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kristie26:
Chai!! Lola don suffer.....she's now bin refered to as a dog.

He also called his own wife wife dog, he's the foolish one here

Jude is nothing but a tribalistic in Agbaya

Very good, I call them back sometimes too when I receive those stupid messages and insult them. Once it was an old man that picked it I was like at your age you are still a scammer

ronald4lif:
Lol. Fair retort. That's not a problem. They should keep following us and don't complain about men being cheats. Let's have an open relationship and free for all fvcking. For men who cheats they don't wince about but for women it's always lamentation here and there.

Ours is out fun and the excitement it brings but for someone who copies like women it appears theirs is to spite and can an act of spite be joyous as that of men who revels naturally?

And I'm still wondering if any man will father a kid(s) that's not his for longer than a year in this times where any reasonable fella should confirm paternity of their wards as soon as they are birth.

Out of spite Ke, do you think those women care again . It's It's case of let me eat my cake and have, remain married so society can call me a "respectable married woman" while I enjoy myself whoever I fancy what's not to love. After sleeping with one pot-bellied husband for years it's a nice break to get a correct guy with 6-packs by the side you men just opened women's eyes to what they've been missing, it's the best of both worlds really how many men do DNA test, you always think you are the smart ones lmao

Toks2008:
Chai..wahala dey o..

If only every lady can just end their sermon by choosing one option out of those provided i guess guys would know the mindset of the ladies.

Aunty..i don hear..if im attending to a lady in this situation,i would ask that same question...WAT WILL YOU DO IF?

If your answer is not listed in the options please still go ahead n tell us wat you would do.

The problem Is once people say something contrary to staying with cheating husbands you start calling them names showing you are biased. Personally I will leave, if I meet someone else worth giving a chance I will try marriage again and if he ends up being the same I'll stay single after . I will never stay with a serial Cheat.or wife beater and those were the first things I told my man when we met. So he knows I'm not the suffer head type of woman .He actually told me that's one of the reasons he knew I was one because I have self respect said how a girl he was dating said even if you cheat I will always stay and he lost all respect for her. Real men don't want a doormat

Toks2008:
Why on earth wont i be open for discussions?

The question is; Must you insult to discuss?

If ladies expecially can learn how to intelligently articulate their views without vulgarity i guess it will be easier for sound arguements to take place.

And please i beg everyone who reads my threads to understand that i write pragmatically and not from my personal dogma.

I repeat,i hve never cheated on any woman in my life yet it does not change the fact on ground that most guys cheat on the woman in their lives so people should focus on the objectivity of this article and blot out the writer...only then can we have intelligent discussion.

If you are indeed a marriage counsellor you should not be teaching all this one sided things. For every action there's an equal and opposite reaction Women are not zombies that should just take any crap especially these days when many of us have financial independence and few kids so no staying because you can't take care of the kids. Go and ask Doctors how many married men have STDS and they won't tell their wives. You expect women to leave miserable lives with cheats and always have to fear for their health? That's not the kind of life you should advice anyone to live. Instead you as a counsellor should be telling both parties the consequences of cheating so we can raise a better next generation. If you lot keep endorsing men cheating they will never change, the only thing that will happen is the women will change to cope with the cheating men (already happening) in whatever way they see fit an you can't blame them for that.

Toks2008:
Abeg leave these small girls forming maturity and writing out of fantasy...

My husband cheats and i cheat back..foolishness wey no get part 2.

Imagine a new man in your life discovering that you left your marriage because you cheated on your hubby regardless why and you willl still expect that man to respect you?

Iranu ibere oriburuku.

Oh please, I know a woman from secondary school who her husband caught cheating just months after the wedding. It was a big scandal because the wedding was so big, Guess what Babe re-married within a year and has 2 kids now all those silly threats that no one will marry the person is a joke. Same way someone will marry the cheating husband is how someone will marry the cheating wife. By the way most cheating women don't bother to leave their marriage and most will never be caught because they've learnt from the best. Their randy husbands and they are even better at the game why do you think DNA experts say many kids do not belong to the husband? Cheats deserve each other

Toks2008:
lol...you are so funny dear.

If only you know....

Anyways its a good thing that as long as nland tarries,my threads will always be there as reference point.

We live in a cruel world of men and only the wise women understand this but the foolish still live in their dreams.

Continue dearie..whatever rocks your boat.

