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I agree poster and you walk abroad all public toilets are super clean
Maybe they should charge minor fees for using public restrooms so it it clean continuously

Lay low and follow rules in that house or move. Whats wrong with you?

steveyen:
Hello house,

Please I need to determine accurately how long my wife has been pregnant. How do I go about it? I guess the pregnancy is at the early stage.

I heard about ultrasound means. Please how accurate is this ? Where can I get this service around Ojodu/ Ikeja axis of Lagos and how much is the cost of performing one.

Any other means of accurately determine the date of the pregnancy?

Cheers.

Pregnancy calculater online, just know the first date of her last period

LAjibade:
Miami11 No. I can communicate with him through Facebook. But he avoids contact Area with me and doesn't answer none of my questions. I come to him in peace. I'm not interested in fighting nor make him pay for scamming me. I'm over it!! That is between him and God. All I want is to know the legal status of our "marriage". Why I can not find my marriage records in the court. I received a stamped marriage certificate from the place of marriage at Alimosho Local Government Agbado/ Oke-Odo Local Council. Dev. Area in Nigeria. But now, I can't know know nor find my legal marital status.

What would knowing your status help with, just wondering out loud

Ednite:
okay, i was trying to help our friend here, since ur a foreigner, it would be more meaning full hearing it from another nation than an Ethiopian thanks

Ednite I need a whole lot of information on Ethiopia,
Do you mind sharing email with me.

Poster am with you, I hate winter, makes one miss Africa

I'm curious are you looking for him?

Let your mom know immediately, you are not saving her any heartbreaks by not letting her know.

If I were you I would call your mum and siblings, put everything on the table? Why? You don't know the other woman she might come with her kids claim everything your family have, I would never sleep over this matter until your mum and siblings are prepared

Evil man indeed

Addicted2Women:
And you think you can present it to the US embassy and they will issue you a visa ??

People lie everyday and some get visa without much detection

He might have slipped through with fake documents, that's not unusual

Please poster stay away from all this people giving you their numbers here you will attract another scammer they prey from very far

True and so on point

If the husband is misbehaving mother in law did not do a good job raising him
But now she might be burging trying to interfere with raising of grandkids

You were used to ferry him to US, he is probably gotten what he wanted and gone forever.
What is written there does not matter his actions after arrival are what matters
Count yourself single and learn from this experience

LordOfWits:
no need trying to turn tables, I'm only curious as to why you'd say so. Because he's the man or because his wife keeps going out with just a towel on?

Nothing wrong with the man carrying water for the wife for their house hold needs

I888:
well, she knows better already and I guess she has seen where is made a mistake. If this got to front page, she would be roasted alive lol.

It makes sense now because she has at least told us the circumstances, after confusing us lol,

I think posters should be upfront with valid information from get go.

cococandy:
I don't think the father will be labeled a wicked or bitter step dad if he says no to that.
Figures

Well said, I think when most of them saw the words STEP MOTHER they raised bulbs immediately already castigating the poor mom

veins2016:
gosh. dia r no underlying issues. i surely cant be d only person married to a divorced man with kids who visit.i only posted to get d opinion of pple in d same situation with me. definately dia r days wen she upsets me and i upset her,jst like any mother and daughter,but we get along well and she's a sweet girl.dats all.ses nairalanders hate stepmums oh.all this bashing!

Step mum just do what works for you, nobody should blame you, am only perturbed you changed details of the post right in the middle,

Anyway good luck

Ignore this anti step mums hypocrites who also form anti feminist 24 hours without even getting the concepts of an issue.

Timbuktou:
But all fathers except yours are having sex with the teenage daughters na. Everyone is free to be biased just like you, unless youre saying daddy's got magic fingers then I can understand . Worst thing though, your interpretation of comments is far from what people are actually saying. Comprehesion seems to be a bìtcb in 2016.

Apparently you are one of the nairaland people I don't engage in, in any kind of conversations deuces,

zeb04:
maybe but what I can't understand is why sending her back to her room makes you a wicked step mum. this is something I can do to my child so why not my step child. well I don't beat myself for things that don't make sense.

It is the mentality all mums out there are wicked apart from your biological mum, I don't know why they don't understand your step mum is your mum now when you are under her roof, and now you have two mums.

They are quick to brand the poor step mother wicked while my own husband refuses my two year old to sleep in our bed lol

I888:
added new info to appear righteous incase this gets to front page I guess lol.

The story now does not even make sense because poster has changed details, making all the responses null,

Well if she is sick, that is someway ok

If she is afraid she needs reassurance,

zeb04:
I don't understand how sleeping in a different room makes you less friendly and a bad step mum.

I slept in a different room and grew up as a normal child.

I also had a step parent and slept in a different room, I never felt insecure or anything, and came out ok

Unless we are talking about a traumatized abnormal girl, maybe mentally deranged, insane or something, normal kids will just feel safe in the same house not necessarily same bed,

Maybe there are underlying issues we need to know off

signature2012:
Why @ the bolded?Not for love?

We all know that if a man has plenty of resources there will be no fights and jealousy over the little available.

So he has to be extremely rich to have this babies already, otherwise deuces, no no and no

No, I will not forgive the man no no no!!

No wander this estranged wives will buy acid and go after some beech!!!

Don't you think you are the reason for his divorce, you are giving him an alternative

How about you go look for your own man and give them space to work out the marital problems,

So what if she had miscarriages it only been two years.

So when should this overgrown baby be taught not to be sleeping with opposite sex(boys) while the family is making it OK for her to sleep with daddy
Is she OK though/normal/abnormal my own 9 year old is demanding her own room for privacy now.

Men supporting this might be perverts or potential perverts
Women supporting this are the ones acting holier than thou only to become wicked step mothers

In this Africa this is normal, c'mon now, unless it's a movie script

People forming hypocrisy as usual just because they believe in all mother's out there are wicked apart from there biological mother

babygirlfl:
Really, Are we talking 14years old or 14monrhs.

Women please think really hard before you become a step mum.

As crazy as that sounds, I hope it's a 14 month old

If that was a step son would you have let him at 14 years sleep with mum and step father.
What happened to his bed. His own room

crackhaus:
What a question.

So let's assume daddy doesn't have a job that keeps him out all day of course, what exactly is the big deal in a 14year old wanting to sleep on the same bed with daddy and mommy or step-mommy in this case...and what has morals got to do with it?

I noticed your use of adjectives and adverbs like squeezing and under the sheets, giving the impression that your mind is hell-bent on giving this gesture a sexual undertone.
You don't think this is a problem, no?

Off course I gave all the sexual undertones
How many cases of paedophiles do we hear everyday? Especially from fathers to daughter's,
Why can't daddy create reasonable time to hangout with daughter and not in bed.
My husband will not even let out two year old spent a night in our own bed

I think you just saw STEP mum and run to conclusion

You will get the same treatment he is giving his wife, run for your life, that there is a serial cheat

In some Arab countries or even the north the 14 year old is someone's wife,
Not a baby being encouraged to sit on daddy's lap.
At 14 some kids are already working,

Why are people trying to wage anti step mum rhetorics on such?

That is why you don't marry this men with baggages.Some of their kids are not taught manners then sent to step mums house.what kind of nonsense is that.
If that was a 14 year old step son would you have let them cuddled with step mum all night with all the sweet dreams

crackhaus:
[size=21pt]You don't like it because she is not your daughter![/size]

Simple and short, no need for big grammar.

Can't this overgrown step daughter use the whole daytime to bond with daddy than squeezing in bed under the sheets
What kind of morals are instilled on this baby jare