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GirlsDoItBetter:
Is not all girls. What else are you bringing to the relationship apart from money?

Was he talking about relationships?

itzvictor219:
Wait oo but why do girls look down on those that don't have now forgetting that the tomorrow of the said guy can turn for the better

Swallow the red pill.

Zabiboy:

Mehnnn...Although you shouldn't have asked such a question, but i'll just give you a tip...
Me: Nah....you haven't impressed me enough...
As Martinez would always say, "You have to be brutal"
@Martiñez39s, is this brutal enough??

He shouldn't have asked if she has feelings for him. Anyway, "do you have feelings for me?" is better than "I have feelings for you." I know you know why; the latter is a pusśy-drying utterance.

HER: yes and you?

ME: I don't really have feelings or concerns for you. I just want us to be fùck buddies in secret with no strings attached; I am not a man of love or committed relationship. Are you in?
N.B: if you are bad in bed like a log of wood, if you have no "bedroom" skills, and you are not down for "nasty" stuffs, [make sure you put the winking emoji ] then I'm not interested and will waste no further time with you.

@Brayss
You can take reply. You may modify my suggested reply based on your relationship with her; I don't know the nature of your relationship with her and how far you guys have gone. Zabiboy reply is also very good. Mine has an intention in mind, and it presumes you haven't simped (big time) for her already and you guys are not dating seriously.

tayeloveme4rel:
i went straigth to my email and checked the inbox and say paypal notification i saw £40,000 pound sterling i jumped up from my bed inorder to check if it was a joke i checked again and saw the same thing the joy was too much to control i was overwhelmed but i told no one about the new development.i was happy and exicted i called my brother and thanked him for the help.now it almost 2weeks now i used £10,000 for bitcoin on luno it has now grown to £20,000 within 2weeks of investment that a achivement.on tuesday morning i say her chat on whatapp with a photo attached to it saying 9ice time with my buddy lol i smiled and laugh i replied really with an emoji of i don't care she did a voice note saying looser mumu na u e pain pass i reply fraudster stinking gold digger lol, she replied fool big for notting boy broke ass boy fool i laughed again and went offline while all the absense of toyin god has been by my side blessing my work down from my office to my bitcoin wallet which presently is £28,000 now tbc

@emboldened text

Lol. Fishing for gullible folks who will contact you to coach them on bitcoin?

mgtow:


Something definitely happened to our former Ozo nice guy

Illumination is inevitable for the discerning

For the foolish however..........

As in. I have the intuition that nwaezeemmanuel is not telling us all there is as to what prompted his acceptance of the red pill. I might be wrong. It's okay if he doesn't want to divulge, I can understand, all that matters is that he is redpilled and will be never go back to the matrix. Dude used to be one of the biggest simp on nairaland, if not the biggest. His transition is a miracle.

luminouz:
Why don't you start the story from the beginning? Like when you met and toasted her till you married her!

This will be a good way to start.

@Rinoxy
Do you have children?

Rinoxy:
HELLO FELLOW RED PILLERS, I HAVE A QUESTION:
HOW DOES A MAN SHOW RED PILL TRAITS TO A WIFE WHO FEELS TOO BEAUTIFUL TO SUBMIT TO HER HUSBAND? THANKS BROTHERS.

There is a saying: "don't try to salvage the irredeemable." This is simple rule and common sense that men find too hard to adhere to.

If a wife is too proud of her beauty to submit to you and thinks the world revolves around her, dump her for good.

Valenciabaddie:
So I have to offer services before I can be useful? ..

Lol... Do you live in another planet?

SOZINN:
If women chase you like that
It's because they want to dig your gold
When you finally procure your goals, women start chasing you
Lmao
If she doesn't care when you are a beta, don't expect her to care when you are an alpha.
I think we need to clear this up
It's the resources not you
Don't get the feeling that they will just suddenly like you when you attain higher social status
Hypergamy does not care about the man
Only what he can offer

If you do get a girl that likes you when you are down, don't fûck it up
Cos she's a thousand times better than those fake hoes chasing you when you are up

I get what you are saying, but you misunderstood my point.

Jessepaid:
hehehe...

Guy drop oo

Make I update my trp software..

Don't worry, bro. We all make mistakes. I will drop when I am free.

Jessepaid:
I didn't collect her number tho...

If I collect a girls number I usually wait a day or two before calling...