Yeah we're stupid for not wanting to stay in a marriage with a man that has zero respect for us. Any man that keeps cheati.g on his wife has no respect or love for her. You can't keep hurting me and you say that's love. Let's be stupid and leave a toxic marriage rather than snap and stab him one day

The Op is funny, as long as a woman says she'll leave a serial cheating husband he says they are not married I'm glad Nigerian women are no longer doormats

I pray he gets a good lawyer and the judge is lenient. This was self defence when the mad father attacked him with a broken bottle just because he was defending his mum. All these Women beater cowards

Women pls leave abusive marriages so your children are not scarred for life like this poor young man must have been.

Na wa for some men o, so 6a.m is too late. Chai. For me that's very early sef, we get ready at different speeds I went to boarding schools all through so I get ready really fast so I can enjoy my sleep since I have insomnia. We all have different sleeping habits, stop trying to control your wife

I'm glad we have laws to protect women now. That man is one step away from a rapist

I'am so happy for him God is awesome

tico1212:
She obviously showing signs of a failing English language. "She got her nails..." is a sign of past tense. Now so far, so good. Then, here comes the oddball. When she says, "I got my nails did," she is showing two tenses. In one part of the sentence, she is in past tense. While, in another, she is in present tense. This is a contradiction

As someone pointed out, it's an American slang. Its deliberate

They are both on excursion and will soon be kicked out. Let them keep up with the impunity, it will be so easy to win this case in court . I'm an APC supporter but what's been happening in Kogi is a real disgrace . I'm really disappointed in Bulgaria for letting g Atiku do whatever he likes in Kogi

lastpage:
Women have been more cunning than men, from the time of Adam!
Even worse, some foolish men, so ignorantly, think they are fighting the "cause of women" as a "weaker shex", when in reality, they are being "used and dumped", for emasculating their fellow men.

Its so strange and funny that "some men" could be this unintelligent!
But such is Life, even Biblical Adam proved that men are weaker (emotionally,) than women and women use this weakness to their advantage!

It is also strange that in the "Western Countries" we are trying to copy, they are beginning to realise their mistake and are redressing some of these laws!
For example, "Equality Laws" have been used to prevent Men from seeing their children, if the parents are unmarried. It has been used to allow a woman terminate Pregnancy, without the consent of her man/husband, by claiming it's her body!
Now, Western countries are seein gthe injustice they met on the menfolk and trying to correct it.

Yet ,here we are in Africa, we are trying to swallow the bait, hook, line and sinker, in 2016!


Anyway, "Water has a way of finding its level, it is only those whose houses are low-lying. that would have to pay the price first".



Lastpage!

The whole idea of the laws is to tailor it to the society, so there is no reason why they can't pass gender equality laws and stipulate things. Non gender discrimination will not negate the custody and divorce laws a long as they don't discriminate based on sex. It's about the fact the no one should be discriminated against in anything because of their sex. I've seen landlords say they won't rent out to single women, can you imagine such in 2016. Custody laws and divorce laws are separate from that. The ignorance you are displaying by thinking once non discrimination is In place that would mean women can keep kids away from men and such Is the same myopia disturbing those men but they should know better as law makers.

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lastpage:
You got it wrong.
You dont try to solve "a problem that does not exist" ab initio!

He is saying We Nigerians/Africans dont discriminate against our women, we give them their place of pride in our socio-cultural environment thus, it is "Un-African" to even consider making laws against women's discrimination because that problem does not exist with us"!

You copy now? Comprehendi??

Thanks for meditating on it.



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Now you're just been ridiculous, it's like saying stealing and murder are un African so we should not have laws about them. As long as he can't claim the whole community never discriminates that means there is a need for the law, laws are in place to make sure some don't go against it. Also it's silly to say women are not discriminated against when Women can't even inherit land from their fathers, if that is not a clear case of discrimination then what is.

That man said this is not America, meaning If you want gender equality go to America so please try not to twist things

Wow so saying women should not be discriminated against is Un-african that means discriminating against women is African those men don't even deserve to be called humans. So wanting your female children to have the same rights as your male children is a horrible thing chai.

Someone is talking about low divorce rates, how won't they be low when the women have no rights. Many of them may be miserable battered women who can't leave because they are in a society that will discriminate against them. I guess that's why those mumus, don't want the bill so there wives won't be empowered.

