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CaveAdullam:
1. I don't really fancy this term: "It is Nigerian girls/black women mentality". It is all about women! Women doing their thing, and following their instincts in different locations and demographics.

2. Now, in advanced and developed countries were basic amenities are available and unemployment rate is low, women will seek for dudes with athletic figures (good genes and protection) because the economy side of hypergamy (provision) has been provided by proxy, that is, via the government.

While in an underdeveloped nation like Nigeria, women will gravitate towards men that will be able to fund and satisfy their economy side. They do frolick with broke dudes though, but for a short period of time or within intervals. The beta man is always their last option for marriage or long term relationship.

Shift back a little and you'll see clearly that hypergamy is at play whether in developed or underdeveloped countries.

3. Even in Western nations, there are still cases of Incel, simpidenmic, suicide rate, male virginity amongst others which might be weak but positively correlated with men not having access to women.

If hypergamy cannot get that one particular man, it will spread her tentacles!

Thanks.

Lightheaded:
Chilled beer for you comrade, who knows if she was twisted and turned. I told Christian don't believe that shxt, you don't know what actually happened.

I've said it before it's not my job to save anybody, if you can't reason how I do and my little advice, then simp away.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] That's why I love the redpill... You get to see the shyte in slo-mo before it hits the fan...Why did Jasmine tell Gerard? Because she sees Gerard as a beta orbital and whatever Gerard thought they had together was nothing less than horseshit...I think you should let Gerard be, he's already in simp hell as it is...And yeah, you see that smooch thing Richard had with her?? She was actually f**ked....With Buruntashi, if I put my imagination to 'good' use.[/color]

Smartb0y:
You're really trying

ProphetJeroboam:
Times without number I have seen girls say “I hate that guy, he’s such an asshole, he thinks every girl likes him and he thinks he can fvck any girl he wants” , the interpretation of this being “That guy has been with lots of girls, he has his way with women and I am frustrated that he hasn’t found me attractive enough to flirt with” , 10/10 times this girl will be receptive to the playboy’s advances because it is in the nature of women to want what other women want. If a girl says “I hate that guy, he’s such an asshole” , she wants that guy’s attention.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 327, REDPILL 2021

Ladies be claiming "I'm in a relationship, I'm engaged, I'm not searching", but keeps ticking the single box in evey forms they fill.

BRO, YOU ARE JUST AN OPTION, A MEANS TO AN END, AND AT THE RIGHT TIME YOU'LL BE DISCARDED!

Reverse the game!

Don't be a fool!

Authority: don't be a simp.

emmaodet:
Let us even assume you are right with your “men love opportunistically and are selfish”
But then, in the process of loving a woman, he makes VISIBLE and TANGIBLE impacts in the life of the woman. Can we really say that about the average woman?
Yes, to you men are selfish yet he places her on monthly income, showers her with gifts, sponsor some to school, take her abroad etc. what else can a human ask for? If that is not Love enough then what else?
You can hardly date the average woman out there and after a year you do an appraisal and see what she had done.
If it is sex, they both helped each other. If it is prayer, advice, emotions support, the man is also giving her.
You also said in one of your comments that men have self esteem issues reason while they date ladies below them instead of going for there mate - are you really kidding me? With one mouth, we scream women are hypergamous, in other words they won’t date a man they perceive their mate or below them. They will look down on him and not respect him. He won’t be attractive to them. There was a thread last week were ladies were commenting they hate broke struggling guys approaching them. Another thread a claimed she is earning far above her hubby and he has to step up and move his ass if he is to earn the respect and head of the house blah blah blah.
It seems you are a lady and this may be my last comment to you because it seems you are not here to learn anything rather push your points.
What a mama needs in life is “Rest of Mind/Peace” and not another competition at home with his said wife who is regularly telling him to measure up instead of helping or support. Most women at your level won’t give you the rest you need after the daily pressures of life because they will be rubbing shoulders with you at home.
No reasonable man will want to settle for less.
If given the opportunity and my rest of mind, peace, respect guaranteed, I will always choose a presidential daughter to the average common street girl.

This is the mind of a woman: a woman with low self-esteem who is a 10 will think she is a 6 will think dating a man who is a 7 is leveling up; the same woman will reject a man who is a 5 in SMV. This is what women see as low self-esteem. Obviously, this women doesn't even love the man who is a 7.

