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Absolutely, a few more like you and the country will be a better place. You trusted your instincts and did the right thing

This is how I look at it, a female obgyn shares same body parts and is more familiar to your situation especially if she has kids herself. Same thing I would be Leary of a woman doctor treating male issues like vasectomies, prostate, and penuses.

I think males obgyn are more gentle, they are also as qualified and efficient, but can you be confortable

Women are you confortable having a male obgyn , do you have a preference for

Child delivery/ pregnancy care

Pap smears and such

Ednite:
i encourage ppl to come here and see Ethiopia. you might love it or not. It just depends in the kind of person u are and what you really like. if u love adventure, climbing mountains and etc. . .if u love historical places and want to explore very unique practices... YOU GOT THE RIGHT ONE!
it's safe, the whether here is a lil cold, (Addis) don't expect like urs. the foods are cool. But ask about kenya too,
Anyways, after ur decision, i wish you to have the best memories of ur lyf in the country you chose to visit.

Are you in Ethiopia?

Botswana, Tanzania, kenya, Namibia

Get your own apartment, pay your own bills she will respect you

Chillis:
Let him go and marry another woman who will bore him baby boy.

If the wife no gree. She can carry her load and move out leaving the kids behind for the rightful owner.
It doesn't matter if her health is in danger.

That's the faith of most Nigeria woman. They have no say here. I wonder why the man never give one ekaette bellé yet. What's he waiting for? Advice from nairalanders. ?

Mtshewwww

Very ignorant rubbish post. Hope you are not married. Her health does not matter Hope you smoking something.

chinkelly:
Togo u said? Hahaha... so people dey talk, u dey mention Togo. Is there any known Togo artists. U guys speak only french, not even the real french, pigdin french. Pls go away from here.

ordinary unknown Davido was swept out of the club, what does he sing pidgin or native languages. If he is not known here in Togo how do you expect him to be recognized in Atlanta, maybe you think he is Justin bieber lol
You must be those hungry instangram ediots who form your village is better than mine mentality

STILESGANG:
Is davido god that he can't be bounced in a club?He should move on, his jobless fans on instagram should also do the same.

Davido is a celebrity in africa,outside africa no one gives 2fuck's who davido is.So he should stop expecting special treatment

He is a celebrity in Nigeria not representing Africa here in Togo we don't know him,

Nigerians and witchcraft, diabolism, spirituality, paranoia, mmmh I tire, I thought it was only in movies.

mostyg:
Something could have been responsible for the woman's objection to having more children. If it is not related to her health, then she has to point not given birth again.

If the man actually wants more children all he needs to do is to stop using any form of protection when mating with the wife. Sooner or later, the good news would be announced.

We so much copy the western culture in this part of the world that we dont consider the consequences. Most European countries in the next hundred years would have no indigenous people. This is simply because they refused to give birth. Their economy is already been affected, reason for the acceptance of refugees and other asylum seekers. The aged are more than the youths and children put together. A case of a reversed triangle demography.

For these European countries, it is rather too late to reverse the population growth trend. China has realised this and has change the one child policy to two.

The fact of the matter is if you want to sustain your population give birth to 2, less than 2 will wipe you out while more than 2 will increase your population.

Population is power. The choice is yours.

What kind of a stupid mentality.

I will never know if your mum is a witch, are you basing the dream to clarify she is a witch,

He parenting style might have sack , but give her some slack , frustration, poverty, culture, singleness , primitivity, illiteracy and mental issues might have affected her,

Love her support her, move on already.

USA is no longer sponsoring work visas for nurses, the program ended, however you can choose to enter US by a different visa and find your way around to working.
Research on Canada though, they could be accepting nurses.

I can only remember the Ethiopian shameless pig roommate that stole my boyfriend

Oh and the lady that brushed her teeth on the kitchen sink

He is mean, why would he demand you cut out your mums relatives your own bloodline for his selfish reasons,

Promise him to compromise and respect your wedding and your choice of guests otherwise you will cut him out, at 29 you need respect to from everyone including your dad

nwaanambra1:
i just liked ur post - u knw why? cause i see all u want is the best for ur hubby.


pls if u have not heard the story of the wife, the wizard and the lion, then i will advice you to read it or get some one to tell you the story - it will be very helpful to u.

all the best.

What kind of yeye advice as you offering? Smh

Poster you sound sad, you make me appreciate my man for being my best friend and soulmate,

First things first, that man seems self centered, most sane men will make sure their wives are satisfied sexually first

Second, sit him down, express your level of unhappiness and demand change,

Ask him to assist with house chores, my husband will cook clean, change baby and everything in a heartbeat

If he does not want to change seek a another person to talk to him

I know a couple that had an elaborate wedding,

A little after the wedding was finishing the groom went missing, little did people know he had disappeared with a girl that was at the wedding,

So the bride and everyone is looking for him, apparently he had left with another girl that followed him to their wedding, that was the straw that broke the camels back, everyone parted way

I know this couple to this day, each has moved on but men, bad arse man

Follow your heart, am sure you have the answer to who you want to marry.

Marry whoever you think you deserve, good luck

What makes you think you deserve even a penny from him, no wander people arrive from abroad and hide, this kind of entitlement mentality,

That is your mind making up staff, just like dreaming

She has a right to know what you guys own

My brother is 28 and has refused to leave the family hse, he sees himself as a baby very disgusting

Isomerizm:
Like.....I should stop applying any cream on my face??

Yeah

Enough with all this paedophiles

18 is too young to marry, she needs college training first

McSquishi:
You sound like the perfect hubby & your marriage is obviously destined to continue to prosper. It's important that a man/woman be able to balance the duties of husband and son simultaneously. From everything you've written, you seem to be doing that.

Your mom is old school & when folks from the old school preach to us, we listen respectfully, perhaps try to impart some modern thinking to them, but if they don't accept it, just let it go. Continue doing what's best for your marriage. Mom seems more concerned abt appearances in this instance while you're concerned about your wife's health and practical things. The latter wins out.

You did good OP.

You are so on point, with the older folks you just need to play around what you say but express yourself, like "mum it's just a bag and besides she's expecting" you don't just act a fool or confused. They will get the message.

Stop using anything, let your skin heal with time and it will go back to normal

Poster everyone has agree unanimously you have an issue

Will washing dishes kill you na! Wash dishes, house, roof, floor ask for even more work

Please her first, then sit down and voice your grievance, don't try bring attitude with her because you will not win.

Don't you think this post would do better under business/ investment sections.?

tpia1billion:
Mothers, please raise your sons to understand the art of diplomacy.

I am tired of these types of petty threads being used to waste bandspace.

what type of idiot doesnt know not to carry his wife's bag in front of his mother at a party and even opened a thread on nl about it?


if a baby is involved, thats different. If its just a regular handbag that you carry all the time for your wife when your mother is not there, then for goodness sake dont carry it when your mother is around!

Who are this mothers, that people have to hide or dodge them even to do a simple task like carrying their wife's bag, are mothers God now, even people don't hide from God.

Instead of advising poster to educate his mom, you are busy mis advising him not to do the necessary.

Knightmelvin:
I came across a guy. who doesn't seems to have a clue of anything as he claims he was trained or taught.

Like what, stop posting half baked stories, we cannot read your mind na,