Concerning your dreams what does you wife do ? what's the plan for sustaining your family while you go back to school? you need to clarify that part, it would be selfish to want to pursue your dreams at the expense of your family. That's what people don't realize, once you marry the liberty to just get up and pursue your dreams is gone. That's why i always shake my head when people just shout get married forgetting that if you haven't achieved many of the things you want to you may never be able to do certain things again once you are married and have responsibilities.

If your wife gets up today and says she wants to go back to school and that would mean taking care of your child plus all financial responsibilities would be on you, would you be happy with that?

Her rudeness to you or anyone else for that matter is inexcusable. Once she starts just ignore her, its like a child throwing a tantrum when you ignore her she'll realize how stupid she looks.

if the problem is that you cant afford the dentist then try these home remedies, i promise you they work .

1. Brush with baking soda regularly twice a day , in a week or so you'll start to notice the difference.

2. Put Hydrogen-peroxide on cotton wool and place over your teeth for 15 mins everyday , you'll start noticing the whitening almost immediately.

For both of them once you get your teeth as white as you want then reduce the number of times you do that because its basically removing the surface brown layer so you don't want to overdo it.

Abeg no educated person has any excuse for brown teeth in this century except you've exhausted all options .

biafranbaby:
see what backstabbing SW imposed on us

Backstabbing for what making our choice You guys throw words around without understanding the meaning. Most of the SW had been in opposition way before GEJ yet we still voted the same GEJ the first time while we didn't even vote our our Obasanjo. You can only backstab someone you have a deal with and we never made a deal with anyone

so who are the criminals everyone claims not to be criminals yet Nigerians are getting caught for different crimes all over the world everyday. Instead of getting hurt and making noise on twitter about getting called criminals how about we put that energy into changing our Image all over the world. Buhari simply said what majority of the world thinks of us

modelmike7:
This is inspiring, how many 30years old ladies can accomplish this?!

how many men here can complete it? we saw many of the men that had collapsed . Welldone to Mama, staying fit is one of the secrets to good health in old age

dancok:
Sometimes sometimes, I don't actually believe this kids, u know kids and how they lie,

You mean a 15year old would lie that a stranger raped her, not that she was caught with a boy o, she went to tell her parents that a marwa driver raped her. abeg what would she stand to gain from such A 15year old that knows the type of stigma that this crazy society attaches to rape victims ? that knows someone people like you won't believe her and some will blame her Abeg that makes no sense

jstriker442:
since you cannot change a man's thoughts, why nt change wat he sees ?? Thats wat d guy meant
The rapist is nt justified, but ts easier to change my position than change that of another. There has to be a way my friend.

As someone has said if women in hijab still get raped then what do you suggest women wear since you think the solution is dressing. Also for those raping 6months old baby, abeg what should we wear for babies Also there is absolutely nothing to sugest that this poor girl was dressed "indecently" and yet that didn't protect her.

You guys should stop saying rubbish about dressing, our ancestors walked around naked yet the men had self control. It's about the sick minds of rapists and not the victims, most rapists don't target girls based on dressing but they just look for weak victims hence children. Go to countries with strict dressing rules and you still have so many cases of rape. It's about teaching our sons respect for women and self control

Not more than 2 not sure of names yef

maradonat:
Vehicle na Iron ooooooo!!!!
Na human being they drive this Iron, hence human being get total control over this iron.
If Accident happen, na we "Humans" cause ammmmm!
God go save us all.

Some things cars like all machines malfunction. That's the whole purpose of an investigation to discover the real cause of the accident. When do Nigerians like stripping people? Perverts! Those who take part in hung justice are no better than those they are accusing

holyfather:
this can't work for virgins

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It's like a tampon, even virgins can use tampons and yes you can urinate with it just like when you have a tampon on

girlloom:
To God be the glory! With faith, I said I was going to come back here and testify. I conceived naturally by Gods grace and had my baby boy on the 31st of December 2015. I am thankful to God Almighty, he alone is worthy of my praise. Despite all the reports from doctors, Gods report was final. God is real, he answers prayers and is still in the business of performing miracles.

WOW i'am so happy for you. God is indeed awesome and he will continue to bless you and watch over your baby. God that has given you this child will give you as many as you desire. Amen

You see why many women find it hard to suffer with a man these days the minute most men make money they go for an upgrade, the same type of girls that would never have given them a 2nd look when they were struggling. Later they will be asking why there are many gold diggers yet you guys keep rewarding gold diggers over the suffer with her man kind of girl