₦airaland Forum

Nesso:
You absolutely right and i totally agree with you. My dad told me years ago, "son there is nothing like love, its just permanent interest" but becos i was brainwashed by romantic fairy tales by mainstream media back then i brushed what he said off and used to wonder what old boy was saying, now i know better. Women see men as tools they can use and discard at will, we simply a means to an end and the earlier we men know this the more peace we'll be with ourselves and the way things are in this world.

viceddy95:
Bros ,which beer you dey drink?,one cold chilled beer for you.........how can a guy beg a girl you called a girlfriend to love and stay with you because you guys had some issues, not 1 or 2 times,,,somebody you dy take care of or maybe the girl is the one taking care of the O P if not,let the girl go and work on yourself .....

dairykidd:
Sensible people are trying hard here to make u see the light u have been blinded to and here u are trying so hard to justify begging for love
Your case is pathetic i must say. She obviously doesn't love u and will never love u & if u succeed again at begging her back just be prepared to be her doormat or continue begging till u leave this earth. For u to even reason that ur actions in correcting her excesses were mistakes.... man why are u trying to hang urself naa? If na beauty abi na love or the pussie too sweet guy if u don't open ur eyes and face life for what it is u will not see a far far better option even if she's standing right before u...

You don't force love bro... it's not negotiable

IHate9jerianss:
@swaggzo
In all my days and all my experience in life no woman will ever love you except for her personal interest, we just have to marry out of obligations no woman born in this world is worth it the only woman that truly loves you without personal interest is your mother besides that it’s all about personal interest if men understand that they wouldn’t be killing themselves over woman and just live with it so don’t expect anything short of that from a woman
By a nlander

swaggzo:
Maybe if I comment first on my own topic it'll make me feel better for a minute.
I'm gonna tag a few wise friends so that they can try to help me get through this

Hopefullandlord, Hahn. HappyPagan, Michellekabod2.
Zikzikzik (I've always wanted to talk to you about how you feel. You don't have to end life, everything will be okay).
Hakeem12, 1sharon, hakeem4. Capslocked, skeetz, johnydon22, hardmirror. Atlantia, stupidity. MJbolt, dalaman, calliope, xxsabrinaxx. Izzou, lordreed. Janettee, Hopeforcharles. Ever wise tintingz.

Ubunja/Martinez39 (please don't tell me about redpills. Sometimes, genuine love is bigger than anything in it's way.)

Omar09:
You didn't tag me. Red pill. I think it's high time you stopped begging. See beyond them. You are better off without them.

I was once like you. I will beg to be loved. To even kiss her, to caress her, to feel her, but all to no avail. I didn't have any intention of having sex with her for those who would say it's lust, I loved her, but she left me twice n I begged. But on the third one I was prepared to die without her since I can't live without her. It's all in your head, don't be afraid to try new things.

The human is designed to be afraid of change. Conquer that fear n you will see that not all things are worth the fight. You are scared you will meet someone worse than her, but even if you do, you still kick her out like you did to the one before n you keep on going n going till meet your perfect match.

Ubunja
Martinez39

healthserve:
Damn ive missed Ubunja


The moment a woman employs any form of whining or emotional manipulation, they should be stopped in the track cause its always to the detriment of the man.


Like a Gee said, you need a mafia mindset to manage Nigerian women.

Newguyhere:
God will punish all of you guys deceiving op that his wife is a 'good' woman. can you imagine the fuckery!!
Dem never born the woman wey go try this kind rubbish with me
The lady has zero considerations for the guy!!

Freehuman:
Some men are really cool with anything. When I'm planning to have two kids and at least a male child before marriage, a man lives under the same roof with the woman he legally married and consumation of the marriage is yet to happen.

Everyone here is talking about virginity and not fertility. She may even be a virgin and deep down knows she is not fertile. Over 1000 Nigerian girls(teenagers) suffer from ovarian cyst yearly and most times treatment causes damage to their reproductive system. That's just one disease and there are others.

Marrying in a church can prevent divorce when the male partner wants it immediately on grounds of fertility of the Female. I think a judge will not grant such divorce until the marriage has broken down irretrievably.

From a legal point of view, marrying in a church which is registered under the law as a valid place of celebration of marriage means that the couples contracted statutory marriage ( under the marriage ACT). This means if the marriage has not broken down irretrievably and you intend to divorce her on grounds of infertility the court may not grant a decree nicee. If the man proceeds to dissolve the marriage without a grant by the court , she can sue him for bigamy. It may take up to 5 years before you begin to abuse her and make the marriage break down irretrievably.

An average religious bigot is likely to believe that if she adheres to such extreme religious doctrines (abstinence from sex until a church wedding) her infertility may be cured.

I know my reason is abstract but it must not be ruled out.

