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fati2001:
may it be so IJN

..Amen..it will never be.

Collegelove:
How to know if a woman is cheating on you or not is through her phone because before she sleeps with anyone out there, there must be a means of communication. From my understanding, the man in context had spent on her and also slept with her but because this dude seems to be a wussy and so, he couldn't accept the truth.

..Good points sir,but if a guy spends,care and performs well in bed,why do ladies still cheat?

fati2001:
what if you hit another man sis? same application

..I can never do that shit,that why I try all my possible best to avoid troubles in my life,I want live my life peacefully,And if any lady uses her mouth wrongly,I will just tell to move out of my house straightaway and don't look back.

Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married.
She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife

In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious
On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick.
While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic.
She has insisted nothing serious is going on.
I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue.
She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.

She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..

I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.

I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her

I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.

I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on.
I need your advise.

Sorry for the lengthy thread

..They might be passing their messages through calls,.. Or maybe things she bought and money she spent is from the guy,have you slept with her before?,Are you good in bed?,if not contact Oga Ilegend sharp sharp,Do you have time for her,or you are a very busy type of human being,When he calls,does she ignore the call or she takes the call elsewhere?.

JJOF:
. Them suppose dey ban people like you. Na una go dey complain about racism, but you be tribal bigot. Wetin con be the difference between you and Adolf Hitler? @seun @lalasticlala

..I swear,and he cannot afford ordinary one tire of that Tesla oooo.

chatinent:
I'll kill any man who hits my sister.

..I swear no be only you,I go kill am throway nobody go know sey nah me.

fati2001:
now now you don read am finish?




WELL IT'S REAL STORY.

..Shey u dey whine me nih,I read things very fast,I finish novels within a day and half,last last two days,I feel sorry for both the man and the woman sha.Thats a turnaround in their life,May God have mercy upon us.

fati2001:






He made good his threat
He had always used the words 'I'll kill you'
Yesterday evening, he fulfilled it!
She was 6months pregnant and she died with the baby, she died of internal bleeding and multiple injuries to vital organs!
He always beat her up at the slightest provocation not minding that she's heavy with their 4th child..
Her excuse was, 'I can't leave my children'
She prayed!!!
She wasn't a troublesome woman, very peaceful and loved by all who knew her, everyone knew she was living with a monster, almost everyone told her to leave..
Nurse, you should understand, she said..
My kids are still tender she said..
Where do I start from if I leave??
I got tired of the excuses and opted to just listen whenever she comes to have a shoulder to cry on, for she wasn't interested in all the solutions I offered, she just wanted advice on how to avoid being beaten, or rather endure the beating!

I took a last look at her lifeless body with the bulging stomach and sighed
Patricia now the children are motherless, you finally left but not with them
You left them alone!
Who knows?? They may join you one after the other by the time their beast of a father is done with them
Maybe the new wife will do it before he does
I didn't have tears left..
I just sighed...
Another has been added to the number..
Strengthening the resolve never to talk to people like her..
All I feel is anger..
Not for the man who murdered her..
She could have left, but she chose to die for children who may now likely follow suit..
All the beast said was 'I didn't mean to kill her'
Nobody accepts meaning murder, dimwit..
I have no business with you, she offered her life to be sacrificed, only that it's a waste


zzor, virginprincess mrscarter petyprincess baddiefreak.

.....Fictional or Reality,..abi nah film?

Mercisharelove:
But you should be Meek, how come you have become wild, who did this to you dear?? Tears

..Yeah,.I still have my meekness in me,.but my Dad caused all this sha,...

Haryoureendey4:
Nice one but all what u did are not vector art cartoon but smudge

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Haryoureendey4:
Nice one but all what u did are not vector art cartoon but smudge

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Haryoureendey4:
Cartoon vector art is the most difficult nich part in graphics design, I and lot's of graphic designers do run away from it cuz of the time taking to learn and how it's being complex. have followed lot's of youtube videos tutorial but still not getting it, especially using the curve tools.

So i decide to come back again this 2021 this way maybe it's going to help me. The way is to challenge my self for 30 days to learn this thing by fire by force. Suspending all my graphics work for this vector art.

I will be designing this vector art for good 30days to challenge my self until i perfect. Jan 15- Feb 15.

So it's Day 1

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Haryoureendey4:
Cartoon vector art is the most difficult nich part in graphics design, I and lot's of graphic designers do run away from it cuz of the time taking to learn and how it's being complex. have followed lot's of youtube videos tutorial but still not getting it, especially using the curve tools.

