BigSarah: The point of kneeling isn't a sign of love or affection but rather submission, that's what all holy books preaches... Only inferior people submits, so fill in.
Submission isn’t love, you can submit to who you don’t love that’s my point, that your girlfriend or wife is submissive to you doesn’t mean it’s because she loves you..Feminist or not
una go meander tire
u can do nothing against the truth but for the truth.
Both husband and wife should honor eachother
husband remains the head.
look the head well well ooooooo
before shouting yes!!!!!! yes!!!!!!!!! yes!!!!!!!!!
the same way the law can not be re written for anybody ( i mean out nigeria oooooo)
Same way the TRUTH cant change because your husband misbehaves.
KingAzari: Anambra does not need an airport. The ones in Enugu, Asaba and Owerri are under-utilized. Remove the traffic at bridge head, from Asaba airport to Onitsha is less than 60 minutes.
apollo13: It's a big one for the entire Nigerian students in Sweden as Arinzechukwu Onwurah emerges winner in the just concluded students union election in Malmo university Sweden. Chukwu as he is fondly called emerged winner after contesting with other students.
This is a good news to all Nigerian students in Sweden as people have started jubilating already.
Nigerian students are making us proud in diapora and this is just the beginning of more to come.
Chukwu whose slogan for his manifesto is FIKA which stands for F- fix what is needed, I- interact to enable understanding, K(C)-compromise(democracy)& A-action to serve. Fika is widely known in Sweden for tea. Congratulations Anrizechukwu.
Switchman: Please I Need Your Candid And Long Term Advise, I Am Presently Depressed And Out
This will be a lengthy one but I promise to summarize it as much as I can.
I met a lady in her late 30s 18months ago through an online friend. I was working in Lagos while she was based and working in Abuja.
We chatted for a while before she volunteered to come to Lagos for a visit over the weekend which doesn't seem a bad idea to me cos I believed seeing in person is better than 1 million pictures.
Due to her age and desperation, we met and she liked what she saw in me and intensive talks began on how I can relocate to Abuja and get better job. I actually haven't been to Abuja so I was excited to take that move with the hope of becoming a better person and getting a better job.
I resigned from my job due to some issues as at that time which could had been managed but so I can have more time to visit and see how things are in Abuja before making my final preparation to relocate. She supports financially during those time while I use my car for ehailing business pending when I will finally relocate.
Covid 19 lock down came and all plans were halted due to restrictions on vehicular movements. Fast forward to November last year I made final plans and I agreed to finally relocate but on the conditions that we will need to get a new apartment cos I don't want to move in with her to her former apartment which was a one room self contain, we got a 1 bedroom apartment and I moved in with her. She owns 90% stake on the expenses incurred but in the spirit of hope for a better job, I will upgrade the apartment to have an equal stake in the home.
It's been 3 months now I have fully relocated and we have been cohabiting but it's been hell for me and I just need help on how to get out of this mess I put myself. No job was forth coming and due to the fact that I am home always, I have been reduced to a house help cos I am the one doing the chores, cleaning the dishes and even my laundry though she pays for her own, so many other insults and atimes it's with exchanges of words before I can take a walk just to acclimatize myself with the terrains of the area.
It's really a bad experience for a man not to have a steady source of income cos in a twinkle of an eye the love will vanish.
I love the lifestyle of Abuja cos it is less stressful than Lagos and I will really like to get a good source of income so I can get my own apartment and be free from the shackles I put myself in the name of love.
I really need help now cos I know my days are numbered and it's a matter of time before she sends me packing cos I really don't have the right to the apartment. Please house, I need your candid advise on what to do and as always constructive criticism is allowed.
Thanks Switchman
Make una dey read una bible naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
post=100026820: Sure people that have their heads working well definitely know the people behind these terrorists and bandits.
The whole truth of this Gumi matter lies below..... Pictures don't lie. We all cannot suffer collective amnesia or willful blindness at once. Truth is bitter, but we will continue to say it... Rather, truth is not bitter, just that people are bitter to the truth....
We thank God there are still many Nigerians like you,, that still have their heads intact and 'very correct'.
We hereby present to you Gumi and his inner caucus Pictures don't lie, now you know where all these violence, killings, kidnappings, chaos are all coming from.
