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Politics › Re: Lagos Govt, Drivers Meeting Continues Friday, Strike Persists by merits(m): 2:00pm On Nov 03, 2022
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Warns: World 5 Nuclear Superpowers On The Verge Of Conflict (Pics) by merits(m): 1:53pm On Nov 03, 2022
Holiness2100:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11382643/amp/The-worlds-five-nuclear-superpowers-brink-direct-armed-conflict.html
I know Nigeria is capable to defend its own territory no shaking,Putin should bring it on.
Politics › Re: Bola Tinubu Says It's Disrespectful To Mention Funke Akindele's Name Around Him by merits(m): 1:52pm On Nov 03, 2022
Decentdave:
PDP is an unserious party...funke that cannot manage her home now want to manage a big city..they think say politics na movie ba..Tinubu is right this time
Exactly that's what have been telling people.FUNKE AND JANDOR are like comedian to me.
Family › Re: ‘I Want To Kill You Dad’: Kid Says After Catching Him Cheating On Her Mum(video) by merits(m): 1:39pm On Nov 03, 2022
AbujaCitiBlog:
Those daughters are probably lesbians! Imagine telling your father that you want to kill him! What nonsense! Because he cheated? Haba na. Unless and until men defends against some of this things we will continue to be victims. Men because of their biology needs sex. It is time we understand this.
Maybe he does'nt take care of them,bcuz of his side chicks.That's why they get time to be checking his phone for chats.
Family › Re: ‘I Want To Kill You Dad’: Kid Says After Catching Him Cheating On Her Mum(video) by merits(m): 1:24pm On Nov 03, 2022
damilola4162:
"I want to kill you dad" Children call out their father after finding proof that he is cheating on their mother (video)

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A father was humiliated by his daughters after they found proof that he is cheating on their mother again.

The daughters, said to be Ugandans living in USA, found their father's chats with his mistress so they read out the chats in the presence of other family members, including their father and mother.

They told their father he ought to be ashamed of himself, they also told him that he can't keep putting their mother through that while she is trying to work on the marriage.

At one point, one of the daughters begins crying and tells her father, "I want to kill you dad."

She also said to him, "You should be ashamed. How many f******* times are you going to put my mum through the same f****** bullsh*t?"

Another daughter then goes to their mum and gives her a sweater to keep warm.

While all this is going on, the father, who has a cup of tea sitting on a table before him, is seen silently looking at his daughters.

When the father tries to interrupt, the daughters refuse to let him speak.

One daughter is heard saying: "Daddy, you are a cheater and you gotta listen to what she's saying."

Another daughter says: "You are not that father figure. I don't care who you are to me, you are nothing to me."

The camera zooms to their father's chat with the other woman at some point and it shows them sexting.

The woman talks about sending him "nudes" of "those big boobs" and encouraging him to look at them.

She also wrote: "You know it when it's wet."

After they read out the chats, one daughter says to their father: "I found out even before Jane but me and you don't have a good relationship. So, when I saw this, when I read this, it didn't hurt me because I already decided that fourteen years ago, I lost you as a dad. So, when I saw this, it didn't hurt me."

However, she said her sisters were hurt when they found out.

The daughter continues: "She found out, Tyra found out the day we got back and Tyra cried. Ashley found out today. And Ashley loved you, Ashley loved you, that's why she's so mad like this because she loved you."

Ashley then begins crying at this point as she calls her father out and tells him that she wants to kill him.

The video has gone viral and has elicited mixed reactions.

Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/i-want-to-kill-you-dad-children-call-out-their-father-after-finding-proof-that-he-is-cheating-on-their-mother-video/
Must I be eating akpu everyday?don't force it into my throat abeg.Men are polygamous in nature,lets stop decieving ourselves but as a man no matter how you do your rubbish outsides just don't forget to give madam her own share too to avoid this kind story.That why Islam is the best way of life,as a man you can marry upto four wives but oyibo brain washed us to steakdek to one wife.how?
Celebrities › Re: Davido And Chioma’s Son, Ifeanyi Is Dead; Drowns In A Swimming Pool by merits(m): 7:47pm On Nov 01, 2022
MatrixReloaded:
She has been dislodge, replaced and this was why he drew her closer to him. To end it all... David Adeleke your own " Flesh and Blood". May the Power of the Universe put You and your Occultism Patrons in bed riding before the Next birthday of Ifeanyi. (There is nothing bigger than God)
As you are famous and rich so as His cries is as loud as thunderstorm ⛈

Viewership: This curse is transferable in the sense that if you quote rubbish it will follow u. Allow it to get to the Evil doers.
* If your fingers no wan rest, you cut it off than joining the cursed...





