hahahaha

@Op

Bachelorhood has never been sweeter

soma042:

what about the affected traders, any compersation?

Mumu!! . . . So you didn't read where it was written that they where already compensated.

@OP

You are a very lazy woman!! . . . . . I pity your husband.

@OP

Welcome to the playaz world. . . . Please go get as many girl friends as possible, bleep them all, and then choose the best wifey material amongst them. My guy no dulling!!

eghost247:

[size=15pt]this is 2012 people need to drop this mentality[/size]

Mr 21st century, the poster doesn't need the above cliche as an advice. Come again with a better line!!!

@OP

offcourse, your girl friend should be interested in Men only . . . . . Or do want her to be a Lesbian!!

Opening a door for a lady, naija gals in particular?? . . . . That can only happen if I'm her Aide-De-Camp

kaykaybaba:

*in love with inked_nerd*

Dey there! . . . . If u want, make u no go find another gal. . . If u keep on waitin for[b] inked_nerd[/b], na im be say [b]Konji [/b]go kill you sooner than later, even before val day

kokoye:



All kinds of bend down coste.

coste onirin, coste onike, coste alasa.

It's the thought that counts ojare

hahahahahaha . . . Thats true!

Below is[b] Lefulefu[/b] and Mr Cork shopping Val gifts for[b] Onila[/b]  . . . 

That one na una business . . . . . If you ask Ojo the reason he accepts political appointment in every administration, he would tell you guys that it is a matter of patroitism .

Well, I think second chance is the best option if you are still single. This is because either of the party that initiated the break up must have realized his or her mistake, and I believe it guarantees a successful second coming. . . . On the other hand, venturing into a new relationship wont guarantee a happy ending. . . . Again, as some people have commented, it depends on how much you love that party that initiated the break up.

@OP

Well, just Deflawa her with you inglich  

@OP

Do what ever that makes you happy! . . If you still love your Ex and if he still want to get back with you, go for it gal. . you wont be guilty of nothing!!

horny4u:

She is insecure like most young women but thats her cross to carry, your cross is to get the 1st class.

Know one thing the first thing every human being must learn before thy can be called an adult is the ability to say No and back it with a supportive action.
She seems to like you alot but it puppy love, in future if you are unable to provide for her becos of bad grades it will turn to gorilla love, and thats nasty love,
So face your studies, I am a living proof that in a year you can change your grades , so I know you can still make that 1st class but you gotta believe it too, focus well  on your final project ( carries better points), give more examples for every paper, treat your assignments like do or die, read like your life depends on it.

Invest in a laptop, internet  and printer . Research beyond the class, and most of all PRAY with your thots, BELIEVE.

when the 1st class is in your pocket , go to your gal pleading she will forgive you, For now , 1st things first and never mix romance with daily bread.

hahahahahaha , . . . The highlighted line is the best advice so far.

Is he the same guy that robs his diick on you?? . . . . maybe u guys are a match made in Naija.

steve_101:

To be frank,Op might not be able to handle an mbaise lady,enugu peez re dull,they act like Mumu(am sorry)an Mbaise girl will overide you during the first 6 months of marriage,she will take over the house,Listen,its only Imo people like us can handle an mbaise lady,I dated an mbaise girl for 18 months,she was inlove with me for sure,but she is self centered,she is always talking about her people,this happened in 2007-2008,in 2010 I met another mbaise gurl outside nigeria,she hmmmmm long story,not good. OP U̶̲̥̅̊ as an Enugu man Can not handle any Imo girl talkless of mbaise,she will shout at you cos U̶̲̥̅̊ guys are dull.marry from Enugu or ebonyi,that's if U̶̲̥̅̊ want to listen.
(Am from Okigwe)

Some elements of honesty in this post . . .

Adetayo100:

It's only a weak man that will open a door for a woman

afam4eva:

Women preach equality only when it soothes them.

hehehehehehehe . . . My country men, you guys shouldnt kill me with laughter

kaysy:

@OP If u must know Mbaise is the most intelligent people in Imo state.

let me tell u where dat ur adage came from, back in da days when Nigeria was still under-developed, Mbaise people were already developed in knowledge and wisdom. You can never cheat an Mbaise person except they want to let go, so people were so afraid of them and scared in dealing with them.

