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solidmyk:
Baba, but one of your account still belongs as a member or you never bothered to retrieve it?

The one whose profile picture is the ace of spade. I couldn't retrieve it. I have a new account now.

Iamdbull:
King Martinez what's good?

My G, my former phone was stolen and I couldn't retrieve my former WhatsApp account. I haven't been of the S*rllipd*r eht group since 5th of October. Can you help add me to the group? Are you still in the group?

Iamdbull:
Thank you

How far?

Reminderz:
na the toxicity of Martinez dey make people talk say marriage na useless sometingss for this thread... the guy with his toxic mentality.. the guy go dey talk say all women are hoes.. all women cheats go mgtwo.. women are useless, relationship are useless ... like godammit.. what did the guy really face in his childhood... this is totally absurd... this thread is making men considering marriage foolish... go baby mama, go surrogacy... like that's the ultimate goal... this is so damaging to the society in the long run... very crAZY stuffs... na here I hear say marriage is very useless omoooo tinz dey happen oo.. so many families are living fine till date... no be when one thing happen, news go carry that one thing and people go start to dey generalize.. what about those where it's working for them mehn which kind mentality and speech you expect from person wey nor even like pikin or wan born pikin sef?? ahh I pray for the guy omoo

how many men nowadays really look at the red flags when choosing women? nor be love blind their eyes and their bluepill mindset into choosing wrong wife's.. how one person choice take relate to everybody.. ahh omoo... mehn.. this is only being exaggerated with the use of social media and the likes..

KiNg0G! Welcome back, nwannem. You see, I have never demanded of or imposed it on anyone to go mgtow and not to marry. You see, I have never said that being redpilled means that you will shun marriage or die single and childless like I have voluntarily chosen to. That is MY path. People must note, as I do, that not everyone shares your interest and aspirations. What is a holy grail to you (eg. family, building up a next generation) is inessential to others. Being open-minded to be able to understand this is a hallmark of maturity.

The fact that I am giving my personal take based on my understanding of the red pill from my journey in life doesn't mean anyone should follow my path. If I see no reason to get married after weighing the pros and cons while considering myself or I think it that it isn't worth the stress when red pill is applied, why should anyone care? Do these mean I am stopping anyone from getting married or implying that they are lesser redpillers for getting married? Have you seen me vilify or belittle those who want marriage?

Young Dolph?!

I can't believe this.

LutanFyah:
The lady did what she did cos she was past the wall and the numbers of eligible suitors are declining,thus she had to fatten her cow to make the most out of him.

The young man took the offer cos he is from the world poverty capital and he needs that offer to survive and leave the shithole.


IT'S A CONTRACT THAT BOTH PARTIES ARE WILLING TO TAKE MASKED AS LOVE.

Calculated investment and gifts.

Goddamn! It is too bad that what was supposed to be a simple and civil discussion devolved into something else.

heartofcity12:
Blue pilled men are huge part of the problems. They don’t like to learn even when women are telling them the harsh realities straight to their faces. More screenshots comments on the post to confirm ‘hypergamy’ bro.

Hypergamy is natural. The more men we have learning and accepting this and the fact that the love they have be brought up to believe is non-existent from a woman's end, the better. Look at young blue pill men who can do better with their lives (especially financially) giving themselves the burden of needless romantic relationships where they invest time, money and energy only to later see that it was all futile. In your productive years, focus on building, growing and establishing yourself; don't take women and relationships seriously. You have more to gain by that.

Till evening.

Smartb0y:
I always laugh at guys that upgrade their ladies when dating them.

It always end in cries�

I always tell guys to stop upgrading women and investing so much in them and their growth all in the name of romantic relationship. Women are not good investments in this regard, deal with it. Leave her at the level you found her, e her why; take what you want and shift her aside, simple. What men are usually looking for in relationships can be gotten without relationship so why single out one woman, accord more regard to her by committing to her, invest and spend on her and start doing serious boyfriend-girlfriend stuff for many months or few years? Kilode? What special and meaningful thing men usually think they have in relationships are usually lies, assumptions, illusions, blissful ignorance or overrated śhits.

