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This is a pathetic story especially when there is a commitment on the part of the husband, i will rather say it is a psychological problem rather than what you think, i.e infidelity. Maybe she has devoted much trust and passion to her first relationship and at the end of the day she was disappointed. What you need to do is pray over it coz there nothing impossible before God,
Wish you all the best.

Sorry ooo, some people are heartless sha. pele

na today, a begi e don tey jare.

Hell no !!!!, i struggle and burn candles in the night before i obtained my degree and i want my children to follow suite. But the situation in the country was so pathetic that those who manipulate are respected in the society.

@ poster i will like to advise you based on what you posted but there is something missing out from your explanation.

1. What exactly are you doing in your friends house early in the morning.
2. What type of work are you doing.
3. What prompt you from not picking his calls if you are sure "your male friend" is not your lover.
4. Have you at any point saw him with any act of infidelity.
5. Have you during the course of your relationship with him tell him your mind, probably your "does" and "don'ts".

If you can answer these questions truthfully, i will know what to say but be as it may you have already confessed you are with a friend early in the morning and no sensible and matured guy will believe you because you are suppose to be at work.
This is what i want you to do, look for somebody that you know he commands respects among his friends that can easily talk to him and beg on your behalf and also let him know that you have wronged him and such will nor repeat itself again. Let him give you a second chance and put things right.
I wish you best of luck. He can take you back since he loves you.

Nigeria we hail thee. our own dear native land, though mother's tongue may be differ in brotherhood we stand, and the old national anthem goes on, We continue to blame those in the Niger-Delta for holding the entire nation into ransom, why wont they kill, maim or kidnap (am not supporting them) when those we elected to represent them only go there to do justice to our money without considering how people in there respective community suffers.

If the figure presented above is anything to go by, then there is no law in this country, and everybody or anybody who have "forced himself or herself to serve us" must be ashamed of themselves, the list goes from the president down to council councilors. How did you want the international lending institution to pardon our debt when they know we can easily offset the bill judging from the account of just 3 Nigerians abroad.

Well, i didn't have much to say except that they should continue to loot and embezzled the public funds, posterity will judge.

If i am to vote, then the answer will be NO but since i don't vote,then they can go ahead but mind you our votes don't count anymore since everything now is "paddy-paddy" according to FELA. he he he

It is either you cleave or you leave, dat is the "logo" for the big boys now, proper mess.

It is either you cleave or you leave, dat is the "logo" for the big boys now, proper mess.

It is either you cleave or you leave, dat is the "logo" for the big boys now, proper mess.

It is either you cleave or you leave, dat is the "logo" for the big boys now, proper mess.

It is either you cleave or you leave, dat is the "logo" for the big boys now, proper mess.

I love this, it shows we are improving despite our poverty level. Man must wack now,

I will go for Soldiers and businessmen. We can all recollected during the Babangida era when Ogboru, a businessman collaborate to sponsor a coup in Nigeria, it was one of the most widely celebrated coup and had it been that it was successful maybe NIGERIA will be in a different era now.
So, i will always go for Soldiers and Businessmen, any other professions or institution can fight it out with other positions.

why not, it is as good as adopting a child,

its even too early, why don't they "pegged" it to 1 am, !

, smart guys. Just looking for a way out of this economic crunch.

I am guy and i must be sincere with you ,dont ever give any guy a 2nd or 3rd chance coz he will mess up again especially when they find out you are week emotionally. Am telling you from experience they will only use, bump and grind you into oblivion,all they want is your body especially if you are "good in bed"  .
  So my sister,say bye to those two coz i dont see them offering you anything than a broken-heart. What i want you to do is pray and believe your man will come to you at the right time and dont be desperate coz age is not on your side too but take time and dont get loose, now you in total control of you life.
Cheers,

[color=#990000][/color][i][/i] What a funny story and yet pathetic, bros you are welcome, you are now initiated into the system. But i guess all guys in the house must have went thru one ordeal or the other coz one so called Love. Well, since you now see what happened am not the type to tell you what to do but i strongly believe that no matter how you try to please her she will still do the same or something more dreadful than this.
U can forgive her and dont ever try to take her back,

Far from it, those at the helm of affairs do not even have that in mind, together we will ruin this country. Amen.

E don teyyyyyyyyyyyyy, and the last one i wrote was wen my then gurl friend was in school far away in the north, lol

those people @ d helm of affairs will suddenly catch cold on hearing d story, una go hear wen,

funny people with crazy pics,

We have not done enough for ourself, borrow ko,borrow ni. We can start shouting from now till eternity, they know what to do ,they just throw the question to the public to know our reaction,

The guy dey try sha,

As far i am concern, there is nothing bad in it but we need to be considerate atimes coz women could be dangerous, if you can let your husband see reasons why you want to build the house, no problem but dont do anything without his consent as this could lead to lack of trust, all the best.

yes now since she has nothing doing except taking care of the family, i think she needs to be paid for that,

No be lie TIWANTIWA N' MITITI,

If they will learn better that way ,i dont see any reason why it should not be used as a means of instruction,

You don already run away.