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Religion / Please, I Need Advice On Christian Marriage by michaelwestern(m): 8:32am On Jun 09, 2022 |
Peace be multiplied to all my fellow believers. Please, I need advice from only people that are Christians and are married. Male and female. I'm 31 years old and I will finish fully from school by July(due to some delays). So it's not like I'm actually in a rush for marriage since I will still have to work for like 2 or 3 years before I settle down. But I believe that it's not too early to start searching and preparing. I believe that once a Christian gets married, they are married for life and divorce is not an option for whatever reason except threat to the life. So I don't want to make a mistake that I will regret for the rest of my life. So please, I just need advice generally from Christians that are already married. I want to know the lessons they've learnt from their marriages and things that single men can avoid. Specifically, I want to know things like; how did you meet your wife? The finance situation in a Christian marriage and the issue of sex in a Christian marriage. Thanks very much. |
Romance / Re: Sex With My Wife Is Very Very Boring, I Need Help by michaelwestern(m): 7:26am On Jun 09, 2022 |
ernie1234: I love this. Very few people have respect for marriages nowadays, any small issue you'll see people recommending divorce or cheating. I feel bad for you though that you're not getting total satisfaction from your marriage, but that is how life is o. Apart from the sex stuff hope everything else is okay in your marriage? I'm not yet married so do you have any advice about marriage for me, as a fellow believer. I might create a thread about marriage in religious section. |
Romance / Re: What Do You Wish To Be In This Life? by michaelwestern(m): 8:00pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
I want to serve God completely all the days of my life. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by michaelwestern(m): 5:30pm On May 31, 2022 |
LeoJee: Why will you regret not marrying an unbeliever? The situation could have been worse. Never ever be unequally yoked together with an unbeliever. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 10:56pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I can no longer continue with this discussion. Every book in the new testament (Mathew to Revelation) is the Word of God, you shouldn't pick and choose which ones to to follow. |
Religion / Re: You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 10:34pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Col 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Ephesians 5:22 1 Like |
Religion / Re: You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 10:28pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I just gave you two examples from the new testament or am i missing something? |
Religion / Re: You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 10:15pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I've modified my post. There was no curse for wives to submit to their husbands in the book of Genesis, if you disagree, you can show me. There was only a general curse for women and also men. I don't believe that women should submit to men. The new testament commandment is for wives to submit to their husbands, not for women to submit to men. Women are not expected to submit to every man the come across, they're only required to submit to their husbands. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 9:54pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Submission is not an old testament commandment. Do you read your Bible? Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Col 3:18 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Ephesians 5:21-22 From Ephesians you can see it clearly that you submit to God first, then to your husband. I'm not talking about being condemned by the law. I'm not saying that if you don't submit to your husband you will lose your salvation or go to hell. Jesus Christ already paid the price for all sins, all you have to do believe in Jesus Christ and accept the forgiveness for your sins. Rather, I'm telling you about the way that God has structured the home to work efficiently as specified by the Bible. Do you think that God wants women to be unhappy in their marriages? Obeying God by submitting to your husband won't make you unhappy in your marriage. God wants to bless your home, you just have to trust him and obey him. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 9:06pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Your question is a very simple one. You submit to God first, then next your husband. The Bible also asked us honour our parents but that doesn't mean that you will honour them more than God. In everything, it's God first. Nobody on earth, be it father, mother, husband, wife, pastor, children, boss etc is worth more honour, respect, submission and love than God. Whenever you read anything in the Bible always know that it's God first. And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. Matthew 12:30 1 Like |
Crime / Re: BRT Driver Told Bamise, 'Fine Girl, It’s Only You I’ll Pick’ – Brother by michaelwestern(m): 10:34am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Sent87: Wow, this is nice. God bless you brother. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 10:02am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Crime / Re: BRT Driver Told Bamise, 'Fine Girl, It’s Only You I’ll Pick’ – Brother by michaelwestern(m): 9:59am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Sent87: Do you realize that you just wished death for other innocent people, do they deserve to die for being related to him. It would have been better to just wish him alone death. Hoping someone dies because of an argument is still wickedness though, it means both of you don't have any regard for the human life and under different circumstances you will also commit murder. You should have just educated him and condemned his statements. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 5:45am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Gointo: Be very careful about calling people's tongue fake except God specifically told you that it's fake. When it comes anything that involves the Holy Spirit try not to make unnecessary assumptions. Now, about the fornication scenario you mentioned. Are you saying that if a Spirit filled person fornicates the person is definitely going hell? So since you received the baptism of the Holy Ghost with the evidence of speaking in tongues, you've never committed any sin? Or it applies to fornication alone? |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 5:33am On Mar 12, 2022 |
