₦airaland Forum

Bacteriologist:
So many women haters on Nairaland. Whether blinded by their love for their pastors, their religion or sweet fùćk all.

Most people saying they don't believe Busola because she 'has no evidence' are rape apologists. They just need a screen or excuse to hide themselves behind.

Most of those supporting the Pastor have committed rape at one point or the other. Women in Nigeria are chattels believe me and until society fights for rape victims as in this instance, the rest will still hide for fear of public condemnation and backlash. I know a lot of women who have been raped. You would think they are normal until they start acting up. They never forget and they never get self worth. It influences their behaviors and relationships, and the men complain without knowing the root cause of such behaviors is psychological.

maybachmusic:
At the end of the day


This will affect dakolos image unlike in other places


Won't allow my wife go public with such info sha

Though you may be right, but that's why a lot of women are afraid to speak out and they live with the psychological scars forever. Society judges and shames them, so they keep mute and suffer while the perpetrator lives large. Timi is brave to do this. This will help his wife with closure and probably give a voice to others who are suffering in silence.

Sodomy? What kind of fucc, kery is that? That man is gay.

emmylite79:
Well for side hustle let your money work for you in the sense that your 3k will make six k for you but can you let go of 2k for me daily?

So he makes 1k daily while you chop 2k? Enlighten me.

Wicked. I no fit laugh. But she no go quick age like that.

Human cadavers re still good because it gives the the real feel with all the blood and slime oozing out during cutting.

Hmm. Still not enough for me o. Oh! why didn't I hear of that cheat? Would be smiling now.

She looks like five different persons. How does she do that? Her twerking, her business.

That's how we survived that year. Grasses taller than human beings. Scorpions and snakes everywhere and mosquitoes that pierced through khaki to bite you. No network, terrible meals even at maami market where I wasted money for three weeks. Bathing and pooping outside. Yikpata camp. Hmmmmm.

Unfortunately, Nigerians are not helping themselves. Name calling on social media and tribal war. As we no like ourselves, infact all the crime for this world na we commit am.

You take style preach for Romanceland? They are coming for you.

The husband be looking like prairie dog. Since both of them are mad, let's hope one relative is at least sane enough to cauton them else the next shoot will show when both of them are 'doing it'.

Walking round and inspecting my house. For some strange reason any guest who comes to my house is always overly curious. I've had to openly rebuke them to sit their asses down a couple of times.
Another is messing up the guest toilet or picking things here and leaving them at another spot.

onadana:
How can it be counted after the mumu Ikpeba hold hand for head instead of celebrating...come Siddon for Super sports dey pronoun Sharesea...instead of Chelsea.I still dey vex till today.

. Mercy me Lawd! You no get joy at all.

Never too late to pursue your dreams. Congratulations KOK.. Hope you will be practicing sha.

chemgee:
I better pray that 90% of the stories here are fake coz damn, too many broken folks moving around..

They are not fake. The things fathers have done to their children and sometimes their mothers is why you see most folks disassociate completely from fathers. The scars linger for a lifetime.

elegantslayer:
No oooo...My Dad is the best,don't let me tell you what my dad has gone through in training us,he's been a company driver for years and he has used that in training all his children,my elder sisters are graduates now,am in my final year in school,my only brother is in his 300 level and my baby sis is in a private secondary school,and its all thanks to my dad..There was time my dad stepped on poison,he had serious pains in one of his legs,he applied everything but the pains kept increasing everyday, but with all d pains,he still goes to work,he pretends whenever he sees any of his bosses so they won't say its old age and stop him from driving them,he wakes up as early as 5 am and treaks to d bus stop with d same leg just to cater for us..There was also a time my dad wanted to leave d house around 4:30 just cause one of his bosses asked him to come early,and on that particular day,there was a robbery incident in my street,we were hearing gunshots,we begged my dad to stay but he refused,my dad went to work that day even with d gun shots,how he managed to leave d street is what we don't know..My dad will always be like "if I stop working now,how are we going to survive", he said he didn't go to school but he will make sure he trains all his children even if it will cost him his life..My mum plays her motherly roles too,infact she's d best mum but my dad has never failed in playing his roles..And I keep praying that God will keep them for me,want to buy my dad a house, buy him the latest jeep,get him a driver that will be driving him and pay him for everything he has done for me, and I know my siblings are planning same thing too cos my Dad is simply the Best..He's my Hero for life...so you see,there are still good dads........And I forgot to add that my dad has been catering and training us with a salary of just 50k,a times he takes loans from the company for our school stuffs and mum takes over the feeding for that month...My parent are the BEST

