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lefulefu:
there are ways u can pick them out
1: there phones are always in the vibrating mode
2: she is always travelling
3: she has many uncles
4: she always goes out at night
except u are on a long distance dating then i can understand but for a serious man ready to settle down long distance dating should be out of the picture.it is essential the girl u about settling down with u should know her in and out.yea she can try to hide her runzing character towards her suitor but if the man is very observant he will know he is marrying a runzgirl.

Exactly.

Mizwisdom:
Because of one family, you land FP and claim "nobody wants to return" what about the hundreds returning from South Africa and Libya, are you aware that people can decide at any point to relocate without informing you? see how unkempt the man is looking, he can't even afford a good hair cut but I'm sure people like you will still think he's enjoying abroad

They are asylum seekers. You can't compare asylum seekers to those that migrated legally to saner climes. South Africa and Libya na countries wey person dey migrate to? Dash me free visa to South Africa , I won't go.

ednut1:
This is what happens when everyone uses the same format. Dem never get pali dem dey born more. Nonsense couple

Las las one of their kids is now a citizen. Na to get a Canada passport for her remain. Na with. Win situation. Nigeria don tire everybody.

etrange:
I'm almost certain the man left his hair like that to create the "refugee impression". Lol

Hahahaha

lefulefu:
then her would be husband probably knows she"s a runz girl.you cant tell me that a man is about getting married to a runz girl and he doesnt know she"s into runz.thats highly impossible.95 percent of men who marry runzgirls know they are married to runzgirls so then wetin the husband get in the marriage make im take am.

I doubt if the husband to be is aware. These runs girl run things codedly so much that no one around them will ever know. They are quite smart in that aspect.

lefulefu:
sure there are ladies who sleep with their ex few days to their wedding that is known but this going to sleep with her ex for ordinary 8k makes me believe this story is made up.wetin be 8k wey go make a would be to married lady dey jump into another man bed .what will the 8k do for her.smells like a fake story jor.

That's not her ex. That's her fvck buddy more like pay me and let's fvck type of girl. A typical runs girl.

That's a total runs girl. Na so them be. Even the so called innocent looking neighbours in ur street are runs girls. They don't show it. They don't run things in their neighbourhoods. They make sure they run show far from where they live so no one will know. A girl once told me that a lot of guys do toast her in her street but she don't run things with them on to say she no wan cast herself in her own neighbourhood so if she want to do naughty things and get down with guys is always guys far from where she stay that she run things with.

That buttress what ubunja said in one of his miseducations that girls prefer getting down with strangers than getting down with guys they know. That's why a girl who is playing hard to get to a guy she knows can easily be fvcked by a stranger she does not know who lives far from her own neighbourhood.

falcon01:
at the point where you said you explained to your mum mouth action, I automatically losed Interest in the story

What other way could he had explained it before?

ShaiX2, you don't need to put all your eggs in one basket. They don't charge creating expression of interest. Simply express your interest for the 3 visa types. Anyone that gives you invitation early, you go with that. You know you must receive ITA before applying for the visa. You can't just apply for the visa straight up without invitation.

Tasmania is nominating your occupation for 190 and 491 while victoria is nominating your occupation for 491 only. Check the criteria and simply create expression of interests for the 3 visa types 189, 190 and 491. Anyone that give u ITA early, you simply go with that to apply for your visa.

Note: your score will be low for 189. 190 and 491 will give you the highest scores.

NeedAdvice00:
She told me she's not ready, so why the I pity you when I told her I can still change my mind?

Do you think she's a witch and might be capable of any wickedness?

Don't ask a girl out. It ruins everything when you do. She supposed to be the one to pop the question are we dating or what are we? That's when she can't take it any more. When a girl ask that question, it's because she can't believe what's happening already cuz you've already swept her feet off the floor with your good bad guy freestyling.

