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FamilyRe: How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? by mentored: 10:37pm On Sep 02, 2020
dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page
Hei idiot

You are a man

Behave like one

She is a baby mama

Not a wife

Get that into your skull
RomanceRe: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by mentored: 10:35pm On Sep 02, 2020
Berryli:
Few weeks to my 25th birthday, last year, I ran into my Neighbour and we exchanged numbers, then the chatting began, we became friends and he offered to take me out on my birthday but It didn't happen.

Fast forward to the lockdown, I would go visit him we would chat and he appreciated my company as he was alone. He eventually started to make moves, getting all touchy which got me a little surprised and uncomfortable since as friends that was improper, which got me thinking if he wants more than friendship.

He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I'm not attracted to him. We are very different people, socially and even our views about life. I enjoy his company but that's all there is. As a result if I use to visit twice in a week, I reduced it to once in two weeks and eventually monthly, and reduced the chats just to not give him the wrong impression.

He stylishly refer to me in future as his wife. What do I do? Is he starting to have feelings for me and how do I stylishly turn him down since he hasn't asked me out or do i wait for him to do so? cos there are people who just draw close and start dating without d while toasting stuff or is it just his flesh loosing control, which I doubt cos I try to be as decent as possible wen visiting him.

Do I just go with the flow since I'm currently not in a relationship? But won't that be me deceiving him and myself cos I don't like him in that way. or I'm over thinking the whole thing?
Flow keee you there
RomanceRe: "She's Mine, He's Dreaming": Pre-wedding T-shirts by mentored: 10:33pm On Sep 02, 2020
sapphiere:
Reactions
Marriage built on Typo error
PoliticsRe: Buhari Expresses Worry Over High Price Of Food Items by mentored: 10:32pm On Sep 02, 2020
PoliticsRe: PDP Rejects N151 Fuel Price, Slams APC. APC Fires Back by mentored: 10:30pm On Sep 02, 2020
TravelRe: Pictures Of The Renovated Port Harcourt Airport by mentored: 10:00pm On Sep 02, 2020
COMPAQ:
You have been landing at the OLD international also used for domestic flights and now totally domestic. The NEW international airport is like a kilometer after the old one. When you are taxing, you might see it.
Ok

Will be on the lookout
TravelRe: Pictures Of The Renovated Port Harcourt Airport by mentored: 3:04pm On Sep 02, 2020
COMPAQ:
Don't be daft? All the rebuilt airports were done by CCECC with pretty much the same design and layout. That's why the pictures all look the same. Though size of the airports differ.

PH Intl was a totally new rebuild, bottoms up. So also is Lagos and Abuja. Enugu on the other hand is a refurbishment if I'm not mistaken. Not sure about Kano.
Well done Sir


I have been to ALL the airports you mentioned before and after the previous pictures we’re shared.


It’s entirely different from what you are painting up there.

Please do not take it personal.

PH was an eye sore quote me anywhere - unless all the images flying around are after lock down.
CelebritiesRe: Tyler Perry Becomes A Billionaire - Forbes by mentored: 1:19pm On Sep 02, 2020
Eco99:
....

kai

you see this -- homeless car owner -- thing will not work in Nigeria

you will jst sleep one day in ur car and wake up the nxt morning on top of your spare tyre ....

If only our polithievians will give us at least steady 24hrs power....

productivity will increase and cost will reduce

check the developing African nation right now ... Ghana , South Africa

they started with stable power supply


# Eco99
You can say that again and again


They don’t want to oooooooo

They know it will bring liberation
PoliticsRe: Bulama Bukarti Makes Senior Associate At US Thinktank (Photo) by mentored: 12:39pm On Sep 02, 2020
dre11:
SOURCE
Finally
CelebritiesRe: Don Jazzy Campaigned For APC (Throwback Photos) by mentored: 11:36am On Sep 02, 2020
SpatialKing:
They have been a lot of outrage since the news of music mogul Don Jazzy and Tiwa Savage arrest by the DSS broke out.

