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Souless0:
Said I was free to watch and nothing will happen. When i eventually watched, she said it was just a test and i passed. How come all that time I didnt watch it, I didn't get depressed? You need to be in my shoes to understand what am talking about. Even right now, I find it hard to believe that a voice talked to me and each time I refused to do what that voice says, I get depressed. Like...if someone had told me that shiit like this was possible before now, I wouldn't believe. However, here I am. I have encountered all and I just told you my story

I am sorry to hear that you have been through all this. Cut your self off from that women and see a doctor as I recommended. I too have heard a voice that I thought was god's but now I don't have any. From my experience, if you never really went deep in porn, you will find that your depression disappears faster when you quit but slower if you have been in the habit for a long time. I have been in your shoes but unlike you, I heard the voice only once.

Souless0:
Too much porn? Need I tell you that before I met this lady, I never watched porn for close to 2 months. Not only did I not watch porn, I tried to prevent my mind from thinking anything sexual. She practically led me back to it and before that, I have been severely depressed severally for simply dissobeying the voice. It seems like when I say I watch porn, some people think I watched it 24hrs a day

I never said you watched it too much okay and when I say too much, I don't mean 24/7, it could be two hours a day for months. Depression from porn addiction can last for many months to two years (depending on how severely you were addicted) even after you stop. Wait, you mean she led back to porn? How? .

Souless0:
Sir, you have to admit here that you may be clueless about my situation. My depression in particular is not a medical condition.

Stop this nonsense, too much porn causes depression and anxiety, check my topic on that. Hearing voices is a serious issue that can be deadly for someone as delusional as yourself, imagine if that voice had convince you to jump of third main land bridge, you would have done it in faith. Ignore voices, you don't need them. Stay away from porn and see a doctor for the depression and voice issue. Lastly cut off that woman off from your life and have a firm grasp of reality.

THOUGH NOT AS SEVERE AS YOUR CASE, I was once in your shoes but mine was a man. Cut the woman off and she won't bother you again

snowblaq:
Oya go and force God to show her the vision na
Seek and Yea shall find.......if you don't seek or ask.. ...it won't be given to you.
She dated someone for 2 years and neither her nor her family checked well before the marriage and you are blaming God.

How do you know that she didn't seek? How do you know that her family didn't seek?

Audray:
This is great. It's just Nigerians know how to bash.We go look finish ,then bash your effort to hell. Dude if you can advertise this to an international audience you will totally "blow". Oyibos have a thing for unusual/bohemian furniture. Try as much as possible to get whitties to see your work.No joke.

SMH. The guy is creative but the standard wooden furnitures are more beautiful and comfortable.

Certainly creative but I still prefer traditional/neo traditional furnitures.

The god of the bible is supposedly the god of miracles, signs and wonders but in reality he is simply and laughably the god of natural processes. I type this because the things or miracles credited to yahweh in churches today are things that could have happened anyway with or without believing and/or praying to yahweh. This is because we are all subject to the laws of nature and cause and effect regardless of what we believe. Nature will always take it's course regardless of what you believe in.
In testimonies and sermons, natural processes are being bastardised to look like yahweh's miracles and principles and to promote yahweh. When a christian gets a job in Nigeria, they give testimony on how yahweh helped them get the job after their pastors ministration or their own prayer and fasting. They never considered that atheist and other non-christians too get jobs(and even better jobs) like them. They also never consider that some atheists and other non-christians who eventually got employed also endured lengthy periods of unemployment like them and some are still unemployed. To themselves, they are special and their employment is yahweh's doing despite the fact that they were trained just like everyone who got employed; submitted their CV just like everyone who got employed; and, mostly, went for interviews like everyone who got employed.

"But you can't sit down and expect yahweh to help you get a job. You must go out and submit your CV to different companies and with prayer and fasting yahweh would help you for faith without works is dead and heaven helps those who help themselves." The red statement is simply a natural and sensible thing to do. It is the usual way with or without you believing in god to increase your chances of securing a job. Atheists and other non-christians get jobs through this process without fasting and praying to yahweh. So what does faith, prayer, fasting and your belief in yahweh do exactly? If you say it eases, ensures and quickens employment process, then I can show you christians who have fasted and prayed for years but no job and I can show you atheists and non-christians that got jobs(even better jobs) easily and faster than the christians giving testimonies for employment. We need to differentiate natural processes and course from what is divine and supernatural. How does yahweh help in the employment process? Not in anyway, so stop giving yahweh thanks for something natural that he has no hands in.