As he's famous and rich so as His cries is as loud as thunderstorm.

Chioma was dislodged from the boy and replaced to give in for the sacrifice through water as you can't slice a knife on a boys throat and not get imprisoned and defamed.

This sacrifce of a kind happens through hypnotic occultic means either through blood or hair strands. The victim becomes unaware of the surrounding, thus luring the flesh and blood to final abyss because they can't hold the soul which belongs only to the creator.

Davido Aka David Adeleke hands are stained with his own blood.
God saw the evil Abraham was about to commit because even God won't forgive himself
David Adeleke will run Mad like Caine before the Next 3years of his existence on Universe.

Dbanj son's craws as toddler which this occurance is nothing to compare this Boy called "Ifeanyichukwu David Adeleke Jnr"
Archived information....



The world is Mysterious and if you ever feel numbness under your feet is not that your health is deteriorating, it's the cry of innocent blood crying for justice.
Abeg shut up!!!!! Who you scared with your mumu cursed?gullible being that's why pastors are decieving someone like you with safety handkerchief.

Politics › Re: Name Your Presidential Candidate And Give Us Three Reasons We Should Vote Him by merits(m): 9:00pm On Oct 31, 2022
obembet:
The 2023 general elections are fast approaching. These elections hold tremendous importance, and the results will impact every Nigerians. That’s why it’s essential for everyone to vote.

Elections have consequences. Every vote matters so Don't say you will not vote

With your vote, You have the power to make key decisions on the quality of life you want for yourself, your family, and your community. Voting is your chance to stand up for the issues you care about like affordable housing, economic justice, environmental protection, and quality education.

Your Vote is an opportunity for change.
If you really want to make a positive impact in your community, your state and Nigeria. Voting gives you that chance! There are many social issues affected by elections.

Some of us may not know how important voting is, while others cannot vote. Make the decision to vote to be a voice for yourself and those around you.

Make sure your voice is heard – your vote is your health. Vote!

Now I believe every Nairalanders have one favorite among all the candidates, who is your favorite and give us three important reason you want us to vote for him.

Rule: No insult.

No tribalism

Source: obembe Tosin
BAT
*AGBADO WILL BE SURPLUS.
*CASSAVA WILL BE ENOUGH.
*50 MILLION YOUTHS INTO NIGERIAN ARMY.

Crime › Re: Photos Of Slain Bandits In Kaduna ( Graphics) by merits(m): 2:17pm On Oct 31, 2022
Gideon20:
FLASH: Nigerian army troops give terrorists bloody nose, neutralize 7. Capture arms and ammunition in Birnin Gwari area of Kaduna.



https://www.facebook.com/100000270153679/posts/pfbid0x4tcaKNB6b1DmwG867crXE2bgvbG26tM3aoBL9TU8SfGAS2PkkG9Yky44jxv5VL1l/?app=fbl

Foreign Affairs › Re: Lula Da Silva Wins Brazil Presidential Elections by merits(m): 1:54pm On Oct 31, 2022
DaddyFreeze2020:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2022/oct/30/lula-stages-astonishing-comeback-to-beat-bolsonaro-in-brazil-election
Lula too old Jair is younger,how come this old men are winning election dey baffled me? Even USA JOE BIDEN is old.Is that not replicate of what is going to happen in Nigeria next year election?Am begin to shiver

Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Disguised As Pilot Proposes To His Girlfriend On Plane (Pix, Video) by merits(m): 8:11pm On Oct 30, 2022
virginprincess:
So sweetcheesy cheesy,my future partner must propose to me in a very special way too like this.
But you must be of good character and supportive,moreso you must be not be a liability and urgent 2k goons.
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Disguised As Pilot Proposes To His Girlfriend On Plane (Pix, Video) by merits(m): 7:45pm On Oct 30, 2022
Nairaland General › Re: Ever Gone From Grace To Grass? by merits(m): 7:40pm On Oct 30, 2022
seanwilliam:
this is 100% on point . Nothing needs to be added or removed . The bolded is the very important especially for someone still struggling
Yes bro.
Politics › Re: Sowore Flags-off Campaign In Kano { Picture } by merits(m): 5:41pm On Oct 30, 2022

Politics › Re: Military Captures Bandits Commander, Kills 8 Others In Niger State by merits(m): 2:40pm On Oct 30, 2022

Nairaland General › Re: Ever Gone From Grace To Grass? by merits(m): 2:31pm On Oct 30, 2022
zrealjaheal:
Have you ever gone from grace to grass then back to grace again?

