sack them, they did it again they are only sorry you caught them. if they can beg you again and get away they will do it again and again. 1 must learn a lesson

@Arosa

I hate it when people just lie blatant Africans are more into social status then any other black people unless you want to lie. Other than this why do we need to state no its the carribeans. Ask anybody and they will tell you. You hardly see a carribean with a white girl not ones that were born in the carribean anyway and when they do they leave them in the house you can hardly see a carribean male walking street with white people or even light skinned. Not like their African counterparts who love anything to do with social staus.

I know hes a liar i wouldnt even trust him to share his egusi soup but i just feel embarrassed for him. It just goes to show how important it is for a lot of people to live a materlistic lifestyle and have material wealth. I know that, that is 99% of this worlds problems and the other 1% is down to natural disasters.

By the way when talking of this there was no more mention of his 8 sisters who were previously poverty stricken and whos husbands were threatening them with a second wife if they did find money for them.

No body is abusing so please dont get offended

I met a colleague at work and at first he seemed very genuine he told me that he had 8 sisters and only 1 brother who was rich (this could be true)
All the family including his mum he said was poor due to his fathers family taking everything his father owned when he died. He said he was building a house for his mum and that his sisters often teeth the money he often sends to his mum

I did not see this guy for a while as he worked on the agency then he told me his brother died he had to go to naija.

After which he started with his stories and putting evidence on social networking sites of a big mansion ( dead brothers house).
He started telling me about his dads company (dead brothers bussiness) and how he can ask his mum to send money from there or he can ask the accountant of the company but he stated that he dont like to collect money from nigeria as he should really send money to naija. To build his house in uk. Then he states his mum is complaining of being in the big house on her own and that the cars are rusting.

He states he can even help me as his family is rich he can help me get my foot in the
door of any thing i wanted and my spouse.
i just want to ask him why  dont people just shut up we dont need to know this nobody like myself will think anymore of you for this infact people with sense will think less of you so why do people feel the need to lie about their life?

obowunmi:


Well said bro! But NOT every young and rich man has this sort of discipline.

Rich men have nothing but their money. They are boastful, self indulgent and the people who chase them are retarded lazy arse biatches

This is so obvious

money talks bull**** walks to any Nigerian man or woman. Especially because Nigerian society values people with money and material things + most Nigerians are boastful they now have something to boast about.

Some of these comments are disgusting

Arab men do like black women they like well kempt women full stop they like woman with a nice structure not fat not skinny and who look like they take good care of themselves.

I believe that parents say we should do things for our own good they are more experienced then us. They do not want you to regret yourself by having encounters with people who may not be the best people for your future. Love is just a word why dosent your boyfriend tell your parents he wants to get married to you?

Thank you all very mixed views about the subject and its nice to hear what you have said.

You see the matter is complicated and much more complex than how i have described that is just the outline of the case. I tell my friend that when she is thinking like how we do in Britain then she will upset herself cause it is not like that in nigeria people live from day to day they havent got time to listen to others problems even if it is their brother who never failed to send money or give a gift to close family members. Youre right her husband did at first ask for money but does not any more because she did not give it in the first place given the situation she was left with the baby she had to fend for herself he does not ask for money now but she thinks hes alright i mean hes a man he should be able to survive anywhere since its just him alone and i will reinstate this to her. The other thing is she is more hurt by the sisters of the family cause whenever things go wrong for them in nigeria their brother was the first person to be called for reinbursement of their stolen goods, travel costs, shopping money etc he was very kind and spoke highly of his family only for them to make him look like a lost puppy when he went back to Nigeria her words not mine. The sistas couldnt even congratulate the safe arrival of her new baby. Although she still insists she gets on very well with the mum and dad.

