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I tell them because someone has to make the first move.
Mothers have to stop telling raising their daughters for the only aim of finding good husbands.
If we can get this generation to change it will be some thing good. But in this topic we are talking about facts. It is good to see things from the other side. And there are more important things to me than a cheating husband. A husband that runs around making Dept's is a reason for me to get a devoice because am not about to want to inherit Dept's from a fool of a man.
A lazy man that dose not go to work is not a good role model for the kids i can also devoice on these grounds.
The list gose on.
I guess that we all have different last straws that break the camales back.

All depends in the society you are living in

i also find that what ever on top very disturbing.
And generally too colourfull do not allow people to be able to put up those mighty avatars.
maybe its just old age but they are very disstracting to me.

there are many hoddles in a marrage for some we have to master them some not we give up and go.
My first daughter is 17 the last one is 10 each has a mind of here own.
They know what and how i see things .But they have a mind of their own.
Like i and you said everybody dose what is best for them.
What i do not waht for my kids is to mbe dependent on a man or on sozial welfare.
I say i will not dump a man for cheating and i will not advise my kid to dump a man for cheating as in."Dump that bastard he cheated on you".
Go back and read what i wrote that i will not advise them dose not mean i willnow say "how can " if they want to do it let them.

many of my friends that ask me about dumping husband i tell them the advantages and disadvantage. But hell no i will not put my mouth in a marrage if the man is not beating them.

your article is about a bunsch of unhappy people (unhappy in a marrage) if you are unhappy in your marrage then go and go fast.
But we are talking about cheating if thats the only reason.
maybe we should find out why the man cheated.
But women do not cheat for the same reasons as men.

Nia do not mis understand me i am not a typical "learn who to do this and that because of a man"
I teach them learn to do this and that so that you will not be dependent on a man.
But we have to be realistic there are more reasons for living a man than just cheating.
(except he don't use a condom) If at all because of the Aids stuff and not the cheating.

Be very sure that am bringing up my kids to be very independent women when they grow up.
Hell no i do not even tell them they have to marry and have children.

Are we talking about a Dress.?
Many years ago the wedding dress of a woman was black and not white.
Is red not the colour of the weddingdress in India. and white the dress for widows?

Talks about a dress. i use my mouth herte to say 75% of the women in their white dresses are even with child. Them carry belly.

I miss nigerian smell so bad.
as in i am missing it badly.

hows about begging on knees.

I have 3 daughters and if any of them come to me because their husband cheated on them i will never advise them to dump the man if thats the only problem.
Its different if it is one of many .And it has nothing to do with not getting another husband.
I am devoiced myself and for the past 8 years am not even dreaming of a husband   or even moving together with a man.

Chelsea Clinton  would have been more embarrassed if it was her mother that got the Mouth Action.

PEOPLE WILL LOOK DOWN ON YOU AND TALK ABOUT YOU IF YOU LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND

Yes people always talk oneway or the other . Most devoiced people do not have the same friends anymore

Truth: Most people in the west leave when their partner cheats

. were did you get your statistics
.

@ mamaput
Clearly you can tell the difference between what goes on in the modernized world and what goes in countries like Naija.  You will never hear people of the modernized world come up with propagandas like:

mordernized world my foot. The world is only as modernized asthe size of the sozial welfare.
and the child support men are forced to pay. take that away from the women and we will see how morden they really are.

What a pity she looks real sweet, the kind you can take home to your parents.

Nothing stops you from doing what you want to do.
If i want to sleep around , i will stand to it no matter what people say. Only my kids will suffer under it,
I have never  heard of  father fucker, its mother fucker.
I have never heard your dad is a Huhr but your mum

Hey we were talking about cheating Husbands not wifey .
For women its different.

Both of them are under 18 still in school

Svs second runner up for the title Queen of off topic and off point, Trend crasher, you are asking this question.

faa:
@ Jay-o-Jay,

@mamaput,

I don't think your examples should be reasons why women have to stay with a cheat. What do you care about what society thinks of you.

Thats not what my examples were for.
My examples are just to state  even if we are in 2006 , this world is not as morden as you think it is. I was adressing NIa ,that is claiming to live in a morden world

for the same reason that no German calls their kid Adlof

Jay o jay not every woman that leaves her husband is doing it to sleep around.
But you are right, if she dose people will talk about her.
I live here in Germany when i devoiced my husband, My White German neighbor that came to see me to borrow what ever never stepped into my place but stood at the door.
His Reason he did not want people to think that we are lovers. Because that is how peoples minds are.
When my husband was around he will come in and sit down.
ANd this is a white man thinking like this with on black influence in his blood.

Nia if you think we are in a modern world , you are deceiving yourself.
See what happened to Bill Clinton. Do you think if it had been Mrs Clinton  they would have forgiven her just like that.
Do you see what happened to lady DI .
Even in the schools in Europe today , single mothers are "frowned" upon.
A man talking to the teacher and a woman dose not have the same impact.

Not always.

If you leave your husband, in most cases your standard of living falls.
You cannot compare two salaries with one.
So b 4 you leave a man you have to know it is really worth it. More so if children are involved.

We are not talking about the good or bad in it, just that it happens.
And it happens everyday. so no need to be rude.
Fact is one dose not even need a reason to cheat it happens,

He is not an @ss he only likes comming too close to @sses . and sniffing at them.
I wounder if animals are safe from him.

Hello class,
I need people who are oriented, focused and intelligent. I want to start an NGO that will see to the affairs of LADIES and GIRL-CHILD. It is called LADIES EMPOWERMENT and AWARENESS ORG. (LEA). You can get in touch with me on mypassion4real@yahoo.com

Thats all we get to know? and all of a sudden many people of (few posts) are very much intrested,
IS NGO now the new 419.
IT seems every one is doing NGO .

LOok if you are a Nigerian woman and you tell your people you are devorcing your husband because he cheated on you, They will never support you. Never.
By the way this is a NIgerian Forum so in general is here.
Do you think that even your kids will be happy or thank you (if you take their father away from them) just because the man cheated on you.
Wait till they grow and see what they will tell you. Most women i know add atol of lies and brainwash the minds of the kids so bad becaue they know a "he cheated on me is a lame selfish excuse"

To the rest i say it has always been a mans world always.and always will be .

Faa Let us call a spade a spade . Nigeria is a polygamous land.
That means a man can marry more than one wife. The first wife can accept it or go.
Many of us even if we do not admit it here, have cheating fathers and brothers.
If everybody thinks >>>> you

faa:
I'll put it this way. If a man thinks there is a chance he might cheat on his girlfriend/wife etc, then it would be wise not to get tied up in a relationship and I wasn't making any assumption. I don't think men reason with their head when they cheat.

Then no two people will ever marry.
by the way Love is not the same thing for everybody.

crappppppp is a fairytale "and they lived happly ever after" thinking

what comes up next. do we get to rate more about her?
I find this post degrading for your girlfriend.
GO on and show it to her

http://jmm.aaa.net.au/articles/2603.htm



not the same as" father chrismas" in red that is a creation from coca cola

What a mess . Well ou can only tell her people . You cannot do more for her.
Let us know the out come of it.

I hope i get the spelling

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alaba laba kiki titi bus and bus.


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