₦airaland Forum

Gleefreak125:
Hey fa.ggot, quit masturbating on my moniker. If you got a problem with doctors why should you pour out your frustration on me? Go sort things out. I could have easily looked away but I got to answer you for the fool that you are. You have been hurling several insults at me since our previous encounter and I've been quiet, why come here to mention me still but I guess you're so pained cos I said what it really is. Quit masturbating before you suffer azoospermia. Foolish knucklehead.

Chidorx60:
guy dont you get the point,or are you just trying to
be witty,
No single house burns without affecting others,if it doesnt spread,
the poisonous CO gas emmitted from the flame will surely be inhaled by others.relate that to suicide.selah

Joshrob:
I have a friend in sch that defile his admission for two years when he was in 200l, just to wait for his girlfriend doing diploma to gain admission to regular program so that they will graduate together.. The funny thing is that they meet in sch..
The girl did not gain admission after 2 attempt, later gain admission in another sch and broke up with my guy.. He later droped out in 400l after his h.o.d advice that it's better for him to restart from 200l again or dropout bcus he was having bad result and hv accumulated more than 17 carryovers..
Some people can do anything for love

DanDeeBoss:
I actually don't pity stupid people

MannieA, You dey So??

Chidorx60:
How do you set a house ablaze without control and expect it to be secluded to only your domain,that's the point of my illustration,

Suicide will spread, because alot of people are going through alot and seeing the path taking by others they simply would follow.

And out of ten suicidal victims at least four of them might be breadwinners and dearones causing a greater problem for the society.

Btw destiny and fate exist

Chidorx60:
Suicide is a crime and the fact that its done to oneself doesn't make it less an offence to God and other men,

From the natural perspective,the fact that I choose to set my house ablaze doesn't mean it should be accepted by the society,just because its mine.

So also for suicide because it can affect the minds of others who might copy this remedy to deal with their life issues,leading to general havoc in the society,especially among youths.

From the Christian perspective,every person has a destiny to fufil and taking your own life is not fulfilling that destiny but putting Gods work to a standstill and his efforts to nought.

johnydon22:
Didn't really answer the question on whether suicide was moral. Just danced around and said people had rights but didn't at all touch the main point of the question.

you have been controversial lately with your take on suicide. I know how sensitive and serious this issue is. Though I am not saying people should kill themselves, I came with the argument that people have the right to kill themselves but it is wrong and selfish if they have children to take care of. If they don't have children to take care of, then it's their call. A lot asked me if it isn't selfish to kill yourself considering that you have parents, siblings and relatives who are attached to you and would be heartbroken. Well, I said that whether we consider it selfish or not, it doesn't really change the fact that people can do whatever they want with their life but is it selfish? Well, if you have kids to take care of and you commit suicide despite not being plague by a very miserable mental illness, then I would say that is selfish. You willingly brought people into this world and it's your responsibility to see that they are okay.

Besides, isn't wanting people to keep on living, regardless of what they want to do with their lives, just because you are happy to see them selfish in it's own way? Maybe.

Is suicide immoral and can we finally conclude that it is selfish? Well, I think people can do whatever they want with their lives and no one owes you their existence. It takes maturity to know that you won't have things always go the way you want and people's choices won't always be agreeable with you but they still reserve their rights to do what they want with their life and those rights should be respected.

What about the bond of love shared between the victim and loved ones, isn't it selfish and inhumane to disregard that and terminate it via suicide?
Well, it's rather unfortunate to lose a loved one but no matter the greatness and depth of the bond and attachment, the fact that people can do whatever they want with their lives and don't owe anyone their existence (except of course their young independent children) cannot be challenged. It's like saying that Femi Otedola is selfish and inhumane because he didn't pay the school fees of his brother's children. We know it would have been nice and kind for Otedola to lend a helping hand but it doesn't change the fact that Otedola doesn't owe his brother anything and he has done no wrong by refusing to help. Remember, no one asked to be born but if they asked to be born and they knew what they were getting into; there was an agreement between the parents and child to leave out his life till the end in exchange of being taken care of then suicide, in such case, is selfish but that never happens.

This is cold stuff.
The truth has no temperature.

Is suicide a cowardly act?
Well there is a reason why some soldiers run away from the battle field and that same reason is why suicide is not a cowardly act. The human body just like that other "higher" multicellular organism is wired to live and dread death. The conviction of impending death and grotesque trauma unfailingly forces the body to respond with immense dread and fright that compels the body to run away from such situations. The dread only stops once the dread is gone. No matter how many times one has attempted suicide or nearly died, the dread will always return if such situation presents itself again. In biology, it's called self-preservation. Of course, as higher animals with a very intelligent brain, our rationality and higher centres of the brain can override our impulses but it takes the brave to go through the process of suicide.

