Well, for all MEN, please ignore all these gibberish being spewed by them feminists. Men have the opportunity to choose any girl they want, and marry at any time they deem fit. There is enough women to go around, and thats the reason a man can marry 20 wives without causing shortage for his fellow men . Lets live and enjoy life to the fullest, and never hesitate to dump or break the heart of any of them feminist that lacks what you want in a wife. . . . . . Again, don't keep the relationship going just because of sympathy or because you don't wanna break her heart.

Freesia:



Not necessarily true,It's not guaranteed that because you went back home to get a bride your marriage will be a solid one.Keep an open mind there are some African girls raised in the west who are just as respectful and good. Same way there are some wayward ones back home

If you read my post again, you will see that I used the phrase, "lesser feminist." I never said that going back to Nigeria to marry will guarantee one a solid marriage or that those girls living in Nigeria are saints. But the truth is that the ones living in Western nations are worse when it comes to marriage department.

Shemael04:

Hi everyone i need some advice, i have a bf and we've been together for almost 3 years and dont get me wrong i do love him and we are living together like a married couple but without a paper but we always argue and fight for some simple things, my bf is not very emotional and he doesnt know how to show his affection but i do know that he love me too, Then one day i met this guy who turned my world around. He's very very affectionate and caring and sweet and he thinks he love me and i think i love him too, I tried to broke up with my long time bf to be with this guy but the problem is this new guy parents doesnt approved with us so he havent introduce me to them and plus i feel like i dont wanna really leave my old bf, I dont know what should i do,,, Should i stay with my man or should i pick the new guy? Me and my bf doesnt have any common interest besides watching movie and this new guy a have alot of common with but my long time bf's family love me so much , Im really confused now, Please need some advice,

One of them . . Nonsense!!

@OP

I really pity you. First, from your profile picture, you are very ugly. . . I guess you just moved over to UK, and thought that Naija guys living there are the same with those your mugus back home. You really need to change for good, or you remain single forever in UK.

Freesia:

I see Many of our brothers dating non Nigerian ladies all the time but when it comes down to marriage I will tell you this !! From London to Texas and in between, Most end up with Nigerian women.

I have seen quite a number of guys swear they shall have nothing to do with Naija women and after a number of years we are attending a Naija wedding with both parties being full blooded Nigerians.

When I asked one of my friends,he said his bad experiences was a thing of the past, he would now be settling  down with his girlfriend from Naija
A former workmate told me his parents warned him they will disown him if he brings home a foreign girl so he had no choice but had to marry a girl from his home town  
Well what can I say, our preferences and priorities change as we mature

The main point is that most Naija guys living in the West usually dont marry Nigerian girls that were born in the West or presently living in the West. As you highlighted in your post, guymen would rather go back to his villlage and marry a girl who is a lesser feminist compared to what is obtainable from Nigeria girls living in Western nations like US, Canada and UK.

@Poster

The gospel truth is that most naija guys in US and Canada dey avoid you naija gals like fluke, guymen don tear eye like moooost naija girls, I mean you staunch feminists born or living around here . You really have to consider going back to naija to find husband , or expand your options by being ready to marry a non Nigerian that comes your way.

Infact, I just dumped one of ur Sistas who have been disturbing me ( a 22 yr old Jolly Fellow ) with her marriage fantasies, whereas everything about her smells feminism feminism, equality in everything. Like you, she calls herself a christian woman, always try to use bible to manipulate a guyman like me   ,  but ferociously down plays  the part of bible that talks about women submitting to their husbands. She calls this part obsolete, that it doesn't apply to this 21st century.

I never know why most Nigerians guys living in my area dont have Nigerian girl friends, until i entered the river and got the answer.

hehehehehe . . . . .   This new mall na bad news for enugu guy men .  With this latest shop shop mall, their girl friends go milk them dry finish.

A young doctor had moved out to a small rural community to replace the retiring country doctor. The older doctor suggested the young one accompany him on his house calls so the community could become used to a new doctor.

At the first house a woman complained, "I've been a little sick to my stomach."

The older doctor said, "Well, you've probably been overdoing the fresh fruit. Why not cut back on the amount you've been eating and see if that doesn't do the trick?"

