₦airaland Forum

Johntemmy:
As stated on the topic.. Can you do it?

StubbornGENIUS:
I got a feeling that all this videos of almajiris are being set-up,possibly to defame the northern region.Or are the northerners so daft and dumb that they think they can cross the border without getting caught?

Amotolongbo:
Our livescore came so early tonight

Why can’t NCDC release the numbers of samples collected and tests done?
These will allow us to compare the daily activities and monitor our curves. I think this is the essence of the numbers being released daily. Not just releasing numbers like a “Baba Ijebu” kinda lotto or bet9ja virtual games.

The daily results are meant for decision making on the way forward and the knowledge of the efficiency of our system being handled by the NCDC.

travelland:
Mr cautioner, hope you don't continue this way, if your wife can't tell you to go out and hustle I wonder who can encourage you in this life

Bola146:
O ga o, let her know your worth, and always stand on how you manage your expenses. She is physically okay, let her go and work harder so that she can lavish it anyhow . I don't know why some women no get sense

Not just some. A lot of women of this generation from the age of 14-40yrs lack basic parental home training. Broken marriages yakpata. My wife wan carry exactly this kind leg a year ago in our marriage. You know what I did? I transferred all my money from all 3 accounts to that of my company account and told her we are broke. We ate from the gutter, 4 good months to an extent 2 months she nor do hair and she learnt her lesson, today she nor dare ask me money for irrelevant things. I told her after u are done with your NYSC and working, you can lavish your own money.

meetme01:
You don F-up. Raising your hands on any woman talkless your wife has degraded you. That's the bitter truth.

Back to the main issue. Your wife needs your unreserved apology. You need remorseful which is through your attitude. Let her know you are deeply sorry.

To her, is she not working? Why have you refused to set her up in a biz? One problem I have realized in today's marriage is, finance. It's really creating a lot of issues in most marriage. As a man, if you earn from three sources, declare only two. Let her know how the money is spent to the last kobo. That was the initial problem, you need to fix that part asap

gunners160:
1. don't take it personal she said it out of anger and she was fustrated of which every woman in her shoes will feel dsame

2. She needs love and not nagging. Things are not getting well his your duty to give her the assurance she needs that things will change for the best

3. leave that area so that she won't and you also won't be envious of the guy's success so as to enable u focus on making yourself better

4. See what she says as a challenge and become best in what you do ,if possible start a business. You too can become rich .....

5. Lastly dont listen to those small kids who tells u to end ur marriage or d marriage is over. It is just starting u can make it rossy again

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Anni3e:
Hi, I have been married for 9 years now, the problem I have with my husband is that his family members keep sucking him dry and the way he neglects us his immediate family.

He is the first child of 7 children, his siblings even the married ladies keep asking him for money. He keeps spending money on them and their husbands. His brothers keep crying they are broke, they keep leeching off him.

His two junior brothers that always ask him for money, one of them built a house in Port Harcourt and the other one built a big house in the village. Still they won't let him rest.

His married sisters are the worst. If they cough they would call him to send money, every minor thing they would expect money. Just this evening his sister called him to ask for money. We don't have a house of our own, I keep telling my husband to stop giving in to all their demands and invest the money on something, he would say I am turning him against his family.

We have 2 kids and I have told him we need to start saving for their future, I pay the electricity bill, foodstuffs, and most times the children school fees, he pays the house rent and rarely keeps money for home upkeep, he sometimes drops two thousand and that's it for the whole week. He always complains he has no more, but once his family calls him he sends money immediately.

I have saved enough to buy a land and I am not planning to include his name in the property. I don't know what to deal with, his family entitlement mentality or the way he neglects the kids and I and treat us like outsiders.

I am really pissed off and tired.

Sorry for the long post.

deleskizy:
That is a red neck cobra. It is capable of spitting at it victim when threatened. The guy just dine with the devil. Lucky you

daresma77:
You get mind ooo

Omnivalent:
I Killed this stuff last night

soulpeppersoup:
COVID 19 is not in Africa. Your disbelief doesn't change that.

The World knows Africa doesn't have the capacity to handle it both intellectually and financially. But to keep them in tone, we were sold fear.

I don't want to burn up your empty brain with analysis.

dotuna3:
You mean the GS350 is even worse?. Please share you experience here

LordTerix:
Bros, GS350 na solid moto. However, of you get yarn for im mata, table am. My ears dey ground

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

goodman41:
I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.

One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.

I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.

When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.

After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.

After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.

I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.

Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.

Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?

helinues:
It is just another way of diverting funds jare...

No be same government that were unable to distribute PVC for 3 years now claiming they give cash to 2 million people within 3 days

LordTerix:
In my experience, the model is plaqued with a nasty and unreliable dash that melts at will

No one wants this; it should be something you should take time to also research properly if you're inclined to this model and will be parking outside of a garage for the most time.

Why don't you consider the GS350? RWD, better interior (in my estimation) and way more power

U wan send that man to early grave before his time

SpaceAngel:
If it's Camry 2014 XLE V6, then go for it. It's more recent, wear and tear will be relatively lower. 12 versus 6 year cars.

Tissaia:
My Dad have Guns my elder brother too

And you have one two in between your legs

martineverest:
u nailer it.... ironically,same Christians will call northern Muslims ignorants.. Nigerian Christians are worse.

of the pandemic ravage Nigeria the way it's doing to other countries,these pastors will be the first to hide their families from their worshippers

martineverest:
most of them are empty headed

soulpeppersoup:
What the man said is true. No COVID 19 in Nigeria. The west and Asia systematically curved Nigeria out of their mess to avoid world big mess.

cyndy1000:
We don't know what to believe again.
But come to think of it Lagos State is more like the epic center for me the money given to them is for them to fight the virus. Other States that are aggrieved because no money was given to them whereas they don't have a case doesn't that make sense?

MyOpinion1:
I just read and laugh at some people who thinks the govt is doing us favor by easing lockdown...
They should tell me of what relevance is the lockdown in the first instance when we don't even have up to a hundred cases...
Instead of them to shut the country down for two months and trace all affected people, they ease lockdown coz they can't afford to feed the citizens.....
I weep for this country and the children yet unborn

Confused govt, you discharge 2 today and confirmed 5 tomorrow, how are you sure the two discharge will not miss wt people again and be contacted?

MyOpinion1:
And they want to ease lockdown

The fact is, the govt is broke and want people out to do the hustling for them
It's a pity we don't have reserve to feed the country for just two months after all the excesses they got from selling fuel for 40 years...