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Family › Keeping Our Relationships by mcdokwe(op): 1:47pm On Nov 26, 2014

A critical observation I made has proven that the internet, rather than promote healthy developments in some facets of our social existence, contribute to the problems we have. There are things we can decide to keep secret in our lives which would in the long run help us live a happy life, but on the flipside, we show stuffs that should be secret and hide that which should be open. A lot of women are not by natural occurrence not happy in their marriages and as much as they can, will frustrate others who do not understand their antiques and as much as trust their judgment.

The question should be, if others we depend for answers know it all, why do they still have issues?
The truth remains that most of us cannot bear the thought of others being better or happier than us in any way-marriage inclusive
It is worthy to note that not all same problem have same roots, and therefore solutions are contingent to individuals involved, what they want and how much they are willing to shift grounds to accommodate each other and thereby creating happiness their own way.
The best way to sort out differences in marriages especially where arriving at a compromise has proven difficult among couples should be professional counsellors with both parties involved (I do not include pastors in this category)
I therefore admonish our mothers and wives to learn how to create the ideal home as a lot depends on them.
You are a wife to a man and that means a lot already, do not compete with siblings, or other in laws
The two of you have been made one, nothing is absolutely wrong with you having the larger stake in financing, if by chance you finance the marriage, do not let it get into you. You are meant to support each other.
Never assume you can deal with a separate being without having issues, how you decide to handle it makes a lot of difference.
Love and companionship are beautiful, we should keep them beautiful when we find them

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 5 Types Of Applicants You Meet In A Room Waiting To Be Interviewed by mcdokwe(m): 12:40pm On Nov 26, 2014

I thought the era of types of people is gone huh

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 5 Types Of Applicants You Meet In A Room Waiting To Be Interviewed by mcdokwe(m): 12:39pm On Nov 26, 2014

all join

Foreign Affairs › Re: Afghan Mother Kills Talibans In Revenge For Slain Son by mcdokwe(op): 12:30pm On Nov 26, 2014

I wish the Nigerian family can rise up against insurgency rather than wait on the government.

Foreign Affairs › Afghan Mother Kills Talibans In Revenge For Slain Son by mcdokwe(op): 12:18pm On Nov 26, 2014

An Afghan woman has killed at least 25 Taliban militants in revenge for the killing of her son, who was shot dead before her eyes in western Farah province, local media report.

The woman, identified as Reza Gul, picked up arms after her son, who was leading a small group of police forces in a village in Farah, was killed by Taliban militants.

Five Taliban militants have also been injured in the gun battle, which lasted for almost seven hours.

The mother of the slain police officer was supported by her daughter and daughter-in-law in her battle against the militants.

The Taliban terrorist group has not made any comments about the incident so far.

Afghan Interior Ministry spokesman Sediq Siddiqui said the woman’s armed battle was a symbol of a major revolution and public uprising against the Taliban militants.

Farah is one of the most insecure provinces in western Afghanistan where armed militants frequently carry out insurgency operations against the government.

Taliban militants have recently stepped up their attacks against Afghan government troops, foreign forces and civilians.

They have vowed to escalate the assaults on Afghan forces and US-led troops, their bases, diplomatic missions and vehicle convoys before the drawdown of US-led foreign forces by the end of the year.

The United States and its allies invaded Afghanistan in 2001 as part of Washington’s so-called war on terror. The military offensive removed the Taliban from power, but insecurity continues across the country despite the presence of tens of thousands of US-led troops.

[urlsource=]http://www.presstv.ir/detail/2014/11/26/387558/afghan-mom-kills-25-taliban-militants/[/url]

Romance › Re: Am Confused. I Proposed To Five Pretty Ladies & Three Of Them Accepted. by mcdokwe(m): 12:47pm On Nov 25, 2014

butanep:
I have never been this confused. I proposed to five pretty & gorgeous ladies at different time, hoping that at least one will fall and accept my proposal. I was just playing the nice guy I am to them so that one will accept and fall to my chest.
To my greatest surprise, two of them called me last week, that we can start dating, that they find me interesting. As I was contemplating on who to accept, I received a message from one two days ago that she has accepted my proposal. I was so confused. I couldn't sleep, I couldn't reply them back, my head is just full with thought. I just want to accept one, but I don't know how the other two will feel, if I later decide to develop a cold shoulder on them.

