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Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

iLegendd:
The comment above is beyond the scope of this post.

Michellekabod2:
lol,you are missing the main point of my write up. I only citied feminism as an example,the #metoo and bukola dakolo instance as an example ot how humans wait for a messiah-like movement to voice out their ordeals. Perhaps i shouldnt have used a gender example(thats the nearest topic in relation to this thread. My entire point was that it does happen that people may see some stuffs asnorm and endure until someone crys foul and others follow suit. The weeping simps of nairaland,#metoo,massive claim of rape following bukola rape case etc were just examples to buttress my point,the authenticity of the listed is what i am not certain of(its 50-50 that they may be genuine,or clout chasing,or trolling,or playing victim).

There was a rampant increase in lamenting simps after redpill was introduced to NL albeit simps weeping did exist before its arrival but not to this extent

emmaodet:
Martinez39, first of all Happy Xmas my fellow brother in the struggle.

You see ehn, this is what i discussed with my colleagues yesterday that Life is Unfair.
Been righteous and straightforward is not encouraging anymore.

I have 2 family members into drugs and money laundering, if you see how dem dey live ehhhhhhhhhhh
Buying Mercedes benz, flying round the world, banding sweet Models not even babes sef
My broda, me wey be say i dey form good brilliant boy dey struggle.
I don travel go india, italy, ghana etc dey go do courses up and down dem no born me well make i buy 3m car, na koboko i go chop com back.
At a point, i sat down and thought about everything - the encouragement to go to school, read, graduate and get a job abi na the go do business - poultry, fishery, farming etc Allllllll na scam!!!!!!!!

They are just to keep you busy unnecessarily so that you won't have an ideal time-ideal mind which is the devil's workshop to commit crime and committing crime gives government unnecessary headaches.
Adulthood na Scam!!!!!!!! It's all filled with struggling and an unending Rat race.
An illiterate in my street selling igbo has built 3 houses and deposits 400k in bank every week.
My broda i don tire sef.

Michellekabod2:
Most people endure stuffs and see it as norm until a messiah-like movement comes and they come out one by one narrating their experiences. The advent of redpill and mgtow made guys on this forum come out and narrate their mumu. Same with the feminism movement,many ladies were not vocal of their experiences until chimamanda et al became vocal on it. The #metoo movement started with one woman and as she spoke up other ladies started narrating their own ordeals...


Thats life...
It was after busola dakolo rape case that many ladies started speaking on sexual abuse

iLegendd:
2020 is a year of less talk, mind your business, and more focus, so I'm getting ready for it.

CAPSLOCKED:
THEY'RE NOT TROLLS. THEY'RE REAL MALE HUMANS THAT ARE JUST CONFUSED.

CHECK OUT THE KIND OF LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL SONGS AND VIDEOS. EVERYTHING IS ABOUT THE FEMALE WORSHIP AND GLORIFICATIONS. THESE SONGS AND MOVIES SELL BECAUSE EVERYTHING ABOUT THEM IS CENTERED ON HOW TO TREAT WOMEN, PLEASURE, LOVE AND KEEP THEM HAPPY.

THE SISSY MEN IN OUR MIDST LISTEN TO THESE SONGS AND WATCH THESE MOVIES AND PRETEND THE ACTORS AND MUSICIANS ARE GIVING THEM INSTRUCTIONS SPECIFICALLY. WOMEN WATCH THESE MOVIES AND LISTEN TO THESE MOVIES AND, WHEN MEN ARE NOT BEHAVING ACCORDING TO THE PLAN OF THE SONGS, WOMEN CALL THEM WEAK MEN, FAKE MEN, BROKE, STINGY AND ALL THAT.

SO YOU SEE, ANOTHER FORM OF BRAINWASH IS TAKING PLACE THROUGH THE MEDIA AND THE GENDER ONCE NOTABLE FOR STANDING IN WAR FRONTS ARE NOW AFRAID OF COMMON CUPID.

iLegendd:
Sorry.

Daviddson:
I hope you're also aware that EFCC has arrested thousands of them this year alone? And have been convicted and are currently serving jail terms? And some have died in the fraud and are in hell? Etc etc.

Skepticus:
Martinez29 go kill imsef over pesiin wey never ready to get sense?

If Ubunja and Co begin advise dem on how to handle issues as man, dem go begin call dem "women haters".

Sometimes, it's better to make them learn from experience.

Las las everybody go dey alright!

infogenius:
lol!
U wan wound me with laughter

Asquare84:
Something similar like this happens to me in abuja, for those who are familiar with utako village primary School, it a hot bed for rapist, this is what happens some hausa boys saw a guy and a lady inside one of the classroom in the evening and assume the guy want to have sex with the lady, within a space of time the hausa guys took the lady boyfriend away living behind the lady next what I saw marveled me, the hausa guys strip the lady naked (about 30 guys cos the sleep in the primary School) and was taking the lady inside the classroom to rape her. That was how I intervene and was begging the hausa guys to spare the lady life, fortunately a police man came their and grab my hand that I was one of the people trying to rape her. Of all my plea to the policeman he only ask the lady is this guy among the people that want to rape you. Shock at the lady response " all of them join hand want rape me" knowing the implication of rape allegations na so I take call the police man and negotiate with 10,000 to take bail myself from that evening

RisenPhoenix:
I can relate. Happened to me twice. One of the ladies even spent the very weekend before her wedding with me, and actually offered to come back again the following wednesday after work had I not disagreed; thinking of the poor ignorant cuckold. Funny thing is, she said she loved me but would never consider marrying me because I was not religious enough like he was. Lucky me I guess.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. The most painful part of this is that most time you might want to help out of your innocent mind,but most ladies will misconstrut it that you were doing or rendering the help because you want to get Inbetween their legs.