It works faster when you don't ask a girl out. Everything will fall into places. Just keep up with your flirting cocky tone with her. The moment you start asking a girl out by telling her to be your girlfriend, you've succeeded giving her 60% of power. You are now remained with 40%. She might end up snatching another 10% from you to make it 70%, that's pretty much an A in academic grading system.

Your flow is quite OK. What you need to do now is to free her a bit. She is shit testing you already by ignoring your last message. Any post further will ignite her subconscious self defense mechanism. Wondering why she said the words I pity you? That's the meaning. She wants to shit test you by ignoring you. Don't fall for it. Free her for now. She will be wondering why you ain't messaging her any more.

You've been pushing since, now is time to pull. The purpose of the shit test is to test how needy you will be if she starts ignoring your messages with that she will start feeling good about herself as you keep bombarding her with messages and ignoring you all the way, she will be smiling in her mind shebi I told you: I pity you.

When girls ignore you, ignore them back. But some guys/men will not. That's when they will start professing their love to the girl, telling her how much they love her and promising her gifts. When a guy do that, he has already lost the game. The girl will use him to play ball here and there.

The best way to handle women is never to put in your emotion. When there is no emotions, you won't be scared of handling her like a real man. You won't be scared of offending her or losing her or ignoring her. Find your way round to pass this shit test she is already giving you.

timesupreloaded:
You just come. Three years from now nobody will hear from you again. When you eventually visit Nigeria 10 years later all your friends you left behind will be running things majorly, that's when you will finally realize you made a great mistake. The happy mood for someone who travels to the US. last for just 12 months. After 12 months eye go clear

I really don't see any sense in this post. How many young people have job in this Nigeria? So traveling abroad legally is now a sin? Say another thing. You must be pidgin2 fellow. Which way? How many things are you running right now that earn you above N500,000 monthly?

JandyJ:
U dont have to put him anywhere. He has succeeded in derailing the thread. The best way is to ignore him

You are right.

nlPoster:
You're not alright.

Say that to your useless life. What do you know little boy? When you are still under your parents roof, why won't you create stupid threads?

Start fending for yourself, only then you will understand what life entails. For now, you are still an adolescent that needs a lot of orientations about life not being a keypad worrior and creating rubbish threads littering the whole place up. How many useless threads have u seen someone like me created here?

If I create any thread it must be something that will benefit others. But you adolescent young boy who is yet to know what life entails will always rush to create threads criticising innocent people that do not even know you exist. I pray for you today young boy, may heavy sense fall on you tonight.

JandyJ:
Please its okay. The thread has been derailed.

I need to put that little boy where he belongs. He needs complete orientation.

nlPoster:
Epistle, I dont like these.

See multitude of words and no sense.

There is a saying that says if you want to hide something from a black man, put it in a writing. You are simply a lazy reader. I believe you are still very lazy in real life. When all your mates are planning their lives and breaking new grounds, all you do is to be filled with bitterness and enviness.

You must still be an adolescent looking at the lame threads that you create to litter all the place up. Why won't you create useless threads when your parents are still feeding you at home?

By the time you start fending for yourself, only then you will know what life entails. For now, you are still forming keypad worrior under the roof of your parents. Go and help them wash plates and tidy the kitchen up little kid.

mamatwiny:
Is it your own travel? Seun is not complaining.
Mtcheww

Don't mind that nlPoster. He is just a frustrated kid who is still finding his feet in life. Why won't he create lame threads like this after subbing mtn 10MB.

nlPoster:
Get a life.


That's how you were reminiscing about a poster who probably doesn't even know you and you're disturbing the forum with her mentions. Jeez.

Don't let frustration and enviness kill you. If you can't relocate abroad, leave those relocating with their life changing decisions. It's someone like you his nearby neighbour will buy a car or build a house and throw a party and will start parading himself with envy of how he shouldn't be throwing a party. Is he the first person to build a house? Those are the kind of words someone like you will be saying. That's simply an act of enviness on someone's success. Don't you know when you envy people or find fault with peoples success, you can incure unnecessary hypertension on yourself? Why bothering your mind with people's achievements and end up finding fault with them? Hypertension won't be far from you if you are always fond of doing such.