More over, back in da 80s when Yahoo Yahoo were still done manual, Mbaise guys were the real dudes that made cool cash from it and today they have all relaxed as fathers and have developed several companies in the south east.

the truth is that mabise people are so so wise, far more wiser that u Enugu/Anambra guys

if u hail from a family where there is no mutual relatnshp between the extended families and urs, i think that girl will make a good wife, she will help protect ur interest and anytime ur people hears she's coming, they will quickly adjust themselves properly.

Dude, better tread with caution! . .

queensmith:

^^ you 'friend' huh? Lol
Well it seems the posters main intention is to avoid hurting her. Some men atimes don't realise their confusion can be hurtful. If you dump her you cannot then toy with her emotions months later by calling her to get back together.
If you feel like you may want to be with her, then you can ask that you take a break (find a suitable excuse) or travel for some time to clear your head.
Breaking up with her should be irreversible, if your meant to be then maybe in future you will meet but it's a decision you take with a sacrifice. That your selsfish intentions may just cost you the love of your life.

Nawa ooo . . .
Why shouldnt EXs be good friends after a break up??
Why should breaking up be irreversible? . . I think the word forgiveness still exist!

queensmith, a personal question for you: Would you accept back an Ex who broke up with you for reasons that doesnt relate to cheating? ( ie during the hiatus, he or she didnt get involved in another relationship )

Again, thats a predicament a friend of mine has found himself in . . . He needs our sincere advice like the original poster

queensmith:

she's going to hate you if she has feelings for you.

Tell her she can do much better than you because someone else will love her more

and once you've broken up with her [b]DO NOT contact her ever! [/b]wait for her to contact you. the last thing you want to do is send her mixed messages

but 1stklass is right, she will respect you for being honest.

good luck with all that

Please can you throw more light on the above highlighted line? . . .   Also what if  the poster wants to get back with her months after the break up? 

Just curious because a friend of mine is in a similar situation.  Thanks!

Heroes

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Traitors

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@Onila

The guy who rubbed his big d$ick on you, is he in the above picture

Agu di na Mmadu!!

pendo89:

I dont call that selfish.Its the law of nature!
May the best man win is the law so make sure you have that competitive advantage over the other men if ur determined to woe some gal.
Note that this has nothing to do with wealth but taking advantage and making use of your strong points to keep her. No man or woman has it all. those who win know which buttons to press.
oh and rem u cant claim ownership of her till u place that ring on her finger. shes still single and available therefore all you need to do is up your game to keep her close and committed.
Now if animals do this well then humans ought to fair better.

Gbam!! . . . . . 
This law also applies to girls;hence, unmarried boys and girls should just stop complaining of heart breaks. . . Infact, I strongly believe that EXs shld remain good friends after break up.

I also hope my Ex whom I left would read your post .  .

starruby:

It,s not reverse Psychology that they apply,[b] they normally dont have a life [/b]so they boost up their ego by
playing hard to get so that the gal can beg them,,these makes them feel special, a real man has no time to even play around with emotions. Only idlers got all the time in the world to play around,

I guess you are the one that has a life?? . . . Swine!!

My athletic physique .

My big Igboman head adorned with spinning waves  


_{Lest I forget, I disarm  the so called "hard to get girls" with my wittiness}. . .  Maybe it is my handsomeness that does the job  

Town Hall Bombing . . Goodluck to those attending the event

Dynamique:

Love is an illusional state of mind dat tends to intricate,infiltrate&complicate the average human mind to an invariably existential state,hereby inducing strong emotional attachment that is most likely to break due to a more realistical state of mind after due rectification of the master illusion.

Hon Igodomigodo!! . .

Offcourse, love expires when the content of the package isn't what you expected, and also once the puny or johny has been explored

jenny2007:

Morning lovely people,
Was @ my man's house last night from lagos for the weekend and (shockingly) walked into his room to find a woman's hair accessory, pink shaving- stick and eye-brow tweezers all littered around this room and house. Asked him how it all got there and he said ''they belong to my cousin. She's been here all week. U just hang on for a few hours and she'll be here and U can ask her''. My people o, I stayed up till 12pm waiting for this cousin but she didn't turn up. I awoke early this morning and asked my bf if she was still coming over and he said ''she came and left when you were asleep. Pls trust me''. Hmmm, na wa o. This is a man that cannot even stand me talking to another man for up to 10min on the phone yet he's obviously cheating.
Now I want to know why women often forgive their cheating bf's and husbands and overlook 'danger signs'' meanwhile men take cheating much more personal. Let's hear your thought people.

heheheheheheheh

Well poster, I think you should believe him . .lol