dangerousdaddy: Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.
I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.
I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.
The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.
Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.
I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......
Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.
Berryli: Few weeks to my 25th birthday, last year, I ran into my Neighbour and we exchanged numbers, then the chatting began, we became friends and he offered to take me out on my birthday but It didn't happen.
Fast forward to the lockdown, I would go visit him we would chat and he appreciated my company as he was alone. He eventually started to make moves, getting all touchy which got me a little surprised and uncomfortable since as friends that was improper, which got me thinking if he wants more than friendship.
He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I'm not attracted to him. We are very different people, socially and even our views about life. I enjoy his company but that's all there is. As a result if I use to visit twice in a week, I reduced it to once in two weeks and eventually monthly, and reduced the chats just to not give him the wrong impression.
He stylishly refer to me in future as his wife. What do I do? Is he starting to have feelings for me and how do I stylishly turn him down since he hasn't asked me out or do i wait for him to do so? cos there are people who just draw close and start dating without d while toasting stuff or is it just his flesh loosing control, which I doubt cos I try to be as decent as possible wen visiting him.
Do I just go with the flow since I'm currently not in a relationship? But won't that be me deceiving him and myself cos I don't like him in that way. or I'm over thinking the whole thing?
COMPAQ: You have been landing at the OLD international also used for domestic flights and now totally domestic. The NEW international airport is like a kilometer after the old one. When you are taxing, you might see it.
COMPAQ: Don't be daft? All the rebuilt airports were done by CCECC with pretty much the same design and layout. That's why the pictures all look the same. Though size of the airports differ.
PH Intl was a totally new rebuild, bottoms up. So also is Lagos and Abuja. Enugu on the other hand is a refurbishment if I'm not mistaken. Not sure about Kano.
Well done Sir
I have been to ALL the airports you mentioned before and after the previous pictures we’re shared.
It’s entirely different from what you are painting up there.
Please do not take it personal.
PH was an eye sore quote me anywhere - unless all the images flying around are after lock down.
flyingpig: Tinubu is behind this sponsorship. He is seeing East getting the presidency through Kalu because of fights for emancipation. He's trying to get the attention. Same way South south got vice presidency and presidency through militancy and North got presidency through boko haram by claiming they're the best people to tame their own problems. Tinubu is sponsoring these groups to take away attention from the East and have a leverage.
Not too far from the supposing truth
The real truth is that both thief Kalu and Thiefnibu are all armed robbers
OyinO: Taaahh! I'm not a coward like you. Let the Kano murderer come to my enclave and stop me from talking or speaking my mind. Why must I go to Kano? What stops the Kano coward from coming to my place to kill me for speaking my mind/ the truth?
flyingpig: You can already see who is the next president This power play dey sweet me die. Everybody wey say igbo no fit rule this country in 2023 must quench
OyinO: Complete rubbish. How many married people cheat on a daily basis because of it? Even David who was termed a Man after "God's own " Heart" was guilty of this. How many marriages have crashed because of this syndrome? So many married people stopped enjoying sex because they don't see anything sexually fascinating and interesting in their partner. How is sex between two consenting adults a sin? Who did the Angel Man pay bride price before fkking Mary at the Carpenter's backyard?
Free thinker ti de oooooooh
Okwa spitting fire things
Bros no go kano talk something similar about Mohammed
Righteousness89: In as much as it looks like a Fairy tale , I Have Seen an Learnt in life that the Ways of God are not the Ways of Men.
I Have Seen People who had nothing, Sacked and Confused but one Connection from God Catapulted them to Positions and Appointments ..
God Has always used the things that sound and look Foolish to Confront the so Called Wise of the Earth, That No Man will GLORY in Himself..
GOD Almighty is the Qualifier of the Unqualified..
GEJ was a Simple Lecturer in Uniport before He was brought into Politics during the Military reign of Navy Captain Olubolade as MILAD of Bayelsa state.
GEJ became Governor and President without Him being the Primary person being Elected
President Donald Trump was seen more as a Comedian! All those who felt they know swore that He will never and can never be President.. Watch here
paulolee: NOBODY can replace him bt the best fit option would be Neyma, thats the only closer option... neyma have been in barca and already knows how to win in la liga and in barca and he would easily adapt unlike all those other options that would be bought with huge fees and may end up as flops jus like dembele n the others.. if messi leaves they would be soo much expectations on his replacement and only neyma is able to carry such load because he is used to it already in brazil and in paris even if we all know that messi shoe is jus too big to be replaced easily bcoz leo left the bar too High for any other player...
Which kain nobody
Onto wetin
Taarrrrrr
Wait and see
You will soon forget his old assss
Footballers are coming jareee
Many said same about JJ until Ronaldiho started mesmerizing everyone
Many said same about Robinho and Brazilian ronaldo until ororo came