God bless your dad forever. May he not die but live to enjoy his old age. I'm impressed.

intrepidJ:
Emotinally brutalized before the age of 7. Called a bastard by time im 10. Ran away from home at the age of 12 with no idea where i was going and but a biscuit in my pocket. Experienced the phenomenom "walking in circles " for the first time. By 6 im hungry and lost..by 11 im roaming yhe streets looking for where to sleep. God sends a good Samaritan my way. He saw a young boy on the streets at that hour. I lied to him was going to visit my uncle in Festac Town but got lost and was hungry. He took pity on me and offered to let me pass the night in his place. Too dangerous for a 12 year old boy walking all alone.

Next morning i had no desire to get up..i was drained. Anyway i find my way back to Festac. Exhausted i sat on a stone under the baking sun to rest. Then my dad's friend spotted me. I spotted him too and took off...he chased me and caught up with me. I screamed...people gathered thinking he was trying to kidnap me. I screamed " i dont wanna go back. He wants to kill me"

He was having none of that. I was bundled into a bus and taken home. Now this is where the nightmare began.

I was threatened with death. I was bullied by everyone. Repeatedly called a bastard and spat on. Being spat on right at my face is what i dread the most. You are a bastard chiled he will scream..then spit on my face and tell me to go commit suicide. He will point his finger at me and say "you will never make it in life".

Now im the first son. It didnt take long for my younger siblings to follow suit. I was not being spat on by my own brothers too. I was treated with the utmost disrespect and contempt. I tried had to figure out why i was hated with such passion...i just couldnt understand why a human being will treat another human like that.

Because of the childhood trauma i developed anxiety and other forms of mental illness. I didnt know how to socialize...my entire life has been characterised by nothing but raw fear. I became introveted..too scared to go out fir fear of being nullied. As my mental health got worse i became a source of amusement to them. I was mocked, laughed it...SPAT on, called useless. It was a living hell. At this point everybody in my family denies they know me. I was worth nothing to all of then.

When they saw that i had become immune to their widkedness because i have been so used to it so it doesnt affect me..they looked for new ways to cause me emotional trauma..my FRIENDS.

My friends were disgraced by my dad...i was warned never to bring friends home. By the time i was 18 they had grown tired of havng me around. I was sent to the University of Port Harcourt and abandoned there. Inwas not deemed worthy enough for anyone to invest in..sos ia became homeless in Port Hacourt..walking the street. With no money toi feed. Not once was i sent money...luckily some friends took pity on me and took me in.

So i got sick. The stress of everyday life was too much. It affected my immune system. I call my dad and BEG him for N5,000. BEGGED!!. But alas..i was not worth N5,000. At this point i had lost all hope of ever being accepted. So i go into Yahoo. Oh boy !!! My life changed.

First pay was £12,000 pounds. More money began flowing. My life was has changed. So in estacy i decided to surprise my family is. I figured now that there was money i can make them accept me. I never knew i was making a terrible mistake.

I spent over N3 million on that family. I thought they were happy for me. I, who nobody paid my fees, my dad took up responsibility of some family relatives education on my back. No prob..so long it made him happy i was cool.

THEN

The terrible DREAMS STARTED. TERRIBLE DREAMS. I kept dreaming of being attacked with blows from my dad and siblings...i dreamt of my siblings exchanging my bigger phone with his. I dreamt of being force fed in my dreams by my family. I couldn't make sense of it.

