₦airaland Forum

Oluwatobike:
“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up.

I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason.

My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a
multinational company and things started to turn around for me.

I could now take care of myself and secure a future.

Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No”

My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.

His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

What is your advice for this young mother of three?

NobleEugene5:
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Anchor84:
I hv a 2004 corolla for 2.7m

Idaytesj29:
I am telling you. The rate at which this car is been stolen daily is unrivalled by any other car . A situation whereby if you font have a fence at home, your car isn't safe. You can't park by the road side for some minutes. Your mirror, door handles etc will be gone.

If you park out side on the street till day break, the corolla will be naked by the morning. All its vital "organs" are harvested already.

You just can't have peace of mind using the car

Afonjakid:
He is even in Abuja, he should have relocated to orlu to enjoy the peaceful atmosphere the person he is defending created there..

Conner44:
Erm… wait for what?

AudioMonkey:
Don't worry, you'll submit next year.

Sheuns:

I wonder how this will affect Buhari or the state Governor.

You are enforcing sit at home in protest of the President’s visit to your state far away from where the President is in your state. Una just Dey do mumu things in the name of spiting Buhari. These things affect the people you claim you’re fighting for.

Conner44:
Hmm so sad

stray bullet from soldiers

I hope her brothers won’t get angry or suicidal and go to join these unknown gunmen tomorrow because they want to exact vengeance

SlyDev:
When your son was performing spiritual madness insulting other tribes, you no talk because you didn't train him well.

Your other son Simon is following the step of his caged brother, go talk to am before Buhari teach am language lesson.

Mandate2023:
Those ipigs like claiming what's not there own......thank God for wike if not d pigs would have attached themselves to rivers entitlement claiming to be on same page with them


I just hope dis is not what dey r relying on when dey get their Biafra

GenBuhari:
No They will continue killing innocent Igbos in other SE states except Ebonyi state that the president is visiting.

Bobbyjay001:
How can I get one? Is there any site I can an older lady to date here in Nigeria?

The dating/sugar momma groups are all filled with scammers.

By the way, I am based in Akure, Ondo State. Don't mind traveling outside my State to meet one

Savie:
What a stupid post. I was there live at the event in ikot ekpene township stadum, his LGA. It was a very massive crowd. Buhari is secretly supporting akpabio.

Cmanforall:
Lebanese?

Does he have a driving licence?

amodujames:
No wonder you left your pus$$y bushy

Ballzproblemm:
only an idiot will sleep with an SA woman without proper check up ,I don talk am if you wan run SA woman , give her money for test. then still use condom , then use this HIV drug Prep, no matter how konji hold you runall this things above before you drive in no ruining your life for pleasure wey no go last for one day

KiNg0G:
that's if she dey wear pant

OBALOLA55:
ARREWA AKA EKPEITIT IS VIEWING

Sergio104:
And please may we remember @dukeprince50 too.

His own was really too sad.
He created a thread, while people were still commenting on his thread..... mother nature called .


Prayer for them is all we have.

May their soul rest in peace