You must still be a kid to be feeling pained by the success of others. Get yourself together and stop this your unwaranted enviness. Someone like you can kill his brother because he is succeeding better than he does. It is someone like you that will start running around looking for juju to destroy his brother or sister because they are doing better than he does.

That's the kind of person I so much believed you are. That won't take you far. Learn how to rejoice with people when you hear their success stories. Stop finding fault in peoples life. That's the advice I am giving you cuz I can see you are still a kid who has not seen reality of life. It will help you a lot lil kid.

nlPoster:
I tell you, it's so annoying. If not that this op seems to have some semblance of manners, unlike his primitive and ignorant supporters on the thread, I'd think twitter has outdistanced nairaland.

You lack comprehension. Try and reaf between the lines before quoting someone. The person you quoted was actually referring to you. You are downcasted. That was why you go all the way creating meaningless threads. Was that not your thread?

nlPoster:
All lies minus the tpiar/nlposter part, I dont know how many times I have to continue to tell you people I am tpia. For some reason, you and your cronies dont seem to get it and keep jumping in glee announcing this fact over and over again as if you discovered something new and are snitching.


Your deranged and degenerate mind thinks you can insinuate I'm that imaginary or not person you mention in travel section and whose id you refuse to reveal so people would know you're implying it's me.

Your favorite enemy who you rush to malign whenever you think an opportunity presents itself. Not caring how stupid it makes you look.

Take your interest in the op to a blog, is that hard? No one would disturb you there.

Also, get help.

Who you be sef? Obviously this is not your only moniker.

I have been on Nairaland since 2013. I have only one account unlike you that possess up to 5 accounts. I see no reason creating random accounts just to attack people that make a choice in their lives to relocate from this shithole Dear country of ours.

If you have problem with people relocating abroad, why not tender your grudges to the Nigeria senate to stop people from making their personal decision to leave the country? Your petition will highly be considered don't you think so, instead of making it seems as if you were the one that sponsored the innocent man and his family abroad. You've now started asking the same Op you opened thread about of showing fridge and kitchen questions. That same op you opened thread about. Can't you see you are a hypocrite?

What I am saying in essence is that stop this your bad belle of criticising those who choose to relocate abroad. This is simply an unnecessary enviness. Stop it.

AngelicBeing:
You are probably talking about pidgin2, she also had several brawls with me and I placed her were she belongs, another one is also currently on travel section, he / she also posted on page 4 of this thread, and few people already flogged the poster, they are bitter, frustrated, especially when you post about your diary / adventures in the western world, and once you make reference to the backwardness / endemic hardship / poverty across Nigeria, they get offended but they forget that we all have the freedom to express our opinions even though we might not all agree,

Exactly. You still remember the name very well. It's Pidgin2. That nick was a nuisance in the travel section I swear. She was even banned multiples times, she still kept on with her troll in the travel section until she was assigned a lifetime ban. She had no option than deactivated her account. What a nuisance!

DexterousOne:
The guy you quoted is feeling downcast

Seeing all these abroad stories gets to them.
He probably thinks he Is stuck in this $hithole zoo country that is why he lashes out the way he does.


One can still make the best out of the situation
in Nigeria sha, despite the nonsense there


Look at a thread he started
https://www.nairaland.com/5549549/how-feel-these-pple-travelling

This should explain his current state

I just visisted that thread. Now I know the reason for the guy's grudges. He has issue with people sharing their travel experiences. There used to be one username like nlPoster that used to attack every travel thread 2yrs ago here on Nairaland so much that she became a nuisance until she got a heavy backlashes when people noticed her jumping from one travel thread to another castigating people that share their travel experiences of how they should have stayed in Naija and still make it, of how they will do odd jobs living from hand to mouth.