So i decide to come back again this 2021 this way maybe it's going to help me. The way is to challenge my self for 30 days to learn this thing by fire by force. Suspending all my graphics work for this vector art.

I will be designing this vector art for good 30days to challenge my self until i perfect. Jan 15- Feb 15.

So it's Day 1

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Haryoureendey4:
Cartoon vector art is the most difficult nich part in graphics design, I and lot's of graphic designers do run away from it cuz of the time taking to learn and how it's being complex. have followed lot's of youtube videos tutorial but still not getting it, especially using the curve tools.

So i decide to come back again this 2021 this way maybe it's going to help me. The way is to challenge my self for 30 days to learn this thing by fire by force. Suspending all my graphics work for this vector art.

I will be designing this vector art for good 30days to challenge my self until i perfect. Jan 15- Feb 15.

So it's Day 1

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Mercisharelove:
Mercy and favour lifts up any appointed fellow, so far you are chosen by the Lord to receive this, its already in your house right now, collect them.

Stop complaining. Mercy and favour follows you all the days of your life, if you are the chosen ones. Amen.


I got favoured mightily just like that by a total stranger, many will doubt even though it happened to someone they know!

..Just SAY NO MORE

Uniquekriss:
I would have marked this post XX if Mercy Johnson didn't make the list, buh who the heck is that #3

..This is one of the best Yoruba actor,he is 50yrs plus,he act perfectly any role given to him,is it pastor,imam,herbalist,thief,madman,ritualist,simp,redpiller,poor man,rich man,ritualist,villager,king,...mention any fucking role.

IntersexSherry:
Byee

..It seems you are trapped in a long time ago year,.because I did not see any clear picture and besides every human is beautiful and handsome but you made yourself ugly,your dresses,your wigs,your postures.

NiklauseFred:
*Will update this later*
I will list out the things that are making me depressed,then later I will talk about them one by the other.

1-family
2-school and funds.
3-my health(oral health)

..My Dad

javisdom:
Describe the scene of people taking a boat on the river to admire the majestic, immense landscape.
Highlight the shimmering, fanciful of painting
https://www.etsy.com/listing/854497661/embroidery-pictures-to-visit-the-scenery

https://i.etsystatic.com/22378414/r/il/44d1f1/2514619389/il_794xN.2514619389_iux4.jpg

...This is way too cool,.I paint stuffs like this but on mobile..Check mine

Righteousness2:
All what so many of the World Inhabitants are Concerned with is Money and Sex!

In Sport, Fashion, Politics and so on.

Folks this is a Trick of the devil to keep humanity perpetually in a Trap so that they will Spend Eternity in the Lake of Fire.

Free yourself from that Bondage today! There is so Much to Life than Money and Sex.

Eternity in Real!
Eternal in Heaven is Possible but you cannot Have it with Money and Sex as your lifestyle.

Eternity is tooooooo Long to toil with.

JESUS Only is the Way , Truth and Life

...So we should not have anything to do with sport and politics,...if there is nothing like politics and sport,..this world would become an unbearable place,..politics has been in existence since when humans started having leaders,kings etc,.And sports unites us together,..even though we still have discriminations,..so please don't condemn everything you see because of Jesus,..The news said former IndecentStar,..do you know if she is changed now,..take a look at Mia Khalifa,.I personally watched her porn then,..but who would have thought she would be a changed person now..Change your mindset sir.

Fvckyouall:
Your history book called the Bible also said this.


1) women with menstruation can't enter church
When a woman has a discharge, if her discharge in her body is blood, she shall continue in her menstrual impurity for seven days; and whoever touches her shall be unclean until evening. Everything also on which she lies during her menstrual impurity shall be unclean, and everything on which she sits shall be unclean.
Leviticus 15: 19-20

2) If a lady touches a guys dick during a fight cut her hands off
When men fight with one another, and the wife of the one draws near to rescue her husband from the hand of him who is beating him, and puts out her hand and seizes him by the private parts, then you shall cut off her hand. Deuteronomy 25:11-12

