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It is ok for kids to work in the holiday or maybe once a week.
But not as house labour.
In Germany children are allowed to carry out newspaper from the age of 12.
They are are allowed a part time job from the age of 16.
But not more than 8 hours a day and not more than 5 days a week.
Not after 10pm and no overtime.
If it is not a hotel  they are not allowed to work weekends.
And they do not pay tax.(If they are still in school.)
Models they have them at all ages i do not know what laws  they have for them.
Nothingwrong with child models as long as they are treated right.
That is enough break inbetwen.
But the parents are the people tohold to ransom if at all because you that are snaping your one ortwo pic do not know how often the parents take their kids for such shootings.

yea yea thats why so many Nigerian men do not waste time after marrage .
They get tired very fast.
But them at least you are mrs and he cannot run away only cheat.

It is wrong in all forms .
No matter how well the child is being treated.
if people want to help let them form an NGO and put these kids in a Home were they will be treated as kids and be able to go to school .
And not work. Not at that age.

After getting married to him.
Well its your life.
But that is not the normal way Nigerians get married.
have they met your parents, brother sister family .?
The normal way will be to meet your people.
And if you get pregnant he may not even have to marry you.

And how long will it take.
If he has his papers in order it cannot take that long.

Do not let yourself be deceived just because some people are holding their bible in the hand.
Maybe they picked you with alot of care if you know what i mean.
If i were you i will run as far as my feet can carry me not nonly from that woman , but also from that church

If you are the one that has to travel out, then most likely he has no papers to travle out.
Tell them you do not enter plane You cannot fly the young man should come

I always tell my sister , If she was not my sister we will never have been friends.
We cannot pick our family but we can pick our friends.
But if it comes to a life and death matter we pick our family .
As they say Blood is ticker than water.
It has happened often enough that some kind of friends try to come between my sister and i , thinking they can scatter us to become best friend to one of us. They think they have easy game because we do not get on that good.
But then they are in for a bad suprise , because even if we do not get along, in times of need we back up each other to the bitter end.And nothing can come between us.

To say we do not get along is a wrong statement, WE have nothing in common.

The mistake is people expect us to be the same because we are Family. But they forget we were all born independent of each other

Non of them can hold a candle near miss Piggy. even if she is only a puppet.

Am from Nigeria

One of my kids is also called jessica.
That name is very common, But not common enough to have two of them in one classroom
many of her friends call her jessi.

JOSSY TEM they are going to ban you for writing only in capital.

SO THE MAIN POINT IS THAT U CANT BE LEAVING WITH A GUY AND AVOIDING SEX. TO ME IF U SHOULD

ha avoid sex?

Gigitte any one that reads my posts knows i get carried away when it comes to kids.
I know not all Parents are the same .
But on reading this Topic you will see that most have the same view.
If we wait some more then there are those that will accuse her for eveb having a boyfriend.
I do not find you hypocritical. No not at all.
My mind had already gone far (as far as to the faske bible carrying so called what ever)

You are right they are my kids.
If you do not like my posts do not read them.
I have 3 daughters and so far i have done a very very good job.
All of them are confident young girls that say their mind and have a mind of their own
Am very proud of them , very very.

And as you do not know me you can say nothing about my parenting skills.
And am not about to make any explanations about them or excuses.
Then I owe nobody not even their father.
_{But i can pretend that they do not have sex forget the condom and the pills , let them go and abort as long as i do not know}who cares.
Is that not the Nigerian way??
I was taking the pill in Nigeria many girls that called me names for that had more than 3 abortions behind them.
I did not know that in Nigeira people are still so hypocritial.
maybe they even abort with their bible in their hands.

poor you

And am not going to let my kids grow up with a sick attitude to sex.
Then i can see so many of my Nigerian friends are screwed up and have a very sick attitude to sex.
Its more of let my husband get his satisfaction and not about them having any fun out of it.
They just spread they legs and let their husbands *** them.
And the husbands do not even care if the woman is in the mood or not.
I love my kids and want the best for them.
They may be kids today but they are women tomorror.
AND IT IS their GOOD RIGHT AS WOMEN to have fun in sex and not only to please the man.

gigitte,
Ask me what i lost and not what i gained.
Many ofmy friends cannot enjoy sex even at this age because of the way they were brought up.
That sex is something bad.
Like i say anyone that wants to have sex will have it nomatter how difficult the parents make it for them.
Its not teaching my kids not to get caught.
Its about taking the sugar and not stealing it.

In Germany any DR will give a Girl the pill at the age of 14 with out the contest of the parents.
Its all about having sex with respect and not in the back sit of a friend of a friends car or room,
Only one of my daughters is at an age were she is active.
If anything is not ok i do not want her to speculate with friends till its too late what may be wrong.
Any boyfriend she has , has to take her home to met his parents .
And she picks them with care.
And she dose not sleep with everyboyfriend she has.
I i talk bla bla bla, they will say yes mum and still do what they want.
So its for them to tell me bla bla bla and i give my advise.
Its all about there life and not my life.

And i find it hard to believe that so many girls are just holding hands as you call it.

mukina2 The mistake people are making here is that they all assum they are suppose to marry.
But tell me how many age mates do you know that are married.
How many childhood lovers do you know that are married to each other.
I do not assum they will end up getting married .
But maybe they belong to that 10% that will i do not know.
But it dose not happen that often that people in this situation end up getting married.
They are both going to meet alot of new people.

mukina2:
don't please, being together leaving in your separate homes is with different from being together and staying together,

Maybe this is just the best.
As long as staying together its not offical.
Mukina you have brought me to re think about it.
Then we are talking about Nigeria and not Europe.
That is if at all Gem is in Nigeria we do not know

Then even if it ends ugly she will learn.
A saying i know


What dose not kill you, makes you strong.
If it dose not work out that man was not made for her.
But she may be the one to dump him.
Besides she will still have to have a place of her own.
You want to tell me that all the people that live on the campus do not overnight at their boyfriends place?

shoes and everyother thing

As long as they are at the right age , they will tell me that they are going out with boyfriend the same way the will tell me they are going to market.
And i will not fool myself and pretend they are only holding hands.

madonna has made no comment to that yet.
Well i have not heard of any. Only that Madonna is _{playing cool}

Putting it in a very dirty way, A girl that wants to Bleep will Bleep.
My parents did there best so i will not do it.But i did it.
I had to plan it well.
So according to my school timetable be4 school or after school or if a lecture fell out.
Sometimes in the night when my people are sleeping i will sneek out for an hour .
I do not want my kids to have that stupid kind of inbetween meals sex.
Lets not fool our selves everyone is haveing it question is how

Thats another story, they do not want her to come at all.
They say if she comes they will kidnapp her kids.

Women should know the man they are /want to marry better.
Be4 a dream becomes a nightmare.And there is no way out.
They are having sex already . So the time of the day dose not matter .
Even today better MY DAUGHTER sleeps in her boyfriends house than come home on her own in the middle of the night.

Its either a yes or a no _{To SEX} and anyone that says yes to sex should not pretend as if there is a more Moral way of having it.
Why give a fake advise just for (What sake).
Nigerians have always been good at pretending.
Some daughters bring home there sugardaddy goods and the parents act as if the believe the stupid story the daughter tells them were she had the goods from.

Someparents send there kids back to school with so little pocket money and fool them selves their daughters are managing that little money .
But when its slapped in their face they will shout the loudest and point the longest fingers.

You did not answer my question so why should i answer yours.

No she was not arrested.
The persecution found that her show was very provoking but no offense was committed.