I had this experience once and I stopped rendering help to females,though it hurts because not all are ungrateful.

A lady that usually attend to us in my friends bar,pleaded with me to help her and sign her I T log book. She came to my office and it was done, Saw her another day and she told me she was sick and I said sorry. The next thing I heard after like about two weeks was that I refused giving her money to treat herself because I demanded for sex and she refused.Guy imagine? This na person wey I never talk to before until she came to me for the log book of a thing

I even asked her how she knew I can do it for her,she said my friend her boss asked her to tell me that I can be of help.Nwanne ehee,since then to render help to any female apart from my relatives dey fear me.

As a married man,it can put you in a mess.

infogenius:
I am sorry about your ordeal.
Your experience should not stop from doing the right thing.
God will always reward you.
Forget accolades from men

imiski:
I have in my little way rendered assistance to both sexes and the male folks are usually more more grateful than the females.

Uchenna639:
Few months ago I saw some guys beating a female friend, I decided to help but it ended in tears.� the next place I saw myself was in the hospital.� Up till now the girl haven't even visited to say sorry� because of that, I've decided not to help any girl in my life again even if they want to kill you let them kill you. Girls are so ungrateful...pls share my story for others to learn

DenreleDave:
I don't understand why we guys are the ones weeping over ladies and for God sake, this statement seems to be common in every guys thread;


"This is a girl I love so much and planned to spend the rest of my life with."

I have been on nairaland for long and I have hardly come across a lady saying this statement. Like very hard to see a lady say this.

Moreover, why are guys the only one coming to lament of being heartbroken by ladies... What is happening in this part of the world? Are we losing our sanity Cox of these women?

Na WA ooooo.
Imagine every guy that comes here to lament will surely say; This is a girl I love so much and planned to spend the rest of my life with.


Spits

Cc: martinez29, seems ur red pill isn't effective anymore

Conceptman:
Na every Nigerian be fraudster now? UK take it easy o UK trying to gather money for their brexit by style

kurupt1:
I'm beginning to suspect that some people are cooking up Males Lamentations threads for reasons best known to them

mablie:
-There has been a lack of masculine role models in the daily lives of Nigerian males in the last 3 decades hence the confusion we see amongst males on what it entails to be a man today.
-The popularity of Nigerian pop music,nollywood movies even the Nigerian comedies Nigerian men consume is filled with women worshippers and women worshipping themes.Western entertainment is a worse form of cancer.
-The mother worshipping which is prevalent amongst Nigerian men (and which they carry like a badge of honour)is another issue Nigerian males have got to do away with because it indirectly leads to woman worship.

There are other issues to contend with but the lack of masculine role models is the main one.It's also a major issue in many societies and communities around the world

CAPSLOCKED:
BROS. I DON TIRE.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. We can only try but can't force it down their throat.Can you imagine somebody opening a thread that his wife has been refusing him sex and he doesn't have the balls to put a stop to it? He comes here nagging. Has he not being following all those teachings or he is just stupid? And he expect me to admonish the wife whereas he is the problem.Like I told you earlier,I don tire for their constant complains here.

ubunja:
damn. Everytime I hear these stories of "I thought she was a virgin but later realized she's screwing abc" I die a little on the inside.

Why are guys so trusting of the words of women?? It's like guys take everything women say at face value.... Smh.

Beverlyjean:
Your comment shows that you are truly brilliantly dull

Skepticus:
I'm red-pilled as a motherfûcker! Lol.

I'm surprised that you only picked the "demonize" part! I didn't mean demonize in a negative way. Please, don't get me wrong. I lacked a better word to use on that paragraph. Don't take it seriously. I've corrected it so that some readers won't term it as hating women or being an incel.

We share the same manosphere mandate of liberalizing men from the shackles of their ignorance.

Skepticus:
Martinez39, you have got to respect the Sisterhood/Pussy Cartel. They are the masters at scheming without elements of violence and aggression typical with male type. Plus they have existed for the beginning of our evolution as a specie till now.

Like Ubunja would say, learn from the best (women) and I have seen results learning from their mode of operation including those who are outcasts of the sisterhood (prostitutes). They always watch out for each other and for the "best deal" (genetic and financial hypergamy).

As much as we love to demonize them for their scheming, hypergamous attitudes, it's an evolutionary biological element for women to seek for the best mate (in whatever they judge as best) to carry on with our specie and this makes them highly opportunistic. In our wild primate cousins and as far as wild herbivores, like Zebra, their hypergamous demands are more stringent and brutal before a male can get a chance to mate.

We are more lucky that the improvement in the quality of life as a specie gives men more choice in mates than ever. However, they must learn that for their rational pattern of thought (men are more rational), Women are highly incapable of loving men like men would do and expect in return. This means that women are by nature, opportunistic