My finances then took a hit..suddenly.To cut long story short...i had an altercation with a friend...in anger and fury he blotted out i am a BASTARD. I am a reject. I am not the legitimate son of my dad. Apparently my mom cheated or so and ...they found out..My mom left so i was at the mercy of my dad. Unable to get at my mom i was used as a punching bag.

One faithful day..i was im my dads room..and rifht in his wardrop i saw a BAT hanging upside down. I fled in panic and shouted daddy see bat. My dad just smiled ans closed the wardrope. I was confused.

God in his infinite mercy took pity on me and revealed to me the truth. I was living in the midst of witches and wizards. My entire family was into witchcraft. Including my mom. They wanted to use me for sacrifises but God intervened. A friend of mine was made an off remark that "na because of your goodheart you dey alive..God dey fight for you" ...i didnt understand then...

They saw my star, they saw God loved me so much and since they could not kill me they resorted to trging to steal my glory.

My life has pretty much being destroyed at this point n because i am just lost with no sense of belonging. I fled my family..they still sent WITCHCRAFT bird to be monitoring me. Now he may have caused me great pain and sufferring..i really do not hate him. I am more sad than happy. But i know the almighty God seest all. I do sincerely hope they turn from witchcraft before its too late.

So im lost. Contemplated suicide..nobody to talk to and having to live in complete isolation. One thing i know..God will help me out and end my suffering. I hope its soon cos life has become unbearable.

The man i called my dad is a wicked and evil hypocrite and jealous too. Someday he will answer for destroying my life and all the pain and tears he caused. Waking up middle of the night crying. I did nothing to him. He will answer for his wickedness...very soon.

I really do feel for you. Life has dealt you a very bad hand. I pray you find light at the end of this tunnel you are in. I read some of your posts, I'm wondering, are you still experiencing those things you used to?

If she had just stopped after the first three.

I wish Nigerian women will embrace family planning. She had no business conceiving again . Three children is enough.

All shades of wrong.

Your English is always appalling Mr Blogger.

She was never fine. She even looks better with age.

etrouble:
Kola Abiola is still a billionaire, go and find out. None of these looting governors is as wealthy as Kola Abiola. FG revoked several oil licenses including that of IBB, Abdulsalami, Obasanjo, TY Danjuma, even that of Buhari's in-law Muhammed Indimi. The oil belongs to the masses and not few heartless elites who have been holding the masses to ransom. FG plans to redistribute the Oil licenses to States so that the States can have more money instead of individuals. There is no reason why Muhammed Indimi who is from Maiduguri or Folorunsho Alakija who is from Osun will be owning Oil Wells in Bayelsa, Rivers and Akwa-Ibom while the people who owns the land where the oil is located are houseboys and gatemen to the oil usurpers.

That would be very laudable. But until it happens, fingers crossed.

Oats swallow is good. Try it.

luminouz:
Well there u have it, LAFP is real o...but I'm a consultant and for a small fee,we could help u treat that condition

Oya go and sleep. Who say I get the lapo abi labio problem?

luminouz:


Well,according to church doctrine, suspension based on premarital sex is in order...

But wait o,why on earth will they commit the second 'impure' act after having been punished the first time. They could simply shift the marriage date forward to ease the 'loins-accumulating-fokosobolistic-pressure'
(LAFP).
LAFP happens to the best of men(n women). Why,just today,at the bank,naso junior wan disgrace me when the beautiful teller attendant gave me a bright smile,winked and waltz away giving me a panoramic view of her huge ass. I just dey hear chairman rub ur noose,RUB UR NOOSE!!!! MY FUCKING ZIP SPLIT!!!

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Almunjid:
If u read that guy comment and headache no worry u that means say ur head strong wella.

I pray make minister of education adopt am... Na only him go fit help dat guy

CHAI!

post=79196765:
JESUS IS LORD FOREVER AND EVER.

We love seeing the devil in severe pains....

He just lost to Christ once again....for the billionth times!

You know Christ?

ThinkWISELY:
Sue them, but trust me, EFCC don't just go after you if something isn't fishy, do you think their Intel is that dumb

Yes, their Intel is that dumb. No be EFCC again?