Please come in and share your story for some of us to learn because it seems I am finding it hard to get back to my glory days.
Yes ofcourse but during the transition I learnt my lesson.Below are the lessons I learned:
*Never try to please anyone.
* No do pass yourself.
*Beware of toxic & fake friends.
*Beware of V gender.
*Learn to stand alone.
*Always reason and seek God guidance before you acts and to take some drastic steps.
*Be persistence and be patience in life.
*And last but not the least hold your God tight.

Travel › Re: Married Guys That Relocated To The UK, Whats Your Experience by merits(m): 2:30pm On Oct 30, 2022
kbower:
Hi Nlanders

We all know no marriage is all that smooth and rosey, we all that are in it have challenges here and there, and for almost 11 years now, out of tolerance, ruggedity, minding my business in terms of taking care of the family have always been something that has held my marriage down, because the majority of the issue I have with my wife have always been issues of trust, transparency, accountability, respect and loyalty.

Some people will say with these things I have listed, that I may be asking for too much, but I can tell whoever would reason that way that it's not too much because am a responsible father/husband that have never for once strayed the family in anyway that will make me lack any of the above stated qualities a man can enjoy from a wife.

Why am I here? Ok.. After enduring so much for 11 years, we are relocating to the UK, she is the main applicant, myself and the 3 children are dependants, she traveled first, leaving myself and the 3 kids behind until she can secure accommodation b4 we leave.

I have heard about countless incidences of how SOME women treat their husbands and the POWER zoned to women in that country which makes it almost impossible for a man with a wife that gives him constant problem to be able to thrive in that country.

I just want to state three peculiar incidences that occured during her 1month stay over there that is already making me feel I have alot to face over there, though I know my God is bigger than anything, I just want people that are over there, or people that are experienced here and all over who are capable of handing a good advise for me on getting there to know how I can fare and withstand what is to come.

Based on the above from the major incidences I have experienced with her, first two weeks of being there, she had gone to check a house b4 heading to school, on her way back to school, she claimed she didn't take enough money and going back home might not be possible, I asked how she would wanna go about it
and she replied saying I will borrow money from Mr Mike, a man she just met at school on her first day of registration. I was like that's wrong, you don't form familiarity with someone you just met in another man's country, I said I will call a friend in liverpool to send you money and you could get your train ticket. She fumed, but I stood my ground and said that's how its going to be. I have asked her to collect a friends account details, since she has not opened an account yet, she said when her class finishes by 8.30pm she'll request details from her friend so the money can be sent. Fast forward to closing period, I messaged her to send me details, she ignored, I called ad she said nobody has an account that I should not worry she will sort herself, I was now like you just got to that country, u have no friends that u know too well to rely on, I am ur hubby and I opened a way for u to get money easily, yet u didn't make any effort to redeem the opportunity, omo she hung up on me then later called back that she gathered few pennies she had to get the ticket, I was now like why didn't u just say this instead of putting me on pressure over how to get money to convey u all the way from london to Luton, over an hour journey at night.

Secondly, on her next school day, she had previously told me prior to her closing hours that her data has finished and she's using schools wifi, that the moment she steps out from school to head home, she won't be having access to internet, etc WhatsApp and all of that, but importantly was to make use of GPS google map, that's what people over there use to navigate their way in order not to get lost, I was like without internet how do u intend to get to ur destination when u know how stressful it was for u getting lost the other day, now the same statement she made was, I will sort myself. I was raged and said woman I will ask my friend to buy u data so u can get home easy and safe, she said no proble, that she's leaving now, I said well since i wont be able to reach you on whats app, I will definitely call you on normal call shortly to give you the data pin to load. She said no P and hung up.

Moments later, my friend had sent me the data pin, na so I begin dey call wifey oo, over 15 missed calls she nor pick. Later she called back and said her phone was in her laptop bag and her hands were frozen so she couldnt put hands in the bag to pick the call and that she didn't even hear it ring.

The issue I posted up there are issues of not being accountable, and attitude of not showing that you don't need me when its not just about that but for security and your well being knowing fully well you are new in the country and proper guidelines needs to be taken.

Another incident happened 3rd week after her arrival, we were video chatting while she was on a train station waiting for train, next thing I noticed was a guy sitting BEHIND her, the guy boldly took a peep into her phone directly, seemingly trying to see who she was on video call with, immediately i called her attention to it, she just smiled and looked back and said silently, nawa some people for this London nor go mind their business. This very day developed a story that transitioned towards few things I will be stating.