3) Castrated enuchs and disables are not to approach the church
No one whose testicles are crushed or whose penis is cut off shall be admitted to the assembly of the LORD. Deuteronomy 23:1 NRSV
Whosoever ... hath any blemish, let him not approach to offer the bread of his God. For whatsoever man he be that hath a blemish, he shall not approach: a blind man, or a lame, or he that hath a flat nose, or any thing superfluous, Or a man that is brokenfooted, or brokenhanded, Or crookback, or a dwarf, or that hath a blemish in his eye, or be scurvy, or scabbed, or hath his stones broken ... He shall not go in unto the vail, nor come nigh unto the altar, because he hath a blemish; that he profane not my sanctuaries. Leviticus 21:17-23 KJV

4) kill your stubborn children
If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them: Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place; And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die. Deuteronomy 21:18-21

5) Bible accepts slave trade
You may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way. Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT

6)Commit genocide but keep the ladies as sex slaves
Now therefore, kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman who has known man intimately. But all the girls who have not known man intimately, spare for yourselves. Numbers 31:17-18

7) Wierd cloth rules
Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material

8 ) Guys with bent or wierd dicks sorry the Bible hates you
She lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. Ezekiel 23:20 NIV.


The koran said
1) kill the infedel
2) it's ok to rape women who are non Muslim
3) child marriage is ok.


So why don't you do the above
And you need to check the meaning of the word weak

........I don't support gay ooooo,...infact it disgusts me,..but I thought they said Jesus came to replace some Old testament laws with the one of New testaments,...all you listed above are old testaments.

iLegendd:
I really need a 10k job. I'm tired of eating rubbish.

.......see health boosters,..chaiiiii,...for the past two months,I only ate banana and watermelon,....God go bless me too oooo.

iLegendd:
This is a good offer. Whenever I need one, I'll surely let you know, Sir.

..Thanks a lot sir,..I will be available anytime.

iLegendd:
Now, let's get started.




Some of you don't know what is going on. Put yourself in my shoe and you'll know I have a kind heart more than 99% of those abusing me.


I was broke in 2016 and I came to Nairaland with empty stomach (just the same BAON members are running around NL with empty stomach) to read news and I ended up creating threads after realizing lots of men were having issues in their relationships, marriages, not lasting long in bed, not knowing how to keep a conversation, lacking confidence/sense of humor, etc. and I proffered solutions to their relationship problems for free.


A lot of you abused me, called me broke, and said I should go get a job or get lost, but I smiled and moved on.


It wasn't easy handling all these abuses. Someone who came to help for free, but look at how he is being abused by the same men he was helping for free with knowledge about relationship.


In 2017, I decided to turn those articles to books and started selling them. I didn't open a thread on Nairaland to beg or join BOAN (Beggars Association of Nigeria) even though I was broke before I started selling those books.


I called a family member to help me with 10k and he did. Is that begging? Who knows?


To me, it's seeking assistance from a family member. Begging is asking for help from someone you don't know or two of you aren't acquainted with each other.


I used 6k to buy a hosting plan and the remaining 4k to buy domain name called Wetclef.


If it were Nairaland beggars, they'll squander the 10k or pay a debt, borrow again, and create a new account to beg again since the business is lucrative and they know the format to use.


With the money, I built a website (forum) myself called https://wetclef.com and hosted it. 


All these, I was doing while these people were still abusing me. I'm not a fraudster and I'm not a ritualist or a Yahoo boy.


A lot of the people that abused me and said I should go make money were into scam or one fraud or the other. 


As a person of mindfulness who hates to cheat others illegally or steal what isn't mine, I kept pushing legitimately.


I used the forum I built to start promoting those books and I posted them on Amazon, PublishDrive, etc.


As God may have it, these books started generating me thousands of dollars (= millions of Naira) on foreign bookstores like Apple, Amazon, etc. 


I went further to build my own online bookstore called https://shop.wetclef.com and people all around the world come to my site to buy my books.


Remember:


1. I wrote the books all alone

2. I proofread and formatted the books all alone

3. I marketed the books all alone (while they abuse and call me a hungry bookseller)

4. I received all the abuses from Nairalanders all alone

5. I built those websites all alone

6. I stayed awake working day and night all alone


Now the money is coming while I sleep and invest some in Cryptocurrency, Agriculture, Technology, Real Estate, Transportation, etc., everybody wants their share. 


Those who used to abuse me have abandoned or deactivated their old accounts, created new ones and are now begging me for help as they disguise as saints in dire need of financial help. 


The moment I don't oblige, they abuse me. (They don't even know if I have invested the money I currently have — they just don't care; all they know is: there is money, so give them to me. What is the difference between them and kidnappers?)


Even though these people have hurt me the most, I still have a soft spot in my heart. If only they know how many Nairalanders I have helped privately with 5k and 10k and I don't talk about them online/offline because it's bad. 