Why would someone ask such a question if you know Nigerians then you will know that no1 they do not like to be challenged no 2 They would like you to believe that they are good all good no3 that they are no1 in the world and no4 They do not like hearing the truth cause they never want to change for bettermen

My friend is also married to a Nigerian man but recently they got into great difficulty as her husband was told to go home from a holiday cause the country said the Nigerian passport was no good i.e fraudulent. Anyway my friend travelled back to Britain and her husband back to Nigeria. She was pregnant at the time 6 months+. Well anyway this girl always praised her husbands Nigerian family for various reasons and mainly because she did not really know them . Although she has met them her husband never told her the truth about them and so she did not know that they would treat her and her husband the way they did when her husband ran into trouble. whilst she was in hospital just after giving birth alone to the child one of her husbands sisters called her and decided to shout at her saying she was not happy with her the wife as she did not call the other sister who was visiting London at the time to come and see the baby. My friend tried to explain that she was still in hospital and previous to this was dealing with her husbands absence which she describes like she is mourning for her husband. She did contact the other sister and explained that she did not have anywhere for her to stay really. (but it was mainly to do with finances as her husband was not there only getting maternity pay she could not feed an extra mouth). Later nobody has called her from the family to ask of the baby and also her husband complains that he has nobody to help him financially he is not in a good place no money no family. Now my friend dint understand shes like i thought his family would be there for him through thick and thin but unfortunately not. My friend does not have money to pay for the flight to go and see her husband just yet the baby is 5 months old and her husband Neva saw the baby. She cant understand why nobody has spoken to her or are not bothered that the husband did not see the babyont know what to say to her, what do you think? Please only articulate comments no slander.

There are some men that bleep women for their money. They wil worship her for that money.

The trouble with nigerians is that they dont wont people to know whats really going on there. They wont you to know that their country is even better than us and white people should start holidaying there. They wouldnt wont anyone outside to know that even they are tired of whats going on and that they run away for civillised way of life

Did u know that all of the things on ali baba are imitations most are not 100% replicas of the original item. So people will get to know when they buy something they will know that they have been scammed and you will know that uve been scammed too.

justwise:

Just keep quiet, the British started it all, they came to Africa WITHOUT visa to steal and rule untill their white backside were kicked out.

Don't even start putting any African down here.

I wouldnt dream of it darling im just saying that anyone who can born kids and marry for papers must be a cheap son or daugter of a gun i mean i know people who did not have papers and they have married an eu and they are still together than on the other hand youve got ones that use people which is wrong i know of man who did this and guess what he married his own woman after this from nigeria and she later divorced him taking most the proceeds of his home that the oyinbo left for him and guess what he feels as though his life is ruined but did not care less when he didi it to someone else god is watching all

Theres more to life then money as many people learn when i have helped them to come to UK then they do not get asylum or over stay visa and then get deported they email me after 6 months or so to tell me that they are doing ok in nigeria they have bussiness or something. The thing is that the countries most talked in the EU offer life to people if they manage to get the right papers. If you only come to europe for money reasons the chances are you will not be happy because its not easy to make money big the rent is high and so is schooling for foreigners etc you have to pay for everything so at the end of the 1000 pounds you make you may have just 400 pounds and that is after denying yourself so many things. Its better to think of a better quality of life then just making money alone that way happiness will follow. I have seen so much flashiness here but are they really happy they are hungry and im not talking about 1 country in particular im talking about anyone with that mentality

I believe its true what most of the people here are saying i have even heard people say that pastors wont to come to europe and open churches for the offerings or tithe as is called here. When i lived in London me and my husband went to the pastors house man was living large in his 4 bedroom semi detached house in north west london his people carrier and saloon. They send the offering bag or whateva round at least 2 -3 times in a service. They also have more services in a week than any other church. i prefer the Cof E church because the offering bag is there when you come in i did not even notice it until i had been going there for some time.

So you have seen that England is not paved with gold, so instead its adump? The only thing that England wont is Workers who will pay there taxes if people were not so greedy and red eyed they would not be having to acknowledge that.

Be grateful for what one has cause England is not going to be the land of oppourtunity for everyone. You may even end up destitute.