The next sunday, I called her in the morin to say hi and all that, next thing I know she dun dey go church, she nor even discuss am with me and na wetin we dn agree on sey we fo jointly choose church wey we go dey go. After church service, she call me sey that guy wey i talk sey dey peep into her phone, sey the guy that very day asked her how long shes been there for, she said, just 3 weeks, sey how come she come take know road when him don dey 3months he nver know road, sey that same guy him coincidentally meet am for the new church wey she come so, sey the guy dey look am, she comot eye, but later the guy come meet am sey are u not the one that showed me way to where I was going. Sey as him meet the guy coincidentally for church, he fit be sey he get why, maybe for job connection or what not. I nor say anything, cos coincidences arent something new in this world. Then the next day, she call me sey that same guy needs an apartment, sey na married guy with 4 kids, but him wife and 1kid dey here, 3 dey nija them nor fit come yet until house is ready, sey him dey ask her if she can help him get someone that can reference for him to get a house, ha him my wife come dey ginger me sey make i help am talk to my friend wey help us reference if him go fit help the guy too. I come sey no problem, she sey she go call the guy now and put us on 3 way call, i sey no p, i come dey wait for call, no call come and madam nor talk again, i come ring her sey hafa u nor do the three way call again? She sey the guy dey work, him nor fit talk,sey she don give the guy my number to call me later, me come sey no p, send him number I go save am down so if he calls i go know sey na him, madam nor gree send number, I come dey wonder sey wetin dey sup sef, normally I nor spose reason ahead, but me my instict dey very strong, i come begin dey put two and two together sey maybe the guy intention was never to get help but to use style dey hit on my madam maybe na why him nor wan talk to me but wan use my madam dey take communicate.

I come ask madam some some questions on previous ish, I come find out sey small lie dey, so I tackler her sey the way she take explain to me about how him meet the guy for train station nor join, she come vex sey me i come am liar, omo as we dey talk for whatsapp, i nor blv sey my madam added this guy to the call without my consent or my knowledge, so as I dey talk, the guy dey the background, i nor even know anything and the dude himself kept quiet, na after the call finish, I see am for call details sey the guy was added to the call, infact the dude even called me directky i nor pick. Now i got very angry, come call madam sey wetin dey sup, u added this dude wey talk sey him dey work him nor fit talk to the call wey me and u dey on and u didnt even notify me, ok lets agree sey if to sey u wan tell me sey u wan add the guy for call sey i nor go gree sey maybe na why u add am without my consent, at least after u add am secretly, u are suppose to talk and sey bae, since u are accusing me wrongly.

I have added the guy to this call so he can clear me out, but she didnt, she just added the guy and the dude himself kept quiet and didnt say a word until I hung up. I got very furious and told her this is the highest level of see finish and dragging in the mud, wetin u want that guy to dey feel like now? She said shes sorry that she only wanted to clear herself, I was now like even if u wanted to clear urself, if that the best way to go about it, the person who is the subject matter is the best person u need to introduce to clear u out? Later on i just bone the matter come apologise sey make we move on, na so she come begin dey yarn plenty, sey she call the guy that my hubby said that the way we met is unreal, sey the guy sef come talk sey wow, so your husband already thinks am sleeping with you, but i cant blame u though, u know u have a big back side, so thoughts like that from him is likely not a surprise, i was hmmmm to hear that, i come tell madam sey if na true this guy talk this thing, shouldnt u already know he has corny itentions, she said well she too dey wonder cos the two times wey them meet she nor wear wetin fit show her bkside so how d guy come take know. The matter end there, next day madam still dey worry me sey shey I go still help d guy, I was like I cant even talk to him, u dun useless me already for him presence, she dey claim sey she nor do anything wrong by adding him to the call, sey the guy know of agency wey fit help me get better job if i arrive, and sey the guy talk sey if me fit connect am to my friend to reference am for house, him go link me up fr the agency. I talk sey i nor dey interested. Omo I weak. Guys I need advise on how to handle issues over there, cos me nor dey take nonsense for nija here, but for there, one needs to chill, but then should it now be sey because we dey live for country wey give woman power, make woman come use that opportunity come dey fumble?
How some dude be comfortable to date married women still dey baffled me till date?l can't just comprehend.I have a beautiful wife too so I don't want anybody to go after her, likewise me too I don't want to go after someone wife too,bcuz of karma.
I would rather date a widow,divorcee, baby mama, single ladies than to dates someone wife it's a no go area for me.

Politics › Re: Katsina Police Kill Terrorists, Rescue 21 Kidnap Victims by merits(m): 5:17am On Oct 29, 2022

Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Marry Her? by merits(m): 7:11pm On Oct 28, 2022
udofia234:
Sincerely bro! I'm not the one!! I'm only helping a friend who came to seek my advice
Okay
Health › Re: My Right Eye Is Going Blur, Please Help by merits(m): 11:00am On Oct 28, 2022
lastchild:
2 days ago, i started noticing that my right eye go blur under the sun, yesterday it grew worst that i couldn't see clear with that eye under the sun, tears kept flowing down that eye and it kept closing like am sleepy, once it's night time the eye becomes healthy.