As they left, the younger doctor said, "You didn't even examine that woman. How did you arrive at your diagnosis so quickly?"

"I didn't have to. You noticed I dropped my stethoscope on the floor in there? When I bent over to pick it up, I noticed a half-dozen banana peels in the trash. That was what was probably making her sick."

"Huh!," the younger doctor exclaimed, "pretty clever. I think I'll try that at the next house."

Arriving at the next house, they spent several minutes talking with a younger woman. She complained that she just didn't have the energy she
once did.
"I'm feeling terribly run down lately."

The younger doctor says "You've probably been doing too much work for the church, Perhaps you should cut back a bit and see if that helps."

As they left, the elder doc said, "Your diagnosis is almost certainly correct, but how did you arrive at it so fast?"

"Well, just as you did at the last house, I dropped my stethoscope and when I bent down to retrieve it, I noticed the preacher under the bed." lol

A young doctor had moved out to a small rural community to replace the retiring country doctor. The older doctor suggested the young one accompany him on his house calls so the community could become used to a new doctor.

At the first house a woman complained, "I've been a little sick to my stomach."

The older doctor said, "Well, you've probably been overdoing the fresh fruit. Why not cut back on the amount you've been eating and see if that doesn't do the trick?"

As they left, the younger doctor said, "You didn't even examine that woman. How did you arrive at your diagnosis so quickly?"

"I didn't have to. You noticed I dropped my stethoscope on the floor in there? When I bent over to pick it up, I noticed a half-dozen banana peels in the trash. That was what was probably making her sick."

"Huh!," the younger doctor exclaimed, "pretty clever. I think I'll try that at the next house."

Arriving at the next house, they spent several minutes talking with a younger woman. She complained that she just didn't have the energy she
once did.
"I'm feeling terribly run down lately."

The younger doctor says "You've probably been doing too much work for the church, Perhaps you should cut back a bit and see if that helps."

As they left, the elder doc said, "Your diagnosis is almost certainly correct, but how did you arrive at it so fast?"

"Well, just as you did at the last house, I dropped my stethoscope and when I bent down to retrieve it, I noticed the preacher under the bed." lol

A Unclad female flagged down an Igboman Taxi driver. At first, the Igboman found it weird to pick up the Unclad woman;however, after giving it a second thought, he decided to let the Unclad woman into his car. When she got into the taxi, the Igboman taxi driver greeted her and then spent the next 20 minutes looking at her. At this junction, the Unclad female passenger interjected, and the following back n forth ensued between the two:

Unclad female passenger:- You old man, what are you looking at? Haven't you seen a Unclad woman before? Abeg drive off.

Igbo Taxi Driver:- madam I no dey look at you unclothedness;instead, I dey look for d place where u keep the money wey u suppose use pay me.

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Anambra state:- Home for all !!

BY ENYIM ENYIM

ONITSHA- Anambra State government said Thursday that indigenes of the state sacked by Abia State governor, Chief Theodore Orji, would be absorbed into its service.

Secretary to the State Government, Chief Paul Odenigbo, while addressing newsmen said government had already set up a committee to look into the matter, with a view to finding out those genuinely and illegally sacked by Abia State government, adding that investigation showed that some of the sacked workers had certificate problem.

On whether Anambra State government would sack Abia natives working in the state, Odenigbo said Governor Peter Obi was a core Igbo man and would, therefore not retaliate, saying that “we have condemned the action of the Abia governor.”

Speaking on Dim Emeka Odimugwu Ojukwu, he said his demise would rather unite the All Progressives Grand Alliance, APGA, than disintegrate it.

Odenigbo said: ” The death of Ojukwu will not cause the disintegration of APGA. We agree that he is the pillar of the party but his death will not in any way affect the electoral fortune of the party.

“His spirit will not allow us to disintegrate. He was a good leader. APGA would rather grow than die.”


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2011/12/anambra-to-absorb-sacked-workers-from-abia/

Kay-Dee:

AI trying to set Africa up.

lol

All these people are just saying things that are no secret. . . . . Ikemba RIP.

By Taye Obateru & Gabriel Enogholase
TWO-time governor of defunct Bendel State, Dr. Samuel Osaigbovo Ogbemudia, has described the late Ikemba Nnewi, Chief Chukwuemeka Ojukwu, as a “gallant nationalist and freedom fighter” who fought for his rights and for the rights of the overwhelming majority of his Igbo people.

