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MajorWarren:
Playing with Lallana is like playing with a man down. Offers zilch

Lallana is a drawback.

DenreleDave:
Thanks I just want no. I get this feelings say u bin dey like dt babe and she ma sef like u... Mutual stuff

Taaaaa! I feel nothing for her and I don't like her one bit. In fact, it's impossible for me to fall in love with a lady. I can't catch feelings for any lady. No time for such.

Victorian, when is your own coming? Don't forget to invite me.

DenreleDave:
Sir Martinez39, when u said eating healthy, sorry sir, does it includes giving headies to a lady like Riele??

Lol. Clearly not. Why are you obsessed with Riele? Don't carry this obsession into 2020.

There is a topic of mine titled Sincere Adherents Of Abrahamic Religions, Why Bother?

Read it.

I don't hate Tacha but the attention and worship given to this girl, Naira Marley, etc. leaves me confused. Had Tacha won the BBN show, eould they have built a statue of Tacha and name a street after her? What is going on here?

funmisticqueen:
my wish for 2020 amongst other things is;
1. To pass my exams in one sitting so that i can relocate abroad by the ending of next year.

2. To meet and marry a high value man whom i love and respect, and vice versa.

I wish it upon you that you wishes be granted. I hope you meet a high value man who is willing to take care of you and your future kids and whose pocket will never run dry as long as you are willing to be a good and respectful wife. Happy New Year.


My wishes resolutions :
1) My knowledge base shall continue to grow.
2) My money shall increase.
3) My healthy way of living (eating appropriately and exercising) will continue.

Wish:
1) Sound health and safety to me and my loved ones.

SMH. Use your brain. If you don't know the right thing to do here, you shouldn't be helped by anyone. If you don't know the right thing to do then you and the girl deserve each other. Nonsense.

Vicboy1:
Martinez39 , why can't this op supply evidence

The op has none.

Mrshape:
Martinez39 can only beg her
If she has the solution to a mathematics problem.
How many of them fit even draw circle with compass . Let alone solve maths

The op is an attention seeker.

Vicboy1:
I don't believe you martinez39 can't do such

I can never do such. Most nairaland girls are losers in life waiting for a rich man to alleviate them from poverty. These girls are just a scanty summation of a fine face, breasts, and ass. Their brains, upon dissection, will be found to be made of pap and breast milk. Their brains can't stand the slightest weight of logical and innovative thinking. That explains why they nonsensical in their posts and bring nothing to the table in their relationships.

The op is a lousy attention seeker.

DenreleDave:
I heard Martinez39 of red pill organizations was even begging Riele to reply his pm...

....

doggedfighter:
Was god asleep?

What do you think?

doggedfighter:
Was god asleep?

What do you think?

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmmmmmm.
It's so painful to find someone's self in this situation.
The deceit, betrayer, lies etc are things that makes a man to feel depressed.
When you flash back to the old good days when things were rosy and you remember all the -
You are the best thing to happen to me
I love you with all my heart
No one will ever take your place
I promise to be the mother of your kids
I don't know where i will be if not for you
I thank God for leading me to you or by meeting you
I promise you with all my heart that i will always be there for you
Etc
And the list keeps going on and on
All just for the lady to change Suddenly when things becomes rough for the man, to me that is Scam.
We always criticize yahoo boys as Scammers but the Greatest Scammers, Swindlers, Thieves, Looters are the women among us and they have perfected and packaged this Scam to us all in the nane of Relationship.
What a Life.

You are right. It's very painful to be in such a situation. The horrible fact is that society always turn a blind eye to female bad behaviours. If a guy uses a girl by have sex with her multiple times, having her to commit multiple abortions, etc. If he quits, he is labelled a monster that offended and tortured a damsel meanwhile, for many years, nothing is usually said when a girl uses a guy brutally. The guy is supposed to endure and move on afterall, the girl is free to change her mind.

Overseas, a girl can damage your house, car, and even hurt you physically if she is hurt by a break up or if she caught you cheating and society will laugh about it and ask "what must he have done to offend her?" Try these things as a man and see if you won't be dealt with.

Guys neex to wake up, swallow the red pill, and start treating ladies accordingly.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Hahahahahahaha.Ok no shaking. Ope they won't vomit them and start whinning again o lol

They won't. As long as they like the truth no matter how harsh, they won't.

emmaodet:

Ooohhhhh
Abasi

We have to be sincere with these folks.