Sane, good thinking and honest Nigerians, just imagine that it is Buhari that Gumi took all these pictures with from year to year, Imagine what the swines, enemies of the country and Children of hate would have been saying. Hypocrisy will end them all....las las
Lyrics269: My friend went to this job interview in Lagos and after passing through all the steps. The manager told him that his results were good but that they don't employ Igbo people in the organization because of the nasty experience they once had with an igbo employee. My friend was shocked and very depressed. Have you ever lost a job because of your tribe
IN the UK
I use staffline as an example
At hello fresh,
You will see Ghanaians speaking their language
You will see indians speaking their language
You will see russians and Chinese
You will even see company signages welcoming you in different languages
But nothing on Nigeria,
Do you know why?
We failed the basic test of national unity -------------- LANGUAGE
We have no business being together.
We are different in EVERYTHING
Nairaland is where we SHOWER HATRED UPON ONE ANOTHER
TheNeededShock: This will be good, but your economic migrant brothers can't seem to do without us or anything that involves a Yoruba..... they're constantly trooping into the south west.
Fixey: Smiles. I'm kin to SE. It's exactly why people should built healthy relationships with other people and not act irrationally. While there may be a claim on stereotypes, tribal hating and all, let's be objective that many times the igbo dude would act like to hell with it and goes all out to do and undo. This is what it always leads to... That attitude of I don't give a hoot and to hell with consequences. It's the exact attitude that makes people characterise the Igbos as people to be careful with. In this scenario, it's not tribal hating but what the average igbo man does.
Before anyone misconstrues my points. In all houses I've lived in, I've conducted myself so peaceable and gentle that mu landlords even friends all looked for people from my tribe to get involved with. Why? Their experiences from dealing with me. Close to 4 friends got married to people from my tribe because of how how interconnected with me and how I impressed on them. Regardless of what happens in all the houses I lived in, nothing touches me. In the village I have projects setup, people love me from the entrance of the city into the interiors
My dear, tell igbos to stop the to hell attitude and work on building good relations with people. There are thousands of such stories above. It's not tribal hating, it's the igbotic attitude
Igbotic attitude
Eyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
We dont pretend to love and stab on the back
if we say no
We stand by the no
We dont bow to greet evil elders nor respect them.
If you are bad, expect no respect
IF Tinubu WAS TO BE AN IGBO MAN
WE WILL NOT FOLLOW HIM TO THE GUTTER
Read the above twice
YOU CAN SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING IN THE WEST
Who brought buhari upon US ALL
Tinubu
Why?
Because your lots follow and respect elders even when they are damn wrong.
According to reports, the Church members, this morning, protested with placards against the use of hijab in their schools. Muslims also came to stage their own protest.
Things boiled over leading to the throwing of stones.
Chuxx84: Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).
Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.
Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.
u see why people dey against peter of psquare and ogogoro former duke?
person born u, U dey with person for 30 yrs or more, she probably fed u all through
A 100K monthly salary earner in Nigeria is better than a 400K monthly salary earner in the United States.
The luxury lifestyles some of us live here with 100K, cannot sustain us a day over there. We can’t try such in US and save a dim.
Some of our annual rent here is weekly/ monthly rent over there. Can you pay over 100K naira monthly house rent with 400K monthly salary here in Nigeria? You can’t do that, but you don’t have a choice over there. You pay or kicked out of the house.
Some of our people over there are becoming wiser now. They don’t mind sleeping on the streets, work for at least 5-10yrs, move back to Nigeria with their savings. You cannot survive with 100M living comfortably a year over there. Tax go finish you up. But you can live large with 100M for 5yrs or more here in Nigeria depends on your lifestyles tho.
You don’t pay unnecessary tax here. But in foreign countries you pay almost everything. In naija you can own 10 cars..not in the United States because you pay for packing space for each car. You get the point now?
Some of our people in diaspora, once they earn $10K in a month or so, depends on the job, they’d send $9K down to their Nigeria account and keep $1K for their upkeep. Some would buy lands and build houses for rent or some other businesses. If you don’t do that, you’d work all your life and come back with nothing. Those of you on this method are wise. But becareful of the people you send your money to here. Trust no one! Get a trustworthy lawyer involved.
U can make unnecessary noise or play loud music here. You can’t try such over there and not find yourself in police cell.