In reminiscence of their days in the Nigeria Army and the events that led to the civil war, Ogbemudia said Ojukwu “was always a visionary, forth-right, courageous, outspoken, nationalist and patriotic”.

According to him,“Ojukwu wanted to see a Nigerian nation where all ethnic nationalities are recognized and fairly treated, not a country of disparate and desperate ethnic groups. He threw all that was left of his physical and mental energy into this enterprise but did not live to see it through”.

He went on in his condolence message, “Although it is a universal saying that you don’t say evil about the dead, in the case of Chief Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, the Ikemba Nnewi, there is truly no evil to talk about his life. Many say he was a rebel. No, he was a gallant nationalist and freedom fighter. He openly disagreed on issues and rather than stomach his dissatisfaction, he fought for his rights and for the rights of the overwhelming majority of his Ibo people who looked up to him.

“Imagine that he succeeded, and Biafra had become a state, going by the feats they achieved at a very difficult time, Biafra would have become the toast of Africa by now. Perhaps many other new states would have been born.

“I was a major and later a brigade major when he was a Lt Col. commanding a battalion at Kano. We were all under the command of Kaduna 1st Brigade. Following the coup of January 15, 1966, he was appointed Military Governor of Eastern Region, David Ejoor for the Midwest, Adeyinka Adebayo for the West and Usman Hassan Katsina for the North. The crisis ensued as the North had good reasons to believe that the coup was targeted against them. Many Ibos in the North were killed in a reprisal manner. Gen Ironsi the Head of State was also killed.

“By 1967, the crisis had worsened and Ojukwu declared Biafra. He invaded the Midwest. Same year i was appointed Military Governor of the Midwest. We fought against Biafra Army and liberated the Midwest. Midwest sacrificed human and material resources to save Nigeria. The Head of State at this time was Gen. Gowon. He appreciated this and remarked that but for Midwest, there would have been no Nigeria.

“That notwithstanding, my admiration for Ojukwu remained high. I contributed all I could to the rehabilitation of the east.

“My friendship with Chief Ojukwu effectively resumed when he returned from exile. I helped with his political reintegration and was sorry that he wasn’t allowed to go to the Senate in 1983. He was always visionary, forth-right, courageous, outspoken, nationalistic and patriotic.

Meanwhile, an Igbo socio-cultural organization, Izu Umunna, has urged the Senate to reverse its decision which opposed a state burial for Chief Chukwuemeka Ojukwu, in the interest of justice and fair play.

sunkoye:

Africans will always be Africans. I stands to be corrected but i have not seen a war waged without the leader's selfish interest. i have also not seen a good war.the major difference between Hitler and ojukwu was the scale of the war. whereas Nigerians calls one hero and the other devil incarnate. Africans are always ready to protect their  own irrespective of their criminal activities and tendencies.when ojukwu was in a  mood to wage a war, He should have asked a little boy this questions! is it on a just and re sonable course? must pple die because of his Ego? is the timing right? cos i wondered why he never stayed and let himself be captured if he had really loved biafra.  all this commonsensical thought was not in place for a would be war lord. poo! [b]shallow mind [/b] he rushed to fight with little resouses . Everything was ill conceived and the consequence was to get a close attention from Nigerian Army. peeps, that was suicidal.and should be punished! Nigerians are too soft(follow follow too much)!. imagine papa ran  leaving his children to face the consequence of his actions and inaction. why must we celebrate such a person of cowardice behavior. what is the difference between him and our thieving politicians that put the cart before the horse! As a Nigerian and irrespective of where i come from, i will always support a revolution that will unified the country not one that  will had it break up.Period!

I wonder how a numbskull like you who can't construct a simple sentence deemed it fit to call Eze Ndigbo gburu gburu a shallow mind. Rather than exhibiting your ignorance on the internet, I would advice you to enroll in an English as a second language class.

kasiem:

i normally dont honor cows with a reply. Invest more of your time in getting your land rid of leprosy. polio, bombing, illiteracy, almajirism, tes tse fly, poverty etc

Nwanne have mercy on the Hausa Muturu Ndama . . LMAO

Onlytruth:

Ojukwu's best quote:

“I regret the disabilities of the war. It was a choice: it was either to become a slave of the Hausas in that time, or to do what we did. And up till tomorrow, whenever I’m given the opportunity to choose, I’ll reject slavery.”