JONNYSPUTE:
Ubunja you dey scatter my dada o. Martinez39,come o. Alot of guys here are swallowing redpils but make dem no go take over dose go destroy person daughter oo. Na beg I dey beg Lol.. Wonderful peace

More is more. More is never too much. It's impossible to overdose on redpills.

ubunja:
lmfao wish martine39 responds with that pic of Red Pills being poured out...

Here you go.

Doctorwhite:
HELLO NAIRALANDERS!!!
Season greetings to you all and a prosperous new year 2020.
Please advise me!
I meet a young girl who is 24 years and I am 27 years, since November 2017. We have been together! We do a lot of things together. She respect me so well! I was working in an oil and gas company before the company loss it contract with chevron. We have many things in common! I am a calm and reserve person, I don’t talk much, for a few months since I lost my job! The girl I always see as my future wife have completely changed, she do no longer respect me as she was, before whenever she does something I don’t like I use abusing words (are you crazy) she will keep quiet. Now whenever I speak to her she returned it back to me immediately! She even called me fool yesterday, I was so shocked! I was really planning to settle down for life with her, I still love her but I don’t think I can marry a girl who will insult me publicly! I feel ashamed! I told let end it here is over! DO YOU THINK I MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION?

You money has finished so no more love or respect. She will not marry you if you remain broke. You will be dumped in the trash for the higher bidder even if you supported her financially for many years and made great sacrifices for her. I am sure that when money was flowing, you were stroking your ego as a "capable man" or as a "real man" just because you were a woman's ATM (a woman that is not even your wife or PROBABLY not even giving you sex). Where is the result of all the money spent so far? Was it worth it? Is it not a waste now?

You need to swallow some red pills. You must have a low IQ given your inability to comprehend what is going on and why she is acting the way she is acting. IT'S BECAUSE YOUR MONEY HAS FINISHED AND YOU ARE NOT USEFUL TO HER AGAIN SO HER TRUE COLOR CAN COME OUT. AFTERALL, SHE WON'T BREAK A SWEAT DUMPING YOU. Here is a very old post of mine :

ANNOUNCEMENT!

ALL GIRLS cannot love a man. They will only hang out around you and PRETEND to love you if you satisfy the following conditions or any of them :
1) Have abundant resources.
2) Show great potential to acquire abundant resources in future.

That's all. If you lack these two, no girl will want you for a relationship. Your handsomeness, your moral uprightness and integrity do not matter a damn to girls. Even if you satisfied these two conditions in the past, provided for her, made great sacrifices for her and even donated a kidney to save her life in the past, once things become hard and you don't satisfy these conditions anymore, her "love" for you immediately turns to loathing and if a higher bidder is available, she dumps you cold. Loyalty, appreciation and sacrifices are not in their dictionary as they leave you cold and loath you once you stop satisfying these two conditions for any reason.

A girl who rather date the chimpanzee looking billionaire than date the handsome vibrant dude with an average income; a girl would rather date that misogynistic psychopathic billionaire drug lord that treats her like trash than date the morally upright and caring vibrant dude with an average income and your sacrifices in the past (even if you donated a kidney to save her life) doesn't matter as if you stop satisfying those two conditions, you become a loathed utility that has served it's purpose and is no longer needed. So guys, go hustle and stop spending your vibrant teenage years and early twenties looking for the "one true love." True love, just like true friendship, doesn't exist. When you make money and you want to marry, you will still see fresh attractive ladies. Stop forming "alpha male." If you get all the attention of girls, fvck around and yet you don't have money, what have you gained?

Make money and that miss world or that proud strong independent feminist that claims she doesn't need any man will spread her legs for you and readily suck your d1ck for the cash. They will even kneel down on the floor crying and begging you to stay if you threaten to dump them. grin cheesy If you know, you know. Most of these men hating feminists raising their shoulders as proud strong independent women are suckling one rich guy's d1ck behind close doors and are being submissive to them as a housewife would yet they will come out on TV and social media claiming that they will bow to no man and are strong independent ladies who need no man. grin

Some girls will say "not all girls are like that," "we are not like that," "we value the personality," blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Boys, it's a lie. Na wash. They are all like that. Personality my foot. If you know, you know. Many are good at hiding that opportunistic and materialistic nature. You will only see there true colour when you stop satisfying those two conditions. Have things gone hard and your girlfriend suddenly seems distant and reluctant to connect or converse with you? Are the conversations, texts and calls you are making to her seem like nuisances to her all of a sudden? Mehn, you have lost her.