So you see….We are privileged here. We only need to get bad political leaders off the way. By getting involved in politics, national, state, LGA and community affairs. That’s how American youth you admire, do.
They don’t just fold hands, wailing and waiting for a miracle. They debate, disagree, challenge, involved and create. You get the point now?
Anuofia
You run go USA, come dey say make we join politics
Thunder !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You people should stop discouraging us
We must japaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Meanwhile
Want to apply for top up with pass, 3rd class, OND or HND
Onyxfidel1: Gurus and those that have successfully applied for dependants visa, is my kid's sch result needed or just a reference letter from their school
Got this here
FOR DEPENDANTS a. Spouses only: Marriage certificate.
b. Spouses and Children: Maintenance evidence: Bank statement showing £845 monthly * 9 months for within London or £680 monthly * 9 months for outside London. This must be in the account for at least 28 days; the end of the 28 days must not be older than 31 days before your application.
For dependant spouses, the money can be in your account or your partner's account.
For dependant children, the money can be in either parent's account.
c. Spouses and children: TB test certificate (From IOM only)
d. Your children only: Child(ren)'s birth certificate showing you as their parent.
e. Spouse or parent's Biometric Residence Permit if they are already in the UK, their vignette /GWF number if they have gotten their vignette but are still in Nigeria or if they are awaiting their application decision.
f. For spouses, you can include pictures of you and your spouse to prove that your marriage is genuine and subsisting or communication evidence (if you have lived apart prior to your application especially in cases where the spouse has travelled to the UK already).
NOTE: For single parents who want to travel with their under-18 child(ren) but not with the child(ren)'s other parent, you will need a death certificate, sole custody order or any other legal document that shows that the child(ren)'s other parent isn't in the picture anymore.
I'm actually in my early twenties, not that I'm too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I'm trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother.
Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent.
It was a men's arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement.
I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause, I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again.
The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.
The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it, I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.
I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end, we all go our separate ways happy.
Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please.
Thank you.
Modified:: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him. I'm not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly, I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him.
He is still not accepting reality but, I'm sure with time, he'll move on.
PS: His uncle isn't aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone.
Tizzz78: We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..
Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..
Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..
Draslo: Where are those hypocrites that left their hometown to live and work in Lagos but daily bashing LASG and Tinubu online? Where are you? Come and show your talent in this thread.
Bia Idiot.
If Lagos was never the capital of Nigeria you would have traveled to Abuja long time ago to hustle.
YOU MAY NOT LIKE TO HEAR IT. BUT LAGOS WAS NOT BUILT BY Born Lagosians.
STOP BEING A FOOL AND BE HUMBLE.
Abuja became the capital when?
Under how many years, see how developed the city is.
THE MONEY USED TO DEVELOP LAGOS AND THE MONEY STILL BEING USED TO DEVELOP ABUJA, MOST OF IT CAME FROM THE NIGER DELTA AND NDDC STATES
If I hear you say leave their village again ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
nwikpab: So a friend helped me submit my CV to his company. Though I know not the work but I was briefed and coached on the job. Three months past and we were still waiting but I was in touch with my friend and never paid much attention to the CV again since I thought I would be called to come over to the company for interview.
Three days ago, I was awakened by my phone ringtone from a deep sleep and next question, where did you work.
My brain na Pentium 3 so it couldn't boot fast. My company is ATY is responded. ATY What. ATY investment. How many years experience, I forgot what I used on the CV so I dabbled between 2 n 5 but settled on 5years.
What is your duty. I did answered this one correctly and he put off his call promising to get back to me today.
He never introduced himself to me and I was expecting call from three different HR. My friend just called that the other person he submitted the CV with mine has been text to come to the company on Monday. He wanted to know if I am invited too but not yet.
How can I even explain this to my friend, that I fxcked up on my year of experience?
IT IS WELL!!!!
Do not cry over it, learn and move on.
There will be a problem if you do not learn from this.
The problem is that another similar opportunity, which you will definitely lose will come again.
I made similar mistake in 2017, I told a company that I wanted to earn 100K when they pay graduates 75K. Na so dem take commot my name from the list.
But I learnt my lessons. Exactly one week after, some days before my birthday, I got another opportunity. I finished work. Today hmmmm. God is Good.
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