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darol4real:
Look for reasonable things to do guy

The guy is doing pretty fine. Why telling him to look for something reasonable to do? Is keeping fit not reasonable enough?

I used to gym once a while. Though mine ain't regular but whenever I do it, there is this great feeling and activeness I feel within. It's good to exercise. Try it and you will see how confident and strong you will feel.

BADNEAT:
seriously thinking of 489, have waited close to two months for 189 and 190
points @ 65 and 70(SN) Civil Engineer
english points superior 90 90 90 90 claimed...

any advice on best region to nominate

Bro just be patient. Just 2 months and you are already tired of waiting? People do wait for 6 to 8 months.

They will surely invite you. You just need to wait. 2months is not quite too a long wait yet.

You can as well apply to all the other states that sponsor your occupation. Once you get invited by any of the state, you withdraw the others.

pcguru1:
Because the society encourages a bunch of lazy girls to game the system and not work for anything, why do you think women who bare their boobs on Instagram get attention and cash thrown at them, why should they read when they can easily thrive via those means, can't you see the comments here already by the female especially from baby, our generation has lost it, that mentality has even found its way to my young relatives, most women are either trained to be liabilities or to use sex as a ploy to gain financial prospect. I read a book recently though too misogynist but it explained the decay in Nigeria, its called the Sex-ploytation. Seriously we've lost it

Bro you"ve said it all. That's the problem we facing in Nigeria right now. Our ladies are not positioning themselves well before us. It is high time they learned that being a liability before a guy is a huge turn off for most of us.

No serious hard working guy will carry the sole responsibility of a lady all in the name of girlfriend boyfriend. Even if the guy does, it won't take long before he dish out the girl. Once he is done with her, he will take to his heel.

Why do you see a lot of them hauling around with their bodies? Flaunting booobs and bum bums all about. That's the only thing they think they can offer guys and it's only the guy that don't know what he wants from a life partner that will fall for such frivolous girls.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Its disappointing how some people that calls themselves men can be easily manipulated just because they can't do without pussy. You ve just one gen and you are here asking for what to do. You can't say no and let it be no. Mumu,give her the gen and when you need it,pay for cab and carry it. Ask urself if she can do that for you assuming u were the one in need of it.

Thumb up to this boss. You are just like me. Majority of guys act so wussy when it comes to dealing with girls. Some will dash out the only thing they have and later go back to cry foul. And many others, once a girl use bobby to rub their chest, it is finished, they don't think right again. That's when they will dash out all their valuable things just for 2 seconds bobby they felt.

Like I have said and will always say; anything you give to a girl is like pouring water in a basket. It doesn't count to them and will never count. They will even term you mumu when a guy yield to all of their demands.

A real man doesn't yield to every girl's demand. If I were the op, if he is really thinking of giving out that Gen, then he should carry it to dash his mama or any of his immediate relation to use rather than giving it to a girl that will hardly value it.

The moment they will quarrel , all of these generosity won't be recalled by the said girl. I prefer to give to a girl only if I feel like giving her not when she is compelling me to or putting pressure on me to give her.

Babyforever & highqueen , I don't agree with both of you. Op needs the generator more than her gf needs it and I won't advice him giving it to her. When has relationship becomes a ticket for getting freebies from bfs?

Biafrareform:
So guy who can't afford a Gen for his girlfriend is broke?

Thanks baby

Bro do u know what ever you do for a girl doesn't count ? The day both of you will quarrel she will forget everything you've done for her. I will rather give that Generator to a fellow guy. He will appreciate it more than giving it to a lady all in the name of girlfriend or I can as well carry it to dash ma mama.

Bro , anything you do for a girl is like you pouring water in a basket. Will the basket hold the water ? No.

Save this generosity for your future wife not a girlfriend.

gakintan:
@Mcslize Am also a chemical engineer, have started your application.

No bro..I'm still on PTE stage.

glimpse33:
Read again, dude said he has only 15k

Setting a pop corn business costs roughly 50k

Give me the estimate bro. I will like to set up this biz and put someone to run it for me.

Can you list out the items needed going by your budget?

Almaiga:
He is very correct but, where he said "they can't hold a conversation in parson or via text typing like a parson with epileptic seizure" caught my attention most.

