₦airaland Forum

FarahAideed:
I have been curing cancer in Nigeria but Nobody knows

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How?

DateMynd44:
seriously I really need help.
I'll be 30 very soon and the only hairs on my face are those of eye brows...
BTW what do u think of beardless guys?
Are they attractive?

Sincerely, I don't like bearded guys. No matter how well groomed, they always look rough to me.

DateMynd44:
nsido yak asak?

Da amenie mbom. Adono nte ekpeme. LMAO.

DateMynd44:
bro I'm 30 and I don't have any beard abeg help me

Collyweed:
Kanu should bow to Mumuharri. Our disabled Presidiot is proving to be a past master at disintegration.

The dotard is simply amazing. He finds every small crack and fissure, stuffs dynamite and lights the fuse. I frankly can’t foresee how this criminal enterprise masquerading as a country can survive these many fires.

I noticed this tendency a while ago and opined that Mumuharri is under the anointing of the Lord of Strategy himself, Ekwensu, to pull down this i
nfernal Tower of Babel.

Funny but true.

Mk12:
Nigerians lack knowledge and understanding. there are trousers for men and trousers for women.
the Israelite back then both men and women use to put on a gown like dress. the only difference was the style.

there are countries where men put on skirt , shirt and even with tie as dressing.
some Africans don't actually read from their holybook . they only do whatever they are told by religious leaders

Loud it. I've explained this to a lot of myopic people. The evil is in wearing anything designed for the opposite sex. Men as well as women wear shirts, jackets, T shirts etc. The difference is just in the designs and cuts. So why are they not condemning those?
So many preachers are hell bent on psychologically subjugating their members and the lazy members don't even study their Bibles nor read up on histories and cultures.

Marriage has never been seen as an achievement by me. But so many Nigerians think otherwise.

Born again ism is now the new ish. Kanye West born again?
By his fruits henceforth, we shall know him.

Emma4321:
I stay in akwa ibom, getting a teaching job that pays to that amount is not easy

Pm me, I'll direct you to a school that can pay you at least something in that region. You only need to ace the interview. They will also give you a place to stay but they work really hard o. They hire within this period. BTW, what did you study and what's your qualifications?

The same Abiola that dumped a shipload of Bibles in the Atlantic ocean?

Samanza89:
I actually laughed when I read this, AKS is my state, so believe this nonsense at your own peril

The extent this man will go to na. Very funny. Who doesn't know Akpabio again?

thesicilian:
It would have cost her essentially the same to pay for everybody in the cinema instead and they all watch it together.

Fact!
But there is something called privilege.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Good you know most men don't love genuinely.

No be today o? That knowledge dey my DNA.

Why destroy a community because of the acts of a few? Nigerian security forces bay their fangs at civilians but start whimpering when they encounter herdsmen or Boko Haram.

A lot of Nigerian men would have put on some disappearing act.
God bless you lady for truly, genuinely, showing true love. May your union be blessed.

She is fine. She looks more refined. Why are Nigerians so hypocritical. Put the two Tachas, before and after and I bet at least 80%of the guys commenting here will go for the light skin Tacha.

visijo:
Why is it that when you sit in the kitchen and wait on your rice the water never seem to Dry

But Just remove your Eye and press your phone small

Boom !!! Burnt Offering
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I follow you waka for that one.

post=80540094:
God bless our darling President Muhammadu Buhari .

A man after God's heart.

Children of hate and perdition, you can start weeping now.....

I think you are in coma just like Buhari, are you sure it's not your ghost writing these things?

Zionista:
Obviously , you are a kid.

Just yesterday, I saw a herd of cattle grazing right inside the AKTC terminal in Itam Junction, I you.

They've always been there. But now they are showing their hands, the people will not be silent.

jamace:
If you know the population of foreign fulanis that have entered Nigeria in this Buhari regime, you will shudder.
It is a calculated attempt by fulanis all over Africa to take over Nigeria as their ancestral home.

Buhari is the world leader of fulanis. If you expect Buhari to do anything about fulani invasion of Nigeria, you are on a long thing.

Buhari won't do a thing. At least we all know that. But communities in Akwa Ibom will. The problem is the south is not United and they are capitalising on that. But If each community takes this head on, in whatever way they can, through ancestral means or modern means, it will stop.

NwaAmaikpe:



Wow.
See Ini, Kate Uche and Rita dancing.
It is a beautiful sight though I question if they are genuinely happy.

I can't help but imagine the bitterness and frustration that eats them up each time they realize they are still spinsters.
It must be such an incomplete sad life for them.
They had the opportunity to build fruitful homes when they were much younger but they blew it because they were carried away with their status.

I pray young women look up to them and realize that getting married when their flower is in full bloom is the smartest thing any lady can do before the tables are turned.

Remember, the evening newspaper only ends up being the wrapper for the next day's akara.

Madness is back!

Keke car.

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
eyeneka mbok ka iso bong akam nno obio idung mfo yak Abasi anam yak nnyin ikid emem

Hmmm, Na God go help us .

powerhouse3:
Fulani for akwa ibom... Hahaha... Make una thread carefully... They woman have protest.,let the government lent them their ears.

