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PublicEye:
Thanks.

The epistle was just to give a background of my experience. It got so bad at a point that I started thinking something is wrong with me... but then, male friends that I have had feel I am a great guy, but why are these girls making a mess of my effort as if I am so terrible? I asked myself multiple times. I mean, the same way I give to my male friends is the same way I tried to extend it to ladies I met. While one gender appreciates my caring nature, the other ones see me as moro.n and still brag about it to my face. Do I blame them? NO! I caused it. In an attempt to hide my weakness in approaching ladies simply because technology made it easy, I brought disrespect to myself.

The last one just used me to while away time...blocked me twice and threatened to block me for the 3rd time. WHY? because she got another guy. I looked at myself and said I can't allow this to continue, I just can't.

Sorry about the epistle... I just wanted people to know why I really need to get help so that they can take out time out of their busy schedules and help me out.

Thanks for your tip. I will put them to actions.

Relationship matters are complicated at times
Its just like some have shoes but dont have leg and some have legs but don't have shoes to wear.
Its not about your approach its about the ladies you meet.
I'm sure with time you'll meet the right one, nobody or only few have it all when it comes to relationship.
Just be patient or you might continue meeting the treble ones.
Just make sure you'll comfortable with yourself even without a babe

No its beans

Truvelisback:
It's all rice.

So who is using who among you two?

vickydevoka:
I don’t call my assumed gal friend for two weeks. She will call me n still greet me. Money over everything

Smiles.
So all the epistle is to how to toast a lady..
It is not all men that toast ladies na especially matured men. So maybe you belong to that group.
As little as 'can you be my friend' will do. You don't have to be a Romeo or recite songs of solomon in the first days
Ladies at not stupid they understand when a man is interested in them even without been told.

Oh.
I see

meetme01:
You find us mostly in the Ministry of Women Affairs at all levels.

The profession just received a boost in Nigeria with the assent of the President on the Social Work Bill. Though, we ain't there yet, but we are getting there gradually.

Lolzzz

vickydevoka:
He has money don't you get. Where do you see a boyfriend that has money n ready to give a lady this days. Me self way de warm pass 500k no get galfriend

flejnr2:
A social worker is Someone who works in social media

Sense will not kill you biko!

I'm even more confused.
As you mentioned we have them in Nigeria cuz I've never noticed any.
Thanks anyway

meetme01:
A social worker is a professional that work with communities, families, vulnerables (aged, sick, people with disabilities, etc) and others in need in the society.

Basically, it's a helping profession. In Nigeria, we have 4 specializations ( social welfare, community development, health/medical and industrial).

Hmmm I'm yet to see a cheaper one apart from eye pencil and pin earring

Enny2013:
LOL... We hv cheaper makeups nau.

Truvelisback:
What makes u think it was because of money that she couldn't wear those things u expected her to wear?

Calm down.
Make up things are generally cost, time consuming and have adverse effect in the long run.
So what are you not telling me.
I was only adding to her points

Weirdo

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

The one i love most is that natural all back hairstyle on women

It turns me on quickly than that those braiding and expensive shitts

Enny2013:
As a lady that I am,I dnt even like Dem. Makeup consumes time n energy.
I love white powder n colour lip gloss Sha.
My problem is, I always forget earrings after dressing.

Please add money to the bolded. Very important

Please educate me a little
Who is a social worker?

meetme01:
Appreciate your response.

When you say tender..My Msc result was not out when I submitted my documents but now, I have it. Can I still add it during documentation and will it considered?

I am a social worker and I work as a social worker in the State. Due to the waiver, Agency at the FG level has not been disclosed but I believe it will align with my certificate.

Exactly

PraiseHim4ever:
Same way u are making shakara for me. abi

afadi2410:
Which kind advice be this one?

What's wrong with the advice?

jeromestarks:
What if he leaves her during her shakara period?
One girl do me shakara for about 3days. I left her and moved on. She was so angry that she called some boys to beat me up. When the boys met me, the hailed me because I am a correct gee.
They went back and told her that she made a mistake and that she should come and beg me.
Chayi. I fvcked that girl. I used her and used her until she became useless to me.
Las las, I dumped her.

Smiles
If the guy is genuine he will wait till he's sure she's really not interested cuz he knows he messed up..

Its funny.
You still love him. Does he love you??
If the answer is yes then make small shakara and accept him.

Truvelisback:
No be ole Valid.

When you see that kinda girl or guy e dey make sense oo
And stop looking me bad eyes

Truvelisback:
Someone that cannot live without u. Say u be wetin? The Breath of Life?

Lols its very necessary oo
Savage!!!

Oyinmiebiagric:
I dey ok for those thinking something bad has happened to me,got a job that requires my time almost 18 hours daily, e no easy for me, unlike before when I had a bet shop and I spend the whole day with my phone. Now I don't have that time again, but I go still drop wetin I promise.

For those asking about me,I am perfectly fine,for those wey think say I don fall,I no be God but he go hard for any injew to fall me.

Congrats on your new job.
But even at that you still got some of us scared sha. Haba!

You guys should continue massaging your ego by thinking a lady should kneel to do this or do that OK!
So pathetic

You don't have enough airtime to call her, you're financially down and you both talk at length before.
Abeg tell me what you both used to talk about.
Cuz I don't see anything wrong in you're letting her know that things are not like before or she calling you since you can't be able to call.
Or maybe she calling you is not worth it to her
Sometimes guys are right when they say they can't date a broke girl.
Virgin my foot. As if there is anyone that wasn't born a virgin

I cannot fit laugh for this matter.

Carcholce:
let’s replace the woman with a man.

A man and a donkey in the picture, who will you save?

Even if its a woman I'll save the human and we will find the way out together
If I save donkey and survive my conscience might hunt me.

fman:
Chai..
Zeeworld don finish u.

Lolzz

She cannot be a random babe in this scenario! Check well

Magickhands:
No vex. Na situation. My life is on the line. That's a random babe.

I no need wife sef... I need my life

That's why I like Zeeworld.
The man will save the woman sharply and they will find their way out TOGETHER.

Security man babe with iPhone 12.
The lady must be very rich then. I like her humility

Expensive doesnt equate capability though.
No sensible person will order something 'expensive' when he/she is not paying for it.
I mean it's absurd

You guys have been for five year.
And you just wanna spoil everything with carelessness and selfishness.
The both of you should just say you're tired of yourselves.

I wish I can 'unsee' 'untap' and unread this thread.!!

Help yourself by giving her space.
Atleast you know that she is perfectly fine. If she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. That's OK