If you calculate the 1k, 2k, 3k, 5ks, and 10ks I have sent numerous Nairalanders behind the scene, you'll be shocked. 


They don't come online to talk about it because I told them not to and also, they don't want to because people will use it against them and they will also use it against me by bombarding me with fake praises because they will soon come for their own share.


Olamide helped pay Majek Fashek's hospital bills in the US and told them not to say it.


Laycon helped a hospital with half payment of all SS and AS patients and didn't talk about it and you want me to talk about mine?


There are hundreds of Nairalanders who have bought my Lasticle book and I told them not to come online to talk about it, but if the book didn't fulfil its promise, they should come online and vent their displeasure and they'll get a refund. 


Till this day, no one has done it, instead, they send a private message to shower praises of how the book has changed their lives in the bedroom department.


Some people praising Mr. Lexus here are doing it for a reason — they'll soon PM him or create a thread to ask for help from him. They see him as the new maga and they will praise and worship him till death. They did it to HungerBad.


These same people don't worship and praise Seun, the person who gave them a platform to conduct their begging — instead, they abuse him and tell him how archaic/backward the site is.


They don't worship Freebasics that gave them access to access Nairaland for free. They only worship whoever they are currently sucking dry and every other lesson is a fóol to them.


In this life, everyone is manipulative to an extent. Nothing goes for free. The adulations a kind man gets today is not free — he will pay for it now or in the future, else, it will turn to hatred or they'll accuse him of being sentimental and he only gives to get compliments and praises.


Remember, not every rich man or wealthy man you see today worked for their money. Some stole, some inherited.


Those that worked hard/smart for their money are too wise to be manipulated with fake praises and adulations.


Despite all the setbacks I faced on this forum, I have helped more of those who abused me on this forum and I have shared more cards also and I'll keep doing, but only at my discretion.


I don't know why these people who wanted me to give up in 2016 when I was starting can't let me spend the money I worked for the way I want?


What have I done wrong? No.

Have I scammed you? No.

Have I abused you? No. (If yes, check well and you'll know you started it).

Have done anything fetish to block you from making progress? No.


So, is it a crime for someone who is diligent in labor (day and night) to spend his money they way he wants?


Haven't I being kind enough? I have given fish, I'm still giving fish, but most importantly, I taught you all how to fish.


Check through my threads and you'll see them — I posted those money making secrets for free.


Unfortunately, you people don't read those threads I created that will change your lives — the ones you read are the controversial ones where I'm in the kitchen snapping or cooking this and that. You prefer fun and drama to being focused and making money.


To those who love abusing me either out of inferiority, envy, or jealousy, I don't give them attention, money, etc., God will be with you and open your eyes to find your path in life so you can stay focused and achieve your dreams and wealth without distraction or begging.


Look for a mentor and stay focused. Unfortunately, I didn't have a mentor, but focused and unphased by "bring him down gang." I kept going.


In life, be organized and work with a pyramid. That's what I do. If you don't do this, people will manipulate you.


Don't mix philanthropy and impact up.


Some philanthropic work people do don't make an impact — they make the beggar keep begging.


How many kind Nairalanders created FREE threads to teach you how they made their money? I bet it's not more than 5%. 


I have done this. This, alone, is way more than any amount anyone can give you on this forum, but we worship money over everything.


Most people can only give you fish, but they'll never teach you.


I deserve some accolades, not envy and abuse. #Smile.


Though, as the rapper, Ladipoe, would say, "I love the jealousy, but hate the envy."


If you're religious, you'll know that God doesn't bless envious people easily.


Purge your heart from those harmful emotions and stay focused. In this life, you're on your own. The day you'll realize this, you'll stop feeling entitled.


Someone like Slowmir has gotten lots of praises on this forum for promoting fraud while someone like me who encourages legit money gets abused. This says a lot about this generation.


Do you see the pattern? Evil is the deal for Nigerian youths. If you don't promote it, they'll demote you.


Thank God say God no be man.


I keep my life clean, I keep my money invested, and I keep my speech blunt — get used to it. 


I have never made a financial promise on Nairaland that I didn't fulfil as long as the person comes to redeem it before the expiration time.


At the same time, I don't want to put myself in a position of assistant Jesus — where people will see me as their last financial hope and when they finally suck me dry, they'll laugh at me behind my back and say, "He used to be rich, but forming philanthropist and dashing people money anyhow without thinking twice made him poor — he is so unwise."


