kingoflag:

If you weren't born with a silver spoon, or have never touched any significant amount of money in your life, then you need to speak for yourself. Like someone said, pretending to be, does not mean you are. Whats wrong is wrong. Big pity the internet gives us a lot of anonymity. . . on the internet, wishes can be horses. No biggie.

Haters gonna hate

Decades of poverty, hunger and unending anger have made most Nigerians to be jealous of the life styles of the lucky few who are blessed with wealth.  . .
I dont blame them!!

Here in US, many students and young peeps from both poor and rich background, ride Hummer Limousines to social events, flash bundle of dollars and engage in all sorts of fun activities expected of youths of nowadays. . . . .   Honestly, all these peeps criticizing Ugonna are simply jealous because I cant fathom how a child who was born with a silver spoon shouldn't have fun in his youthful age. . .  Here, we are talking about a child whose mother was a Shell oil Coy Executive before she joined the public sector.

To end this jealousy, Ugonna please come back to naija and start riding keke  Napepe , quit your engineering job and start selling pure water on the street of Lagos.  

Haters gonna hate!!

Good bye!!

La Parisienne:

@Cuddlemii
You raised  some insightful questions that I hadn't even asked myself, quite impressive
-I didn't want to rush into another relationship. When I was ready to date again, I didn't meet someone worthy. Not just yet.
-I really don't know what would've happened if I had fallen in love with someone else. He believes this is a good sign.
-He swears that he did'nt mess around. I don't hve any reason to doubt him cos he was really preoccupied with his Msc.
-As a principle, I don't rely on others to make me happy. I make myself happy by making the right choices in life and by putting smiles on people's faces.
-I wasn't desperate to get married then, but it just didn't feel right being with someone who didn't have the same long term goals with me.
-My goals are planned out and I'm well positioned to achieve them speedily.
-I can't predict the future but I feel he's being sincere about his change of priorities.
-Finally, I'm not going to make the come back too easy for him. But at the same time, I don't want to push him away. He's a good man, atleast he's always sincere. Giving him another wouldn't mean settling for less by any means.

I can only hope and pray that it turns out well.

Pardon my digression, as a layman in all these love game you girls are well versed in, how exactly are you going to make your Ex's come back "difficult or not too easy for him." . . . .  

xynerise:

I cant fight a guy for what I dont know about. The gal should go and sort out her problem with d ex.

Gbam!! . . .

kpolli:

Valentine season has returned

hehehehehehe . . . Guyman!!

Mr, Cork:


Mynd_44.  Bro I dont mean to sound rude but your the 2nd ugliest person I ever seen in my life. Nice Suit though 

lol

Please, Mynd_44 is a fine boi !

Acidosis:

Go and face your studies

Good advice.

@OP

face your studies and stop thinking about sex!!!!

That means her Ex has more swagger than you .  . . . .  Dude, step up your game!!!

All these small boys. . . . . Nwoke m, face your studies, make so much money before blabbing about girls & heart break!!!
I think your girl made a good decision.

@OP

i dont think girls are interested in dating Naija 50 cent . ,

obowunmi:

Lots of players and pus, sy bangers  in churches,   Do not be deceived.

+++ 1oo%  concur.

moremi2008:

Christian men! Where else are you supposed to find a christian man? I know I am going to find my wife in a church! Definitely not in a club.

keep on deceiving yourself. In fact , most of these girls or guys you now see in churches have more skeleton in their cupboards than the ones you may see in clubs or bars. . . lol

Christian women ni, christian man ko . .

moremi2008:

The best place to meet eligible Nigerian bachelors is through church, professional/academic events/conferences and at wedding parties! It's a bit more difficult in the U.S. because it's such a huge place and Nigerians are scattered every where.

Which Nigerian man do you want her to meet in church?? . That one na high hopes . . lol

otokx:

y are som 9ja gals bent on being a 2nd wife 2 us based guys?

Cos we brush teeth with SWAGGER!

Eligible Nigerian bachelors are aplenty in US. For you to find them, or for them to find you, you have to do away with feminist attitudes and also be more sociable.

Goodluck!!!

@Op

Be strong, such is life . . . hmmmm, but I'm really interested to know the name of this nairalander you are talking about

Breaking up with someone isn't a sin or a crime. Hence, if you are not in love, why not honorably quit the relationship and move on with that other person that wants to be with you, I mean the chosen one who you are in love with. . . .  I'm sure your current partner would appreciate this in the long run.

Why should you be saying goodbye to the person you love?

sexlog:

Mynd 44, u look like all those ghanaian that hawk puff puff & bons around the street of lagos. Just a comment.

I didnt read the above comment.

Is this not the same girl who is maintaining her shape so as to attract a celebrity husband . . . Honestly, I think dropping out of school would afford you the time to look for celebrity husbands.

@poster

I think you should try to work out things with your ex. You know, sometimes people would think that the grass is always greener on the other side. Some of your girl friends, who might even be jealous of your relationship, might be telling you to "forget about the loser , baby you deserve better"   . .  You have to  avoid the slippery banana peel that would potentially lead you to jumping from one relationship to another, from one heart break to another. .  

Let me end with this proverb: If the mountain will not come to mahomet, mahomet must go to the mountain.

Goodluck!!

BTW, are both of you Nigerian??

Omo_ghetto:

Igbe Ewure, bawo ni yin se je. Were lori gon gon. iya re ni buruku tyre

Goat Poo Poo, what concerns u oga. Mentalgoong is this our u disrespect your mom at home

Omo ghetto Salvaged tyre, since you are getting married today, I wish you happy married life. . . . I hope you repent and never go back to your dirty old ways

Omo_ghetto:

oloshi omo ode. o ma run down. se o mo ojo ori awon ti wan kowe si bi. emi ma fe oko lo lo

useless child of a fool. u will run down. what if the posters r vry young worn out ko, worn inside ni. i will marry tomorrow.

Apparently I have hit a nerve as expected . . . Lest I forget, I didnt say that worn out tyres like you wont get married; afterall, there are men who have no other choice but to buy such dangerous tyres.

A disguised cry for help by the Worn Out Tyre Club members

@OP

Please don't mind all those jealous fellas whose academic achievements are nothing to write home about.

As for the issue of your current girlfriend, its your choice to either break up with her right now, or take the relationship to a higher level.
If you honestly break up with her right now, believe me, you are guilty of nothing and have committed no crime. All relationships are not meant to reach the marriage stage.

Goodluck!!!

Wise people!!

OP

Hustle harder and make so much money, . . . That gal will surely leave you for a richer dude if have no marriage plans in the nearest future.

Orikinla:

To every drama queen there is a drama king.

Word!!!

How old are you?

@ OP

I disagree with you . . .  So long as you are a handsome dude like me who exudes lots of swagger , you can easily be friends with Nigerian girls without going through their friends.

In Igbo, Ebuka and Chinedu are the most popular for boys, chioma and Ify being the most popular for girls.