That's just my take. I am mostly referring to conventional romantic relationships.

heartofcity12:
Sounds harsh but Nike Adexa is damn right. A lot of women confirming Hypergamy here. It is what it is. #trp

Lol. Thank goodness a woman said it with her mouth. Even at that, a blue pill man was still arguing with her, calling her take "bad energy." What saddened me was the way the guy was genuinely happy for his girlfriend. There are guys who have good intentions towards their girlfriends and have been helpful to their spouses, yet we all know how it turned out when their girlfriends made more money and met better options. These guys were dumped regardless of the sacrifices they made in the past, that's hypergamy for you. Some women are not just content to leave, they will add derision, belittling remarks and attitude while leaving. These guys don't deserve it after everything, but it is what it is. It pays and helps to take the red pill.

If a woman confirmed and reaffirmed the red pill to blue pill men, most wouldn't listen; they would say the woman should speak for herself and not other decent and good women out there. Lol. These men will say things like "because you (and your friends) are like that doesn't mean other women are like that. There are decent and good women out there."

Ninejaywon:
So, my younger brother was escorting one of his women to a bus stop around 9.00 pm and that area can be very dangerous,too many cultists/ strongmen, armed robbers and the likes. As they were approaching the bus stop, from nowhere he saw about seven guys , some with Cutlass, some with broken bottles but the one that pumped his adrenaline was the 9mm with one of them.
On a good day, baba go fit take down 3 of them, he is well built has some boxing skills. But that day was no day to display stupidity. The baba just take off, the way he ran for his life not caring say babe dey him side.

Funny enough,those guys didn't do the girl any bodily harm. They took her money and phone.

Babe was now calling my brother a coward,not a real man, not man enough. My brother wey be red pill merchant, just dey laff for phone. If he had died or sustained any injury while trying to prove "man enough", I would have disowned his corpse. .

Your younger brother deserves a gold medal in the art of putting himself first. He is blessed.

Lightway:
I have a question

The redpill says even if a girl loves you so much, she will still cheat on you.

She might cheat because she wants variety of dicks
She might cheat to get money for you
She might be cheating on her real boyfriend to date you.

In fact, girls don't love, they only love the feeling..

Indeed, women don't love. Men love ideally, women don't. Their romantic association with you is based on what they can benefit from you and how you make them feel; they are highly self-centered in this regard and always seeking their best interest. There is no such thing as genuine and unconditional love in a woman's world. Finally, all women are hoès and cheats: this is a bitter truth many can't swallow.

What is the essence of dating girls since AWALT

Well, most people date because they hope to build a serious relationship that would lead to a family/marriage; redpillers that hope to marry for reasons known to them will date, no matter how brief. I don't know about others, but the more I learnt about the red pill, understood women, and went deep down the rabbit hole and saw behind the veil, I saw no good reasons to consider committed relationships or anything serious with a woman. It is safe to say that as far as serious and committed romantic relationships are concerned, women are not to be taken seriously and they are usually not worth the stress. I find it fitting that a man just does sex without any strings attached. This is even more fitting in today's society and the time we live in.

Some will think this is reflective of some bitterness, hatred or hurt within me, but it is not. I think these casually and sincerely. Does this mean you should hate women? No! Does this mean you should love women? No! What then? Deal and associate with them with utmost indifference and based on what you need from them (eg. Sex) and necessity; there should be no reason to involve love or feelings. Put your interest first. If a particular women is not giving you want, cut her off or shift her aside. To simply point, it is pointless and a waste of time to be dating a woman; I say this from my red pill understanding.

If your wife is only marrying for your resources and not love. She can leave you any day she sees that a better and richer man is attracted to her.

What is the value of getting married?

Well, you are at a point many redpillers once were. Society sold the ideas of romance and marriage to men while shrouding them in blue pill lies, fantasies and unrealistic expectations: that women could love in the same way you could love them; that this mutual love exists and forms the foundation of your union with your women; and, related to the first point, that your woman can have your back and be your ideal teammate in the union who is willing to reciprocate and make the type of sacrifices you make for love.

