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Please do not buy the clothing diaper they are not worthy at all, you are better off using traditional nappies.

Well said. No room for friends anymore. Full of wahala.

rukkyng:
No am not. Why if I may ask

The main language spoken in Angola is Portuguese,you cannot survive there without the language.

rukkyng:
PLEASE Anyone with any information or links on how I can obtain an Angolan Visa|Work permit should please get back to me ASAP. *VERY IMPORTANT *

Are you fluent in Portuguese?

I feel your pain I came from worst broken family in my situation my dad left before I was born, my mom was raising three kids alone with the help of my grandmother. To this day I don't know who my dad was.
Anyway a step dad entered our lives and had two kids with my mom, on my wedding day and all occassions my stepdad has stood up to take a place of a dad that never was.
I found a real good husband too so don't worry you will be fine.

A mother inlaw from hell indeed.
I think the worst ones are the uneducated, never left the village and very idle.
Very toxic, I keep my mother inlaw at arms length.
Some are good though, I envy people with great mother inlaws.

For those in Aussie are you able to work full-time and pay for your own fees and even have extra money?

kendraloops:
I want to believe the comments by the females on this thread is just for laughs, as in they don't really mean it. I sincerely hope so!

The comments are real we are sick of the Nigerians double standard, we will give same advice a woman gets when the husband cheats.
it is a new dawn my dear.

I only ran into Somalis, Liberians and Kenyans when I lived there. Did not know there were Nigerians, anyway I don't live there anymore

Emaprince:
One thing I know is that a lot women loves to get so attached to some males at their working place to the extent it may get out of hand..majority women in extra marital affairs are doing it with their colleagues/bosses..it takes a woman with integrity(a few though) not to wanna have a thing with their colleague even after all the crushes they have on male colleagues...but this woman(with 4kids) who is seen as a well behaved one and well respected by all is sleeping with a janitor..dam.n..shame to her!!

Maybe the janitor was good looking and appealing unlike the pot bellied man that sexually starved her. Its a new dawn for some women LOL

We are not mindreaders neither are we witnesses so give us more info.

The husband should persevere pray for the woman to change. The janitor should not make him abandon his family.
What happened with for better or worse, till death do us part. He should pray for God to give him wisdom to take care of the family.

MymothersKeeper:
Get him free of the disease and keep an eye on him but u can't leave ur man cos of other women , only if he takes you for granted then you gon for ja

You are a knuckle head, what kind of advice is this.
You want this woman to die of some illness or get beat up by this mans many ashawos to a point of death, and so she should never leave her man.

The man should kneel down and pray and fast, he should also work out and try to look appealing to the wife. Maybe he has neglected himself hence the wife looking elsewhere.

He should also help more in the house to make his wife happy.

I did not bleed the first time and I was a pure virgin, please tell him to read this, not all virgins are bleeders.

Trust Nigerians to drug the countries name through mud as usual
Soon Nigerians will be banned in Dubai
Chai we carry our lawlessness everywhere

Good job Kenya

Giant of Africa abeg

How can they give you two years visa to attend a gathering? Very unusual of US embassy, are you sure your visa was not fake.
What city was.your port of entry?
Were you fingerprinted.
Did they detain you or they just put you on the next flight back.

What were you thinking getting fake stamps, how sure can we be that your US visa wasn't fake too?

Damn time to built our country

You should be ashamed of dating a married man and breaking his marriage.
you will be used and when you have kids he will reconcile with his wife and leave you hanging.
Then you will run here. Please get a life.

striktlymi:
That's very brave of you.

I don't think I can be that brave.

My mom would make it obvious that I was not her favorite, I knew it, I hated her, I doubted many times if I was her real biological daughter.
now wait until her two favorites dropped out of high school numerously and I sailed through successfuly.
I think she feels guilty and tries to make it up now. I forgave her but it was traumatic life for me growing up.

I only have one child will comment more after two more kids if I pick a favourite.
I wasn't my moms favourite growing up, but now am the most successful I become her favorite which sometimes I tell her its because of my money.

At 36 she really needs a life of her own, plus five years in someones house? Chai
What is her plan for her future?
Why are the parents' imposing her on you?
I only lived with my sister in law for six months the trouble she brought,l had to pack and move out of my house living her with hubby. Hubby got her a place same day and packed her out. Some inlaws are disguised Lucifer's mine was out to break my marriage.

Op you are an idiot and just like the main chics you will be used and dumped like a hot potato

You must have a low self esteem to allow yourself be used like a door mat in the name of sidechic, and always waiting for people to break up so you can burg in.
You give girls everywhere a bad name

Mag2015:
Hey everyone,

I'm a sub-editor in Britain but of Nigerian descent and I'm wondering if there are any journos on this forum? I'd love to meet you and find out what you do/write etc. It's hard to meet other journalists interested in Naija where I am...

Lola

Freelance journalist here

Well Said, I had a guest that wasted my food why? She could not eat left overs, I had my fridge full of excess food she made and made some more.
Then she threw her sanitary towels carelessly my house Don stink, you should have seen me tearing the house looking for what was smelling while she sat there.
then gossiping about me in my own house I swore this woman will never come back to my house.

sexymoma:
The only thing i grabbed in your write up was.... Upon all his giving, God is still blessing him...
If not.. he would have stopped taking up the responsibilities long long time ago..

Ain't no dispute God has blessed him, but iam concerned for our future and the future of our kids. Every family needs saving and plan for tomorrow which we don't have and cannot afford now due to commitments here and there. We not getting younger.

raumdeuter:
"We cannot work"? are you also working? Or is he taking part of your income to send to his family?

How did your husband get to where he is? Maybe someone older than him also made inconvenient sacrifices for him else he might be a bus conductor in Aba right now and you wouldn't ever marry him

Our problem is selfishness. You want someone to bless you and your kids yet hesitant to bless others

We both are gainfully employed, my husband went abroad due to a full
sports scholarship, his plane ticket was payed for by his couch. So non of the family chipped in for your information.

Thank you guys I will seat him down try to pump Sence on him.
I would hate if we suffer after retirement due to bad choices.
One thing he also does is shares an account with older sister married with five kids. His mom and other sister told me his older sister is stealing his money for her own projects. I personally did not want to get tangled in family feud so I ignored them. This does not seem easy but will give a layout to him.

I wish my husband's family were appreciative of his help, in a family of 21 kids two wives he is the fifteenth kid not the eldest. He has brought two siblings to US. His older brother has 12 kids with no job and my husband took over the education of one of his kids his wife refused family planning so am afraid he will pick the responsibility for this family. I don't mind helping but some is too much for our family.
when his mother visited as he complained about another older brother that is a teacher pursuing bachelors degree that he needed help.ain't this too much burden on as.