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doctokwus:
"Cannot afford the treatment financially".
What kind of rubbish grammar is that that ended up further adding tragedy to an already tragic situation.
These bloggers are just annoying by the day.
Hope he finds financial succour again.

coolestchris:
this scandal shall still pass away, who still remembers when small doctor revealed his useless pen.is in the social media then

asalimpo:
I've thought long and hard about why ppl would seriously contemplate taking their lives. The conclusion i arrived at are that, 1) life is meant to be enjoyed. People can endure certain amounts of stress but wen the joy is all gone and life becomes just a mere existence, ppl begin thinking - what's d use? Why keep up with this dead lifeless existence? Living just to living?
So people commit suicide to escape Hell on earth .
Think of people who've off'ed themselves. 99% were were under great strain.
2) people live with a picture of the future in their minds. When the movie is playing only bleak forecasts, the desire to live ends. They're numerous examples that can b given here. E.g a man incarcerated. He was in jail till 65! He was released to d world at that age. What future is there for him? Will he get married,strt a career, build a house, see his kids at that age? He can be positive but for most ppl, the movie in their mind shows mute dark footage. They'll slash d reel nd off their lives. Watch d movie the shawshank's redemption for an incident like this. In real life,some who've been in prison too long , commit crimes to get bck in when theyve been in too long (u.s.a).
For those who bear it and dont commit suicide, they become zombies. A large part of them dies from the weight of d pain. They are physically alive but just going thru d motions. Infact,you could say that these ones are the true cowards- too cowardly to pull the plug nd exit a bleak existence.
Some even hate God for creating them.

TheArranger:
An atheist dies and goes to hell...

The devil welcomes him and says:"Let me show you around a little bit." They walk through a nice park with green trees and the devil shows him a huge palace. "This is your house now, here are your keys." The man is happy and thanks the devil. The devil says:"No need to say thank you, everyone gets a nice place to live in when they come down here!"

They continue walking through the nice park, flowers everywhere, and the devil shows the atheist a garage full of beautiful cars. "These are your cars now!" and hands the man all the car keys. Again, the atheist tries to thank the devil, but he only says "Everyone down here gets some cool cars! How would you drive around without having cars?".

They walk on and the area gets even nicer. There are birds chirping, squirrels running around, kittens everywhere. They arrive at a fountain, where the most beautiful woman the atheist has ever seen sits on a bench. She looks at him and they instantly fall in love with each other. The man couldn't be any happier. The devil says "Everyone gets to have their soulmate down here, we don't want anyone to be lonely!"

As they walk on, the atheist notices a high fence. He peeks to the other side and is totally shocked. There are people in pools of lava, screaming in pain, while little devils run around and stab them with their tridents. Other devils are skinning people alive, heads are spiked, and many more terrible things are happening. A stench of sulfur is in the air.

Terrified, the man stumbles backwards, and asks the devil "What is going on there?" The devil just shrugs and says: "Those are the christians, I don't know why, but they prefer it that way".

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budaatum:
So did I. I even swallowed 60 5mg Valiums once and drank up the entire ocean at the Bar Beach. I wasn't thinking about suicide or dying both times but I knew I could have died.

Hopelessness. That's what you are dealing with. The future seems bleak and you can't see a way to improve it probably because you focus on the negative. But that's likely because you focus too much on what you lack rather than on what you have, and unless you are dead already, you probably have loads (skills, a sound mind, unbroken limbs, you did not starve yesterday and probably woke up in a bed this morning, etc).

Do a swot analysis on yourself please. It might help you properly see where you are, where you should be going and how to get there. And stop watching other people's horses least you fall in a pit for not looking at your own horse!

Davash222:
Fake cry like they really care. Fvck humans!

paxonel:
suicide isn't realistic end of misfortunes. Thank God you are earning a little income yours is even better.
I think you should have a long term plan of how you are going to improve that little income, if it takes you to learn another line of business and be good at it perfectly,just do it.

Brock1:
U r correct, I helped a lot, but wen it comes to my low time, ppl disappear, I feel like living d world is just d best. Let me sleep and never wake or b rcreated again.

Brock1:
I av been having suicidal thoughts since childhood and up till now, it's still d same...

I came from a poor home, I av strived all my life till now to break out of poverty but all monies i gathered were lost in good businesses that went bad.
I av lost all I had.

While growing up, I sought for help from different well to do individuals but all turned to their deaf ears, I actually see no reason to continue living again even with my current low income paying and promotion barred job as bsc holder .

My childhood friends who I always had in mind when we were young by giving him money at my level, is controlling good money now, I narrated my ordeals to them, it went unattended to, so many friends have forsaken me(which I never had in mind not to help dem if I made it in life), same with some close elderly ones.. So this really shows no one cares..

Why should my life continue in pain, I don't know what d future holds, but it may seem same with wat I av been experiencing, I don't want to bring children into dis world without me properly catering for them, Its better d pain ends with me than to spread it to my next generation.

I no the country is hard, my parents have fault, our government are not helping same with my Christian leaders..


If anyone has a vital and not jus vague advice, I will appreciate.