Her disturbances became too much that she got heavy backlashes from a couple of persons. She was forced to deactivate her account. It's the same thing nlPoster is doing.

tpiar is the same person as nlPoster. They usually operate multiple accounts attacking people in the travel section. I really don't know why someone will take panadol for another person's headache because of their relocating abroad. How that is an issue to some persons truly baffles me a lot.

TeeFeh:
do you use gold circle? Why do you sound pained? I asked a simple question, whats the cause for an insult?

You must be a crackhead

Gold circle? That useless condom that can't fit in well and also pull out? I hate that condom. Durex is expensive though. It's N800. Kiss is quite OK for those that can't afford Durex. Some persons sell kiss N200. Others sell it N100 or N50. Why gold circle? That condom is a nonsense condom.

nlPoster:
Can you people stop quoting me!!!!!!!!

No, until you start wishing people well. If you are frequent in the travel section, you should be seeing posts of people landing left, right , back and forth. Others love reading landing stories not to point out what they should have done or not.

When I see people success stories, I don't hate on the people and start looking for negative things to point out to them, I simply wish them well and envisage same blessings. You can do same. Hating is too a stressful thing to do. It sucks one of a lot of energy and chokes one up.

I can never hate on my neighbour because he is succeeding and breaking new grounds. I will simply rejoice with him and look at the positive side of his achievement and connect with such blessing. I no fit carry face give my neighbour because he is living well.

That's the problem with most of us Nigerians. When we see someone succeeding, we will be looking at how to speak ill of the person and bring him down. That let's bring him down syndrome is not good. By the way no be the same papa born u and the guy. Even ur village witch can't bring u down unless someone in ur family is involved. An insider.

In essence, let's learn to rejoice with people's success in this life.

nuggybabe:
Point of correction, still yet is not used together but singly

It's either yet or still. Some persons still use "So therefore, it's either therefore or so.

nlPoster:
You seem obsessed with the fridge.

Stop this your bad belle guy. Wish the guy well instead of pointing out what seems to be nothing.

Ogegeodey:
The only difference between then and now is the absence of teeth.
Dude has been old from childhood

Las las "Na money be fine bobo"

But is this Shatta Bandle really a billionaire or just audio billionaire?

Bluebarbie10:
Thanks he has told me d truth now

What did he say?

Bluebarbie10:
What else should I have done fella

I can assume two things you were doing wrong. I want you to be sincere and provide genuine answers so I can tell u what to do next. I am a guy. We reason the same way and that's why I am coming up with these assumptions.

Firstl, you always play mind games with the guy and always wait for him to be the one initiating conversations on WhatsApp. True or False? Please kindly provide an honest answer.

Secondly, you don't show him how much you care. You keep it locked in your heart. You can't love a guy by not showing it to him through your actions. Lots of girls are guilty of this. That's why a girl will like a guy so madly, but she can't walk up to him to befriend him. It's the same thing that is happening in your case.

You like the guy but you are not showing him through your actions that you love him. He will simply assume you are not the serious type and will ghost you immediately.

I do the same thing. I ghost a lot of girls on a daily basis because I don't see them as the serious type. Once I sense that you are playing mind games, and always waiting for me to initiate conversations, I will immediately delete your number. If I message you and always fond of taking forever to reply, if she is someone I have known for some time, I will ghost her but if that attitude continue, I will finally delete her number and move on.

Why am I saying all these? There is something you are doing wrongly that makes the guy to ghost you and those are the two assumptions I came up with.

Check through your mind, you will see where the issue is coming from. You are simply not playing your role well.

If you can play your role well and steer clear of every form of ego and pride in ur relationship, you will see that the guy will always keep in touch with u. That is if u yourself play your own role well as a lady.

Simplep:
Why this 'broke' issue dey pain una like this?

Ask Erigga.

Riele:
My point is you all keep focusing on the bad " some girls " do and then use it for generalization .

Let's be realistic. When was the last time you gave your boyfriend money?

hammerD:
Babe, dont add weight, the way u are is on point.

She will add weight once she get married and start bearing children. Ladies find it hard maintaining their previous figures/shapes after marriage. They puff up within 1yr.