petra1: It's shocking that a Christian will believe that praying in tongues will lead you astray, whereas, it's the exact opposite. |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 5:28am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Image123: I wasn't talking specifically about our conversation, I meant that generally don't compare man to Jesus Christ to emphasize your point. Jesus Christ is God, stop mentioning His name to win arguments, it's very disrespectful. I understand that you're trying to say that it applies to everyone. But it's wrong to start putting Jesus in the same category as man. You should give maximum respect to name of Jesus Christ, it is a name that is above all other names. Try to only call the name of Jesus Christ when it is absolutely necessary. Do you know that Jesus Christ was involved in the creation of the world? About Ananias, my point is that we can't build doctrines on their story because the details given didn't even show that they were born again Christians. You don't build doctrines on assumptions. Besides, even if they were Christians you still won't have the right to build a doctrine on it because it was clearly a unique situation. How many people has God killed for lying to men of God in church. It's like taking a doctrine of not marrying because Paul never got married. |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 5:30pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Dtruthspeaker: Lol |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 5:22pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Gointo: I'm not trivializing sin, I'm just saying that sin cannot take a born again Christian to hell |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 5:20pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Gointo: You don't know what grace is. By definition, the Gospel of Grace is receiving forgiveness without the works of the law. This simply means that you are now righteous without having to do anything for it . Believing in Jesus life and accepting His sacrifice for sins is the only requirement to go to heaven I'm not advocating that anybody should live a life of sin. I'm simply saying that sin cannot make you lose your salvation because you didn't get your salvation by being righteous you got it as a gift. So you should never try to work for something that has been given to you freely. All you have to do is receive the righteousness of God and stop trying to get righteousness by fulfilling the laws. There are a lot benefits obeying God's commandments but getting eternal life is not one of them. |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 5:08pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Dtruthspeaker: You always dodge my questions |
Religion / My View On Giving by michaelwestern(m): 5:05pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Giving has been bastardized among Christians nowadays. Most Christians just give because they are hoping to receive it back in hundred folds, which is not bad. But personally I believe that God is more interested in giving that is done out of love. People no longer care about helping their fellow Christians and fellow human beings, they only care about sowing seeds. This is why you will see a person supposedly sowing seeds into a billionaire's life while he has neighbours that are struggling to survive. Every giving should be done out of love and not because you're hope to receive it back. In the book of Corinthians the Bible said that even if you give your body to be burnt and you don't do it out of love it will profit you nothing and there's not a word from God to be gotten from it My view on this is that, give to whoever needs it, not because you are looking for a fertile soil. Stop giving pastors that are already extremely rich when you can give it people who need it more. Your first responsibility is to your neighbour and who is your neighbour? Your neighbour is anybody you know that is in need of help. So please, let your focus be on helping people and not on sowing seed to receive blessings. Now of course when you give to people that are in need you can be rest assured that God will pay you back. So it's ok to expect prosperity when you give. But you have to give out of love not because you are expecting it back. Thank you 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Need Advice, Is The Relationship Over? by michaelwestern(m): 4:09pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Ronnnie: Yeah. I'll get over her. I've deleted all her numbers and pictures. I have never loved anyone the way I loved her. I've been dating for the past 14 years, although longest was 3 years and I didn't even feel this bad. Never say never but I don't think I'll ever date again with the way I feel now. I know I'll be alright though |
Romance / Re: I Need Advice, Is The Relationship Over? by michaelwestern(m): 2:58pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Ronnnie: She just confirmed that the relationship is over. I changed my approach of questions. Thanks for your advice though |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 2:16pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Gointo: God has already shown me mercy by dying for me. I have therefore obtained the mercy of God when I gave my life to Jesus Christ |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 2:14pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Gointo: I agree. The righteousness gotten by grace from God is greater than that of the Pharisees or the one you hope to get by works. |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 2:12pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Gointo: Holiness is sweet when it comes by grace. The sweetness you're referring to is most likely self righteousness. But do you know the problem, even with all your self righteousness you still don't deserve eternal life. Eternal life can only be gotten by grace. |
Religion / Re: You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 1:47pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
rottennaija: Is someone dying for you not a good enough reason to love the person? |
Religion / You Should Love God More Than Your Spouse by michaelwestern(m): 1:37pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
God created us all. When sin came into the world and man was condemned. God the Father sent Jesus Christ who is also God to die for our sins. There should therefore not be anyone in this life that you would love more than God. He is the only person that you have a guarantee to be with forever. Even if your spouse doesn't leave you while on earth, he or she will leave you when you die. It's only God that you will be with forever, so in comparison, there's nobody on Earth that you should love more than you love God. Now when you love God this greatly helps your relationship with your spouse because you will relate with her based on your love for God. The God kind of Love (agape) is the greatest kind of Love there is. So you see the best thing you can ever do in life is to love and value your relationship with God more than that of your spouse. it always saddens me when I see Christian wives convert to Islam because of their husbands or boyfriends. Why will you lose eternal salvation over 40 years of happiness (which is usually not the case). My dear brothers and sister please always make it a point to love God more than you love your spouse. Let God be the final say in your relationship or marriage not your feelings, not your love for your spouse, nothing else but God. God bless you all If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple. Luke 14:25 |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 1:09pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
petra1: What are your thoughts? |
Romance / Re: I Need Advice, Is The Relationship Over? by michaelwestern(m): 10:34am On Mar 11, 2022 |
Ronnnie: This is exactly my view too. |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 10:16am On Mar 11, 2022 |
Davenks: I actually do believe that you can lose your salvation, but it won't be because of sin. You can lose your salvation by denying or rejecting Jesus Christ. This is why it's always good to seek God regularly, by reading the word of God, listening to godly messages and musics, by praying, praising and thanking God regularly etc. The problem is when you don't seek God regularly but you still continue to live in sin. You can get to a point that, if for example, somebody puts a gun to your head and say deny Christ or I will kill you, you might be tempted to deny Jesus. |
Religion / Re: Sin Doesn't Take People To Hell by michaelwestern(m): 9:52am On Mar 11, 2022 |
Dtruthspeaker: Now this is funny. This actually made me laugh. Let me help you. Let's start from the basics, what do you mean by the phrase; Paul was a Lawyer? Do you think that Paul was going to Court to argue cases? Which type of law do you think paul studied? |
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