Nairalanders, I need your matured and wise opinion to help me out of this tragedy without hurting anyone...

the other two might yet accept.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: April Born Reloaded»» by mcdokwe(m): 10:44am On Nov 25, 2014

pinkycute:
No you aren't here alone jhoooor

Well mine is April 6 and am looking for my mate #lolzzzzz

We belong together #winks

Sports › Re: Pictures From The 2014 Nigeria Federation Cup Final Enyimba Fc 2 Vs Dolphin Fc 1 by mcdokwe(m): 9:53am On Nov 25, 2014

Y d scanty stadia? Abi na because no be Chelsea?

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Education › Re: Apply For SEOF Scholarship For Secondary, Undergraduate & Postgraduates Students by mcdokwe(m): 9:50am On Nov 25, 2014

More of it please

Family › Re: Maid Who Savagely Beat Ugandan Toddler To Face Attempted Murder Charge by mcdokwe(m): 8:45pm On Nov 24, 2014

na wa o

Business › Re: Muslim Body Alleges Jewish Symbol On New N100 Note by mcdokwe(m): 9:28am On Nov 24, 2014

Religion

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Romance › Re: Guys Find It Difficult To Admire Their Girls. Why? by mcdokwe(m): 6:46am On Nov 24, 2014

I have come to notice overtime that a lot of people are too generous with compliments because girls enjoy it even when you are not looking so good. Come on! He goes out with you, sticks to you and is not ashamed to let people know you belong together and you want to compare that with mere compliments you are not sure is meant or well intended? Na wa o

Health › Re: Johesu Strike: Why The Public Silence? by mcdokwe(m): 9:51pm On Nov 23, 2014

omicron:
How do u mean? Those problems were not existent during the NMA strike?

meaning they're insignificant compared to what burdens Nigeria at the moment

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Health › Re: Johesu Strike: Why The Public Silence? by mcdokwe(m): 7:35pm On Nov 23, 2014

Nigerians have bigger problems to worry about.

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Romance › Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by mcdokwe(m): 9:42pm On Nov 21, 2014

JustBimbo:
Pls friends help Me. Am serious disturbed and not happy, can't go for lecture cos am week. Have an unprotected sex with a friend last 3weeks. I was feeling down n I opt in for urine test which I discovered am pregnant. Pls help... i need to finish school first. i am about three weeks pregnant and i need to know ALL the ways of getting rid of it before it's too late. please don't think badly of me. this is hurting me real badly but my boyfriend dosen't want a child right now either.

pls it is not a turmoil that you get rid of, I do not have much, I do not know you, but for the sake of the unborn and the love of children generally, I don't mind claiming responsibility and helping in every little way I can so that child might live. You can begin to love the child later or want to give him up for adoption after birth, pregnancy does not stop u from continuing your studies, abortion might. You may never overcome the guilt if you do

Politics › Re: President Seeks To Cut Fuel Subsidies After Oil Decline by mcdokwe(m): 8:12am On Nov 21, 2014*

Any government that would remove the only thing the masses can be said to "benefit" from should be removed first.

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Computer Market › Re: New Entry Laptops At The Best Prices by mcdokwe(op): 7:11pm On Nov 20, 2014

juzo98:
ok im interested so pls i need 2 knw s specs

call, text or whatsapp me on d number on my siggy.

Education › Re: Desegregation: The First Black Girl To Attend An All White School Turns 60 by mcdokwe(op): 10:43am On Nov 20, 2014

nedu2000:
of course,ur post made me go 'like' her facebook page and is quite motivational but you should edit ur post,no one likes to be misinformed

ok, but incase you don't know it was copied and pasted as I didn't know such a person existed, and as such can't edit

Education › Re: Desegregation: The First Black Girl To Attend An All White School Turns 60 by mcdokwe(op): 9:46am On Nov 20, 2014

nedu2000:
A picture of how dis great & daring lady looks like would've helped,thanks
Sorry to burst your bubble but today isn't her birthday

whatever. She is sixty now, but then it isn't about her birthday but about what she started otherwise this would have been posted in celebrities or events section.

