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sorry to say your pastor is a Bastard a big one as that.
i could almost throw up

I am asking too

Now the truth has come out.
Were are the Godly people that will wish healing hands. To cure sick people?

No they do not.
Mostly just for 5 days

Ugwumba. A man that wants his peace is not the same thing as a Macho man that dose not help out in the house.
You know that these days women also go to work.
And Housewife is a fulltime Job.
So if you come back from work , eat your food and have rested, you can also as a good husband ask your wife if she needs help.
if you do not like sweeping and washing plate, you can do the homework with the children , and go out with them or do some shopping.
Or even get the children to help their mum.

Ugwumba:
@ kiki, mba, mba. read the original post - a'int about Egede and Ugwumba or some eutopia y'all live in.

check mamaput's post - she's a lady and speaks from experience.

don't like it, then change the man you've got (or you may be lucky to get one ready made). chances are 9 out of 10 men you meet will be like i have described (u admitted so yourself).

please hold on the question is what do men want in a relationship and not what do women want in a relationship.
No mor and on less. Even if i am not happy with what they want, thats just a fact. that in the long run they only want their peace.
See it in married men that have girlfriends, once that girlfriend starts to nag and act like wife making demands , themen run.

Never not even your dog.

In the long run all a man wants is a woman that knows when to shut up her mouth.
A wife that will not nag or ask too many questions.(were are you going and is it now you are comming)
A woman that will allow the husband to eat in peace and watch TV in peace. a woman that will pet him

My motherly advise is not the standard.
I do not wish my kids to get married at that age.
I will want them to wait till the boy has finished school and has his paper in the hand.
But i will not mind her moving in with him at that age . (as long as she has a small place of her own) then if it dose not work out she can go with a hand shake and not with a bundle and a ring.
Important at that age is to have your girlfriends and untertake things with them (without the boyfriend) like 2 to 3 times a week,.

Nothing wrong with it
when i was young i used towear one on my ankle , till my fathers sister told him only prostitutes do that.
After that faithful day i just waited till i steped out of the house to put it on.
People will always talk even about the kind of earring you wear.

Have you forgotten the stories of the wrestling match etc etc.
they always had ceremonies were boys and girls could do their "love dance"

gigitte I do not tell my kids to have sex or not to have sex .
But i have seen to it that she has a very strickt dr and she knows were theHealthcenter is in her town. (that is a place you can go and test yourself for free)
I do not believe in waiting till you are married to have sex.
You may be in for a bad suprise.
Then all the risks you are talking about can as well happen in a marrage.
A man can come home and infect his Mother to be wife and unborn baby with something deadly.
Marrage is not an oversize condom that protects you from all evil.,
I do not want to even think of it i save my self for one man and he ends up as mr death,
Sorry to say but you sound as if a woman has to adjust herself to the man.
And that is not what i hope for my kids.
I do not mean they should sleep around and have sex like a dog and i do not want them to land with a man that sleeps around too,
But it is their good right to seek for mr right. And get to know him inside out.

babyosisi .
You can if you want train your girls to wait very very long b4 they start having sex.
It is important you can talk to them and that starts when they are small.
eg.
the daughter 6 years old tells you a boy in her school beat her, you ask her if you should go and tell the teacher and she says no do not try telling the teacher  ask her what you can do about it  or make other suggestions if not she will stop telling you things.
If she tells you with 12 she has a freind that smokes do not condem the smoker but rather advise her hat smoking is bad for the health. . if not she will stop telling you things.
But even if she tells you she is having an eye on a boy she will never want to admitt the sex then you are her mother not her friend

babyosisi :
I have 3 daughters one is 17 , one is 12 and one is 10.
Do not get me wrong but at this age i will not allow the 12 year old to have a boyfriend or date a boy.But she is free to talk to them , thats it.
Because she is too young age wise and mentally.
Its not that am jumping for joy that my daughter has sex. Till now she has had 3 boyfriends but the sex she had with only one of them they were together for over a year.
But i am realistic.
When she was 15 i told her there was no schakara in it so i made an appointed with a DR and bought a packet of condom

Fact is if she is hiding to take her pill she will tend to forget it.
And am free to tell her not to forget her condom when she is going out.
I do not fool my self we all have sex with or without or parents knowing, But people that hide tend to make mistakes.
Sometimes when boys are calling her she will put the phone on loud for me to hear and show me a picture of the boy.
My opeion is important to her. This way we already weed out the useless ones.
She comes to me for advise on many things once a boy that she went out with told her he will beat her up if she dances withany other person. She ask me what to do i told her to break up with him on the sport and she did.
I had a boyfriend once and he once beat the shit out of me, but i could not tell my dad because i was not even allowed to have a boyfriend.
And these are the type of things i want to avoid,
I let her have one because i know she is mature enough.
Her grades are good for the past 3 years she is the best in her class . This year she had a 1,5.
Most boys that want to date her have a complex because she makes better grads than them.
She dose not smoke she dose not drink and she dose not let any boy take her for a ride.
Thats because we talk alot about men and their tricks etc.
I hope am coming across.
We are not best friends she is my daughter and i am her mother,
From the time she was 10 she was the one cooking lunch for her sisters because i was at work and i had to relay on her for many other things, like taking her sisters to the DR when they were sick, going to the bank etc etc, So today he has alot of freedom.
because she deserves it.
But she also knows that she cannot party from Friday to sunday if she goes to disco on a Friday nothing will make her go on Saturday.
And if she is out the whole day she will stay home at night.
Then she knows that she as i call it has to ret her brain and body.
And because i am able to explain things to her she is also reasonable to me

As for my ex husband he forfitted all rights when he messed us up.

A guy that can dump his girlfriend just because he has seen too much of her is a bastard.

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All ex boyfriends end up comming back just to Fu** for old time sake.
This happens when he has noone at hand at the moment.
From the way you write i do not think he was ever in love with you and you know it.
I do not understand for many girls the answer is so clear in front of their face but they do not want to accept

Once again i say how many People marry their first Boyfriend or girlfriend.
relationships break up every day .
My daughters Boyfriend broke up with her just because he wanted more time for his BBoy group and battles,
Now the winter is comming the sun is going he is calling her and trying his

hi best friends

shit. But she will never go back to him because now her eyes have cleared she has seen things in him she dose not want in a man.
And that is
A guy that will dump or keep a girl waiting for a hobby
A a guy that likes to bring up old stories(these never forget type)
Do not get me wrong they had a beautiful relationship and broke up in a very clean way.
But its Over on her part and she will never take him back. just keep the good memories
So when a relationship ends keep up the good memories
And go be4 it becomes dirty

I have been here had a 2 week leave but it ends on Friday.
I have just been sleeping and eating and doing nothing , just nothing at all

Do you do carwalk or magazine

And i claim she saw that snake when she left the house.

really?

I could ask you the same question.

Ugwumba:
@mamaput, not sure I have heard what your hubby's opinion is about the 'freedom' yiou allow your daughters. Not criticizing, provided both of you are on board with this approac

He has no say hat so ever