Another bastardised natural processes are breathing, waking up from sleep and surviving the day. You hear christians say in testimonies "I thank yahweh for the air I breath, for waking up and surviving the previous day." Don't atheists and other non-christians breath, wake up and see the new day? Even non-human animals breath, wake up and survive the day. So what's special? Is it natural or divine? If you say it's yahweh's doing then I would say yahweh is a monster because he is responsible for the breath, waking up and daily survival of serial killers, rapists, paedophilic and abusive catholic priests and nuns, corrupt politicians, slave owners in Libya and Dubai, dangerously dubious faith healers and prosperity preachers, dangerously dubious psychics, ritual killers, organ transplant kidnappers, tobacco company chairmen, drug Lords etc. Truth is breathing, waking up and surviving the day are all natural processes. The laws of nature and cause and effect doesn't distinguish between a christian and non-christian. That's why christian and non-christian soldiers die in battle as the projection path and density of a lead bullet remains unchanged regardless of your belief.


... to be continued

HopefulLandlord, HardMirror, hahn, Johnydon22, 1Sharon, Tozara, Ladyhippolyta88, 0temSapien, segunojo886, Seun, Adepeter2027, dalaman aka dalam0n, and other christians and atheists.

Be patient. DNA test should settle everything.

Teegelop:
Definitely that god must have led her astray because I trust the living God

lol. God doesn't exist. Building your reality on make believes is like trying to cross a bridge made of nylon. You will crash and ask why. That's what is happening to the lady.

Teegelop:
And did you know maybe she didn't invite God into the relationship?

Besides, god you said and not God

AND did you know maybe she invited god into the relationship?

9jaAtheistdate:
I have a girl like this on my list of people I want to match make. Are you in Lagos? 30+ and want to meet her? Send me a mail

No. I am not even up to 24 and ready to start a relationship.

He wasn't barred, he didn't write post utme. Had he written post utme, the senate would have specially permitted him to write.

NONSENSE.

Attention seeker.

HardMirror:
This most be the most silly comment i have read in a long time. Why? The writer tries to sound intelligent but ends up making no sense.
The contention between atheists and theists has been the god at the center of all religions. You dont see atheist takling cults even though religion and cults have similar structures. You think you are excluded and special by claiming to be a godly man which puts you in a very precarious position.

Now lets talk.

What does it mean to be godly? What makes a godly man be a man on the right track?

All he needs is a good dictionary.

gentlezypher:
until it is proven beyond all doubt that there is no God, A GOD exists!!

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Earthquake1:
You have low IQ

No I don't.

ruggedtimi:
guy abeg read the topic again

Thanks for the correction. My bad.

@op
I will go with a good attitude.

Op are you alright? So when you get a girl friend, who is probably broke and not earning much, you will date her, marry her and give birth to children while you are still broke? Assume you are still broke and your spouse earning little, How will the bills be paid? How will you pay hospital bills to cover up delivery and anti-natal? How will the child's school fees, feeding, medical expenses and clothing be paid for? Do you want to start begging? Do you think child rearing and upbringing ends at a child's naming ceremony?

Go and hustle and try to establish yourself financially. That's more important than chase girls. Get your priorities right. Any broke person who is serious keeps relationship out of their mind and focus on hustling.

ThatIjawBoy:
I don't blame her thou she's afraid of being scam

Before the annoying snowflakes start saying that she is racists, I must say that the woman is smart not to take chances.

That's winning eleven 2007 or pes 2007.

I prefer the 2005/2006 and 2006/2007 football on FIFA game series especially the fifa 06. Good old times.

1) A kind heart.
2) Good looking.
3) Atheist or if religious she is to keep it to herself and not influence my children or bring pastors or prayer group to my house.
4) She must have an impressive IQ.
5) She knows how to manage money and she is not a reckless spender.
6) She listens and always ready to learn.

Race or continent?

yeyerolling:
I know many pple who grad from unilag at 18 and 19. Dey shud carry this fake news commot

True but the guy bleeped up by not writing post utme.Had he written post utme, I am sure the senate would have allowed him as there are exceptional cases. I know a guy who got into UNILAG at fifteen to study MBBS. His mum took him to the senate.

Had he written post utme, I am sure the senate would have allowed him as there are exceptional cases. I know a guy who got into UNILAG at fifteen to study MBBS. His mum took him to the senate.

Image123:
How convenient. You want to be some kind of god but you claim to hate and disbelieve the God concept.

SMH

soundforce:
Boy, try to learn at times. It's not a must to always type even when you are not clear about the topic. It easily betrays your level of ignorance. Fine brains on the thread answered you already.

SMH.

CAPSLOCKED:

THIS MAN SMOKES MORE THAN 50 CIGARS DAILY, BUT IT'LL BE MORATA'S MISSED CHANCES THAT WILL KILL HIM.

lol. That Morata needs to up his game.

Five years @ UNILAG

Lol. Look at him. If you preach to smokers that cigarette is addictive, they will deny.

hopefulLandlord:
Where was Yahweh throughout this fire outbreak?
I guess he was too busy working in mysterious ways

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100bands:

lol. You said weed is the healing of the nation. In what way?