This morning, i woke up and discovered something like coverage in that eye that made my vision blur, like something was pasted on my eyeball, i used the mirror but nothing was there. Am preparing to go to the hospital now but feel like sharing it here for any advice


thanks
Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Marry Her? by merits(m): 10:55am On Oct 28, 2022
udofia234:
Good morning guys!!! A friend asks me his question yesterday and within myself I think its a taboo, or maybe the Christian doctrine might not allow this!

His father's elder brother wife, had a daughter for another man before marrying the dads elder brother. My guy said he"s in love with the girl. He then asked me that question confidentially but I said I'll answer him after I have consulted my friends about it. pls my fellow nairalanders is this right or should one call it madness?

He really wants to marry the Lady!!! But looking at it I think they are not related in any ways now.
Guy stop lieing,if truly that friend want to marry your relatives,how is that your business to stop him?why are you care about the girl when you are not the one marrying him.



It seems you are the one in love with her,stop giving us cock and bull stories here.
Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Marry Her? by merits(m): 10:47am On Oct 28, 2022
PerfectStranger:
A friend abi na you.
Abi ooo the same thing that come to my mind.He is the one,he just lieing about it.
Politics › Re: President Buhari Departs South Korea, Arrives In Abuja (Photos) by merits(m): 9:47am On Oct 28, 2022

Politics › Re: Malami: Why FG Is Keeping Nnamdi Kanu Despite Court Ruling by merits(m): 9:34am On Oct 28, 2022
huh

Politics › Re: No Cause For Alarm: FG Assures Of Safety Over Reports Of Elevated Terror Threat by merits(m): 9:58pm On Oct 25, 2022

Politics › Re: Nehemiah Dalung Is Dead! Former Sports Minister, Solomon Dalung Loses Son by merits(m): 8:38pm On Oct 24, 2022
quote author=Odourlessmouth post=117839419]Why all these people's sons dey die[/quote]The thing baffled me too oo.
Family › Re: Seven Major Causes Of Divorce In Nigeria by merits(m): 8:25pm On Oct 24, 2022
Zonefree:

Which one is no sin is too great to be pardoned? So, seeing another man banging your beloved wife on your matrimonial bad, you'll pardon herhuh
Don't mind the jobless folly mumu man.
Crime › Re: Professor And Family Beat And Strip 20-Year-Old Girl In Nasarawa by merits(m): 9:35pm On Oct 23, 2022
Lucrativress:
You're less of an human
Take that today
Where the hell is our humanityhuh?
Did you see how helpless she washuh
Goshhhh
I feel like spitting on you right now!
Pray you'll never be in that situation in your life
Mumu read and understand the story first, you folly and nut at the same time.
Crime › Re: Professor And Family Beat And Strip 20-Year-Old Girl In Nasarawa by merits(m): 11:31am On Oct 23, 2022
Lucrativress:
You're less of an human
Take that today
Where the hell is our humanityhuh?
Did you see how helpless she washuh
Goshhhh
I feel like spitting on you right now!
Pray you'll never be in that situation in your life
Shut up! Read very well and understand the story line before jumping into conclusion,the victim organized her friends to beat, torment and force her to delete her boyfriend number in her phone (i.e the lecturer's daughter) and she video her assault.In reprisal is when the lecturer's daughter organized her family including her father to treat the victim Bleep up,the way she did to her.That is why I said the lecturer's family did a very big mistake to take law into their hand, they should have just reports her to police with her own video she made when tormenting the man's daughter.Never judge case with sympathy,here from both sides before jumping into nut conclusion,the victim also have a case to answer in the court of law she's neither free.




I repeat I don't pity her for once.

Crime › Re: Professor And Family Beat And Strip 20-Year-Old Girl In Nasarawa by merits(m): 10:01pm On Oct 22, 2022
naptu2:
https://punchng.com/nasarawa-lecturer-family-brutalise-student-for-fighting-daughter/
I don't have pity for the victim she started the assault,is only that the family are so folly to take law into their hand.

Family › Re: How Do I Tell My Unmarried Elder Sister That She Is Getting Too Old? by merits(m): 3:15pm On Oct 16, 2022
IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.
"Paddle your own canoe" I rest my case.
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Receives Approval For Badagry Deep Seaport Project by merits(m): 9:20pm On Oct 13, 2022

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