with believing or not believing.
That story she is giving you is just an excuse.
If you attend a church  like a church that lasts the whole day then it should be clear to you that she dose not want to go.

god is in you and not on yo

yo sista were have you been

come has any one found somebody or is everyone still looking

me

in a traditional wedding you do not have to invite people to say you are married.
that they come from the same village makes things easy.He has accepted the child that means his family too. And her family have accepted that they have accepted.
Even if they never got married they wil be seen as married in the eyes of many people.

a real man is a man that will feed his family.
if you spend time cheating then its your wife feeding the family because you do not have time for that,.
maybe you will also just produce some more hungry little mouths to feed that[b] you [/b] will not feed but the baby mama.
you do well

pot belly

because they just cannot let go.
They still want to rule the house of their son all the way from their own home.
One would think they should have other things to attend to.
they want the wife to do every thing just their way.
when daughter in law is fed up and fights back, they cannot take it.
thats when they now declare war

@ poster this man istelling you the oldest lie in the world.
what do you think he will tell you.?
"i love my wife but i want to **** you?"

i do notunderstand why 300 is among. on this list.
i found the film very stupid some how.
A bunch of primitive necked people slaughtering others.
.

its of no relevance how he sees it. you cannot beat tradition.
you cannot tell the villagers or family it is not the way it seems to be,
it can well be that he dose not see it that way and it may well be that he never sets foot inot the babymamas house .
people will still think what they want

bull shit.

kobe:

you have yourself to blame for that. it is perhaps why your forum will fail to see any decent form of progression beyond its current capacity.

you're too hot-tempered to let people express themselves freely, especially when you're criticized.

just being blunt.

it has nothing to do with how successful or unsuccessful seun is. its more about how successful he things he is.
Religion and philosophy has nothing to to with it,
The standard of the forum also has nothing to do with it.
What he is passing through is very normal for people of his age.
Then he knows that he is now a man and that the real world is waiting for him.
i myself call it the waking up phase of life.