Fahdiga: Imagine this happening in Nigeria in this brutal regime. I think Africa is blessed in terms of not witnessing such a devastating natural disasters
Except LA Palma is a Spanish territory in Africa off the coast of Morocco. It's in the canary Island.
TUANKU: Secret gay? Bring your sister or your woman let me use the b.itch and set the records straight you wannabe gay. You think it's by being gay that you will belong? Inferiority complex is killing you. You are poor instead of trying to better your miserable life you're forming woke gay, a broke ass gay lol. Man who.re
I bet your parents are siblings which might explain why you can't articulate your points without resorting to ranting trash. Like I said, ignorant low IQ fools like you are the reason your country is still stuck in the dark ages. Carry on having a mental breakdown over gay people online. Dolt head!
TUANKU: Pick any form of measuring IQ and let's both publicly test our IQ level. You wannabe gay, the dyke who gave birth to you is the real plonker.
Other countries are creating technology that send their people to space, you primitive doughnut is getting your head in a twist over what two consenting adults are doing in their own privacy. They always say the ones that always ho on about gay people are probably secret guys themselves, lol. Go hug a tree, bush man!
TUANKU: I pity the person you are married to and i pity the poor kids who have a f.aggot as parent. I won't be surprised you sexually molest your own kids.
You are one judgemental fool. Low IQ plonkers like you are the reason your country is still stuck in the dark ages.
Rissamenti: COME ON WILL YOU SHUT UP AND GET LOST.
OYINBO WORSHIPING DUNCE.
IGNORANT AIR HEADS.
YES WE HAVE POWER CUTS IN NIGERIA.
SO THE HELL WHAT?
INDIA, PAKISTAN, SRI LANKA, BANGLADESH, BRAZIL, JAMAICA, SOUTH AFRICA, GHANA, TANZANIA AND MORE - IN FACT 80% OF NATIONS ON EARTH SUFFER POWER CUTS.
MOST NATIONS ARE DEVELOPING NATIONS, AND ARE NOT LIKE THE UK, CANADA, AND USA.
IGNORANT COLONISED SELF HATING DULLARDS DROWNED IN INFERIORITY COMPLEX..
BECAUSE YOU NEVER TRAVEL ANYWHERE ELSE BUT TO YOUR COLONISERS'/ENSLAVERS' LANDS, (DUE TO YOUR SLAVE MENTALITY), YOU THINK THE WHOLE WORLD LOOKS LIKE USA AND UK.
ONLY NIGERIA HAS PROBLEMS.
MUMU PEOPLE.
ABEG GET LOST.
USELESS, STUPID DULLARDS AND WASTRELS.
I BET IT NEVER OCCURRED TO ANY OF YOU USELESS WASTRELS TO GO INTO SOLAR BUSINESS OR RENEWABLE ENERGY.
NO, AFTER ALL IT IS THE GOVT'S JOB TO DO EVERYTHING FOR YOU INCLUDING WIPE YOUR STINKING BUTTS.
LAZY, BRAINLESS THINGS.
You screaming in capital letters shows you are an ignorant plonker. Yes it is the government's job to provide electricity and basic security to its citizens. Nigeria has no excuse be in its sorry states with all the human and natural resources. Your politicians are the most useless and hopeless in the entire world. Just look at how much salary and bonuses they pay themselves and yet they will still owe workers salary for several months. You need to get your brain checked if you think there's nothing wrong with your stupid leaders.
So impressive how the U.A.E have used their oil money to turn their country into a first world country everybody want to visit, unlike Nigeria that has gone from third world to hopelessness.
LastProphet: University education is not for the majority of people in any country of the world. It's not supposed to be as cheap as our own here that's why ours is worthless
It takes about 30 years for students in the UK to pay back their student loans because quality education comes at a price. Scandinavian countries that offer free education to its citizens pay very high taxes for that. In Nigeria, you guys want all the luxury and quality stuff in Europe but don't want to pay the high price.
galaxyking1: Get an immigration lawyer from Nigeria to remind her that once the divorce is complete she has no grounds to stay in the country owning that her children are not citizens. She would have been given a stay on the grounds of domestic abuse if you were the person on the wrong side which doesn't appear to be. And let her know that the police might be acting like they like her now but their almost motives are yet to be unveiled. If the explanation doesn't work go on Facebook search for a group called "my foreign spouse" and join there is lot free advice to gain there. Remind here she has no benefits from the government and can't live abroad with a job if the separation goes through and by chace she gets a stay. Good luck
It depends on her immigration status, if she's still on a dependent visa, that might work, if there are kids involved and the Father wants them to stay in the country, it will be hard for the Mother to be kicked out because the kids need their mum. If she's on an indefinite leave to remain then there is nothing much the law can do unless she poses a serious threat to the man's life and well being.
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...
I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.
I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my inadequacies and reflect on them. I am now significantly calmer due to the determination to make my marriage better and as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me and the environment we find ourselves in. First thing she did on getting here was to cut of my entire family. She said she doesn't want to have anything to do with any of them anymore. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, as all she does is endless picture taking and editing for social media hyping. I know this might be due to the initial ''euphoria'' phase cos she is coming abroad to a big house, big car and having no limits on most things we used to manage back in Nigeria, and she thinks things are bread and butter. You would never think for a second that she is a married woman if you check her profiles on social media!
She has become even more toxic person than she ever was in Naija. Now very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, ever ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates with me as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with the constant noises from our house, and finally her threats have now tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for all the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no wan hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.
The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with the threats by constant calls to the police and other services, making spooky and baseless career ending accusations and allegations against me.
I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.
I discovered that she has signed up on dating sites and when I even caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that if I am convulsing like this over just a sex chat, she's waiting to see what I'd do when I see a man on top of her.
My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.
I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them here hoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my citizenship and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!
For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.
THE SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!
UPDATE:
Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.
I'm really glad the law was on your side in this case. Never bring crazy women from Nigeria to western countries because once they find out how much money the state will pay them in benefits as a single parent, they will 4ck you up!! I've seen a lot of Naija guys that have been kicked out of their own homes or even deported because of a crazy woman. That's the reason why black on black crime is very high because of young black boys being raised by crazy single mums!
ken711: I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.
She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.
Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......
She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)
I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....
Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.
The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...
The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........
Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...
Please help!
4ck her in the ar5e and send her back to her dysfunctional parents home.
Preciousgirl: My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.
I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?
Your brother is a grownup and does not need your endorsement. The most important thing is if he's happy!
dancok: This is my first salary though but debt was already on ground before the salary showed, so am clearing the debt now and the situation of corona virus now.
I don't how long this will last, so am cautious of my spending.
Have I not sinned? Can I shift my tithe till next payment? Pastors in the house.
What is wrong with being a bus driver? Here in the UK bus drivers are on an average salary of £34k a year, averagfe salary for a UK graduate is 24k a year. Nigerians need to stop looking down on certain jobs.
It's very easy for people to blame religion and spirituality for Nigeria's problems but unfortunately, most Nigerians are lazy and are always looking for shortcuts to everything. That's why your religious leaders thrive from selling you fables and fairy tales.
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