-Emeka Ojukwu

Ikemba, the greatest, the most fearless, the most courageous and most straightforward man that ever blazed the land of Africa.

ITbomb:

if the guy is Igbo it will never work

lol . . . Please can you expatiate

You are still under the influence of crack!! . . . . Ask your question again whenever you are out of Rehab.

Well, I met the great man in Anambra state Electoral tribunal in 2005, during the legal battle between Peter Obi and Chris Ngige.  He will ever remain my one and only hero.

R.I.P Odumegwu Ojukwu  

DJTee:

The one and only Ikemba Nnewi . . .RIP

You [b]palyed [/b]your role

You just killed Ikemba for the second time with the above spelling.  

namfav:

when people start making his grave a shrine, we are in danger as a nation, a war criminal who hasn't faced the music being mourned means that we have bad apples in our nation, as somoene has said, an unmarked grave is the only thing that can be acceptable to make some peace, some of us haven't forgot the war and have lost people trying to defend what we stand on today

Awusa Muturu Ndama, Nigeria is already in danger because Ikemba's shrine will be found in every noot and cranny of Igboland, and even in your backyard.

saintneo:

[size=28pt]Excuse me![/size]

This issue of home state workers and sacking of non-home state workers has become very stuuuupiiid, i most say.

During state creation Anambra/Enugu in the 90s, I recall that people from Enugu in the new Anambra civil service relocated to Enugu while the Anambra people relocated to Awka. I recall my dad was in the civil service in Awka prior to the state creation; he was relocated to Enugu while we(my mum, me and my siblings) remained back in Onitsha. When the separation was to difficult to maintain, we had to move to our villa in Enugu state (30 mins drive from Enugu metropolis) so that my dad could focus on his work and family at the same time. My mum had to apply for transfer as well so as to continue her teaching profession in Enugu state.

Everyday, our politicians come up with the idea of removing state of origin from our constitution. Yet even in Enugu, teachers(Enugu State natives) with lots of experience where asked to move to their LGA of origin. [s]To remain in the state capital you will not become a Head Master or Head Mistress since it is not your LGA of origin.[/s] I think this was later changed. Furthermore, wives of non-indigenous Federal civil service workers (aka Federal-wives or Federal-husbands) were also having issues with their employment with state civil service.

Where am I heading to with this argument?

I was born in Anambra, in fact I was born very close to Omambara River(Anambra River); I consider myself an Anambra man more than Enugu man. Even though I am not into civil service, I think it is high time we did away with this discrimination attitude under the guise of state of origin. We should be looking forward to a more united front, so as to encourage private businesses and development in our states.

I really don't understand your answer to the OP's question. But to answer the OP question, my mum was a top civil servant in Anambra state for more than 20 years. And she just told me that there was never a time Anambra State sacked Abians or non indigenes from her workforce. Infact, Anambra state has the highest number of non- indigenes in her workforce; afterall, she doesnt answer HOME FOR ALL for nothing.

Ewooooo! Ewoooooo!!    . . . .  Oke osisi adaaaaaaaaa !!       Chi enwere ehihie jieeeeee!!!
 
Rest in peace, Emeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, Eze Ndigbo Gburu Gburu!!!

@OP

well, in your next world. never you train any women in school or anything with the intention of marrying her.

simpleseyi:

NONSENSICAL!
My wife does not have a single male friend. What has light and darkness got in common. Married woman should never ever again keep male friends. Male colleagues, Yes with restrictions. Male Friends, ABOMINATION. If you think I am outdated that is your problems. Your wife even mingle with her ex-boyfriends. Did she pay your dowry?

Chairman take it easy oooo. Anyway, I concur with ya.

Signor Zax:

I'm 100% sure U can't even id Hilife music just 2 save your own lyf. Wat a pity Man.

First, you really need to save your own life by learning how to read and construct a simple sentence. At least this would help you dunce in differentiating highlife music from other music genres. . . What an air brain!!!