Some I don't call at all...

After about a month I still didn't get a call from her........

I was still patronizing the shop cuz it was nearer and more accessible to me..

Then one day I asked why she hasn't called,
She said she lost the number...

I was once again irritated...

I asked for her number, took it, paid for my stuff and went home...

Once I settled, I called her...

We spoke briefly before she said she has to attend to customers...

She also said she is not on WhatsApp which I sensed was a lie but I decided to play along...

She gave me her Facebook name.. I searched the database of facebook but no match...

I have her my Facebook name to add me up...

She said she doesn't have data that when she recharges, she would do so..

2 weeks passed.. I called her again and she said she still doesn't have data....

That if I want I should come and take her phone and add my self....

I was shocked.....

Crazy ass stupid shocked...

I was so shocked I started laughing....

Then she made another excuse that she wants to
Attend to customers...

I was still laughing when I deleted her number..

Matter closed..

SMH. This is so utterly disappointing. I didn't see one single application of common sense in your post. Tufia!

You set up yourself as a simp and errand boy before her, so there can be no desirability from you before her; no woman will want a man who acts like a simp and her errand boy. YOU FAILED HER EARLIER ŚHIT TESTS. After that, you started revolving around her unknowingly like she is the center of your cosmos, you showed desperation and persistently chased even when she showed she wasn't talking you seriously. You became the fan, she became the celebrity; she reduced you to a pathetic beta and her ego is pumped because of your mistakes.

Just as we have the fruits of the Holy Spirit, as Christians believe, we have the fruits of simping. If you sow seeds of simping, you shall reap the following fruits:
(1) Regrets.
(2) Pain.
(3) Disrespect from females.
(4) Undesirability from females.
(5) Humiliation.
(6) Being ruthlessly exploited and played.
(7) Mockery.

Alpha males don't chase women. Women chase them. A woman cannot misplace the phone number of alpha males. They will climb mountains and make themselves available to alpha males. You were laughing when you deleted her number because you were oblivious to mess you made of yourself. In this case, she had the "last laugh."

I will come back and give you some tips and lessons. For now, I have to rest for tomorrow.

Jessepaid:
Shit...well

I can't lie...

Trp is evident...

Men are now knowing how to place value on themselves to avoid simping and insults..

There are certain times I would want to do something..

And my mind would be telling me.. Nah that's simping..

Let me tell y'all a story

I was in my villa last year for a while...

I noticed eyes were on me from elders to youths to women...

But I didn't mind, I was just doing my thing while avoiding unnecessary greeting and nosy questions..

There's this girls whose parents have a provision shop and a fish shop opposite my family's house..

I got there just to buy stuff...

Then all of a sudden this girl would see me and start trying to talk to me but I never gave her my full attention

You were doing well until after this point.

On one sunny day, i was in the market she was there also selling fish that her mum smokes...

She saw me, beckoned me to come over and have gave me a nylon to help drop at her shop..

I reluctantly did it...

❌❌❌❌❌ This is highly disappointing from you. What were you thinking? Anyway, let's say we all make mistakes. Next time, don't give any bimbo an inch to turn you into an errand boy. Next time, hiss and walk away. Seriously, you no try.

Mind you she's very pretty and village bros dey flock am.. plus she dey school for Nekede...

Doesn't mean a damn thing. Being pretty is not enough to fumble and be her errand boy for a minute, no matter what. Do you owe her anything?

The next day she saw me coming out of the house all fresh.. and she called like the way you call someone hawking something..

I was irritated but I kept my cool and went to her shop demanding what she wanted...

❌❌❌❌❌❌❌ You fuçked up big time. You need 41 lashes from a koboko whip. Next time, ignore her like the śhit she is and keep going your way as if nothing happened. Who is she to call you as if you are a hawker? Why compromise your self-respect and go towards her? Chances are that you have achieved more in life than her. ❌❌❌ YOU NO TRY, seriously.

She said I should help her and go to POS to deposit money for her....

What audacity! Had it been you had ignored her or put her in her place, she wouldn't have insulted you like this. If you don't see this as an insult, nothing can help you. Please, stop giving these females chance to insult or disrespect you, and don't be soft on or lenient with them; ignore them and be quick to treat their fuçk up (if possible. eg. you could have sternly reported her to her parents and warn them to caution their daughter or risk losing a buoyant customer. Raise your voice in all seriousness and raise the roof)

Don't let any girl's beauty or sexiness make you misbehave.