Given that these expectations and ideas were discovered to be false by people who swallowed the red pill, it was understandable that marriage, the way society sold it, became totally pointless and worthless to them. There are some redpillers who still want to marry, but this time around, they will try to fashion their marriages and the dynamic within through a red pill len. Even at that, I still never thought it to be worth the stress and time.

In today's world, I would advice a man who is interested in raising children to choose surrogacy.

I will also like Ubunja to throw more light on this please

I hope he does.

What do you think? Any more questions? Any aspect of my answer you would want me to explain in detail?

Lightway:
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Okay, hope your day went well

It did. Give me some minutes to write down my reply.

Martinez39s:
@lightway

I haven't forgotten our appointment. I am almost home; the traffic is terrible. Once I get home, I will write down your answer and post here. As I said, I will be free till midnight. Cheers.

I am back home.

@lightway

I haven't forgotten our appointment. I am almost home; the traffic is terrible. Once I get home, I will write down your answer and post here. As I said, I will be free till midnight. Cheers.

Carchoice:
She’s a very silly lady. Last time I heard from her was three months ago, She fought with someone and texted me to send her money to go treat herself. I told her I don’t have and She didn’t write me for good three months. Not even a Hi. She came back today and asked for money, i replied her if that’s what she takes me for, to ghost anytime she likes and come back to ask for money. She tried teasing me with nudes on video. I told her the trick won’t, She started calling me wicked.

Their major weapon failed on you.

emmaodet:
Apooooooorrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!

At least he made the smartest move. Other simps would have been planning on doing "the right thing" and making wedding preparations without asking questions or suspecting anything. They will try to be responsible and take on their responsibility, without proper investigation; you know it's "the right thing."

Lightway:
I have a question
The redpill says even if a girl loves you so much, she will still cheat on you.

She might cheat because she wants variety of dicks
She might cheat to get money for you
She might be cheating on her real boyfriend to date you.

In fact, girls don't love, they only love the feeling..

What is the essence of dating girls since AWALT

If your wife is only marrying for your resources and not love. She can leave you any day she sees that a better and richer man is attracted to her.

What is the value of getting married?

I will also like Ubunja to throw more light on this please

Nice questions! I will write the answers and post them here tomorrow evening around 6:00 pm after I have settled at home. From that time till midnight, we can free discuss anything you like. I hope that's okay by you. Cheers.

Blueelf:
Kai bro, I respect you but that is pride slowly creeping in

You may not know this but a lot of us look up to you in this thread.

Leadership means that when you're available (when you're free), you should take time to answer questions mood or no mood.

I know what i am saying because I am currently holding 2 leadership positions and I respond to all questions when I am free.

I can understand people purposely asking stupid questions just to troll. Those ones you can avoid.

Not trying to insult you oo just making sure you don't deviate from the right track

Otherwise, you're doing well bros. I hail!!!

I get where you are coming from. Believe me, I do my best to answer questions. I even have people from nairaland offline that I spend a lot of time attending to on WhatsApp and Gmail. I have done this for years. I have never gotten paid for any of these or collected gifts from anyone (even when they insisted) even though I have assisted some financially. I have done a lot in helping people get the red pill and I have never involved pride in it.

These days, I am very busy and my days tend to be stressful. Sometimes, due to the stress and need to relax, I am not in the mood to rack my brain composing long posts; people here know I like to go into details. Sometimes, I am stressed out such that I just want to relax and put in short posts here and there. Typing lengthy posts and rereading for errors before posting are not as easy as speaking. One answer you give can sometimes lead to a lengthy discussion, and I wouldn't want to disengage and leave things undone. The only time I am usually free to profoundly answer questions are the weekends and the evenings of Wednesdays and Fridays; other times, I visit here to take a short break from whatever I am doing. Despite being busy and getting more involved in work, I still make contributions and answer questions. Anyway, I have told Lightway to ask any questions and I will make out time to answer him tomorrow evening, as long as he wants.