Dollarseeker:
pls respect your wife's decision abeg. I know it is not right for her to do that anyways because traditional marriage has been done...maybe its how she understands it...even me to I also strongly believe in white wedding officiated in the church, but not to the extent of not having sex with my wife after traditional marriage... but for me, I will still permit her decision not to have sex...100% in support. Oga relax she is now ur wife, just do the white wedding and have her...no issue here...just relax ur mind and hold ursef. But what I won't like is after all this and it is discovered that she is not a virgin, that would b a different case. Pls respect her decision, she deserves that respect...to stay a virgin is not easy and I believe she has told God that she will only brk it after her white wedding, so just respect her and God pls. Na you get her so have patience no rush.

I Just pray she is truly a virgin sha.

midnighter:
Nope, he is the one who backed out of it. Where did I say she was the one?

Lying about virginity is a different matter. If this arrangement was unacceptable to him he had ample chance to say so before now.

I don't understand what would make you advocate for kicking someone out and refunding bride price over an arrangement he himself failed to keep.

midnighter:
Lol, I hope you can respond like this the next time you have an arrangement with somebody and they back out of it at the last minute

Sukueponmalu:
This is a lie

shogsman:
I use a 10xmas and an android, it's nice to change mobile platforms, but overall performance I have to admit that the note 10+ is a better phone,but the fluidity of Apps on iPhone is on another level, the note10+ plus wins in terms of design,display, price,performance.
The iPhone wins in terms of gaming, but if you're the type that like keeping apps in memory for a very very long time the note is your best bet.
Camera wise they both have exactly the same function so I can't really pick a winner.

wagazala:
It's good to go on vacation from time to time. After a few weeks when you don see all, house go begin dey hungry you.
Looking forward to welcoming you back.

midnighter:
[s]Why did he agree to the condition if he knows he won't be able to cope with it??[/s]

[s]He said he respects all her decisions yet his actions say otherwise[/s]

kellypara:
...just when I thought I have found someone that I love and loves me back, She infected me with Gonorrhoea...

Aabheaven:
Ok, i have been thinking on this and would want to know your thought. Can you forgive a partner that tried to poison you. Experience will be much appreciated

MuttleyLaff:
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Martinez39, you do know those were defying physical laws, don't you, huh?
If you do, then why are you asking for a physical explanation(s), hmm?

budaatum:
Faith, derived from Latin fides and Old French feid, is confidence or trust in a person, thing, or concept.

Everyone has faith, 39. You had faith that if you posted the above, buda will definitely respond.

And I'd like to have faith that you will someday become cured of your previous religious indoctrination that clouds your understanding of words, but I will have to patiently work hard to have such faith, I think.

By the way, I made beef and lamb stew for you.

budaatum:
Lol! Did you read Things Fall Apart? There's a story about the birds going to a banquet in heaven and tortoise playing a fast one when they allowed him to go with them.

Explain how tortoise spoke and I will explain your's above to you.

MuttleyLaff:
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This naah JAMB exam questions ooo, lol.
Not.
#1-#3 and #5 all related, are easily explained,
then #4, too, which wasnt really about the conventional leprosy, can easily be explained too

You're dangerous poster Martinez39, waiting round the bend corner with mouse traps hidden under your armpit, smh

budaatum:
If you can not understand small things, 39, I can hardly expect you to understand things that require more effort I suppose, but since you ask me to give you some of my pizza I am here offering you my beans too even though your response is "buda you have no bucket, and the well is deep. Where do you get that pizza from?"


Five verses is probably way too much for you 39. Just the first verse should do.

James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ,

To the twelve tribes scattered among the nations:

Greetings.

You must wonder how we Nigerians are reading what was addressed to the twelve tribes, but perhaps consider that James was writing to those who read and understand James. He was after all not writing for those who are not "keyed in" to understand.

On prayer. You must have heard it said that it means calling on the Lord who is in heaven, yet [url=https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+6%3A5-6&version=NIV]Christ said[/url], "when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you."

He then went on to teach how to pray, which [url=https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lord%27s_Prayer?wprov=sfla1]you may read here[/url] and takes all of two minutes if you prayed it very very slowly, which should make you wonder what we do in secret and for which the Father will reward you, 39?

Well, we study the Word. And the reward for our studying in secret is understanding, and the wisdom that comes from that understanding, which is my beans and my pizza and which I gladly share with you 39. Can you not see how jealous that makes muttley? I can assure you that he believes!

Thehumanlloydl:
Miracles are Natural happenings with a more concentrated desire or power igniting them.
Oceanic Engineers have confirmed; Strong concentrated winds could divide an ocean into two!

OlawaleBammie:
u want me to say i share same blif with u but NOOO i wont say it.

my blif is slightly different.