I got more irritated... So I told her as calmly as I could that I want to buy something that I wont take 5 mins that once I am don't I will help her out...

At this point, I don't know if I should classify you as a simp. Tufia!

As I left her I went out and spent 5 hours..

When I came back I went straight to the shop to ask her about it, she said she sent someone else..

❌❌❌❌❌ You still fumbled. This your attempt to teach her a lesson is devoid of wisdom; it's lamentable. After wasting 5 hours of your precious time, you still walked back to her shop to INADVERTENTLY show her you are still on the matter and you are ready to do her bidding? This makes you a bigger simp before her. In her mind, it seems despite whatever delayed you for so long, you still had her request in mind like a diligent errand boy. It doesn't matter whether you delayed deliberately or not, that's how she sees you, she wasn't there with you to know what kept you so long.

I said ok and sternly told her never to call me like a hawker ever again...

She apologized and asked for my name..

I told her...

Judging from her body movement I guessed she wanted us to talk more...

So I told her to get her phone that I would give her my number...

She immediately started smiling...

She said her phone was down that she would write it on a pen a paper...

She rushed inside the shop to get writing materials...

I called it out for her and she wrote it down still gleaming...

SMH. Her looks turned you into a complete sucker. Next time, as a start, suppress the promptings of your peniś and always think about the implications of your actions. Always ask yourself "will this decision convey me as a simp or a man with no self-respect?" and "what image or perception of myself are my actions portraying?"

– "For all men have simped and fallen short of the glory of masculinity."
– "We all make mistakes. All that matters is that we admit them and improve ourselves.

I don't know if the story is true, but it's not beneath a woman to weaponize her kids against the father in her petty game of control and power dynamics. Also, it's not beneath them to poison their kids minds against their fathers. At any rate, women will readily use their kids as more pawns and as means to an end to their advantage when they can.

Rhodaogunpeju:
Why are our Nigerian Men so insensitive.

I'm naturally a chubby lady with curves and I remember vividy how my husband used to praise my physique and say I'm his spec. According to him skinny girls are not his type.

We got married and I have given birth to two kids and I added weight a little, plus we were living comfortably so the good life was evident in my life and body.

The church we normally attend, the pastor's wife has 5 kids already and she's much older than me but she still looks moderate enough with little or zero stomach fat.

My husband seeing this woman has constantly been telling me to try and work on myself, this man literally wants me to be skinny, when we married I wasn't skinny, the blow was when he compared me to my Pastor's wife, saying I have just 2 kids and I added weight while our Pastor's wife has 5 and she's looking like she never gave birth.. I cried and I have been crying since..


It hurts so much .. It makes me wonder if this man still loves me?

You story isn't complete. Whatever be the case, discipline yourself and go lose those fats.

Who heard about Quavo's and Saweetie's breakup? Dude allegedly spent two million dollars on her throughout the relationship. The same lady said Quavo "undervalued" her. I don't have the energy to type, I have to sleep.

EmeraldHash:
Guys things are really bad for me, and I need help
Am a 25 years old guy in a federal university, 400level, single, broke ass. I have been taking the redpills since last year and I have improve my mindset, by reading books, I have started working out, i.e going to gym, Now, my problem is that I am broke. I need to find a way to make money. Am using infinix hot7pro, I want to know how I can use my phone to make money or learn a skill that can fetch me money. Please help me, am tired of calling people and begging them to send me money. Thanks

The quickest way I earned a little cash, for the fun of it, during the quarantine's boredom, was by teaching some kids Maths. I didn't need the money, but I did it for fun and to relief boredom. Try finding something you can teach.

This is just my naive advice, na ajebo I be. People like emmaodet who has hustled hard can suggest something.

mrfizy:
There are only "strong" women in times of peace, never to be seen in times of war.
How then can there be equality?

Strong women who do not need men only emerge when things are safe. Feminism is the luxury of a safe and comfortable society.

When times are tough and brutal, like in the early beginnings of human existence, or in situations where survival is seriously threatened, women forget about equality and conceal their feminist loathing for men and hubris of female superiority and indispensability. Given that they will readily do anything to survive, they will morph into traditional women, openly and ceaselessly espouse traditional roles (to get men to provide and protect and paint themselves as frail damsels in distress, all for their benefits), and they will be solely concerned about being provided for and protected.