SEXYBILLIONAIRE:
I met this girl years ago. I like her like mad. This is a girl that after I met her u stopped doing shit. Sshe even cheated on my a few times and I forgave her. In fact I was blinded by love to the point that even if I for ever catch another man dey Bleep am for my bed, I for still forgive and take her back. Yes one of the reasons is because she has been through hell with me so now wey I Don land, I see no reason why I should leave her and get a random girl that never knew what I have been through to just come and start enjoying where she did not sow. I gave this girl a few simple rules, don't ever block me on whatsapp When we are not together. Don't ever ignore my messages or calls when u are angry. No matter how angry u are. I can tolerate her cheating on me or any other shit except those 2. She has broken these 2 rules severally and I forgave her. Recently she saw a chat with me and some random girl that was begging me for cash and she got pissed. I tried to explain and she refused to either pick call or reply Messages. I got pissed and blocked her and to my surprise she blocked me too. Well I have sent her an SMS that this time it's really over. I know she will think I am joking but as we are speaking I am truly done with her. She will be surprised to come home and see 3sexier hoes in the house. My rule is if I am in a serious relationship I don't cheat. The day u push me to do it, it's over. This is a girl that dosnt work o but lives like a certified princess. Travels anywhere she wants without me complaining that's it's too much. It's not like I am a mugu. E get wetin girl go Don see for you hand and u won't mind spending as much as possible on her when ground level. I just pity her because it will be hard for her to find a rich, sexy, handsome guy wey sabi Bleep and no dey Bleep around. For 3years, I have not bleeped another toto except her but she has cheated on my a few times. This Naija girl wey I personally put all her family on Monthly allowance. I dey wait to see where she go find Naija guy with all those qualities together. 98% of rich and handsome Naija guys will always cheat on u. This is a girl that we are suppose to marry this year. Girls, if you are lucky to get a guy like me please use your brain well. We love u no mean say we dey stupid. Well enough ranting. Let me preper to enter silverfox or bayrock strip club. Life is too short to take it too serious
All these broke guys in the comment don't come f or me o. No be me cause una poverty

Update1: Bitch unblocked and trying to explain. Some girls are really stupid
Update2: she talking of comiting suicide
Now that's where I am scared. Cos last time I tried breaking up she actually attempted suicide. It took the help of some very professional doctors to bring her back to normal. Now this is scary

IAmSabrina:

IAmSabrina:
We should first establish that suicide is not illegal. It simply isn't

You cannot apprehend and/or prosecute someone who is dead. In fact, attempted suicide should not be illegal. There is no reason to judge people whose internal lives have become too difficult for them any more than one should judge a terminally ill individual who is in such a great deal of pain that medicine can offer no solution for them. Being in a suicidal state is absolutely horrible it makes no sense to judge people who are in such pain. Judgment makes people suicidal to begin with.

On the other hand, I believe that it is a natural impulse for all people to WANT to live. Dunno bout you buh I'm not ready to die yet

SEXYBILLIONAIRE:
bro it's hard work and smart work. We not successful by chance or by mercy or by god or Satan. Lottery winners and people that inherited cash and properties exempted

SEXYBILLIONAIRE:
its not mercy it's hard work. U Christians are annoying

Shepherd00:
Oh, My bad. I thought you were contemplating suicide.

Shepherd00:
But, why you want kill yourself nah? Whatever conditions your mind right now to do it can change

budaatum:
If I kill myself its my business, very stupid business, mind, but my business all the same. But it is a very ignorant thing to do, or an attempt to escape from shame or pain.

Imagine buda kills the self this very moment! buda would no more be part of the discussions on NL except when someone mentions buda, and they can say anything they want about buda and buda wouldn't be able to comment or correct them! Time will fly by and only once in a while would someone say, "ah, that buda" till eventually someone would say "who was buda?" then someone would say, "you don't know buda?" Then myths might grow up about buda claiming she is a man, he a girl, it is 12 who writes what most hardly understand and no one would know buda because buda killed itself. And what a waste!

just the thought of the world going on without me is enough to keep me alive. Imagine I died in 2018 and not see Buhari win a second term in 2019. Imagine I die by the end of this year and not see Trump de-trumped? Imagine the whole of UK has to be moved to Gambia in its attempt to leave Europe and I'm already dead and seen none of the debacle they made of it? But most of all, imagine when you all get sense and your eyes open and i'm already dead and not there to share the joy of the mass enlightenment that is on its way! Hope you see why I'd rather go for eternal life than waste my time on suicide!

Suicide is what you do when you are a waste of space and need to vacate it for more valuable people to occupy it. May that not be your portion. But if it is, then you need some 'Christ' loving, which for the sake of this, is Wisdom.

budaatum:
If I kill myself its my business, very stupid business, mind, but my business all the same. But it is a very ignorant thing to do, or an attempt to escape from shame or pain.

Imagine buda kills the self this very moment! buda would no more be part of the discussions on NL except when someone mentions buda, and they can say anything they want about buda and buda wouldn't be able to comment or correct them! Time will fly by and only once in a while would someone say, "ah, that buda" till eventually someone would say "who was buda?" then someone would say, "you don't know buda?" Then myths might grow up about buda claiming she is a man, he a girl, it is 12 who writes what most hardly understand and no one would know buda because buda killed itself. And what a waste!

just the thought of the world going on without me is enough to keep me alive. Imagine I died in 2018 and not see Buhari win a second term in 2019. Imagine I die by the end of this year and not see Trump de-trumped? Imagine the whole of UK has to be moved to Gambia in its attempt to leave Europe and I'm already dead and seen none of the debacle they made of it? But most of all, imagine when you all get sense and your eyes open and i'm already dead and not there to share the joy of the mass enlightenment that is on its way! Hope you see why I'd rather go for eternal life than waste my time on suicide!

Suicide is what you do when you are a waste of space and need to vacate it for more valuable people to occupy it. May that not be your portion. But if it is, then you need some 'Christ' loving, which for the sake of this, is Wisdom.

Gleefreak125:
Ain't giving you no attention no more. So piss off you knucklehead.