It's way much easier to drop the sniper insecticide and live another day than to drink it. It's way much easier to drop the gun than to blow your brain off. One who hasn't experienced being suicidal might say "no matter what, I can never kill myself. Suicide is for the weak" only for him/her to get a full grasp of the situation many years later through harsh life experiences. In fact many who said such in the past are currently under suicide watch; have committed suicide or are reaching out to specialist for help. It's indeed true that experience is the best teacher.

but suicide is against nature and only mentally ill people commit suicide. No right thinking person will? It's true that people with unbearable mental illness commit suicide to end their misery but perfectly sane people too can commit suicide. In fact they do. It is one of the natural responses to a situation the mind perceives as very very very miserable, shameful, hurtful etc. Personality, background and cultural norm may also play a role in suicide. Many years back, the news that a girl had lost her virginity could make her suicidal. The son of a poor man has no worry hawking bread on the street and they may even be happy at times but if Otedola's children suddenly find themselves in a pathetic financial situation tomorrow, they might be suicidal and eventually commit suicide if they are forced to hawk bread in the full glare of everyone. If such happens, the children of poor and unknown people who hawk bread might call them weak and soft but it takes experience to accurately see things from people's perspective. Perspective, people and background differ.

Is suicide a criminal offence? No. Your rights are not criminal offences. Suicide doesn't violate the rights of anyone or physically harm others so it cannot be a crime.

But it hurts the loved ones.
the hurt should be seen similarly to the hurt felt by muslim parents on hearing that their children have become atheists or the hurt that comes from social justice warriors when you say something that they don't like or say the wrong gender pronoun. In all cases, the hurt doesn't change the fact that people are free to do what they want with their lives and they don't owe you a damn.

bullies, trolls, insults, mockery or taunts, are they do be held responsible for suicides? Should people who do these things be held accountable when their victim commits suicide?
Well, it not nice to do these things and they do increase the likelihood of suicidal thoughts. However, with the exception of physical bullying, people have the right to troll, insult, mock and taunt you. One must learn that classmates, strangers online and offline, neighbours do not owe one anything not even nice words and nice treatments and you don't owe them that too. One must realise that people's bad remark don't define them or has the power to stop them from achieving what they want to achieve in life. Parents must teach their children these things as early as possible so they can stand in the real world. Adults who haven't learnt this must learn it as well.

Regardless of what people say, you are responsible for your actions. Learn to tell toxic people "fvck off" and stop seeking people's validation like a cocaine addict seeks cocaine. People are going to say what they want to say but you can do what you want to do.

what is your advice towards suicidal people as usual, the first step is to seek help from a professional. Go to a professional first if you can do that on your own before opening up to others. If you can't see a professional, open up to someone that knows a professional. I am against telling people your problem because to many, the tales of your problems are just satisfactions to their itchy ears and the basis of their next gossip. The flying spaghetti monster help you if who you tell your problems to is a hungry Nigerian blogger.

lastly what do you think causes suicide? many things. Do your research. You mouth odour is becoming unbearable please end this interview.

that was how a serious fight took place at TVC's news room

opparadise:
Let me explain life to you, OP:
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1. Explain to me how suicide became so romantic that you placed it in a Romance Section. Is this not a suicidal paused brain?
2. Now, you have started contemplating to die, I will make it quick. I run a company which kills solely people who want to die. You sign a contract and choose your death type from a thousand, and guess what, it is cheap! Just N30k.
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Well, let me score your future suicide: 60/100 (that is if I am the assassin)
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Remark: For mature minds only.

dingbang:
well, suicide isnt an option.

ShinqRambq:
A person who commits suicide should not be buried but dumped in the evil-forest For that was the ways of our fathers,we should stop placating Broken heads,Who want to kill himself should do it.

you have been controversial lately with your take on suicide. I know how sensitive and serious this issue is. Though I am not saying people should kill themselves, I came with the argument that people have the right to kill themselves but it is wrong and selfish if they have children to take care of. If they don't have children to take care of, then it's their call. A lot asked me if it isn't selfish to kill yourself considering that you have parents, siblings and relatives who are attached to you and would be heartbroken. Well, I said that whether we consider it selfish or not, it doesn't really change the fact that people can do whatever they want with their life but is it selfish? Well, if you have kids to take care of and you commit suicide despite not being plague by a very miserable mental illness, then I would say that is selfish. You willingly brought people into this world and it's your responsibility to see that they are okay.

Besides, isn't wanting people to keep on living, regardless of what they want to do with their lives, just because you are happy to see them selfish in it's own way? Maybe.

Is suicide immoral and can we finally conclude that it is selfish? Well, I think people can do whatever they want with their lives and no one owes you their existence. It takes maturity to know that you won't have things always go the way you want and people's choices won't always be agreeable with you but they still reserve their rights to do what they want with their life and those rights should be respected.

What about the bond of love shared between the victim and loved ones, isn't it selfish and inhumane to disregard that and terminate it via suicide?
Well, it's rather unfortunate to lose a loved one but no matter the greatness and depth of the bond and attachment, the fact that people can do whatever they want with their lives and don't owe anyone their existence (except of course their young independent children) cannot be challenged. It's like saying that Femi Otedola is selfish and inhumane because he didn't pay the school fees of his brother's children. We know it would have been nice and kind for Otedola to lend a helping hand but it doesn't change the fact that Otedola doesn't owe his brother anything and he has done no wrong by refusing to help. Remember, no one asked to be born but if they asked to be born and they knew what they were getting into; there was an agreement between the parents and child to leave out his life till the end in exchange of being taken care of then suicide, in such case, is selfish but that never happens.

