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This is a Ugandan girl working as a maid in Saudi arabia

I told my sister that I detested a certain friend of mine in the presence of my five year old
So come Sunday am going to church and I bump into this friend. My five year old goes " mom isn't this Becky you said you don't like because she borrows money and don't return! Damn I felt bad.

Grown up passing germs to a baby, you can imagine her bad breathe, cavities, and such,
I don't even let my infAnt touch my lips for being afraid of what I can pass to the baby.

I know a couple of people working as house maids the mistreatment they get, chai !
Some get killed all the time

claremont:
I would be in North Carolina this weekend for 7 weeks for work purposes. I don't know how far the south is from the north, but looking to meet fellow Nigerians before I return back to the UK. @OP: I will have 4 days off by the end of March, let's see how it goes.

What part of North Carolina, Charlotte looks better but most NC is country with lots of trees,

South Carolina is a couple of hours away, also much rural living but Columbia and charleston are beautiful.
Enjoy your trips guys.

Lenny share those mtandaos za wakenya na wa Tz.

Ndugu yangu jaribu US, Australia and Canada,

Try culinary and hospitality programs canada

We mkenya au mtanganyika?

Hiv is nothing my dear, thanks to medicine, at the moment there are 45 kind of pills to treat it,
So take it easy, let him divorce you, and I tell you you will outlive him,
Magic Johnson is alive almost 30 years later and getting richer by the min,
Don't beat yourself look for NGOs giving free medicine register and take medicine for the rest of your life,

If you ever want to be pregnant consult a doctor to give you medicine to stop you from passing the virus to the baby.
The medicine stops the virus from growing,
Hope you are taking it all fine, you need someone to talk to let me know I will drop an email.

You will get a better answer if you move this to travel section

Does yor visa allow you to work?

Iam also in Dallas Texas,

pretydiva:
chaii..only dis food na alk dis plenty tins full so..guy u dey enjoy I swear

Thanks, I like cooking

Sit him down,
Promise him a trial separation if you ever see that garbage. Be stern with him don't smile or fizzle, put your feet down and demand to be treated right.
Promise him you will monitor his calls and conversation until he decides to grow up.

Yellow basmati rice,
Mashed potatoes with spinach, corn peas
Chicken with garlic, paprika, yellow, green, red, orange, bell papers and cilantro, baby carrots
Mango juice,
Pink wine
Strawberries
My Saturday special please enjoy, very savory, yummy

Jonathan ashaming Nigeria since 1897.
Always begging Chai

Usually there's some truth to this, 16 women, they probably have some taped evidence and shit like that

Useless man drugging and abusing Nigerias name since 1806

I hope the man rots in jail,
I hope the woman's lifeless bloody stabbed body's haunts this deranged demon to his death.

I have no respect or sympathy for an insecure son of a gun.

And women know the kind of monster of a husband you have.
If you need to divorce or run off, put a plan in strategy.
Run off in the middle of the night with extra police to help you move out.
I cannot imagine loosing my life due to this raggedy low lives men.

I bet Nigerian men in the states are not doing what they are supposed to do.
You can't have wives in dozens trying to get out of marriages.
unmarried Nigerian girls in states please expand your horizons try some Ghanaians, Kenyans or even togolese men.
Nigerian women are now endangered species in the states.
women sleep with one eye open.

,for all ignorant people do you know the status of whoever cooks for your kids in school?
How about.restaurants, please knock it off disgusting

So what if you have a maid that has not been diagnosed and she is a carrier which means she can live ten plus years without showing any signs.
I rest my case

greatgod2012:
your doctor is an adult, you are also an adult.

If there's no very young children where the maid is working, there's no need to sack him/her. An adult knows the right thing to do, but kids may not.

I once took my son at 8 months to a daycare that had kids with HIV, they never told me which kid had what, it was a special needs Daycare with kids with anything from down syndrome, autistic and such. My son never contracted anything.
Alds is not Ebola. Learn how it transmits and and make an educated wise decision.

I have been treated with a white doctor in New York that apparently has been living with HIV for 20years.
If I could not fire my doctor am not firing my maid.
This is 2015 Aids has come out of age.
Ignorance is what is killing Africa as a continent.

Life must be boring with such a man,My husband and I talk through the night,We also gossip, talk, go out to store together
I thank God I married my best friend We have rough patches sometimes but we talk through them.


Your husband reminds me of an ex I dated, first appeared friendly, dint take long to see his true colors, anytime we talked he accused me of gossiping, talking to his own sister was gossip, to his own aunt was gossip, he watched news and sports only, and wait until I changed the channels to my favorite shows, he would flip and turn face color and start blaming me, gal I ran for my life had I married that caricature I prolly would be buried six feet under, people do your homework thoroughly before picking a mate.

It depends if the dad is a mature person
With all stygma associated with HIV you don't want him breaching the young boys privacy.

If he is a part time dad I would not bother telling him. You guys have managed for fives years. Continue the same thing. Let the boy tell him on free will when he grows up.

The man was probably not satisfying the woman.


We need to hear her part of the story.

More power to women.

The man needs to move on, by the time a woman cheats on you they are usually completely tired of you and ready to move on. They should sit down plan visitation rights and part ways,
I wonder who put this two together, complete mismatch, all the Sparks gone,nothing to salvage here, next please.

The last time an ex told me to wait, he sayed he was not ready to marry or was not the marrying type. when I broke off after 2 year's I discovered he had a wife and kid in the village.

Op run for your life, I doubt he loves you maybe he is married or eyeing someone else.

How does this contribute to family section,
They say if you don't have anything to say or contribute, .....please do the necessary,
Next.

My dear, its not like he changed when you got pregnant. He remained himself meaning HE IS JUST NOT INTO YOU.
why do you keep on following this man yet he is showing you all signs that he don't care for you.
You my friend is the reason men abuse and misuse women. Common sense is not that common afterall.