That's the truth. Majority of Nigeria girls lack the skills of how to hold a conversation with a guy. They just can't. When you ask a girl what's good with you..how is your day kicking? They lack humour . A humorous girl will say my day is kicking pretty fine & bubbling. What about you, what's good with your day? A Nigeria girl will never reciprocate your conversation with her.

They feel that conversing with a guy is a one way thing.

" They don't know that if I ask you and you ask me na dey make conversation dey sweet"

When you chat with a white girl you will see the big difference. White girls are quite inquisitive and curious when conversing with you. They want to know you more as such the conversation end up being seemingly interesting.

But naija girls when you ask them what's good how are you kicking today? All they will say is "fine"

And if you meet the worse one...and you ask what's good with your day? They will kill your morale by replying with the worse reply ever which is "k"

How does "k" relate to what's good with your day question one asked.?

So, I will say the Op is pretty right .

Meeloreh:
The baby is not worthy of Nigerian hospitals. We all leave for a reason for the other eventually

The main purpose of going to US to give birth is to secure America citizenship for the child. That's one of the best choices any parent can give to her child not just for the hospital.

NSW has updated it's State occupation lists:

https://www.industry.nsw.gov.au/live-and-work-in-nsw/visas-and-immigration/nsw-skilled-occu
pations-list

Chemical Engineering back on the list. For all chemical engineers put in for 189 & 190 NSW to maximize ur chance.

veryconcluded congrat!

Mcy56:
Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal one, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

I'm impressed with your reply. Never knew we still have ladies like this. This is the wife material we are talking about. Why some are thoughtful like this, others are slaying.

Keep it up!

99foxxy:
Can you swear you're not missing her already? Bury your pride and set her down and speak to her on camera! cus you've never caught her with any guy aside her catching fun with her friends. I do same, but my guy is wise and he knows my movements. She's not cheating on you but having fun like I do. As it is now, you're not thinking straight bcus when you love it's never easy to let go.

People mistake obsession for love. Does love really exist? It's just a mere emotion of bring addicted to someone.

True love is not just one sided only. It comes from both parties. But once the supposed love keeps coming from one person rather than both, it should never be regarded as love but emotional obsession.

Flickzvill:
thanks but I want u to understand me I am not the controlling type believe me no man will stand his woman going to sleep in another mans house bcz she thinks she not married yet i don't stop her from going to parties I do go myself so it's no big deal I dont stop her from hanging out with her friends but the disturbing part is going to sleep in another mans house all the name of fun and shes in a relationship I can't accept that bcz it will continue even after marriage.

Flickzvill let me be frank with you. If you ever make the mistake of begging that lady, you are a goner trust me. Do you need to be told that the girl doesn't have any atom of love for you?

You are the one doing the loving while she frolick around, cuz she feels she ain't tied to you in any way. It's normal for you having mixed feelings, but bro brace up and be a man. Forget about that girl; she doesn't love you. That's the bitter truth you need to know right now.

Focus your mind on other things and hope for the best, you will surely meet someone better who will worship and listen to you like you are her mini god. Then you will look back and smile.

If you call that girl and beg her see what will happen:

> She will continue to disregard you.
> She will never value you.
> She will see you as weak man who doesn't stand by his word.

A word is enough for the wise.

Missyford31:
Im Australian my man is nigerian n most Australian girls like to control their men n do so but not me. Not my nigerian man cosbi think his so sexy and i dnt mind him being the boss its sexy asf. And i admit sometimes im a lil naughty just cos his so sexy wen he gets a little mad at me n bosses me around n tells me off. Lol. Dats why he loves me for real. Plus i love him unconditionally and am loyal n faithful n wanna make him happy.

That's it! When a man act manly before his partner, it looks quite sexy. That's the attraction. Sometimes a man just need to be the man. I don't find it pleasing for a woman to be controlling a man cuz it is a taboo here in Nigeria. A woman should be obedient to her man. That's the command from above . And if I happen to date a lady that will be bossing me around like a puppy and always trying to be the head of the family instead of me the man, I won't mind calling such a relationship off. Many women in the western world but not all are fond of wanting to control their men which is not good. Unlike you, you do not fall into that group. That kind of act even goes against the call from above for women to be obedient to their men.

I will be relocating to Australia on a PR visa in a few years time as I am already making preparation. But one of my major concern is whether to marry here before relocating or marry a westerner. The decision is quite hard as I hear a lot about Westerner women controlling their men which doesn't go well with me. But in all, I leave that to nature to decide.

mcugo:
She is too neat to sell stuffs like that.