The same way Nigerian women dump their "once rich" boyfriend or husband for another is what they'll do to you.


I intentionally call myself Mr. Stingy, but trust me, it's a lie — it's just a defensive mechanism to avoid fair-weather acquaintances; they are too manipulative, so I decided to block the loophole early on.


To survive, you must be smart and think ahead. 


To die, you must be intelligent, but don't think ahead 


To die in silence or be used, you must please people, else they'll be displeased and hate on you.


Nobody wants to be hated except those who are smart enough to know without hatred and obstacles, there won't be success.


Also, note that it's not everyone who shows remorse against you truly hates you — they just hate the fact that they aren't as successful as you, as popular as you, as cute as you, as smart as you, or as progressive as you, etc.


So, hate doesn't really exist — what does is transfered aggression/pains.


If you know this, you'll know peace and achieve success faster.


"Started from the bottom now we are here." Drake.


The sky is big enough for all birds to fly and all stars to shine.


Don't try to stop another man's star and also don't abuse because another man refuses to support your star. 


Don't scam and don't support scam. Don't put your hopes on begging strangers/others. Don't create new accounts to beg after using your old accounts to abuse innocent people.


You are on your own — you only have God, your brain, and your family members to lean on.


Failure to realize this and hoping on destiny helpers on the Internet leads to depression and untimely death caused by frustration/suicide.


That's all I have for now and I pray you learned one or two things about


1. Moving on and ignoring the abuse with confidence

2. Staying focused even when they don't believe in you or write you off

3. Handling envy and jealousy like a man

4. Handling scammers who concoct stories to beg and making the real beggars look like scammers too

5. Succeeding and investing

6. Helping people without them pushing or controlling you to do it so they can call you good names and shower you with fake praises after they've gained from you or because they want to gain from you in the future

7. Handling manipulative people who disguise like Buhari 

8. Knowing your success lies on your brain and your dedication

9. Working in your own terms and not pleasing anyone 

10. Spending your money like a boss — the way you want; not the way the society wants it

11. The truth hurts and that's why my speeches always hurt and everyone barks.

Finally, I'll end this article with something my boss, Joe Clef, said, "Frustration is not an achievement, depression is."


Extra Info:

Here is the thread the main request happened: https://www.nairaland.com/6351922/won-man-thanks-nairalander-closed

And here is a second thread the person showered praises to those who helped. https://www.nairaland.com/6355441/good-men-good-heart-still

Séun doesn't get this kind of praise for creating Nairaland.

iLégend doesn't get this kind of praise for all the free money making tips he shared.

In summary: with money or weed, you can buy praise and worship from Nigerians.

......hello sir ilegend,I make clean cartoon pics,just get me your picture,tell me how you want it,I do it and you will pay me,..delivery before payment....help me out,.am not begging,..I just want to work and earn...thats all sir.

ClassicPesGamer:
sure thing bro...

we still have to keep up the gaming spirit hoping things will be better for good one day

...Abi nah,gamers for life.

ClassicPesGamer:
okay

If I had a good PC, I would have stopped playing pes 2017 a long time ago...

..sure nah,like core i7,or i9....

iLegendd:
Yes, whoever tells me 100% correct names of the below apps and their functions will get his account credited.

Also, which app do you think is worthy to be added and why?

After you've typed the name, you can't change your mind.

..Wait oooo,...op,,...u dey mine pi,...how many pi are you at now sir?

.

ClassicPesGamer:
not quite sure bro...but around 8-10gb

what about yours bro?

..I downloaded hano mini patch version 1&2,altogether was 4.3GB,but after extraction,it was around almost 10GB,.they have another type of patch too,pro patch,it is around 12GB(download size).patch is many sha,they make PES 2017 more sweeter.

ClassicPesGamer:
same shoes bro...
I also play pes 2017 patch 2021
which patch are you using...I use PES professionals patch

..I use Hano mini patch,what is the size of the patch you are using.

ClassicPesGamer:
lucky you bro...

I have a core i3 intel HD 3000 with no graphic card...

I hope I get a decent gaming PC soon

..Same here bro,but I play PES 2017 patch 2021,..and its great,I once played one assasin creed sef,need for speed,devil may cry,...uninstalled them sha,...I want to get new games sha...or if possible new laptop

sawer:
pls what drugs can I use to make someone sleep off

..Go and download this song"weightless",And the two both of you will sleep off