Education › Desegregation: The First Black Girl To Attend An All White School Turns 60 by mcdokwe(op): 6:52am On Nov 20, 2014

Happy 60th birthday to Ruby Bridges! As a six-year-old,
Ruby Bridges famously became the first African
American child to desegregate an all-white elementary
school in the South. When the 1st grader walked to
William Frantz Elementary School in New Orleans on
November 14, 1960 surrounded by a team of U.S.
Marshals, she was met by a vicious mob shouting and
throwing objects at her.
One of the federal marshals, Charles Burks, who
served on her escort team, recalls Bridges' courage in
the face of such hatred: "For a little girl six years old
going into a strange school with four strange deputy
marshals, a place she had never been before, she
showed a lot of courage. She never cried. She didn't
whimper. She just marched along like a little soldier.
We were all very proud of her."
Once Ruby entered the school, she discovered that it
was devoid of children because they had all been
removed by their parents due to her presence. The
only teacher willing to have Ruby as a student was
Barbara Henry, who had recently moved from Boston.
Ruby was taught by herself for her first year at the
school due to the white parents' refusal to have their
children share a classroom with a black child.
Despite daily harassment, which required the federal
marshals to continue escorting her to school for
months; threats towards her family; and her father's
job loss due to his family's role in school integration,
Ruby persisted in attending school. The following year,
when she returned for second grade, the mobs were
gone and more African American students joined her
at the school. The pioneering school integration effort
was a success due to Ruby Bridges' inspiring courage,
perseverance, and resilience.
If you'd like to share Ruby Bridge’s inspiring story with
the children in your life, there are several excellent
books about her story including the wonderful picture
book "The Story Of Ruby Bridges" for ages 4 to 8
( http://www.amightygirl.com/the-story-of-ruby-
bridges), the early chapter book "Ruby Bridges Goes to
Story" for ages 5 to 8 (http://www.amightygirl.com/
ruby-bridges-goes-to-school), and the highly
recommended memoir that Ruby Bridges wrote for
young readers 6 to 12 entitled "Through My
Eyes" ( http://www.amightygirl.com/through-my-eyes).
There is also an inspiring film about her story called
"Ruby Bridges" for viewers 7 and up ( http://
www.amightygirl.com/ruby-bridges) -- you can also
watch it instantly on Amazon at http://amzn.to/WOOvgY
To give young readers more insight into the school
integration struggle, Nobel Prize-winning author, Toni
Morrison, has written an outstanding book, that's filled
with photos capturing the major desegregation events
of the period, entitled "Remember: The Journey to
School Integration" -- for ages 9 and up -- at http://
www.amightygirl.com/remember
To introduce young people to the Civil Rights
Movement and its courageous activists, we've compiled
over 30 books for children and teens in our special
feature on the "Top Mighty Girl Books on Civil Rights
History" at http://www.amightygirl.com/mighty-girl-pick
s/civil-rights-history
For Civil Rights Movement-themed books for readers 4
to 8, we recommend "I Am Rosa Parks" ( http://
www.amightygirl.com/i-am-rosa-parks-1), "Freedom on
the Menu: The Greensboro Sit-Ins" (http://
www.amightygirl.com/freedom-on-the-menu), "White
Socks Only" (http://www.amightygirl.com/white-socks-
only), and "Child of the Civil Rights Movement" (http://
www.amightygirl.com/child-of-the-civil-rights-movem
ent ).
For older readers, we recommend "Warriors Don't Cry:
A Searing Memoir of the Battle to Integrate Little Rock's
Central High" for 12 and up ( http://www.amightygirl.
com/warriors-don-t-cry), "Rosa Parks: My Story" for
ages 9 to 13 (http://www.amightygirl.com/rosa-parks-
my-story), "The Lions of Little Rock" for ages 9 to 13
(http://www.amightygirl.com/the-lions-of-little-rock),
and "Fire From The Rock" for 12 and up (http://
www.amightygirl.com/fire-from-the-rock).
For Mighty Girl stories for children and teens that
explore racial discrimination and prejudice, visit http://
www.amightygirl.com/books/social-issues/prejudice-
discrimination?cat=71