This is cold stuff.
The truth has no temperature.

Is suicide a cowardly act?
Well there is a reason why some soldiers run away from the battle field and that same reason is why suicide is not a cowardly act. The human body just like that other "higher" multicellular organism is wired to live and dread death. The conviction of impending death and grotesque trauma unfailingly forces the body to respond with immense dread and fright that compels the body to run away from such situations. The dread only stops once the dread is gone. No matter how many times one has attempted suicide or nearly died, the dread will always return if such situation presents itself again. In biology, it's called self-preservation. Of course, as higher animals with a very intelligent brain, our rationality and higher centres of the brain can override our impulses but it takes the brave to go through the process of suicide.

It's way much easier to drop the sniper insecticide and live another day than to drink it. It's way much easier to drop the gun than to blow your brain off. One who hasn't experienced being suicidal might say "no matter what, I can never kill myself. Suicide is for the weak" only for him/her to get a full grasp of the situation many years later through harsh life experiences. In fact many who said such in the past are currently under suicide watch; have committed suicide or are reaching out to specialist for help. It's indeed true that experience is the best teacher.

but suicide is against nature and only mentally ill people commit suicide. No right thinking person will? It's true that people with unbearable mental illness commit suicide to end their misery but perfectly sane people too can commit suicide. In fact they do. It is one of the natural responses to a situation the mind perceives as very very very miserable, shameful, hurtful etc. Personality, background and cultural norm may also play a role in suicide. Many years back, the news that a girl had lost her virginity could make her suicidal. The son of a poor man has no worry hawking bread on the street and they may even be happy at times but if Otedola's children suddenly find themselves in a pathetic financial situation tomorrow, they might be suicidal and eventually commit suicide if they are forced to hawk bread in the full glare of everyone. If such happens, the children of poor and unknown people who hawk bread might call them weak and soft but it takes experience to accurately see things from people's perspective. Perspective, people and background differ.

Is suicide a criminal offence? No. Your rights are not criminal offences. Suicide doesn't violate the rights of anyone or physically harm others so it cannot be a crime.

But it hurts the loved ones.
the hurt should be seen similarly to the hurt felt by muslim parents on hearing that their children have become atheists or the hurt that comes from social justice warriors when you say something that they don't like or say the wrong gender pronoun. In all cases, the hurt doesn't change the fact that people are free to do what they want with their lives and they don't owe you a damn.

bullies, trolls, insults, mockery or taunts, are they do be held responsible for suicides? Should people who do these things be held accountable when their victim commits suicide?
Well, it not nice to do these things and they do increase the likelihood of suicidal thoughts. However, with the exception of physical bullying, people have the right to troll, insult, mock and taunt you. One must learn that classmates, strangers online and offline, neighbours do not owe one anything not even nice words and nice treatments and you don't owe them that too. One must realise that people's bad remark don't define them or has the power to stop them from achieving what they want to achieve in life. Parents must teach their children these things as early as possible so they can stand in the real world. Adults who haven't learnt this must learn it as well.

Regardless of what people say, you are responsible for your actions. Learn to tell toxic people "fvck off" and stop seeking people's validation like a cocaine addict seeks cocaine. People are going to say what they want to say but you can do what you want to do.

what is your advice towards suicidal people as usual, the first step is to seek help from a professional. Go to a professional first if you can do that on your own before opening up to others. If you can't see a professional, open up to someone that knows a professional. I am against telling people your problem because to many, the tales of your problems are just satisfactions to their itchy ears and the basis of their next gossip. The flying spaghetti monster help you if who you tell your problems to is a hungry Nigerian blogger.

lastly what do you think causes suicide? many things. Do your research. You mouth odour is becoming unbearable please end this interview.

that was how a serious fight took place at TVC's news room

CAPSLOCKED:
CAN YOU REMEMBER MY POST?
THEY CAME FOR ME WITH ALL MANNER OF WRONG WORDS BUT I WASN'T MOVED. THE TERRIBLE THINGS MANY DOCTORS (MALES PARTICULARLY) HAVE DONE TO PATIENTS, IS UNIMAGINABLE.

Dannyset:
Fake prophecy things na. Guy hear baba prophecy con go bet on top.

faithfull18:
Are these people that naive? Who told them rapists go for only good looking people

hulk616:
ooo now people are using my predictions. When I said it before, nobody believed me

Captain marvel and Ronaldo proving people wrong

iluvMAMAV:
he wrote things greater dan dat

Havent u listened to tunde lighthouse songs ?

mozele:
erm... Observation!

Amos Tutuola's grammar in The Palmwine Drinkard na die o...

I'm always glued to the piece anytime any day. You go just dey on your own by yourself be imagining dancing trees etc.

Some times I wonder if the man ever went beyond standard six but yet the creativity no dey lack.

MJBOLT:
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twf1:
I see a lady head down in Solari's car. Hope no be wetin I dey think o

OpenYourEyes1:
Demons can make you have headache, the headache can easily be treated with paracetamol but the demons still remain.