FOR THE YOUTH WILL NOT HAVE TIME FOR THIS (PROTEST)

You Sabi Wella. They tried their bullshit in one community like that. The people warned them, they didn't heed. Next morning, the herders woke up to see dead cows around them. The people now told them that what killed the cows can also kill a man. They left that community same day.

Herders have always grazed in Akwa Ibom, but if they are now destroying crops, it means they are deliberately fermenting trouble. And in response, communities in Akwa Ibom will resort to using "ekpe ikpaukod" . They've done it before, they'll do it again.

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
their impunity will end after their brother's regime ends in 2023

If they don't already wipe out the whole south by then. If you notice, they are working with speed to actualise an agenda. Yorubas, better wake up.

How can Northeners form a vigilante group in a Southern State? To what purpose? What the heck is going on in this country?

Tunagee:
I made efforts to appease her from sept 2018 to January 2019, but she was unwilling and was adamant saying she has no time for marriage and that she lost her brother. Pls if I was proud, I won't have been begging by kneeling to her at her mother's place. This is in addition to the several appeal messages to her pleading.
If i was proud, i wont have been visiting consistently for 4months, despite no result.This should answer your question below.

That's why he is making half hearted efforts at getting her back. The woman knows he hasn't changed, that's why she is not budging. Jeez. How difficult is it to understand that?

My bad. I'm sorry for that. That's why I don't like speculating about marital issues. When you said you stopped seeing her since January, I assumed you weren't making enough effort.
Do just this, but get your mind prepared for anything. Get a meeting with her, just the two of you. Look her in the eye boldly and ask her if she still wants to be married to you. Insist on a reply there and then. If she says yes, promise her you'll change and ask her what her grouse is and what she needs to make her come back home, then give her a dateline to return. (Na you go go pick am sha). Be emphatic by telling her if she isn't back by then, you will go ahead to divorce her, that you need to move on in life, get married again and have more kids. If no, tell her your lawyer will serve her divorce papers. Either way, stick to your guns and don't budge. (BTW, if she refuses to meet you alone but with her mother or someone else, stick to the script).

Above all , pray and tell God whatever is His plan for your life should be the outcome of that meeting.

Shalom

BlackAlbinoo:
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Can you show me?

omochelsea004:
are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?...... omo... that one go tough o

Try Jaaruma Empire products. May solve her problems. Good luck.

Modified.

Just read that she was circumcised. Hmmmmmm, that one is a wah but the way I see it, you have to forget the clit and work around other zones in her body.

1. Her bweasst. Massage, light stimulation of nipples, nothing forceful just featherlight touches etc.

2. Nape of neck, under toes, ear and the likes. No 2 can be done while conversing before moving to 1.

3. Her G spot. This is inside the vag. Locate it by simple inserting a finger facing upwards. Then bend the finger like you beckoning. You will feel a mass of nerves very close to the entrance that is almost similar to the clit up there. That's the G spot. Gentle massage and stimulation will get her excited like your are working the clit. Men who do it right get orgasms from there even without touching the clit.

The entrance to the vag also has nerves that can be stimulated, best way to get a response is by stretching. Two fingers shd do the job.

Finally, shallow penetration won't work in this instance, just bend her legs to her neck, there you can hit the mouth of her cervix easily. That's another crazy spot for good orgasm. Thai also takes care of the G spot.

Try some aphrodisiac first before embarking on this journey.

Believe me, if you get it right, you will never complain again.
Good luck.

MarjieJ98354:
Damn, I wish that I can have a spiritual husband! Lol! It's better than having no husband!!

Don't wish for it. . You will end up suicidal.

Ugosample:
so the solution to "verbal abuse" is to pack out of your house for 10 months

do you know run verbal abuse the man himself us getting from her and he IS enduring?


the woman is largely at fault here

the man has lost his job
And I know how many wives get when a man loses his job

so spare us that crap

the op should try to salvage his marriage

but IF she is no longer interested

he should take a walk

jeez women

No, you spare me the crap.

The OP has admitted on different pages that he bullied her verbally on most occasions. He repeatedly affirmed that she is well brought up. He never said she answered or abused him back. His frustrations at losing his job probably had him behaving that way. I don't believe money is the issue here because OP was also responsible for the family upkeep even when out of a job while she was teaching.

Don't stay in your blind environment and assume without evidence that the woman is wrong. The fact that you are a man and you hate women shouldn't make you too close minded to realities and truth. In marriage most often, women are blamed even if they are saints. The men behave far worse yet are praised and supported.

The woman is staying away just so he can have sense but he is too proud and still holding unto his cocky and condescending attitude towards her. That's why he is making half hearted efforts at getting her back. The woman knows he hasn't changed, that's why she is not budging. Jeez. How difficult is it to understand that?

Finally, if a woman verbally abused a man repeatedly, you would be the FTC on Nairaland telling the man to separate or divorce because the woman does not love him and lacks home training. Just, just, stop operating the double standard, it stinks.