However, a lot of people feel Don Jazzy is actually reaping what he and others sow because they jointly campaigned for Buhari and the APC in 2015.
You just have to love KARMA
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu: I Challenge Pastor Adeboye To Reveal What He Saw In Aso Rock by mentored: 11:35am On Sep 02, 2020
Pimpmaride:
Kanu shud stop this attack on other tribes clerics.. Anambra elders went to Aso Rock, kanu said nothing abt it....


“I challenge Adeboye to tell the world if he met the old brutal dictator Buhari or somebody that looks like him,” he claimed

Kanu is old na.... He is educated and if Nigeria wants to break sef, this approach isn't the right way...



My heartfelt msg for the heros that died for Nigeria... It's a pity that it is all vain....



Please guys. Check my signature
Do you remember what happened to the wisdom of Ahitophel
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu: I Challenge Pastor Adeboye To Reveal What He Saw In Aso Rock by mentored: 11:34am On Sep 02, 2020
PoliticsRe: Protests In Ibadan Over Alleged Secession Agenda Of Yoruba Nation. by mentored: 11:29am On Sep 02, 2020
flyingpig:
Tinubu is behind this sponsorship. He is seeing East getting the presidency through Kalu because of fights for emancipation. He's trying to get the attention. Same way South south got vice presidency and presidency through militancy and North got presidency through boko haram by claiming they're the best people to tame their own problems. Tinubu is sponsoring these groups to take away attention from the East and have a leverage.
Not too far from the supposing truth


The real truth is that both thief Kalu and Thiefnibu are all armed robbers
PoliticsRe: Protests In Ibadan Over Alleged Secession Agenda Of Yoruba Nation. by mentored: 11:27am On Sep 02, 2020
2020Experience:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/protests-in-ibadan-over-alleged-secession-agenda-of-yoruba-nation/
If you hear secession protest from some quarters


Ignore it


Can never happen


Something else is cooking


Not them

No no

In fact never
TravelRe: Pictures Of The Renovated Port Harcourt Airport by mentored: 11:25am On Sep 02, 2020
PoliticsRe: Ita Enang: CAMA Not Targeted At Religious Bodies by mentored: 11:13am On Sep 02, 2020
ryloy:
I don't know why all these fuss about nothing. Why register with CAC in the first place ,if you don't want to do annual filing
Okwa ibiakwahuh


Hmmmm hmmm hmmmmm
PhonesRe: Glo Introduces New Mega Data Plans by mentored: 5:53pm On Sep 01, 2020
Penaldo:
I believe that Glo is a network we can trust
https://www.gloworld.com/ng/personal/data/data-plans/



See https://www.gloworld.com/ng/personal/data/data-plans/ for more details
You know the only thing I enjoy with Glohuh

Adverts
RomanceRe: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by mentored: 7:09am On Sep 01, 2020
OyinO:
Taaahh! I'm not a coward like you. Let the Kano murderer come to my enclave and stop me from talking or speaking my mind. Why must I go to Kano? What stops the Kano coward from coming to my place to kill me for speaking my mind/ the truth?
Read through your words bro

You will see through the real YOU
RomanceRe: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by mentored: 10:25pm On Aug 31, 2020
SierraT:
If you ask me I think they look good together smiley
Walai

Perfect match

Aunty no too old naa

Still look fresh
PoliticsRe: Orji Kalu Meets Abdulsalami Abubakar In Minna (Photos) by mentored: 10:19pm On Aug 31, 2020
flyingpig:
You can already see who is the next president grin This power play dey sweet me die. Everybody wey say igbo no fit rule this country in 2023 must quench grin

Below is Kalu with Buhari
Mtchew
RomanceRe: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by mentored: 6:29pm On Aug 31, 2020
OyinO:
Complete rubbish.
How many married people cheat on a daily basis because of it? Even David who was termed a Man after "God's own " Heart" was guilty of this. How many marriages have crashed because of this syndrome? So many married people stopped enjoying sex because they don't see anything sexually fascinating and interesting in their partner. How is sex between two consenting adults a sin? Who did the Angel Man pay bride price before fkking Mary at the Carpenter's backyard?
Free thinker ti de oooooooh


Okwa spitting fire things


Bros no go kano talk something similar about Mohammed


You won’t live to tell the story.
RomanceRe: Can Someone Explain The Feeling Of Disgust, Remorse And Disdain After Sex.? by mentored: 6:27pm On Aug 31, 2020
KristaPretty:
Who do youhuh grin grin grin
Abeg lemme

Is it your do?
PoliticsRe: FFK Kneels Down For Prayers As CAN Chairman Says He'll Lead Nigeria (Video) by mentored: 4:08pm On Aug 31, 2020
Righteousness89:
In as much as it looks like a Fairy tale , I Have Seen an Learnt in life that the Ways of God are not the Ways of Men.