All talks about equality, man hating, female superiority and indispensability, and how men are the problem go to the wind lest, if the men are not simp enough, she will be made to walk her talk and shunned by men (who would be providing and protecting). Such would be detrimental, and even the most radical feminist will never try such. Unsurprisingly, when men start stabilizing the society and making it increasingly safe, the same women who sat aside as traditional women and allowed men do all the dirty and hard work, emerge as feminist and demand all the "front seat" in the civilization men virtually built singlehandedly.

Unfortunately, the latter generation of men will indulge almost all the whim and caprices of feminists and concede all the "front seats" to them. Even if they do not let women have all positions of power, they will succumb to seduction, female wiles, and feminist and gynocentric rhetorics. When this happens, they will craft laws and enable social situations that usher their society into a gynocentric world order. Sadly most men are not bothered as they are busy simping and chasing a nawalt instead of cooperating and fixing the issue of gynocentrism. They think they just have to find the "right one" and they will be exempted from all the significant troubles of a gynocentric society.

Offpoint1:
Using your earthly father to illustrate doesn't equate them to God, stop craftily avoiding my question.

LOL, what I asked will take me away from God? I reserve my comments.

They will make any assumption to defend their God and put Him in a good light.

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid to even this is also way over your head since you lack basic comprehension of the gist of the story as far as the book is concerned.

That book is written in plain speak(human language) so I am led to believe you have never actually read it for your own self so you at least have a base understanding of what it is indeed about, let alone the reason for which I ask this man the question that I did. So, what do you care?

INTERPRETATION: I can't counter, so just go away.

Kobojunkie:
You seem to be the source of your own confusion.... Jumping all over the place with your many claims.

INTERPRETATION: I cannot counter anymore, but I still find you insufferable.

Dtruthspeaker:
Come on now, if you go babalawo and E no work, U no go comot for there?

But if a person says "if you go to the Christian god and pray and no change, u no go comot from there?" I am sure you will not accept this. You will say God is not a magician or a genie to grant all our wants, and that his ways are better than ours.

Kobojunkie:
Let me ask you a question. What if, in order for you to get to the one true God - for God Himself to speak to you directly and live inside of you, guiding your every step(not in your imagination, mind you), you have to in fact loose everything you have left right now(House, business, self-respect, your ego, self-esteem, possessions, money, degree, you may even be required to leave family..etc), would you do it?

If starting right now, you were had the chance to rid yourself of all that is left, with a guarantee from God Himself that He will catch you and you will get back even more than you lost, if you will be willing to Trust Him and obey Him, will you take the "leap"?

Can you reread the nonsense you just typed? Why must he be devastated and rendered depressed before God can speak to him? To what end? Was King Solomon devastated and depressed when God spoke to him? Is there any necessary thing the all-powerful God cannot achieve if he speaks to pendragon35 directly in a good financial state? Why deprive him of all that he has and lead him into depression as a prerequisite for speaking to him?

Kobojunkie:
What confusion?
God sent manna to a bunch of slaves descended from a man called Jacob. That does not mean He sent it to the entire world. Try to follow along, will you?

The bulk of the Old Covenant/Testament story is indeed about the descendants of this one man and not the entire world. God was only interested in this one people... the rest of the world was without Him.

SMH. God was virtually interested in the Israelites alone given His covenant with Abraham. Now that many are born again almost worldwide, is God still interested in only Israelites (Israelis)? Even Galatians 3 vs 7 clearly stated that Christians are children of Abraham due to their faith in Jesus. Why do some Christians starve seriously, even to death, when their God once rained manna and meat from heaven and multipled few bread and fish to feed five thousand?

Besides, is it hard for God to feed the whole world by sending down food from heaven? Didn't Jesus say God makes the sun shine on both the good and evil and sends rain to both? Didn't Jesus command is to be like God and show love to those who don't love us, even those that persecute us? Matthew 5 vs 44–48

***tosses some more popcorn in popcorn-hole***

Lol. You think you've done something smart. *yimu*

Firstnebo:
You are not good with philosophy

I know you think you are wise.

Well to answer your questions: he didn't do those because he is not the ruler of the earth. Since your original father Adam wants us humans to rule ourselves, it should be our duty to find cancer cure, not God's

Hmmmm, confusion raised to the fourth power! Did god not send manna and meat from heaven way after Adam's transgression, heal the sick through his prophets, Jesus, and the apostles? Who was the ruler of the earth when all these things were taking place? Why didn't it leave it as their duty to seek these things themselves?