Regex:
Saved!

ma373733:
Ever happily after
Or happy everyly after I don't know how they say that crap is what is killing men in the west

Disney fantasies

adambeatz:
same story bro, damn you're always updated

adambeatz:
Lol i read the case of a man who forged his wife's signature and divorced her for years without her knowledge . Bro lawyer straight up no time wasted.

DropsMic:
Person wey them suppose stone rotten egg

Peaceyw:
Intact we are not open minded, don't come and use "open-minded" to score cheap points here. Let us be narrow minded, we love it like that. Imaging saying " I thought redpillers were more open-minded". Which means you don't even see urself as a redpiller and u want to come and tell us what to do here... Abeg getat

CAPSLOCKED:
I WAS BORN THIS WAY. BUT IF THAT WASN'T THE CASE LIVING IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD WOULD HAVE MADE ME IRRELIGIOUS DEFINITELY. THERE'S NO WAY THAT I'D SEE EXTREME LACK AND POVERTY, READ ABOUT ALL THOSE KILLED BY TERRORISTS AND WITNESS EMERGENCY VICTIMS OF ACCIDENTS AND OTHER TRAGEDIES AND HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT THERE'S A MARVELOUS GOD UP ABOVE LISTENING TO PRAYERS AND GUARANTEEING HUMANS GOOD THINGS.

PEOPLE ARE GOING THROUGH THE WORST THINGS EVERYWHERE BUT A LUCKY JOB SEEKER OR HUSBAND FINDER FEELS THEY'RE SPECIAL BECAUSE OF THEIR RELIGIOUS BELIEFS AFTER THEIR WISHES CAME TO LIFE.

IT'S FUNNY HOW ALL THESE VICTIMS OF TRAGEDY PRAY EVERYDAY AND CLAIM "IT'S NOT MY PORTION BECAUSE I'M A CHILD OF GOD" UNTIL THESE SAME BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO THEM, SO THEY CHANGE THE MUSIC TO "IT'S THE WILL OF GOD".

NOBODY'S SPECIAL. NOBODY'S HIGHLY FAVORED AND WALKING IN DOMINION. YOU'RE NOT WHERE YOU ARE BECAUSE OF "GRACE". WE'RE JUST LUCKY TODAY AND MAYBE TOMORROW THE LUCK RUNS OUT. AND WE'RE DEAD.

luminouz:
We have seen them all mudafucker!!!

The females who wouldn't give up, the blue-toothed saurus niggas who try so hard to get us down, the so-called 'woke' mudafuckin slugs who start off as redpill then morph into green pill before sloughing into bluepill and revealing themselves. The whiners who always scream no one likes them even after they troll others and act tough....the arguments, the debates, the pseudo-wars and the tete-a-tete sessions.

We have seen them all and we still stand strong. Because it's not about US, it's about the redpill.

So mudafucking troll, YOU TOO SHALL PASS!!!


Have a nice day brothers!!!

Peaceyw:
Stop feeding that guy attention, I figured it out early and told him to think before he post anything here. The whole attention he is getting has gotten to his head, @Martinez39s, ignore him, don't type epistles for him again, he just wants to feed his ego.

Someoneschild2:
... I only see a particular moniker trying to shove an opinion down every other person's throat.


Lmao @ "we are not open minded". Just a mischievous say of saying "you must accept what I say"

Let's stay on course, comrades.

Datboredberry:
Toxic positive? You can try better...

Datboredberry:
If he wants to...yes!

These is no point living and dying in pain...

He could breathe the carbon monoxide from a car... It's the most ideal.

MJBOLT:

joy giver don give am tears

Lightway:


I don't think you wrote this with a clear mind because this is totally rubbish. Girls have killed themselves with sniper and hung themselves when a man they love cheats on them

Men have done the same.

Yet you say the men were in love
But the women were not in love.



You said men love ideally, to the point where a man can love a woman without expecting anything in return which is a big lie. Show me a man that loves a woman without expecting her love in return, without expecting her feminity. I'm not going to talk much on this because they say men are not as emotional as women when in reality, men are the bigger fools...

They keep telling themselves that they fall in love..... LMAO and women use that stupidity to their gain.

There is no such thing as love.

Lightway:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites.
Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".

Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.

This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her.

Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys.
Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

Men don't love women. Blue-pilled men that spend on women have low-self esteem and think that by providing for a woman is the only way they can feel worthy. A woman is born with pussy, soft breasts, and a delicious mouth that can do wonders on your dick. A woman can give you kids, cook great food, and take care of your family. What does this blue-pilled man have? Nothing, so he gets money and assumes his provider position. Spending on this woman, hoping that she will give him (love) back. But women are not so straightforward.

There was a story posted here by a nairalander of his ex-girlfriend who he turned into his FWB and sleeps with her. He said she came for a round of sex and she told him of the four guys she is dating. These men are sending her money claiming they love her. One called her and talked about sex starvation but she shouted at him and he begged her. According to the poster, the girl is average in looks and curves

You can see that, this man is sacrificing his money for this girl and that's not  because of love. The man chose this average girl because he has low self esteem and doesn't think that the high-class girls will want him. Those beautiful girls are being chased by guys with Range Rovers and Benz, so he is not close to their league. He goes for the average girl and tries to entice her with money. But since AWALT, she can see through his low self esteem.

When it comes to marriage, it is almost the same. Nowadays, men have fantasies of marriage rather than the reality. Men dream of playing with their kids, helping their wives with the dishes, and all that shit they see on TV. They think that, this is love. That's how love works. The reason they do this is because they believe that by making her happy, helping her out, she will love him or care for him which is not the case because women don't think that way.

I can go on and on with many examples of how a man's mind works.  A man will look for an average girl to date or marry so that he can assume his provider position. This is why you see a girl will be rude to a guy but he will still go ahead to provide for her. Not just because he sees himself as a provider but also because he has low self esteem and feels worthless if he can't help his girl. He is also being drawn by his need for sex. He invests in her and can't pull out anymore. Women are smart.

Men don't love ideally. I deeply respect women because they're becoming smarter than men. They are seeing through a man's self esteem and a man's constant need to prove himself. A man wants to always show a woman that he can provide for her and he also wants sex. A woman doesn't want all men based on her preferences but she can take advantage of his urges to be a provider and need for sex and use it to enrich herself. Just like Mercy, Tasha, Erica, Nengi, Destiny Eitko, Tiwa Savage, Maria, Tonto Dikeh, Mercy Aigbe

Men need to understand that they are fooling themselves thinking that they love women. Love is just a word created from English language to make life look beautiful.

There is a story on nairaland of a guy that is struggling, but still providing for his girlfriend who is in school. The same man is still in school and sacrificing to feed her. Why does he do this? Because he sees himself as the provider. This is not love.

Providing for a woman and seeing her happy, makes a man happy. He thinks that providing for a woman is how he shows his love.

Ask a man to show love to a woman without providing for a woman and he can't. That's why you see men wail when a woman breaks their heart. That after all he spent on her. It is always after all he has spent

Men see themselves as providers and believe that by providing for a woman, they are showing love and hope that the woman will love them back.

Take note, these men hope that the women love them back. These men are also average with low self esteem and their money is their confidence. That's why you see them spending heavily on women that don't value them. It is one reason I love bad boys. They make women feel great without spending a dime These bad boys know that what men call love, is a fool's dream. It is the fantasy of love from Hollywood.

You hardly see a man that loves a women but won't spend heavily on her. In a man's mind, spending on her is how he shows his love. Which is just a fantasy in this generation. The world of old required men to be providers and protectors but never said that, "This is how a man loves a woman". The same way our grandfathers never used the word "love". In fact, many languages like Igbo don't have a word for "love".

Lightway:
I will like you to explain it further, but I'll also reply to this.

Men do not fall in love.

A man that trains a girl through school has money. He goes for a girl that is below his status and tries to build her. Why does he do this? Because he sees himself as a provider. The man that does this chooses an average girl and tries to build her not because of love, but because he sees himself as the provider and doing so will make the girl loyal to him. That is what he thinks, but women are smarter.

You talk about sacrifices. There is a story of a girl that killed herself after she found out that the boy she set up a business for was cheating= on her. This was a young girl of 23.  Since you say women love opportunistically, why would a woman spend her all to make a man happy to the point that the man cheating on her caused her to kill herself. This means that she was in love. But Redpill says that women don't fall in love.
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