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Is there any so called celebrity in Nigeria that can make anyone star struck?

Please they should treat the survivors well ....check for internal bleeding. It is well.

tollyboy5:
Hypocrites, as your home training brought you to lime light ?

wasted generation.

You have no shame, trying to defend this act of waywardness. I would have asked if you had parents, but that will be pointless...... Parents of these days, support all forms of immorality.

She wants to be a Kim Kardashian. There was no blackmailer.
Besides, she looked so ugly in the said tape.

Little by little, people want to make abnormal things normal. A transgender is a surgically transformed person..... Male to female.... vice versa.

Intersex....... Well you didn't create yourself.

The first question will be, is the man dancing unto the lord, or is he dancing to entertain the congregation?
Is God's presence there? I just feel there is a difference between praising God in truth and Praising and dancing for entertainment. God cannot be mocked.
I stand to be corrected.

Sokoloan had about eight different apps. Just one company has over 10 apps for credit facility.

Why do we support and encourage nonsense? The world is in trouble.

The comments didn't disappoint.

OverCalculating:
Hi Everyone,

I took a loan from a Microfinance bank sometime in 2019. The loan was N600,000 and I was asked to pay back on a monthly basis for 8 months. I had actually requested for 1.2million naira loan to get an important tool/machine to enhance my business but I was only offered 600k. With 600k I could not afford to get the tool, so I diverted the money to another business. After repaying a portion of the loan for few months, the business failed and I could not afford to payback afterwards. The business was meat distribution to households and offices. It failed because of inadequate structure that gave way for customers to receive products but not pay back. Debt killed the business. I have been struggling to survive since then.

At a point, I called the company early this year, when I got a new job that I know the months of my repayment have elapsed but I am ready to start paying a percentage of my new salary, but they insisted I should pay in full since my repayment is overdue.

Recently, I have been getting several threats from the company asking me to make full payment or else the case will be reported to the police and I would be jailed for absconding with the company's money. I know I am indebted to them but I can't afford to refund all the loan now since I am only managing to live with a job that I am doing now which I earn 40k salary. My concern now is that I need clarifications from the legal practitioners, IT experts and public prosecutors in the house on the following:

1. Is this case truly a criminal case as they constantly remind me or is it a civil case?

2. Can the Police actually track my location to arrest me as they threaten? Please note that I use a small Nokia phone and I am in a remote area outside Lagos.

3.What is the worse thing that can happen; so I can get ready for it because I am not financially buoyant now to cough out 600k now.

Thank you all.

it becomes a criminal case if you become unavailable. Again, it depends on the terms of agreement, they can sell off your properties to recover their money. The worst thing that can happen is..... You are charged to court and the judge will ask the company to take a percentage of your salary untill the money is fully paid. But if you default at any time, you will be held in contempt and jailed.

mikmash:
The say in the council of multitude is wisdom.

I'm keeping it brief, I might pick your advice which can make or Mar me. I work with an establishment. Honestly these days the work ethic is making me depressed.
Come with me,
I pay for my marketing transportation, data and for calls. With a salary only shy above the minimum wage.
Regardless, pressure is mounting up that I'm not giving results. Let's be frank here, marketing operations differs diversely in this country. What works in kaduna, might not work in Lagos.
My peace of mind, is paramount. If you ask me whether I enjoy the working environment I did say no. But that's all a man got for now. Bearing up with the minimum.

These days I can't sleep. I feel like resigning but I'm scared of been tagged a failure. Your advice is needed Nairalanders. Help push to the front page

No job is worth risking your mental stability over. Look for a new job, if you can.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

You are suffering from vindictiveness, bitterness and inferiority complex. It will only lead you to a path of destruction. You better change this reckless mindset of yours, if not the consequences of your actions will be damning.

Leaforever:
There was never a marriage. He is still legally married to his 3rd wife. They were basically live-in lovers, like the one dts currently living wt him now.
If she was a legal wife, this Court case might have gone better for her cos it would be a divorce/custody case.

there was a traditional wedding.

You knew he had a questionable character, yet you went ahead with the marriage, because of what you will get. Take what you get.

Bayonet40:
I am currently suffering from pile and it's very painful, as it is now am having constipation, and when ever I try to use the toilet, the pile do come out so I have to push it back in again. But the pain is what I can no longer endure. Please help me. What should I do, what drugs should I get to at least reduce the pains. I can't stand or even sit for 30 minutes. Please help

green tea

prosperioh:
A colleague wants to use my phone to borrow loan from one of these loan apps( fairmoney) because he doesn't have a smart phone. He will download the app, register with his details, collect the loan, then i can delete the app. Please is there any harm in that? Make i no go enter trouble say i one help person.
Modified
Before making this post, the person started the process but could not complete it due to paystack error,he went to bank to sort that out yesterday and has called me to pls come today, this is when i started having double mind. Can i just delete the app (I already granted those permission they requested).

don't try it. It is your contacts they will have access to.

Why didn't you think of that before doing the do?
Just don't force her to abort that child. Take responsibility for your actions, which is........Work hard, and take care of the mother and child. Crying won't change a thing.

thebosstrevor1:
All the actresses don't beg for donations, it is the male actors that seek for donations when sick.

Like is there no equal pay in Nollywood

How come is the male that ends up begging after decades of acting

they don't have Vagina.

UndauntedYOCA:
Shakira and Gerard Piqué have been married for about 10 years now, Shakira is Older than Piqué and there's been no bad news about them(none that I know of).
Macron is way younger than his wife and younger than her children.
I think what you should be more concerned about is respect, do you both respect eachother regardless of the age difference? Even if you're older and neither of you respects the other, it might not work unless you both enjoy violence.
Personally, respect and other stuff are what I consider and not the age (especially if the age gap isn't much).
Anyway, no be Piqué, Macron and other people go decide for you.
What do you both want? How do you treat eachother?

they are not married.
They have been together since 2011, but not married.

