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oja wash your face and look for another man .

On more thing . If this man was a brother in christ as you call it. One question did you tell your boyfriend were you were going , did he tell his wife were he was going.
When my ex husband wanted to go out with other women (Movie or concert) he ask me if it was okey told me were he was going and when he was comming back.
If i went out with other men i always took my kids along and he knew were i was going.
Its not what you think then i kept some nigerianfriends so that i can be up to date on what is going on in Nigeria. As of that time i did not know the women.

Do not get me wrong , what the guy did was no good.
But I have a golden rule my forum is my private thing non of my friends know about this site.
I have shared a site with my sister b4 and sometimes things leak out. when i answered her trend or she mine. Well we just decided not to answer our selves again -
I will not say she betrayed her boyfriend but as a woman and for safety reasons why did she go to meet the man alone.A man she did not know from Adam. nobody dose that.Or if they do the let people know were they are.
Also I do not think Seun should punish someone for what happened after _{school hours}

But i do not understand, you meet a man for the first time and tell him things about yourself you did not want others to know?
Everyone her writes on _{I have a friend} or what they do not mind saying about themselves.
I mean even a 6 year old child knows about the dangers of internet relationships.
In my other forum we sometimes meet as a group but it dose not pass small talk or gossiping about the people that are not there (gossip about the user then we do not know the person)
Why did he not come with his wife and you go with your boyfriend the first time.

It is very funny because she will always know that it was RAY and people will always ask her how she came about pray.

I am ganist beating but all my kids know that i do not liketo talk too much ealy in the day.
Later i can take anything and talk to all lenghts

Well i felt bad about the slap but i did not say am sorry .
I had a _vision of her going late to school every day and i lost control.
she always likes to delay even if she wakes up at 5 oclock she will not be ready by 7 becauses she has to talk to the cat or cannot find the yellow pant that will fit to her pink top or stupid things like that.

And i feel so bad.
Some people may ask what is in a slap, my kids can count the slaps they have gotten from me on one hand.
Well this is what happened.
She has finished primary school and her new school started yesterday. I asked her to pick her bag lets go, she told me she was not going to take that bag to school , She wants a new bag Nike black or blue any colour but not red or green. (one strap ) side bag not a back bag.
Well she went with out a bag to school. And i got her her new bag,
Today as usual she really took her time getting dressed the sister was telling her to hurry up she did not want to go late and her friends will not wait for her.
I came out of my room and ask what is taking her so long she answered "live me alone" and my hand just Land on her face. It was not a hard slap but i did it.
She likes to delay alot and complain she has nothing to ware. But her wordrobe is busting with cloths.
But if she feels like pink and there is no pink at the moment then she will strike.
But now her sister cannot go late because of her.
The new school is futher away and i want them going together for the start

But i feel so bad.I even told her i will get up with her everyday to give her a slap she went to school crying.

Are most of the things she said not true? forget the fact that she thinks her people are better than your people.

I do not know why you keep up that friendship.
Is it begging for friendship.
I do not have them as friends and i do not go near them.
I have learned Early that they are no good to have as friends.
They are like Gypsies they only like themselves

What if you fall in love with another man?
Will you workover the name of the ex.
Will you then make a new one with the name of the new man.?
Things like that are risky.
I know a girl that put the name of her twin sister down ber back.But Husband?

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Rather a big fat pig than the name of any man or woman on my body.

So if the first man dose not work out , i sit at home for the rest of my life

Did you not ask what we think?
Are my kids not Nigerians?
Is it not my good right as a mother to look up a site if it is ok b4 my kids go on it.
What doyou want?
should everybody say how nice.
Again i ask why must one regester to see it.
That way you have my email adress not so.
maybe you just want to sell it to yahoo boys.

It is not you that will tell people you are a good driver, it is people that will tell you.
Am 42 but there are things i can learn from even a 3 year old child. No shame in it.

What i think is that i will like to see a site and read through it b4 i regester.
I never regester just to see.
So were can guests log in.

Seun this is not just about you and the woman, but also the kids.
You as a grown man , no one will talk to you or abuse you to your face.
IN this case it is your children that will suffer it. It is your children out there fighting your battle for you.
You cannot sit with them in school all the day and then go out and play with them .
And it is something that will pass yoour mind as an _{non osu igbo man.}
Had you been one.

texazzpete Not all Nigerian women are circumcised or want to to so with their Kids.
I Will not raise my kids the way Bhol will want to raise her kids.
But At the end of the day Respect takes nothing off anyone.
Even the royals in England bend their knees.
Everyone has the right to live the old traditional way .
But even in a high class Yoruba family you still have to do some knee bending. .
Anyone that dose not want to do that should not marry into the family.

So after cleaning with your left you take a bar of soap only in your left and wash only the left hand.
I thought you rub your hands together to wash them,

sbucareer if i marry one it dose not make me one only my kids.
what of if the marrage did not work out ?
I think people will want nothing to do with me because i with one.

Or am i one because i married one.?? i thought its in the blood

To Mr topic starter, The problem is with you nd not with the girls no matter what they look like.
I think you have no self confidence in your self.
People like you think that all your friends are after the girl and as soon as you turn your back she will be having fun with your friends.
These type of people even get annoyed with their girlfriends just beacuse they said hello to someone.
A Beautiful girl if she is too fine has the same problem as ugly girls. But the other way round, many men will not talk to her because they fear that she is too good for them.

You become an osu by birth. If you marry one your children you have will be osu.
There is nothing like half osu.
If you start going out with them , many people will tell you that your date is an osu.

If you cannot forget the past then forget her and look for an other woman.
Some men like to bring up old story even after 20 years of marrage.
If you are that kind that cannot let go, please look for a brand new girlfriend.

Slaves to the Gods or something like that.
That was in the olden days.
But Today the are still like outcast by the igbos.
OK let me call it half outcast.

how can my sister be my maid?

Your advise is a bad one."If you do not kill me you still love me"
or locking the woman in a room-
I will only hate the man more.
And if you are begging why in boxers.?

he had 5 years to look for a job, but rather spnt the time using the wifes money to chat up other women.
And how did this one know so much about his wife?

yes he was i only have myself to blame.
But it is different when you are a family.
As of then i did not think it was that bad . If he had taking care of the houshold it would have been ok by me.
At the end of the day i did not what my kids brought up by a lazy bone that is only good at showing them the easy way out.

I do not like talking aboiu my private life.
But,
I was once working at the airport work started 4 am and you had to look good .Not just a roll out of bed job.
Well some times driving to the airport at 3 am in the morning i had the road to my self and i always ask my self "What the hell am i doing here at this time of the day when i have 3 small kids at home . The father a lazy off had done nothing by the time i came back from work. only cooked for him and the kids no food for me and the dirty pots left for me.
When you do it long enough you get thinking.
Do you know what it can do to one coming home to find nothing done and the hubby sitting in front of the tv the plates not even cleared?
Then to crown it all backbiting you .