Cheers.

Smartb0y:
gbam!!!

I usually pity simps and blue pill men that report their spouses to the spouses' mothers, sisters, friends or aunts on certain issues. They think they are rectifying things, but they don't know that they are informing teammates of their spouses in the sisterhood club.

Lightway:
You ignored my questions but when I post real life stories, you come out of hiding..

Go ahead

It's not all the time that I am free or in the mood to attend to questions. I do answer people's questions and even turn the answers to profound lectures sometimes (like I recently did with JESHAL). Just don't expect it all the time. Anyway, if you are disgruntled, ask me questions and I will answer them tomorrow evening, I will make out time.

Smartb0y:
I recall some time ago saying if you truly understand woman nature,you'll be discouraged associating with them.
i guess light way post validates my disposition.
the rabbit hole is way deeper than this lol,this is just the surface.
imagine the mom being involved,that just proves even more that hypergamy has no age restriction hehehe.

The mum's involvement is a testament to the sisterhood phenomenon.

If you believe people run mad due to diabolic and supernatural influences, I don’t know what to say to you.

Lol. Women are smart in the game, men are big fools in it. I give her a thumbs up. Her plan is gradually working. I presume this story isn't a fabrication.

ChiefSosa:
^^The above quote was the first thing I said in my comment. That should tell you I condemned it outrightly. You're being a bit emotional, bros!

Don't waste time on daft individuals.

ChiefSosa:
Read and comprehend. ChiefSosa did NOT support the boy. He even highlighted a part of his comment in Red color, but people like you that can't comprehend simple comments will still be misquoting him. Smh

From the responses you have been receiving, you can see that the average IQ of the average Nigeria is low. No sound reasoning or ability to effectively comprehend; instead, what you have are people who let emotions and sentiments colour their judgements. No wonder the country is the way it is.

This is not proper. Na dem sabi.

Oluf3mi:
And I see him paying dearly for it. Unfortunately

He will. His emotions got the better of him.

dhiqson:
Affirmative

What simps can't do doesn't exist.

When was that posted?

ChiefSosa:
In as much as it was totally wrong for the boy to assault his lecturer, but we can't act like some lecturers don't deserve some ass whooping.
You that you're reading this, I'm sure you can mention at least 5 lectures/teachers you wish you can Panel beat. Sentiments aside!
Lots of lecturers have made life a living hell for students.
There is more to this story and I don't think the boy will just randomly start beating the lecturer for no reason. This is a 400level student we are talking about. He must have been severely pushed to the wall before risking everything and then attacking the lecturer. He is a human after all and his emotions may have gotten the best of him, thereby making him overreact.
The case should be adequately heard and appropriately judged without bias, regardless of the parties involved. But, the guy would definitely have to receive some sort of punishment for assaulting a staff and fighting on premises. He shouldn't have done that. From the way she was crying and shouting, you'll know the guy really did a number on her. The guy should have just continued to endure till he will get the certificate he came for and leave the school. It's not going to be easy, but it's the smart decision.
I'm sitting on the fence for the main time.
We need more details.

You articulated my thoughts. In the first part of the video, when the final year student was apprehended, the word "project" was mentioned and I could guess what possible transpired.

Some lecturers in Nigeria deserve a good beating. If you have seen the sadism, wickedness, ego, and pettiness they mete on students, especially the post graduate students and those doing their project, you will never have any sort of sympathy for these set of lecturers. I don't agree with what the boy did, but I can understand. Not many student will ever beat a lecturer even when pushed to the wall, especially in broad daylight and in school premises where others can apprehend them, but the guy did such; that sounds like someone who has been pushed to the wall and frustrated and doesn't care a damn. The way the guy beat the woman and walked away showed he had no care in the world. Even cultists that want to beat a lecturer plan such attack in group and do it discreetly.

People are different and there is so much some can take.

Skepticus:
The photo summarizes everything about the SIMP

I feel no pity for him. He is a wicked and dangerous simp.