Family › Re: This Dad Is Asking... by mcdokwe(m): 10:18am On Nov 18, 2014

donogaga:
My 14-year-old daughter is developing very fast. She already has the body of a woman, hips, boobs and all. Her mother said that she's started teaching her sex education but I'm not satisfied with that. I want to protect her from all Men because they are wolves. I hate the way Men look at her. I've had to sack my driver because I saw the way his eyes followed her bum when she walked, it irritated me.

I don't trust any man around her, except her brothers. I just want to know if the dads/parents here feel that way about their daughters or I am just being irrational. My friends have boys that age, so it's kind of different for them.

and u are?

Family › Re: A Single Mum Or Lady That Has Done So Many Abortions In The Past? by mcdokwe(m): 9:52am On Nov 18, 2014

clemzo101:
I was just wondering guys, which is better? A lady u know with a child never married or the lady dat doesn't have a child who may have done so many abortions in the past dat u don't know. I think d one with a child decided not to kill.......pls express ur views because dere is a case on ground.

from what I got to know, a lot of girls abort pregnancies. So for me, I'd go for a single mother any day anytime unless the other woman is a virgin.

Computers › Re: Considering Brand Of Laptop by mcdokwe(m): 6:30pm On Nov 17, 2014

mcdokwe:
a downloadable list is available https://drive.google.com/a/mylaptops.com.ng/file/d/0B09sly-P7TERZDRJUVVOTFhXbEU/view?usp=sharing

has been made accessible to all, however there has been a slight increase in some products due to the Naira-dollar exchange rate

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Health › Re: Nigeria Has The Highest Number Of People Living With Diabetes In Africa. by mcdokwe(m): 8:21am On Nov 16, 2014

op where is the solution na?

Autos › Re: 2010 Honda Pilot For Sale by mcdokwe(op): 7:42am On Nov 16, 2014

mcdokwe:
Ok, I am not going to pretend I know about cars.
A friend told me about this car and I get a commission if I get a buyer.

So here it is, currently docked in Nigeria.

UP FOR SALE: GORGEOUS 2010 HONDA PILOT. FULLY
LOADED WITH REVERSE CAMERA INSIDE, LEATHER
3ROW SEATING. 4.5MIL NAIRA ONLY.

Other details and inspection would be made possible on demand.

Price:

4.5million.

TV/Movies › Re: Some Of The World's Most Touching Movies. by mcdokwe(m): 5:43am On Nov 16, 2014

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Health › Re: The Decay In Edo Health Sector, A Case Study Of Central Hospital Benin. by mcdokwe(m): 10:27pm On Nov 15, 2014

Hospitals are nevr a pleasant place

Family › Re: My Father Hates Me! by mcdokwe(m): 9:02pm On Nov 15, 2014

Odikwa serious. I would hold the same view if I were your age.

While growing up, my dad used to put a lot of pressure on me to the point I questioned if I my parents were really mine, but in my own case I must admit I did things I am not proud of now and that made it worse. But growing up, I discovered that of all my siblings, I happened to be the one who was better skilled in my dad's line of trade and he would rather have me around than others, there are things my dad discussed with me that he didn't with my elder bro and we joked more and played like we were age mates, that's is as opposed to his dealings with my elder bro which was always straight to the point. From this I discovered he actually loved me more but didn't like some things I did and it knowing that helped me change in a lot of ways. Maybe you should find out those things about you he is not comfortable with rather than assuming he hates you.

Thank you

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Education › Re: Killer Whales Top FACTS!!! by mcdokwe(m): 2:12pm On Nov 15, 2014

Politics › Re: APC Now Advertising On MTN 100naira Recharge Cards? by mcdokwe(m): 2:11pm On Nov 15, 2014

Politics › Re: Military Moves To Attack Sambisa by mcdokwe(m): 11:33am On Nov 15, 2014

They should also remember to take some hunters along grin

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