Really? So she supposed to be using her under to slay around. Don't promote laziness among out ladies.

extremelygolden:
Dear Mimimile93, kindly change your generalization and orientation about Nigerian girls/ladies. Believe me, my brother, there still exists good and godly ones among them albeit few.

I pray God to give you the woman that will erase every bad memory and experience you might have had in the past, and cause you to be happy always.

One Love

Let me shift in bro. While we are not doubting the fact that there exist a token of some good girls out there? The generation of the kind of gals we see today are nothing to write home about. The frivolous and frolicking kind of lifestyles they project & envisage , can make a man question their usefulness for marriage and never want to settle down cuz the good ones are not anywhere to be found.

How can we find them when they are less than 10%?

vitmax:
Buy xaiomi and see the light. Infinix and tecno don blind nigerians finish,na why we no dey recognise beta thing (buy their note 5 or any of mi 5 series,you wont regret it )

How much for the Xioami Redmi Note 5? And how good is the phone in terms of battery?

33 & 74...

Youngadvocate:
Honesty sis. I need it asap.
I went back to the Skilled Program site and it all seems a long process for me. I don't want to remain in Nigeria until December

There's no fast route bro. You must pay your dues. Anything that is easy to get is not genuine. That's why many are still waiting on the queue to land their grants.

The process is long but it always end in praise.

Following ..pls fire down.

Gamesmart:
So, according to you, you make $5,200 every month after tax.

To make this, you said you work 2 jobs in which you work 16 hours a day.

For you to make that kind of money, surely you work in a big city.

So your rent cannot be less than $800 per month, if not far more.

What about council taxes?

What about utility bills?

What about transportation costs to get to work? Abi you live on top of your work place?

If you are working 16 hours a day, then surely you have to eat out. So it would be almost impossible not to spend at least $20 to feed yourself every day. That is at least $400 every month.

You don't have a mobile phone?

You don't have internet connection at home you have to pay for?

You don't send any money home to family and loved ones?

Now, how do you claim you able to save $4,000 every month after all these? Please explain.

There is what we call extravagant lifestyle. Most of the things you listed there are subsidized by the government. In some Canada cities, a bus pass isn't more than $58 for a full month. Utility bill (light, water and gas are paid together for a full month) is not usually more than $120 -130 combined, and might still be lower cuz it's still being subsidized for by the federal government once you are a PR.

For someone like me, I can save more than that with such earning, cuz most of all those bills people here always used to discourage others from relocating and want every one to roast here in Nigeria are not quite high. Na just shikili changes if you working. If you are the type that prepare your own food and who don't eat out unnecessarily, you shouldn't spend more than $300 per month for food stuffs.

And for accommodation; the closer you live to the city center, the higher the rent, and the farther you are off the city center, the cheaper the rent. However, that's not to say you won't see a moderately cheaper accommodation in the city center, depending on how you searched. Why will I stay in the city center, when I can stay in a clean great suburb with just about 30 to 40 minutes drive to the city center? With a monthly public transport pass of $58 , I can usually commute back and forth without stress each month even if I don't want to get a car.

So you see? Life is all about planning.

ProsperOkec:
am just debilitated

What work do u do bro? Besides nice pic.

GOO1 , nice gesture. This is the pattern the Indians and Chinese are operating. Helping one another. Thats why there are loads of Chinese over there. Keep it up.

Onyenna:
Gionee Marathon M5 with 6020mah...

I've used mine for over 2yrs now and it's still very sharp...

Where can I get this phone? Can't find it on Jumia. Check it out on Jumia whether it is there.

bpalace:
Gionee M5.. Is a beast... Thank me for this advice...u can't beat it.... If u support it with a 20kmaH u can go to the wilderness for 2 weeks and u still on net

Pls I heard a rumour that this M5 is no longer in the market. Meaning is not longer being produced to Nigeria market except second hand one. How true is this? kindly confirm. How much for new one?

HyDef:
I used the Gionee M5 for over 2 years. Solid battery performance.
I had to charge it just once a day, and with my type of usage, that's incredible. Less intense users will definitely get 2 days, at least.

Can I still see this M5 buy in the market? Not the M5 mini o . The real M5

kudos4u:
Have you try GIONEE M5? The battery is 6020mhA. You will thank me later.

Bro is this phone still in the market? The battery is quite good but it seems it's no longer in the market for purchase except second hand.