₦airaland Forum

the mistake you made was that you did not take your time to discover her breaking point, she's reached her breaking point and she broke, I'm happy you said she was reluctant about visiting you again and you persisted then the poor girl honoured, one thing that made the whole difference was that SHE DID NOT SLEEP WITH YOU, though she must have Were Intimate with you in the past, but the moment she moved on, she did not allow you touch her even when you were sleeping together, not all women can do that, if am lying ask the guys here to tell you if they've slept with their ex even when she has another BF ( We often call it once there, always there). But she did not allow you, that even gave me the impression that she did not cheat on you for the period she dated you. SHe broke up with you long ago but was not strong enough to say it to you, some guys do that too. I want you to see that she's done the right thing, honoured your last invitation and still did not sleep with you. 4stars for that to her.
On a final note, she's moved on and am sure you've moved on too and I wish you all the best,
I hope people would see this the way am seeing it

we all know some of those diseases are transmitted in other ways too. But, remove the spread by intimate intercourse and see if we wont be avn a reduced prevalence.

If men would stick to their married partners rather than going around

Pot calling the kettle black.  Isn't  this the same fool who couldn't score against an open net at the last world cup?  Shio

should't the CBN rather liberalize the forex market too? that way anybody with fx reserves can sell to nigerians

This said guy might not be her dad but he is the man that says he loves her and he's suppossed to know when his girl needs support and help her out, after im papa no dey bleep am naa,and if d girl says no sex till after marriage he will start to complain. Nairalanders face reality here please.

Country of the CORRUPT, by the CORRUPT for the CORRUPT!

call me, i am a lecturer at lasu. if u have any academic problem

Why on earth would you want to do that to yourself?

because i love him,

I donot think the question is your acting or overeacting,



Next time someone is talking on the phone on a date : He / she is not taht into you.
He could not have been driving so bad  ah for you to have enjoyed the ride home   anyway Next time someone is talking on the phone while driving: tell them to park you want to buy barbecued plantain (Boli   ) as soon as you get down hail a taxi without looking back ( Life is precious)

Lagos's traffic is crazy its always fair to meet up on a first date instead of being picked up so that you can make sure he is there first before you arrive, ( 2) On a first date try not to get into his car except of cos you have bbed his plate number to your sister just in case you guys are taking a trip to okija shrine instead of Chinese.

As for the restaurant, life is flexible he took you to a cheap resturant after you told him you like chinese not Mr biggs and when he tried to kiss you, you ran, My dear we cannot be beggars and choosers, on a 1st date if he does not ask you where you will like to go then follow him to where he wants to take you to; Its actually a fantastic way to find out  bit of his character whether he is a stingy koinkoin

My point is if you make a man think without having a date you cannot eat Chinese then guess what he will think you cheap and will be looking for the fastest route to your P and the fastest route to take off after the P.

Anyway sha the above is if you want a serious relationship with the guy.

but  na confirmed playboy and you want to teach him a lesson as in , if  you just wanna wobia the guy of cos choose those eatery where they allow take away and bring your own bowls with cover along, and pack your friends too,  then begin to point and order, keep an eye on him sha o, make hin no run.

Me and friends were super at this while at University , the next time you see him just flash a smile with a slow hiiiiiii,     he too go get am say nothing for him.

YOU SAID IT ALL,MY BROTHER YOU NEED TO SEE OUR OUR 9JA GIRL DEY TRY HOOKUP WITH ME ON FACEBOOK.
THEY KNOW WE ARE MORE EXPOSED THAN OUR CONS IN 9JA.MONEY NO BE EVERYTHING, AND WE TREAT LADIES WITH RESPECT.

YEYE PEOPLE, YOU WANT TO RETALIATE , THERE ARE WAYS OF DOING THAT.

1, FIX THE ROADS

2, PROVIDE STEADY POWER SUPPLY

3, PROVIDE SECURITY

4, PROVIDE EMPLOYMENT

5, PROVIDE GOOD EDUCATION SYSTEM

THATS HOW TO RETALIATE, IF YOU DO THAT, TRUST ME, MOST OF THOSE MISSION WILL START TO DO VISA PROMOTION.  APPLY FOR 6MONTHS AND GET 6YRS FREE   

APPLY FOR SINGLE AND GET FAMILY   

THEY WILL START TO BEG NIGERIANS TO APPLY, YOU LIVE THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM AND GO TO TACKLE THE LEAF .
WHY DO SO MANY NIGERIANS WANT TO TRAVEL OUT? THAT IS THE PROBLEM NOT HOW THEY ARE TREATED.

"Reps approve compensation package For Boko Haram!"

And that's because most of these stingy ladies often sit in hotel bars gaping around foolishly for a guy that would buy them a drink and take them away; even to buy ordinary Maltina, dem no fit.

dont forget that it is their hotels they can let who ever they want in and throw out who ever they want out! even if it is a woman!

I feel the poster personally Im too emtional to even try this kind of friends with benefits nonsense I know I will get emotionally attached and only end up crying like a baby when it all ends

I really don't know what to think? Maybe the love interest is long distance? In that case, unless he tells me to my face that he doesn't want to see me again, i don't think i can stop seeing him. As someone said somewhere, he's my spec, and i don't think i can i meet someone like that again.

I know he still loves me and has realized the horrible things he has done.

I know most of you will tell me to leave him but it's not that easy, the commitment and the sacrifice i have made in this relationship would not make that so easy for me.

yeah i had a rude awakening in dusseldorf germany. i went to a restaurant and they wouldnt serve me. of course this was the nineties. i had to slink out of that restaurant in shame after sitting for 30 minutes after everyone around me got served including all those who came after me. then it sunk in, dude they dont serve black people in germany   so i skedaddled and never came back.

E be like say den import some Asewos come this Film Premiere oooo, kai, se wo wo chicks, apart from 1 or 2 manageable 1's,  used to like that Victoria Inyama babe

We have got to face up to the truth of our situation, nigeria was sold out to the west lock stock and barrell a long time ago, the current crop of nigerian leaders are NOT in a position to challenge the west because the west has been responsible for keeping them in power, the west provides them with military aid just the same way they did with Mubarak, therefore it is highly unlikely that the nigerian govt will turn around to try refuse any IMF proposals.

spot on bro, when we have idiots ruling us, why wont we be kicked around like  football by shady international agencies set up to maintain the status quo. Sometimes people need to research under what condition such agencies like IMF,ADB,UN etc were formed to understand the nitty gritty of policies they come up with. Nigeria lacks the bargaining power hence they accept most policies hook, line and sinker. All to the detriment of the nation as a whole. Let heads come together and lets figure out our way out of this mess, oh!! thats just a far fetched idea of mine. I dont think the executive know what brainstorming or critical thinking is all about, well to say the least thats what the west think of African govts. Shell claims to have an official in every ministry in Nigeria with out the govt even noticing, it doesnt get any more embarrasing than this.

Finally, economic variables - currency, interest rate, foreign reserve balances etc. can only provide short-term cushions -- Our spending has to go into things that guarantee future value i.e capital investment,  I am of the opinion that devaluation makes it even more difficult to do this, hence my opposition to it.

I am of the opinion that devaluation makes it even more difficult to do this, hence my opposition to it