Why do people get so angry an touchy feely when people mention that a tribe is better than another at doing something cant we clap and applaude each tribe for what they are good at i mean me personally i absolutly jadore Edinaikong spelt something like that it is the bomb i also like egusi ogobono or just about anything that is tasty nigerian food is nice full stop. I luv cooking it for my husband although im montserratean he also enjoys my rice and peas.

why dont we look at the fact that if you have enough money or a nice body you can buy any certificate to say im an engineer, DR, Lawyer. If we look deep in our hearts we no the truth of why UK and USA do not accept qualifications from certain countries and besides the level at which the subject is learnt may not enable someone from a certain country to be fully competant in the job. In some jobs you may require extra traing i.e DR, Nurse, Teacher in others you may need a new degree or masters.

Nigeria is a great place that is why you will see approx 5 foreigners per plane load coming out of nigeria
When you arrive at the airport you will collect your lugguage and then you must place your luggage and open it for all to see cause you are special and everyone must see your wonderful luggage at the forcourt of the arrivals baggage collection. They dont check it really its just to start your holiday in comfort (maybe it was to give them money dont know cause i was with a nigerian) before you are met by about three more people from the airport all wonting to check your passport ( is that all just four times only happens once in england. Then people will rush up to you to sell you their currency. The roads when you are driving are so luxurously bumpy if you went to fast you could see yourself in heaven before your great grandmother. Its so fun no traffic lights so everyone just trys to do their own thing straghit ahead, left, right.Could get stuck like that for an exciting 2hours if your extra lucky maybe even 4. The beach at victoria island is so arty with lots papers, tin cans,food packets you name it all over the place. wonderful! Whilst your driving with family poilce will stop the car and ask you how can you help them ( bribe) or they may tell you that you are smoking next to the driver (bribe) or that a male should not wear to earings in that state and arrest you if you dont generously donate to the dam corrupt good for nothing but money people excellent. When you are left alone you may vist a (joint) place to eat and drink. Where there maybe three different bussiness but nobody to clean the one public toilet and dont break yoiur neck as you jump over sewege wells at the side of the road be careful balance gently on whateva is used like a peice of wood or mental gate. Dont pay too much attention to the children you see washing cars,selling food or pushing an elderly person in their wheel chairs to beg when they should be at school. WONDERFUL! thats why we have so may Nigerians in the UK Canada and the us Nigeria system is shambolic that petrol your talking about you betta shutupp and stop disgracing yourself the only people that are gaining from that are the rich the country as a whole does not benefit NIGERIA HAS DESTROYED AND DISGRACED THEMSELVES MORE THAN ANY PERSON COUKD EVA OF DONE AND THEN THEY WILL ASK U HOW MUCH PETROL DO YOU HAVE IN YOUR COUNTRY. SO FOOLISH

it depends on how much you are willing to give when you get there if you can give give and give they will like you the minute you cannot give you will see the true colours of niger people. You could use sense or use the situation to your advantage as you can buy an nigerians genuinenees, kindness and luv with MONEY anythings possible with MONEY down there and i mean anything. so be careful

Nwaka 77 you make it sound like a black man would marry anything which is true lol they put themselves to shame with no standards most of the africans anyway

efani what do you want your kids to b mixed for im mixed and lifes hard have black kids or white kids not mixed kids cause they do not belong in anywhere. all my kids are black nigerian i would not have mixed kids. i dont think people know the concequences of mixed kids only they are cute and good looking but thats all

esortorik do you wont to explain do you mean you will then get papers to be more secure in life that you will have more security then in your country i think that western women need to be made aware sharpish. us western women will start to take you men for a ride cause we know what you want.

why do you africans wont to leave your goods all over the place i mean your children why dont you go and fight for your rights in your country i bet if we had juju you would not dare its a cowardly act. its a shame what people would stoop to lowest point just so they can eat in nigeria. then when he gets his papers all german or whaterver woman are cheap whores but the fact is you are cheap all of the guys and girls that are marrying just for papers and not for love are cheap dirty disgraces that will use slavery for why they are doing it. im not suprised why white people look down on blacks. they cannot have agood life in their country so they come to europe us or canada to destroy life. i hope nobody marries you

humans can take juju to destroy which is so easy what price will you pay to get juju to do a good thing in the end you will be sorry pray pray and fast that is the answer