Dem use goat do Salah......
For further enquiries pls call
05oldTrafford.

It's a spirit called ogbanje. Women are more twisted in thoughts and behaviour than men. Most girls enjoy the thrill of being with a beast,(bad guy), until it's too late. A girl once told me she likes her boyfriend to beat her up, and act like he is raping her. Loads of crazy shit out there.

Ps; it's not just Nigerian girls.

CableWire:
Don't even go there...

Who's raising all these girls bikonu?
No value whatsoever to themselves.
See **x tapes littered all over the place, girls meddling into peoples' marriages and you get to see majority of their likes appraising their ill-deeds, rape and all.

You said, 'you are already planning for your divorce even when you are yet to get married in 3 weeks'. Chaiiiiii, wake up from your slumber.

Case study:
I'm currently in the east..why?

I have a cousin sister with half-brain like this poster probably, a year ago she was thinking and analyzing her marriage like this when people that gathered to enjoy with her on her wedding day were busy taking pictures, smiling, socializing , eating, laughing and drinking.

Just 2-weeks ago, the said husband picked a knife and stabbed her multiple times and later cut her open before calling their neighbors to inform her brothers so as to take her to the hospital, that she had accident.

The brothers rushed to their house and met her dead in the pool of her blood.

Currently, she's in the mortuary and the man in the correctional unit with no slight of remorse.

The point here:
The dead is dead!

So poster...keep tossing around your crude ego now but hope you will divorce him alive with all these you stated in this CV of his?

Parents please, let's do better in raising our children.
Teach them to know their worth, value and self-realization.

Enough of all these nonsense...thinking it's been woke and fly.

sorry about your cousin. So sad.
The op is just being foolish.

Pls don't be foolish. You don't want the shame of calling of your wedding, but you can risk your life? If you were my sister, I would have beaten you black and blue, before taking you for brain reset. You are either lying or you are just plain foolish.

Continue.........

Some teachers are just wicked. They take out their frustration and miserable lives out on students. I remember when I was in school, we just had breakfast, a particular sadistic teacher told us to run from the dinner hall area to the school area, which was quite a distance, I told him I couldn't do it. He then flogged me, on my nails. I was bleeding. I had to send the gateman to my house to call my parents, back then there was no mobile phone.
My dad came to school the next day, as soon as he saw my nails, he went ballistic. I pointed out the teacher, my dad grabbed him and beat the hell out of him, before locking him up for two weeks. Since then I became a small god in school. Even when my dad wanted to change my school, I refused. I stayed in school, and all other teachers kept their distance.
Recently, my kid told me that his teacher always complained that the snacks he comes to school with, is too much. I didn't even bother arguing, I gently withdrew my angel from the school.
Let parents be very careful, most of these teachers are really mental/retarded.

I wish this man will get better legal representation. This line of defence is weak, desperate and atrocious.

Everyone deserves a fair hearing no matter your tribe, religion or political affiliation.

Don't destroy your marriage over flimsy things like this. Swearing with the Bible doesn't prove shit.
I have seen lots of people swear with the Bible, and even with their children, and yet they were lying. If you haven't seen traces, or reasons to believe she's cheating, why don't you let it go?
As for the random girls sending you messages, that's just you leading yourself into temptation.
Mr man, take your wife out to a lovely restaurant for dinner, and when you get back, make love to her like you have never done before. Don't let anything or anyone destroy your marriage.

She's trying so hard to look unperturbed.
People whose lives are in shambles, only find solace on social media, with their public display of stupidity.
If the internet gets shut down, even for a day, many people will commit suicide. Not just in Nigeria.
You only find true happiness from within, public validation will only ruin you.

lawkenoz:
Where do you stay if I may ask? Rather than believe what you read on the media hook line and sinker why not ask people who really live in the south east about what's the true situation of things on ground.

I have family there and I can categorically tell you from what I've been told IPOB has no business with killing citizens. Their report is that the IPOB guys stay mostly in bushes and only come out when the police and security forces start to harass people like in Orly for instance.

I had a friend in mbaise tell me during the Monday lockdowns that there a few hoodlums and areas boys who use the sit at home excuse to forment trouble and beat people up. They actually have no link with IPOB just riffraffs trying to forment trouble.

In Owerri particular my father in-law said they avoid going out not because of IPOB but because of the Nigerian security men, people have fallen victim to thier excessive display of force and many died, they told me gory stories on innocents harrassed and tagged IPOB members just for extortion.

Rather than read the news and draw conclusions, talk to people who live in the region and find out how far! According to them IPOB has never killed any "innocent citizen" a lot of them have t even come across or seen any IPOB member. The attacks on police has been a long time coming cuz of Thier excesses.

who gave the sit at home order from the beginning? Sometimes we make decisions that comes back to haunt us. Decisions that weren't thought out. Ipob first gave the sit at home order, they later claimed to have cancelled it. Malicious elements have taken advantage of this to unleash terror on innocent people.
It brings me back to my earlier statement......... Don't make decisions, without a solid plan. Is this how Biafrans will be governed?

stinechykee:
How is that your concern who will rule Biafra.I thought you people said Biafra is an online country

Don't be too hasty. If you must argue, argue intelligently. It's not all Igbos that are in support of this immature agitation, and the reason is, Igbos can't be ruled by clueless, authoritarians. What are the laid out plans, if Biafra is achieved? Fighting without vision....... Grounding business activities, forcing people to stay home, killing people who disobey. That's not the way.

My question is...... If Nigeria gets divided, is it the likes of Nnamdi Kanu and ipob that will rule Biafra?