I Have Seen People who had nothing, Sacked and Confused but one Connection from God Catapulted them to Positions and Appointments ..

God Has always used the things that sound and look Foolish to Confront the so Called Wise of the Earth, That No Man will GLORY in Himself..

GOD Almighty is the Qualifier of the Unqualified..

GEJ was a Simple Lecturer in Uniport before He was brought into Politics during the Military reign of Navy Captain Olubolade as MILAD of Bayelsa state.

GEJ became Governor and President without Him being the Primary person being Elected

President Donald Trump was seen more as a Comedian! All those who felt they know swore that He will never and can never be President..
Watch here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G87UXIH8Lzo
Today He is the President of the USA.

A Man that Bows before God Can Reach any Height!

Listen! If you wanna See God's Grace on your Life , Make yourself available to God and be Foolish to the World..

God Can Lift anybody at anytime and any where!
I decide to concur

Nobody should come for me
PoliticsRe: Nigerians In Diaspora Ask Buhari To Disband Cabinet by mentored: 4:06pm On Aug 31, 2020
TravelRe: The True State Of The Enugu International Airport - Eze Pee-Cee Shares Photos by mentored: 4:05pm On Aug 31, 2020
FactBoyz:
In conclusion, work NEVER finish.....



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=656751205271809&id=100028108063443
Hahahhahahahahahahahha


Welcome to naija
PoliticsRe: APC To Nigerians: Calm Down! Restructuring Has Begun by mentored: 4:04pm On Aug 31, 2020
PoliticsRe: Northern Elders Forum Knocks Senate Over Move To Review 1999 Constitution by mentored: 4:04pm On Aug 31, 2020
PoliticsRe: Northern Elders Forum Knocks Senate Over Move To Review 1999 Constitution by mentored: 4:03pm On Aug 31, 2020
favor914:
D.O.A.
We always know the problem of Nigeria


It’s just that the back stabbers are not courageous enough to stand their ground
PoliticsRe: If We Release Names, List Of Looters In NDDC, Nigeria Will Break — Committee by mentored: 4:02pm On Aug 31, 2020
Insidenaija:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/08/probe-nigeriall-break-if-we-release-list-of-looters-in-nddc-imc/amp/
Me kehuh

Read this long rubbish because of thieves


You all are thieves


We know

RIP go become all of una portion
SportsRe: Who Would Be The Best Replacement For Messi? by mentored: 4:01pm On Aug 31, 2020
paulolee:
NOBODY can replace him bt the best fit option would be Neyma, thats the only closer option...
neyma have been in barca and already knows how to win in la liga and in barca and he would easily adapt unlike all those other options that would be bought with huge fees and may end up as flops jus like dembele n the others..
if messi leaves they would be soo much expectations on his replacement and only neyma is able to carry such load because he is used to it already in brazil and in paris even if we all know that messi shoe is jus too big to be replaced easily bcoz leo left the bar too High for any other player...
Which kain nobodyhuh

Onto wetinhuh

Taarrrrrr


Wait and see

You will soon forget his old assss


Footballers are coming jareee

Many said same about JJ until Ronaldiho started mesmerizing everyone

Many said same about Robinho and Brazilian ronaldo until ororo came

Many even said so about maradona

Until Messi came


Ogbeni calm down
PoliticsRe: "You Have Done Worse To Us" - Ghana Info Minister Replies Lai Mohammed by mentored: 3:57pm On Aug 31, 2020
oshozondii:
.......
https://twitter.com/DeleMomodu/status/1300068987167010817?s=19[/quote]You can imagine Jamaica

Or Mexico

Writing this long rubbish to America


Weldone Zombies

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