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Darivie04:
Are you sure F(x) is not equal to 2x^3?

frankdoz:
then drop your answer, stop wasting time!

frankdoz:
OK, check my answer!

Darivie04:
Really cool problem, wish I had seen it earlier. I might drop a solution later today.

ePoster:
Whats worse is that this childishness is acted mainly by the infamousmgtows
For 'men going their own way', they tend to carry womens matter on their heads like a tray of goods a trader hawks.
Lack of maturity, self control and basic intelligence from the masculine gender here. Rather than concern themselves with self development, sharing of ideas for their collective betterment, they would rather create slut/body shaming threads to suit their egos. In their boxed mentality, it makes them alphas.
Smh!

BAAKUS1447:
Chelsea and Liverpool are gunners

I also observed non of the members live in Ikoyi, VI, and nice places one can easily relate with...guess I joined the wrong forum after all.

doggedfighter:
Ahh, no redpill for him?

Penisman:
Chai... See small god..

Wetin you dey feel like self?

Rubby007:
thank u for this topic u actually raced my hope, am a victim of such as a father.
I wept yesterday while reading a trend on deadbeat father an how d guy eventually reconcile with his father.
I noticed DAT almost all the ladies in the comment section were sad about it. I wonder what is going on in their heads o .
my twin kids are just 3yrs now and for the past 6months now I have not seen or heard from dem, my marriage is 3yrs now and my wife as become estranged telling people lies about me just to be seen as a victim and me an irresponsible, illiterate, an a ritualist. whereas the truth of the matter is far from DAT
one day I will get tired of chasing and chose to face my life and someone will tag me a deadbeat father? I believe thunder will still be available sha

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Men should wake up. Like I said in that thread,I ve stopped giving my wife money to go pay school fees. I either transfer from my account or go there myself. Take the kids out once i'm around. Sleep with them on my bed and play around. Since the birds has learn to fly without perching,the hunter has also learnt to shoot without aiming.

emmaodet:
Na wa ooooooooo,
So much anger, venom and bile from all these ladies because a child determines to re-trace his steps.
God save us all from Karashikas in human form.
When i was younger, my mum painted a picture of my dad to us as someone not really trying and lazy. Sometimes during there occasional arguments and quarrels she will mock him that his mates are out there hustling but my dad is too contented and satisfied with the meagre civil servant salary. Sometimes she sobs that what kind of head and destiny did she chose to deserve all these because she didn't bargained for this in life. Adagbe, adaso. She is one doing the duty of a man instead of him.
One thing people don't understand is that not all men are business savvy or inclined and God made them all.
Some just like the quite, not stressful, administrative life.
Then, i do see my dad as lazy despite giving my mum 95% of what he earns for her to manage it, despite not fornicating, drinking and always given my mum rest of mind.
It was when i became an adult, married and feeding a wife and son did i know that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown.
I had to prostrate and begged him for forgiveness 6 months ago for regularly not in his good book because i was rebellious to him.
It's well

DaphneBr:
I've done that but they believe that i will turn my child against him,but it's well

DaphneBr:
Kindly need advise please

My child's father is not present in her life,his family helps in raising her,my problem now is that he neither calls nor ask about his child,even when i was pregnant. I've forgiven him for my own peace of mind and i'm also trying to move on. His sisters are now demanding that i keep mentioning him to my child,i told them that whenever the dad wants a part in his daughters life that i won't hold him back.

frankdoz:
I have solved it!

zeb04:
you are doing the right thing. Your child is still young you should not force an absentee father down her throat because you want to please society.

When she grows, give her the Dad’s number so she will not accuse you later in life that you lied and spoilt the relationship she should have had with her dad. Let him ruin himself by himself.

But you cant do that now, she isn’t ready for that.

emmaodet:
Your writings, patterns and even moniker all points to MariaLavia.
Is that you? Kinda missed the lady

Martinez39:
So no one is up to the task?

pocohantas:
Naso.

pocohantas:
Don't act like you care about the mothers, you don't.

BRATISLAVA:
when did the truth become malicious? Op specified his mother suffered, if only you didn't hate women(due to the messages preached to you in the RP movement) you might have seen that

TheFacelessMan:
You sound very bitter and a father-hater. I can easily guess you had a deadbeat dad.

Stop pouring your frustrations and trying to discourage the OP's re-conciliatory efforts towards his Dad.

No one was there and only a fool would believe that the Mum would be 100% honest about her shortcomings to her kids.

People lie blatantly when giving accounts during a fight. It is always best to assume both sides had their own share of guilt.

Belafonte:
Spot on.

For them it's always about some Machiavellian scheme and competition with nobody competing with them.

They are neurotic.

BRATISLAVA:
so this justifies the abuse, negligence and everything that happened in the past? This is the problem with the thread. Treat your wife right and your children will respect you. Homes were built for mutual respect and love. Not I'm the father, I do what I want.

Belafonte:
A woman on this thread is saying today's men are foolish, another said they are spineless, and they are saying this with disdain and contempt. What they have failed to remember is that today's men were chiefly raised by here mothers, at least, going by this thread.

If today's men are foolish and spineless, the blame should go to the mothers, the same ones who have had the most influence on their lives