Am I saying that girls should marry broke men who are not willing to improve themselves? Of course not. That would be unreasonable. The problem is the lack of moral compass, deceit, greed and cruelty with which they absolutely reduce men to mere utility that should be exploited and discard when he had served his usefulness. Boys, you are like a phone to a lady. Once you stop working, she throw you in the trash or if she sees a better one, they put you aside. Go and make money.

It's hard to swallow. Swallow it.

Also make sure you read my topic
https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

I have written posts about your type of situation but I am having a hard time finding them.

ericsmith:
my merry xmas shout out to goes to these wonderful people,

jGoldie. ( miss formal )
victorian. (miss independence)
fountainofyouth. (stubborn as an hausa gurl)
pocohantas ( likes trouble buh run frm fight)
michellekabod2. ( mature mind)
martinez39. (we disagree to agree)
Redcreme2. (i hope u find ur sexuality )
jewessgratitude. (she sounds like an alternative)
lilmissfavvy. ( my candycrush )
maynattion ( beautiful mind )
Season greetings to everyone ,happy new year in advance.

Merry Xmas. We disagree to agree and we agree to disagree. Twale!

Merry Xmas to the following:
Ubunja, Mrshape (ifada123), Omar09, healthserve, AstroG, pansophist, XxSabrinaxX (IAmSabrina), Buddatum, Michellekabod2, HopefulLandlord, Sharon1, HardMirror, hahn, Seun, iLegendd, EmptyCoconutHead, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet, and my followers.

hopefulLandlord:
This imaginary friend of yours can't possibly lose. it's all a win win win for him and when he loses you guys would explain it as a win too. This points more to the uselessness and irrelevancy of your god

With an attitude like that demonstrated in the post you replied to, it becomes clear that certain people love their chains. They don't ask questions or hold god accountable.

—Atheist or non-Christian dies young => (he wasn't prayerful enough).
— Christian dies young => (the Lord giveth and taketh, it's God's will, he is in a better place etc.)

— Atheist or non-Christian is poor and suffering => (he needs to turn to the Lord, he needs to come to jesus).
— Christian is poor and suffering => (God is testing him. God's time is the best. Don't question God)

— Christian is rich => (God is good, his grace is sufficient)
— Atheist or non-Christian is rich =>...

Blabbermouth:
We both know you are whining your self. If we drag this a bit now you will end up admitting You don't know If HE exist or not. Forcing yourself to believe He doesn't exist does not mean you have escaped His radar.

ALL RELIGIOUS GODS DO NOT EXIST.

If you still want to hug your sky daddy, that's fine. Your brain, your delusions. Good night.

Snowale:
If they all end up in paradise, they would be verrrrrrrry Happy and thankful to God, and would wish his wife and others joined them immediately. This life isn't cool at all.

Meanwhile, one have to be a good Muslim to enter paradise.

There is no afterlife. You die and you cease existing.

Riele:
He was a pastor ! Wasn't he prayerful enough ? .

God , why did you let this happen ? .
What reply will his family give to those who taunts ? .

God , sometimes , you make me doubt your existence .

I'm so sad . I also lost a best friend today . He too served you .

I dedicate this FTC to my friend Isaac . May his gentle soul rest in peace .

God does not exist. Take a look at human life and the physical world, point out one thing or aspect of both that irrefutably supports the existence of a supernatural dimension or being. You will find none. Take a look at human life and tell me if you see any unquestionable and irrefutable sign of divine help or intervention. You will find none.

Religious gods and religious claims have no sound basis in reality. That's why all religious beliefs are accepted based on faith (blind belief in absence of evidence) not evidence and sound reasoning. Also, in most cases, people embrace the religion they were brought up to believe. If you were born in a muslim society, you will be muslim. If you grew up in an igbo society in Nigeria, you would likely be a christian. If you grew up in India, you would likely be a Hindu. This shows religion is man made. If other religions are wrong, why is your own the right one?

Notice that God's plan and will are indistinguishable from random chance and his non-existence. Despite the so much notice about God's power and existence, events and human life plays out as you would expect if there were no god and mankind is left to fend for itself.

Jaybnjamin:
That romantic love is scam.
Big scam.
Take it or leave it

Welcome to the club.

Aiziko:
Are you also Martinez 19?