Firstnebo:
I don't like to debate with people that are only interested in winning arguments.

The whole premise of the Bible is that God created man to be under him but man chose his own way, therefore God let him go and try.

Now you say it's my own assumption. If you don't want honest debate, then I am out

I am put in this world same as you. It's not my obligation to prove anything to you because I am a Christian. So I don't see why I should suffer to proof that the Bible says A or B

I never said you have to prove yourself. In fact, if you don't want to discuss with me, simply ignore my mention.

As a reply to my post, you typed with your own hands that god allowed Adam's offsprings to fend for themselves after Adam's transgression. I showed this to be wrong, you then shifted the goalpost from "intervened" to "purposed". And now you accuse me of trying to win an argument?

I rest my case with you.

Firstnebo:
Those instances are not examples of God's intervention.

They are instances of him carrying out his purpose of gaining back his rulership of the earth. He didn't "intervene", he "purposed"

Oh really? Why doesn't he "purpose" for a terminal cancer patient or an amputee? Why doesn't he "purpose" for starving kids by sending manna and meat from heaven? Perhaps, he could send the angel of death like he did in Egypt to free innocent children from their molesters who leave irreparable trauma in their wake?

I rest my case with you. Good night.

Firstnebo:
It still could be reasonable to reason there is God and your number 2 be partially accurate. The first part.

Actually that's what the Bible said. That Adam sinned and God let him and his offspring on their own to fend for themselves

According to the bible, the Christian god didn't let mankind fend for themselves without divine intervention and provision to a selected few.
•• Didn't you read how He communicated with Cain and Abel?
•• Didn't you read about the ten plagues in Egypt and how He freed the Israelites through Moses? Did He not intervention in these situations? Did He leave the Israelites to fend for themselves and allow nature take its course?
•• Didn't He send manna and meat from heaven? Do these look like He left them to fend for themselves? Why can world hunger be solved if He has such power? How about the encounter on Mount Sinai?
•• What about the prophets and judges he sent throughout the old testament? Does this look like god left mankind to fend for themselves? What about the messiah he sent in Jesus?
•• What about the promise of the Holy Spirit to believers?

I could go on and on, your explanation that God left mankind to fend for themselves is your own assumption that isn't even supported by the bible.

Firstnebo:
"Prayer is utterly useless" because of an hypothetical poll question?

A reasonable comment would have been to answer the poll as a poll and not as a data

I don't need a poll to know prayer is utterly useless. Even if a poll supports an idea, it doesn't mean that the idea is true; truth isn't determined by the decision of the majority. I never brought up the issue of a poll.

What can prayer actually achieve really?

specialmati:
and i said you cant be using head knowledge to get answer to spiritual fact. go and read about what prayer and faith you claim they have means.after that ask any question i will answer you.

Stop prevaricating. Did you mean the cancer patient should give God the money he could have used to buy drugs and pay hospital bills? YES OR NO

specialmati:
you really need to study the words you mentions you just dont they one side and be shouting they prayed and have faith without knowing what prayer is all about.what did you know about faith i told you what i deed in my own case with the level of faith i have in the Lord and you are telling me what you think in your head. . pray until something happen have faith as little as the mustard seed and say to that sickness to varnish and it will.they have to act on the level of faith you claim they have to get well.shalom

I am not insinuating anything. I simply asked a yes-or-no question. Let me repeat:

Martinez39s:
Just to be clear, you mean the cancer patient should give God the money he could have used to buy drugs and pay hospital bills? YES OR NO

specialmati:
the woman with the issue of blood has to step out to go touch his garment to receive her healing.i have to start giving God the money i should have used in buy drugs to never to fall sick.until you get the result do something what do you understand when you said faith what do you know about faith. Most of you think these things doesn't work.if it doesnt work then God is not faithful then.until you get to that point where you pray and tell God if He doesnt heal you then so be it.people that manufactured car have spare parts.thats human what makes you think God that manufactured our body doesnt have spare parts in stock in heaven.He still does miracle.satan is the one making people to fall sick all these manner of sickness,God himself is not even happy that one falls sick

Just to be clear, you mean the cancer patient should give God the money he could have used to buy drugs and pay hospital bills?