That is my former account. My active account is Martinez39. Any moniker you see with MartinezS9 (where S is a number eg S=7 => Martinez79) is my account. I mainly use Martinez39.

pansophist:
Relationship is work. It's like a job, you have to work hard to get in, and even harder to stay in it. A good relationship is not one without challenges, but one where the partners are determined to make it work. Relationship is a decision that is predicated on reasoning, just as with feelings.

I'm not sure how old you are, though I suspect you're going and likely in your 20's, which is quite usual for people of such age to feel this way. From your write up, it is clear that you want a renewing excitement, a constant butterfly feeling, and the romanticized mainstream idea of a perfect relationship, which is quite unreal.

Exactly what I was saying.

CAPSLOCKED:
MARTINEZ39 SEE BOBBY LASHLEY CRYING. WOW.

She said it's the devil, cut her some slack. By the way, where is the so called maternal and nurturing instincts that women spoke of to convince everyone that women/mothers are more caring than men/fathers?

Jamersirwin1971:
This also happened to me about 8-9 years ago . Na jeje I Dey, dey drink my Jedi with friends she called me where I was I told here I was with my friends drinking at one joint . She told me to come pick her at the airport I said no and why since I knew she was getting married soon . She said she just landed and she was in from dubia . With her wedding dress and few things for her wedding . That was on a Wednesday her wedding was Saturday .

Can you guys believe she took Taxi and came to meet me at the Jedi joint . She knew that place because we stayed at the same area. Then she waited till I was leaving . I drove to drop her so she finds her way , na there she Dey tell me say her husband to be thinks she will be flying in on Thursday and she lied to him . It was Wednesday she had to come in and she wanted to be with me. I was shocked bro . I took her home . Sat in the sitting room we watched TV together I didn’t even bother to look her side na so I told her she will sleep in the room I will sleep in sitting room . She no gree then I had to sleep in the same room with her . My head was just thinking diffent things because I was scared . This was a lady I was beeping before oo. But since I knew she was getting married soon I didn’t want to have anything to do with her . She seduced me all night I didn’t touch her . At morning she told me to come bathwith her thinking somthing will happen , I still didn’t get moved . I had to drop her at a bus stop and she called her husband to be that she is in Nigeria and she’s taking a taxi home . I even went to the wedding on the Saturday ate and drank with my friends . She came to meet me on a wedding gown saying I bleeped up , that she never expected that from me . And she was surprised I didn’t touch her because she knew I love sex die .

Even after months and years she brings up the topic when we chat she’s surprised me of all people could control my self . Sadly she’s divorced now after just 5 years being married .. na after she divorced we saw again then I could beep her .

Why did she divorce?

Michellekabod2:
I am introverted. I guess entertaining and interesting will drain me.

It is human nature that the human mind cannot find what entertains and interests it boring or tiring. Either the "entertaining and interesting" were not entertaining and interesting to begin with or they ceased being entertaining and interesting. Anyway, do what works for you.

I am just not into commitment.for no reason at all. Its tough to sustain my interest.

This is where most modern ladies are missing it. You don't go into a relationship giving your spouse the burden of keeping you interested. You must, on your own part, be interested. Put in the effort.

To further buttress my point from my initial post, here is an excerpt from your post

It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

The dude, unlike the previous ones, is more entertaining than others. He is not boring, predictable, and repetitive in the relationship. You are probably surprised since this is your first time of experiencing someone like him.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship,i dont know why. I AM TIRED. I want to walk away.

The thrill is dying out.

Anyway, as I have said, do what works for you.

From your write up, I deduced you are the type that likes to be continously entertained and enthused with interesting drama and happening or else you are out. The number of people conditioned this way are rapidly increasing thanks to the easy times and the bombardment from social media, technology, entertainment and the likes. This conditioning, which has made people childish, has detached them from the reality that relationship and marriage have a lot of boring phases and entail selfless sacrifices and a sense of duty. Not only that, these days, people wants to be free and live as they please in their own world which revolves around them without being "bounded." Everyone seem to be chasing their next high.

Will you regret leaving that guy? Well, no one knows the future. You may regret it, you may not. Given the type you are, I would say you should forget about him because you are not yet long term commitment material. By the way, before you go into a relationship next time, have it mind that it's not all about feeling and exciting drama instead the reality is that you will have to put up with a lot of boring phases, stress and function out of a strict sense of duty. Have this in mind so that you won't waste someone's time.